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"When it comes to kissing, are you the type of person who makes the first move? Asks someone if you can kiss them or wait for the right moment? Or do you prefer to let the other take the lead? Is there a style of kissing you adore or hate? A lot of questions for a Sunday, I know. You can talk about random nonsense if preferred. :D" Unless it's with jools I would always ask first never assume but in a way that's in keeping with the situation. Always tender and soft at first leading to firmer but not slobbering. Gentle tongue teasing not into trying to remove the other person's tonsils. Lot's of caressing and neck kisses. We met a couple (not off here) a few years ago and it was like try to kiss a slobbering Labrador (not that I've ever done that) impossible to kiss completely spoiled the moment. | |||
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"When it comes to kissing, are you the type of person who makes the first move?" Sometimes. "Asks someone if you can kiss them or wait for the right moment?" I like to ask. "Or do you prefer to let the other take the lead?" I like this too. "Is there a style of kissing you adore or hate? " I like when it starts slow and almost questioning. And then gets deeper and more passionate. A gentle lip bite. A pull away for eye contact and a smile. No thank you to too sloppy. | |||
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"When it comes to kissing, are you the type of person who makes the first move? Asks someone if you can kiss them or wait for the right moment? Or do you prefer to let the other take the lead? Is there a style of kissing you adore or hate? A lot of questions for a Sunday, I know. You can talk about random nonsense if preferred. :D" I wait for the moment when the sexual tension is so obvious that even I notice it, and then I ask if I can kiss her. First kiss always fairly light, but they tend to get firmer and more passionate quite quickly... How about you OP? | |||
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"I once had someone approach me mouth open. It was not the best start ??" What’s with the ??, it was supposed to be :-0 | |||
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"When it comes to kissing, are you the type of person who makes the first move? Asks someone if you can kiss them or wait for the right moment? Or do you prefer to let the other take the lead? Is there a style of kissing you adore or hate? A lot of questions for a Sunday, I know. You can talk about random nonsense if preferred. :D" Soft n slow (to start), I don’t need a motorboat tongue in my mouth but sensual touching of it is welcomed, throw in a little kip bite here n there and I’m all yours. Asking wise, I think most time you will know if it is wanted. The feel, mood and what has built up to the time you are in the same space dictates that. The kiss is crucial to whether compatibility is there though. If the kids doesn’t work it’s game off for me (R). We did meet a couple very early in in our ‘career’ who refused to kiss. That was just weird. Just 1, 2, 3…go! Not for me that. | |||
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"...... No thank you to too sloppy. " Damnit - that's me out | |||
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"When it comes to kissing, are you the type of person who makes the first move? Asks someone if you can kiss them or wait for the right moment? Or do you prefer to let the other take the lead? Is there a style of kissing you adore or hate? A lot of questions for a Sunday, I know. You can talk about random nonsense if preferred. :D" I rarely make the first move but when I do I'll strike in a way where I don't ask but I'll make it obvious what I'm after and give the opportunity for the other to back away. | |||
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"I love the anticipation of the first kiss, I never take it for granted, you just know if the permission is there I like the slow gentle kiss that builds in intensity and oh my god…….. " Yes, that anticipation of the *firsts* is incredibly arousing isn't it? I love when it's sort of softly drawn out, when the tension is palpable and you find yourself getting slightly flustered. | |||
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"If I've had rum, I'm totally making the first move. I like it when he puts his hand in my hair, they kiss you once pull back a little and look at you, then the good stuff happens. " Unless it's you, then just stuff happens. | |||
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"When it comes to kissing, are you the type of person who makes the first move? Asks someone if you can kiss them or wait for the right moment? " I can make the first move, and have. I have asked if I can kiss them. I have also at times waited to be kissed. There’s no situation that’s pre planned. It’s whatever the moment calls for. "Or do you prefer to let the other take the lead?" Depends on the occasion. Some times I like to initiate and take the lead, other times it’s hot to be lead. A perfect mix of the both, at times, rather than one always leading is best. "Is there a style of kissing you adore or hate? " The type of kisses that feel like they’re slowly fucking me sensually with their mouth on mine. They leave me full of desire for more, soaking wet, and make me want to devour them/be devoured by them. My body reacts to theirs explosively. A perfect dancing partner where we are dancing to our own music — sweetly, slowly, building up, slowing down, teasing one another, leading and being lead. Hands wandering, fingers stroking one another, passion building and intensifying. | |||
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"I'm very much a follow their lead in waiting to see if they want to kiss me and how the kiss proceeds. But I'm sure that's of no surprise " Erm I wish I could say it was. Really, I do. I think I could probably guess this reply was yours. | |||
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"If I've had rum, I'm totally making the first move. I like it when he puts his hand in my hair, they kiss you once pull back a little and look at you, then the good stuff happens. Unless it's you, then just stuff happens. " You want some stuff Kai? | |||
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"If I've had rum, I'm totally making the first move. I like it when he puts his hand in my hair, they kiss you once pull back a little and look at you, then the good stuff happens. Unless it's you, then just stuff happens. You want some stuff Kai? " Wait this sounds dodgy.. | |||
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"I go with the flow. I do love that moment right before you kiss someone for the first time, though. When your eyes meet and it's like you're laid bare. I have a few of those permanently etched in my memory Mrs TMN x" Couldn’t have put this better. That moment is absolutely electric, and the instant lips touch for the first time is simply magical x | |||
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"I like it when he puts his hand in my hair, they kiss you once pull back a little and look at you, then the good stuff happens. " Y’know how sometimes the perfect description comes from someone you didn’t expect it to? That was exquisite. Get out of my head, dammit. | |||
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"I like it when he puts his hand in my hair, they kiss you once pull back a little and look at you, then the good stuff happens. Y’know how sometimes the perfect description comes from someone you didn’t expect it to? That was exquisite. Get out of my head, dammit." I can do the sex stuff when I want you know!! | |||
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"I can do the sex stuff when I want you know!!" If you write about it like that though, I’m gonna want you to come do it with me. | |||
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"If I've had rum, I'm totally making the first move. I like it when he puts his hand in my hair, they kiss you once pull back a little and look at you, then the good stuff happens. Unless it's you, then just stuff happens. You want some stuff Kai? " I'll need to know the quality and expiration date of such stuff. I'd rather not have anything that is moldy. | |||
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"I like it when he puts his hand in my hair, they kiss you once pull back a little and look at you, then the good stuff happens. Y’know how sometimes the perfect description comes from someone you didn’t expect it to? That was exquisite. Get out of my head, dammit." I was thinking the same thing. It also made me feel uneasy too though. It is like the natural order of things is messed up. | |||
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"...... No thank you to too sloppy. Damnit - that's me out " No thank you to too sloppy unless it's Cede. J | |||
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"I let them take the lead. Well….I say that, but if someone leans in then I take it they wanted a snog and it’s all go go go!! I mean they might have been leaning in just to tell me I had loo roll stuck to my shoe, but too late, pucker up!!!" . I always try and step on the exposed tissue to transfer it to my own shoe. It can take quite a few goes as someone keeps moving away but the satisfaction is immense. | |||
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"I can do the sex stuff when I want you know!! If you write about it like that though, I’m gonna want you to come do it with me. " I think plenty of others write about it enough that I don't have to. | |||
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"When it comes to kissing, are you the type of person who makes the first move? Asks someone if you can kiss them or wait for the right moment? Or do you prefer to let the other take the lead? Is there a style of kissing you adore or hate? A lot of questions for a Sunday, I know. You can talk about random nonsense if preferred. :D" This is one topic that has got me wondering because it appears petite are into different things. Some like ram it down there as deep as possible while other seem to tease etc. | |||
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"I can do the sex stuff when I want you know!! If you write about it like that though, I’m gonna want you to come do it with me. I think plenty of others write about it enough that I don't have to. " Done with the theory. Time for the practice | |||
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"I think kissing is actually an art! This is much better than those 'No kissing is a deal breaker!' threads that are almost asking for someone with halitosis to get their tongue down at your door. pt" It is an art of sorts isn't it? I was going to carry on the analogy but decided against it. No one needs to read about canvas and brushstrokes. There's so much to be said for finding someone you're compatible with; I think that bad kissers are a thing but quite oft it falls down to incompatibility. | |||
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"I'm very much a follow their lead in waiting to see if they want to kiss me and how the kiss proceeds. But I'm sure that's of no surprise " It’s a surprise to some | |||
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"I'm very much a follow their lead in waiting to see if they want to kiss me and how the kiss proceeds. But I'm sure that's of no surprise Erm I wish I could say it was. Really, I do. I think I could probably guess this reply was yours. " Ahaha yeah. I think I need to work on a Fab persona or something | |||
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"I'm very much a follow their lead in waiting to see if they want to kiss me and how the kiss proceeds. But I'm sure that's of no surprise It’s a surprise to some " | |||
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"Can I have a kiss? Go on then come here. Mr " Score! | |||
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"I think kissing is actually an art! This is much better than those 'No kissing is a deal breaker!' threads that are almost asking for someone with halitosis to get their tongue down at your door. pt It is an art of sorts isn't it? I was going to carry on the analogy but decided against it. No one needs to read about canvas and brushstrokes. There's so much to be said for finding someone you're compatible with; I think that bad kissers are a thing but quite oft it falls down to incompatibility. " . I think kissing is going to be even more about chemistry (and pheromone-compatibility even) than it is sex, and it's partly why I'm not personally into signalling the kissing so much. I'd rather wait to the day on that one. Does lip to lip kissing have to be intimate? I use to pay safe and say I don't do it, but realistically we are often role-playing intimacy even when we are not fleetingly finding it I think. pt | |||
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"When it comes to kissing, are you the type of person who makes the first move? Asks someone if you can kiss them or wait for the right moment? Or do you prefer to let the other take the lead? Is there a style of kissing you adore or hate? A lot of questions for a Sunday, I know. You can talk about random nonsense if preferred. :D" I wouldn’t ask. Once I’d asked that out loud I would have totally ruined that moment and couldn’t go back. I’m a serial overthinker so I tend to just launch myself like a puppy before I talk myself out of it . It isn’t an elegant approach, but it’s worked ok so far. That said on the occasions my brain has hit first - if he doesn’t go first then it’s not happening. I don’t think there’s a description of the kisses I like. They just sing to my soul somehow. I’ve had the merest brush of lips that has sent me into a frenzy. A “hello Misty, nice to finally meet you” that to a pub full of people was 2 friends meeting up - but anything below my waist was anything but. I’ve had slow lingering, hard and passionate, hair pulling, waist grabbing…. They all speak to me in one way or another. I do like a kiss | |||
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"Oh I love first kisses, I was speaking to a friend about this recently. The whole “will we/won’t we” vibe throughout the evening, when you catch them looking at your lips while talking. Slowly getting closer to each other and waiting for each other to make the first move, and then as you both lean in the little smile when you realise it’s about to happen.. " This! Or when they take your face in their hands and tell you they're going to kiss you and pull you in Tinder x | |||
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"are you the type of person who makes the first move? Asks someone if you can kiss them or wait for the right moment? " I wait and play sweet innocence. There's an air of electric excitement that builds up as the conversation flows, there'll be signs that I'll willfully try to ignore such as the gentle brush off her hand against me, or the excuses she'd find to playfully increase touch. At some point the build up is too much and the other person will make the move. It's always welcome. In many ways I prefer that they take the lead. It means there's less likelihood of misinterpretation. In this day and age primal instincts have to be purged, and that's good. Makes the feeling more heightened. "Is there a style of kissing you adore or hate? " I want to FEEL the kiss, I want to be present in the moment. Nothing half hearted. That moment is almost unique in that all the synapses are firing: touch, taste, smell, sound, visual. So lip nibbling, sucking, tongue play and suckling, arms gently and intentionally wrapped around, touching, playing. I like to feel like I'm a protective barrier against the elements around my partner. (Dude we're in the living room, there's nothing to protect.) All in all, kissing isn't fumbling around, it's intentional. | |||
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"are you the type of person who makes the first move? Asks someone if you can kiss them or wait for the right moment? I wait and play sweet innocence. There's an air of electric excitement that builds up as the conversation flows, there'll be signs that I'll willfully try to ignore such as the gentle brush off her hand against me, or the excuses she'd find to playfully increase touch. At some point the build up is too much and the other person will make the move. It's always welcome. In many ways I prefer that they take the lead. It means there's less likelihood of misinterpretation. In this day and age primal instincts have to be purged, and that's good. Makes the feeling more heightened. " Sorry - I’d give up & go home kiss free | |||
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" Sorry - I’d give up & go home kiss free " All that macho male bravado felled down in a single line touched with an emoji. Now I feel awkward. *Whimper* | |||
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" Sorry - I’d give up & go home kiss free All that macho male bravado felled down in a single line touched with an emoji. Now I feel awkward. *Whimper*" I have that effect on the menz…. Don’t worry | |||
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"I let them take the lead. Well….I say that, but if someone leans in then I take it they wanted a snog and it’s all go go go!! I mean they might have been leaning in just to tell me I had loo roll stuck to my shoe, but too late, pucker up!!!" Ahem! McArthur Glen car park young lady. | |||
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"I absolutely adore a sensual, soft wet snog gets me righttttt in the mood! Miss S x" You're back! Yes; soft sensuality where you can almost taste the other's desire for you barely being contained is dreamy. So dreamy I have such a thing for that sort of kiss, where they gently lift your chin up and kiss you meaningfully and tenderly. I like when lust doesn't always have to translate to roughness, when sensuality can be playfully explored. | |||
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"I absolutely adore a sensual, soft wet snog gets me righttttt in the mood! Miss S x You're back! Yes; soft sensuality where you can almost taste the other's desire for you barely being contained is dreamy. So dreamy I have such a thing for that sort of kiss, where they gently lift your chin up and kiss you meaningfully and tenderly. I like when lust doesn't always have to translate to roughness, when sensuality can be playfully explored." Yessss I am!! How I've missed your lovely face and way with words.... Your absolutely bang on as always, your words always put the imagination of it in my mind... Yum! Have you written that sexy book yet? Miss S x | |||
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