FabSwingers.com forum: Do ripped get chosen?

By *ayzDreaming OP Man
over a year ago

Shipton bellinger

So, I maybe a mile off, but is it the case that guys who are ripped and tattooed get more luck in the fabs world? I've made the decision to hit the gym and started to eat well, so far lost nearly 5 kilos and can start to see definition. My question, do the ladies on Fabs mostly go for the gym guys? I think I have an outgoing personality and visited "within temptation" a couple of weeks ago making sure I chatted and interacted with people, but to no avail.......any thoughts?

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By *sername already in useMan
over a year ago

manchester

Photoshop your pictures

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Some people like ripped. Some people like jiggle. Some people like skinny.

Many are more interested in the person.

Look the way that makes you feel happy and confident. That'll do more than just trying to appeal to the masses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes op. All women like gym guys. Preferably with 10 inch dicks too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, I maybe a mile off, but is it the case that guys who are ripped and tattooed get more luck in the fabs world? I've made the decision to hit the gym and started to eat well, so far lost nearly 5 kilos and can start to see definition. My question, do the ladies on Fabs mostly go for the gym guys? I think I have an outgoing personality and visited "within temptation" a couple of weeks ago making sure I chatted and interacted with people, but to no avail.......any thoughts?"

Do whatever makes you feel good about yourself.

Nothing wrong with looking like you have looked after yourself.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Not my bag. But I am just one of thousands of entirely different women with entirely different tastes. Who knew..

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By *ayzDreaming OP Man
over a year ago

Shipton bellinger

Well, one out of 2 isn't bad I guess

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By *ayzDreaming OP Man
over a year ago

Shipton bellinger

Yeah, for the real world outside of Fabs, I needed to sort myself out. It was horrible to look in the mirror and hate what stood before me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't speak for all women but being pretty isn't the reason I choose anyone. They have to bring more to the table than that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes op. All women like gym guys. Preferably with 10 inch dicks too

Damn it… I knew I should have stopped growing at 10. That extra inch has screwed me over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ripped?

There was this one time I got torn. Wanna see the scar?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't believe a word any of these women say - what would they really know about what they like?

The magazine's are right, it's all about conforming to a staged standard.

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By *ayzDreaming OP Man
over a year ago

Shipton bellinger

I'm definitely doing this for personal pride, and to prove to Myself I can stick to something! But being enjoyed by others would definitely make it more worthwhile

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

You’ve got 4 veris so clearly not all women go for ripped bodies…

I would say if you are not getting the interactions you want/expect that the answer will lie within your profile and how you decide to sell yourself.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

The other half goes to the gym and lifts ridiculously heavy bits of metal for fun. But I fancied him before that, I enjoy his physicality. What I mean is he can pick me up and fling me around. Being strong is not the same as ripped though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes op. All women like gym guys. Preferably with 10 inch dicks too

I fit that criteria would you be interested in me?

I don’t have a 10 inch dick though and have a fear like Mickey Rourke (not the 9 and 1/2 weeks version). I could wear a 10 inch strapon if you want.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"So, I maybe a mile off, but is it the case that guys who are ripped and tattooed get more luck in the fabs world? "

If you think that's the case, get some tattoos.

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By *ayzDreaming OP Man
over a year ago

Shipton bellinger

I get that, but in 95% of the sexy videos on ladies/couples profiles, the gents are all in top shape.....

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By *ayzDreaming OP Man
over a year ago

Shipton bellinger

That's part 2 of the adventure lol

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I'm surprised you say "to no avail". Your verifications show you've got at least two women interested in you. That's a damn site better than many single guys on here. You're obviously doing something right. I suggest you continue to do the things that attracted them.

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By *ayzDreaming OP Man
over a year ago

Shipton bellinger

"You’ve got 4 veris so clearly not all women go for ripped bodies…

I would say if you are not getting the interactions you want/expect that the answer will lie within your profile and how you decide to sell yourself.

I think that's the answer I was looking for, really appreciate that

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"I get that, but in 95% of the sexy videos on ladies/couples profiles, the gents are all in top shape..... "

Using that logic, the majority of women on hotpics are slimmer. Does that mean no men fancy me being a larger woman? Should I go on diet and hit the gym to look like them?

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By *ayzDreaming OP Man
over a year ago

Shipton bellinger

"I'm surprised you say "to no avail". Your verifications show you've got at least two women interested in you. That's a damn site better than many single guys on here. You're obviously doing something right. I suggest you continue to do the things that attracted them. "

Well, that's true. The "no avail" was about my first club visit, I went with zero expectations, but I'm not sure what more I could have done? I had some excellent advice from the fabs community about how to present myself and behave, which I think I did. Maybe I need a different approach.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't believe a word any of these women say - what would they really know about what they like?

The magazine's are right, it's all about conforming to a staged standard."

Women have been pressurised to look a certain way for decades now. Recently (since the start of the 2000's) the pressure on men to look a certain way has been increasing as well.

It's all media led/driven, and all so that magazines can exist as a money making entity.

Ignore whatever anyone else thinks or tells you and just be you...yourself, pure, unedited and above all genuine.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

" visited "within temptation" a couple of weeks ago making sure I chatted and interacted with people, but to no avail"

Could you ask someone you chatted to there to verify you ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes op. All women like gym guys. Preferably with 10 inch dicks too

Damn it… I knew I should have stopped growing at 10. That extra inch has screwed me over.

See? Ruined it for yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I do not go for 'gym' guys. I would never see them because their life is the gym. I will find them more into their abs than me. Second best is not an attraction. Conversation would be all about them. Again second best is not attractive.

Not against the uae of the gym for people to get ripped but I am not getting ripped off with sorry cannot meet.. My abs need attention

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

How many times have you been? You can't expect to get lucky every time. If you've been ten times the response is likely to be different from if you've only gone once.

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By *ayzDreaming OP Man
over a year ago

Shipton bellinger

"I get that, but in 95% of the sexy videos on ladies/couples profiles, the gents are all in top shape.....

Using that logic, the majority of women on hotpics are slimmer. Does that mean no men fancy me being a larger woman? Should I go on diet and hit the gym to look like them? "

Absolutely not, we can all be exactly how we want to be. Everyone is beautiful and sexy as they are, but the thinking behind my post was that in this crazy world, the ladies do have the option to pick and choose who they want to play with, as a single guy (and yes I know there are a Lot of us!) We're not quite so lucky to have that choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes op. All women like gym guys. Preferably with 10 inch dicks too

I fit that criteria would you be interested in me?

I don’t have a 10 inch dick though and have a fear like Mickey Rourke (not the 9 and 1/2 weeks version). I could wear a 10 inch strapon if you want. "

Nah. I was being ironic. Me personally I’m not fussed what the body is like as long as the personality clicks and the dick isn’t over 7 inches

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By *ayzDreaming OP Man
over a year ago

Shipton bellinger

How many times have you been? You can't expect to get lucky every time. If you've been ten times the response is likely to be different from if you've only gone once. "

That's true

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Op, when it comes to Fab there's little to no point comparing yourself to others. Yes, hot pics do tend to show more societally conventionally attractive people.

I think if you work on yourself, finding your happiness and confidence? That's incredibly attractive.

I'm chubby. There are women who are smaller than me. I don't really care. Finding you, enjoying you? You'll find the right sort of person for you.

I would look at your profile, including photos if you're not having much luck. Think about what you'd like to see if you were a woman.

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By *inky ChefMan
over a year ago

Norwich

Apparently it's about personality, but FAB average face, body or cock might help.

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By *ayzDreaming OP Man
over a year ago

Shipton bellinger

Not against the uae of the gym for people to get ripped but I am not getting ripped off with sorry cannot meet.. My abs need attention

love this, I'm not a gym bunny in anyway. I just want to be a healthier, better me

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By *ayzDreaming OP Man
over a year ago

Shipton bellinger

"Op, when it comes to Fab there's little to no point comparing yourself to others. Yes, hot pics do tend to show more societally conventionally attractive people.

I think if you work on yourself, finding your happiness and confidence? That's incredibly attractive.

I'm chubby. There are women who are smaller than me. I don't really care. Finding you, enjoying you? You'll find the right sort of person for you.

I would look at your profile, including photos if you're not having much luck. Think about what you'd like to see if you were a woman. "

That's a great reply! Many thanks!!

Any advice or guidance would be much appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think all guys should get tattoos.

The end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you go by "hot photos" then it would seem so. However most fabbed photos are usually men doing the fabbing and that "white working class all tattooed and chiseled" is a massive Homoerotic cliche.

But nothing wrong with wanting to self improve. Just do it for yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes op. All women like gym guys. Preferably with 10 inch dicks too

I fit that criteria would you be interested in me?

I don’t have a 10 inch dick though and have a fear like Mickey Rourke (not the 9 and 1/2 weeks version). I could wear a 10 inch strapon if you want.

Nah. I was being ironic. Me personally I’m not fussed what the body is like as long as the personality clicks and the dick isn’t over 7 inches "

I got the humour Fluffy being a little on the dry side myself.

Well now I am really ticking your boxes.

Message me as I never shoot first unless……..

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Women like men. Except the women who don't like men.

And women who like men don't like all men. Except the women who like all men.

Women like ripped men. Except the women who don't like ripped men.

Women like exactly one type of man's body and never deviate from that. Except the women who like more than one type of man's body.

Women care more about men's bodies than their faces. Except the women who care more about men's faces than their bodies.

Women care more about men's bodies and faces than their personalities. Except the women who care more about men's personalities than their bodies and faces.

Women care more about cock size than anything else. Except the women who don't care about cock size more than anything else.

Women want exactly the same body, face, personality and cock type of man for every possible encounter and type of situation all the time. Except the women who don't want exactly the same body, face, personality and cock type of man for every possible encounter and type of situation all the time.

Women are all exactly the same and think with the hive mind. Except the women who aren't exactly the same and don't think with the hive mind... because the hive mind doesn't exist for women... as much as some people would like to think it does.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Any advice or guidance would be much appreciated

Maybe you could display your two "meet" verifications ?

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By *inky ChefMan
over a year ago

Norwich

"Women like men. Except the women who don't like men.

And women who like men don't like all men. Except the women who like all men.

Women like ripped men. Except the women who don't like ripped men.

Women like exactly one type of man's body and never deviate from that. Except the women who like more than one type of man's body.

Women care more about men's bodies than their faces. Except the women who care more about men's faces than their bodies.

Women care more about men's bodies and faces than their personalities. Except the women who care more about men's personalities than their bodies and faces.

Women care more about cock size than anything else. Except the women who don't care about cock size more than anything else.

Spot on in a nutshell.

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By *hrek101Man
over a year ago

Herts

No tats, but decent body, six pack and get absolutely zero interest so I don't think it's a criteria for the majority. All the videos I've watched have guys with "normal" bodies or even out of shape.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"I get that, but in 95% of the sexy videos on ladies/couples profiles, the gents are all in top shape.....

Using that logic, the majority of women on hotpics are slimmer. Does that mean no men fancy me being a larger woman? Should I go on diet and hit the gym to look like them?

Yeah but what I'm trying to emphasise that the majority of men, prefer that kind of look. The videos you watch have a preferred look. But that doesn't mean you can't be successful on here if you don't adhere to the popular look.

I think looking at how you present yourself on here and confidence will help with your success on here.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Women like men. Except the women who don't like men.

And women who like men don't like all men. Except the women who like all men.

Women like ripped men. Except the women who don't like ripped men.

Women like exactly one type of man's body and never deviate from that. Except the women who like more than one type of man's body.

Women care more about men's bodies than their faces. Except the women who care more about men's faces than their bodies.

Women care more about men's bodies and faces than their personalities. Except the women who care more about men's personalities than their bodies and faces.

Women care more about cock size than anything else. Except the women who don't care about cock size more than anything else.

Spot on in a nutshell.

Big nuts

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By *inky ChefMan
over a year ago

Norwich

"Women like men. Except the women who don't like men.

And women who like men don't like all men. Except the women who like all men.

Women like ripped men. Except the women who don't like ripped men.

Women like exactly one type of man's body and never deviate from that. Except the women who like more than one type of man's body.

Women care more about men's bodies than their faces. Except the women who care more about men's faces than their bodies.

Women care more about men's bodies and faces than their personalities. Except the women who care more about men's personalities than their bodies and faces.

Women care more about cock size than anything else. Except the women who don't care about cock size more than anything else.

Spot on in a nutshell.

Big nuts"

Thanks!

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"Women like men. Except the women who don't like men.

And women who like men don't like all men. Except the women who like all men.

Women like ripped men. Except the women who don't like ripped men.

Women like exactly one type of man's body and never deviate from that. Except the women who like more than one type of man's body.

Women care more about men's bodies than their faces. Except the women who care more about men's faces than their bodies.

Women care more about men's bodies and faces than their personalities. Except the women who care more about men's personalities than their bodies and faces.

Women care more about cock size than anything else. Except the women who don't care about cock size more than anything else.

This up here ^

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By *ixieAndHerKingCouple
over a year ago

Debauchery

I try to keep myself fit in the gym, and from my time as a single man, I can say anecdotally that there was more attention from women when I posted gym fit photos.

I still go to the gym now, partly because I’m in the fortunate position of enjoying it, but I want to stay in shape for Cherry annd also because it’s for my own good.

Having confidence when you look in the mirror and being able to fit enough for some of the more adventurous recreational activities (rude and none rude) is good for your mental health, helps you cope with stress and helps you live healthier.

I applaud anyone for going to the gym, taking time to look after themselves (that’s an attractive quality) and improving themselves as people. The only caution I would advise is to do it for you first of all, rather than anyone else.

Hades

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No...I prefer the nerds and the ones that one be lying players.

I quite like a slim guy to be fair but then I'm not as hung up on body shape as people would assume.

We get old and wrinkly, it's never going to last. Then what?

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

OP I think people (of all sexes) tend to go for people that have a bit of confidence about them. If you are happy in your body (whatever hair that is) then people will pick up on it.

If you want to get fit then do it for yourself - what others think is just a side benefit.

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"OP I think people (of all sexes) tend to go for people that have a bit of confidence about them. If you are happy in your body (whatever hair that is) then people will pick up on it.

If you want to get fit then do it for yourself - what others think is just a side benefit."
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Hair = shape . #bloodyAutocorrect

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By *ayzDreaming OP Man
over a year ago

Shipton bellinger

"OP I think people (of all sexes) tend to go for people that have a bit of confidence about them. If you are happy in your body (whatever hair that is) then people will pick up on it.

If you want to get fit then do it for yourself - what others think is just a side benefit."

That's the nail on the head

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Some do & others don't op, just like some men like gym fit ladies.

Many think it's just the ripped hung guys who do well on fab.

Yes some of them are, but men who make the effort, are funny & engaging also do well too.

I've seen many threads started by men who think they should get meets because they work out, but reveal a bad attitude & that generally cancels out their physique.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tall and tattooed is more important than ripped

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts

I doubt it's just down to how ripped you are tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tall and tattooed is more important than ripped "

And hung obviously

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By *hrek101Man
over a year ago

Herts

"Tall and tattooed is more important than ripped "

This

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I hadn't looked at your profile when I posted above, but I think it will appeal more to men than ladies op.

Maybe try and think what a woman would like to see on a profile, if you want to attract them on here.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I haven't been in a gym in years. Never had any interest in it.

At the same time I've no interest in being "chosen", chased or hunted based simply on how I look.

I've always assumed that most, not all, women feel likewise.

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

i dont think all women are into ripped guys at all,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not against the uae of the gym for people to get ripped but I am not getting ripped off with sorry cannot meet.. My abs need attention

love this, I'm not a gym bunny in anyway. I just want to be a healthier, better me"

I fully understand that. I suppose what I was saying I would not look at how your body carries itself its more than that for a connection. What carries it for me is how much attention you would give me over a gym night

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I wouldn't say they get more attention than anyone else.

Body type isn't a big factor for me I e dated slim, large and muscular guys, if I like the guy I'll like his body.

Mrs

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

Not personally for me OP but I naturally gravitate towards people who are conscious health wise.

Well done with the gym

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

Gym guys are not for me. Average and dad bods are my preference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, no! I prefer people for their personality. However I do prefer tall and nice hands

any dirty or bitten fingernails put me right off!

There’s thousands of women all with their own preferences

Mrs x

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By *orl1971Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

It depends on the guy but from our experience there are groups of guys, couples and women, who get more attention than others. They’re generally the people who are closer to the publics view of attractive for the particular sex.

Anyone can be attracted to anyone else but a good body can only help. Look at celebrity sex symbols, male and female, and the uncomfortable truth is most are in pretty good shape. Doesn’t mean you need to look like a sex symbol to get a meet but if you do then you’ll probably get more interest than the average person. Just our opinion

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

If only it were that easy for guys, just be ripped. It's not. Being good looking by any matrix (there more than one type of good looking) is clearly never a disadvantage. But the guys who clear up on the scene tend to be the sum of a complete package of components and looks and/or penis size tend to not be the main factor in that total sum.

From years of going to clubs you see the guys who always do well and new guys you know are going to do well. You also see guys who don't, sometimes really conventionally very good looking guys who don't. Looks can only get you far. Being a "nice guy" can also only get you so far (another area guys tend to obsess with nice guys finish last syndrome). But the main factors to success tends to be character, confidence and genuine human quality. The guys that do really well and who people chose often are just fairly normal looking blokes who just have a spark about them and a genuine warm human quality. It's not a quality that can be gained at the gym or tattoo parlour.

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By *ady IncognitoWoman
over a year ago

"Some people like ripped. Some people like jiggle. Some people like skinny.

Many are more interested in the person.

Look the way that makes you feel happy and confident. That'll do more than just trying to appeal to the masses."

This. This 100%.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my experience, on here, as a single girl before, the super gym, ripped muscle guys, either have tiny penises or it doesn't get hard.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Getting ripped is one thing staying ripped is another.

Unless you have a great metabolism it's fucking hard work and can take over your life and make you a very dull person to be around if you are obsessed with everything you eat and drink.

Been there and it's no fun.

People may be attracted to the image but more attracted to the person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes op. All women like gym guys. Preferably with 10 inch dicks too

It's a joke but if we are all honest you can't fuck a personality can you the has to be some physical attraction there

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