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By *riving_Home_For_Mimi OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Would you ever consider marrying for convenience/lifestyle choices?

Chatting to a lady friend, we discussed being 2 Hot Wives. I reckon that would be a massive novelty.

There must be many advantages no? A more understanding partner, similar boundaries, never a need to worry about child care, sharing lingerie, financial bonuses.

What say you Fabbers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best offer I've had all evening. Question now is, where and when do we do this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell.

No.

How is living with a man ever a convenience??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh go on then.

You can share my lingerie, but the wigs are out of bounds. Shall we set a date?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you ever consider marrying for convenience/lifestyle choices?

Chatting to a lady friend, we discussed being 2 Hot Wives. I reckon that would be a massive novelty.

There must be many advantages no? A more understanding partner, similar boundaries, never a need to worry about child care, sharing lingerie, financial bonuses.

What say you Fabbers?"

In!!!

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By *riving_Home_For_Mimi OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset


"Best offer I've had all evening. Question now is, where and when do we do this?"

Definitely not to a man. Did you miss the 2 hot WIVES?

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By *riving_Home_For_Mimi OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset


"Oh go on then.

You can share my lingerie, but the wigs are out of bounds. Shall we set a date? "

I've got enough hair already, so that's a deal.

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By *riving_Home_For_Mimi OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset


"Hell.

No.

How is living with a man ever a convenience??"

Doesn't have to be a man though does it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Best offer I've had all evening. Question now is, where and when do we do this?

Definitely not to a man. Did you miss the 2 hot WIVES?"

Fine, what if I identify as a wife?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Best offer I've had all evening. Question now is, where and when do we do this?

Definitely not to a man. Did you miss the 2 hot WIVES?

Fine, what if I identify as a wife?"

I'll happily put you in a dress and have you wash up for me.

You can do the cooking and cleaning too if you like.

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove


"Best offer I've had all evening. Question now is, where and when do we do this?

Definitely not to a man. Did you miss the 2 hot WIVES?

Fine, what if I identify as a wife?"

Then you would be one of the groups you were suggesting needed their own sub group on here, women who were not born women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hell.

No.

How is living with a man ever a convenience??

Doesn't have to be a man though does it?"

Live with a woman? Kill me now.

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

If I get to live in a log cabin on Lake Tahoe sure.

Big open fireplace, snuggly rug and hot chocolate.

May even give them some sex.

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish


"Hell.

No.

How is living with a man ever a convenience??

Doesn't have to be a man though does it?

Live with a woman? Kill me now."

Do you have life insurance?

J

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By *riving_Home_For_Mimi OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset


"Hell.

No.

How is living with a man ever a convenience??

Doesn't have to be a man though does it?

Live with a woman? Kill me now."

I baked muffins today...

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London


"Hell.

No.

How is living with a man ever a convenience??

Doesn't have to be a man though does it?

Live with a woman? Kill me now.

I baked muffins today... "

Mimi and raven...

Now there's something I didn't know I wanted...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Then you would be one of the groups you were suggesting needed their own sub group on here, women who were not born women "

Was hoping someone would pick the cross-thread links

Kudos points your way.

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove


"Then you would be one of the groups you were suggesting needed their own sub group on here, women who were not born women

Was hoping someone would pick the cross-thread links

Kudos points your way."

And a McDonald's freebie

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By *riving_Home_For_Mimi OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset


"Hell.

No.

How is living with a man ever a convenience??

Doesn't have to be a man though does it?

Live with a woman? Kill me now.

I baked muffins today...

Mimi and raven...

Now there's something I didn't know I wanted... "

I think I'd seem like a pussycat out of us 2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hell.

No.

How is living with a man ever a convenience??

Doesn't have to be a man though does it?

Live with a woman? Kill me now.

I baked muffins today...

Mimi and raven...

Now there's something I didn't know I wanted... "

Oh, you want me now?!

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London


"Hell.

No.

How is living with a man ever a convenience??

Doesn't have to be a man though does it?

Live with a woman? Kill me now.

I baked muffins today...

Mimi and raven...

Now there's something I didn't know I wanted...

I think I'd seem like a pussycat out of us 2 "

Sounds like you want to the the pussycat

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London


"Hell.

No.

How is living with a man ever a convenience??

Doesn't have to be a man though does it?

Live with a woman? Kill me now.

I baked muffins today...

Mimi and raven...

Now there's something I didn't know I wanted...

Oh, you want me now?! "

Yeah you have won me over. Everyone applaud elphie!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Yes, I would. If I was alone, getting on in years and the other person and I got along, we had clear and contractually enforced guidelines and boundaries I'd consider it.

I think we're fed such a diet of romantic love from an early age that most of us go into long term relationships with rose coloured glasses. If we were used to discussing long term goals, what's really important to us and sexual preferences before we got in too deep there'd be way fewer failed relationships in my opinion. Instead we drift all misty eyed into things imagining that love will conquer all.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

Depends how much I was being paid

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A


"Yes, I would. If I was alone, getting on in years and the other person and I got along, we had clear and contractually enforced guidelines and boundaries I'd consider it.

I think we're fed such a diet of romantic love from an early age that most of us go into long term relationships with rose coloured glasses. If we were used to discussing long term goals, what's really important to us and sexual preferences before we got in too deep there'd be way fewer failed relationships in my opinion. Instead we drift all misty eyed into things imagining that love will conquer all. "

It's a fair comment. I blame being brought up on soul and Motown.

Love has probably been the singular greatest cause of pain in my life - but I have masochist tendencies - so it works for me.

Although I had a biologist gf years ago. Who adamantly claimed loved was just a biochemical response that research demonstrated lasted a maximum of 3 years. The evolutionary function of which was to keep men supporting partners through pregnancy and childbirth. And then she contacted me out of the blue 7 years later to tell me she still loved me.

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By *amesBeelzebubMan
over a year ago

norwich


"Hell.

No.

How is living with a man ever a convenience??"

I do most of the cooking washing up and ironing in our house.

I'm crap at sex but make a great housemaid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hell.

No.

How is living with a man ever a convenience??

I do most of the cooking washing up and ironing in our house.

I'm crap at sex but make a great housemaid "

But you're there!!! In the house, all the time.

No.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Yes, I would. If I was alone, getting on in years and the other person and I got along, we had clear and contractually enforced guidelines and boundaries I'd consider it.

I think we're fed such a diet of romantic love from an early age that most of us go into long term relationships with rose coloured glasses. If we were used to discussing long term goals, what's really important to us and sexual preferences before we got in too deep there'd be way fewer failed relationships in my opinion. Instead we drift all misty eyed into things imagining that love will conquer all.

It's a fair comment. I blame being brought up on soul and Motown.

Love has probably been the singular greatest cause of pain in my life - but I have masochist tendencies - so it works for me.

Although I had a biologist gf years ago. Who adamantly claimed loved was just a biochemical response that research demonstrated lasted a maximum of 3 years. The evolutionary function of which was to keep men supporting partners through pregnancy and childbirth. And then she contacted me out of the blue 7 years later to tell me she still loved me. "

Ha! I think people confuse that first flush of romantic 'love' with the deep and abiding love that can grow from that over time. Your biologist ex probably realised that ...too late.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"Yes, I would. If I was alone, getting on in years and the other person and I got along, we had clear and contractually enforced guidelines and boundaries I'd consider it.

I think we're fed such a diet of romantic love from an early age that most of us go into long term relationships with rose coloured glasses. If we were used to discussing long term goals, what's really important to us and sexual preferences before we got in too deep there'd be way fewer failed relationships in my opinion. Instead we drift all misty eyed into things imagining that love will conquer all. "

I would to 100%. I’ve considered in the past as well. But I think I would need my heart broken a few more times and then just decide that is best

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Time , place , context....

I've had most of the experiences I need.

A cushy life would be fine by me.

Can't see anyone marrying me for convenience though .....

Unless he's conveniently looking for a free loader with no benefits. Maybe he'll want me for my smile.

Oh look .......... A porcine aviator .... nice.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I've seen enough very lonely people to think that there's a case to be made for 'companionship' arrangements.

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By *heArrowsCouple
over a year ago

I got very lucky. I found a woman who complemented my interests and wants at a young age, who also made me want to be a better person. Then I got really lucky and she became my best mate.

After living the life I have with her and knowing a few couples who have marriages of convenience, I would recommend taking a chance on old-fashioned love.

Relationships are hard. Whether it is based on love, convenience, or traditional arranged marriages.

They all need work, communication, compromise and compassion.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"Would you ever consider marrying for convenience/lifestyle choices?

Chatting to a lady friend, we discussed being 2 Hot Wives. I reckon that would be a massive novelty.

There must be many advantages no? A more understanding partner, similar boundaries, never a need to worry about child care, sharing lingerie, financial bonuses.

What say you Fabbers?"

Isn't that a bit extreme to be hot wives? Would you really be proper wives if it's only a marriage of convenience? It sounds a bit contrived to me.

You can get all the benefits you list without being married. A marriage of convenience doesn't necessarily mean that a spouse signs up to giving the assistance you mention.

Nevertheless, two married women who are hot wives does sound very appealing. How does one get in consideration by the happy couple?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Would you ever consider marrying for convenience/lifestyle choices?

Chatting to a lady friend, we discussed being 2 Hot Wives. I reckon that would be a massive novelty.

There must be many advantages no? A more understanding partner, similar boundaries, never a need to worry about child care, sharing lingerie, financial bonuses.

What say you Fabbers?"

I've re read this now. Do you mean I have to have a WIFE ? Two women. Me and another one ? Living together ? Sharing the Bills and the Cleaning and Shopping, Kids and Cooking ?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Sharing Lingerie ...... ( huge vom emoji )

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A


"

Ha! I think people confuse that first flush of romantic 'love' with the deep and abiding love that can grow from that over time. Your biologist ex probably realised that ...too late. "

It ain't love that I'm running from.

It's the heartbreak I know will come.

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By *riving_Home_For_Mimi OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset


"Would you ever consider marrying for convenience/lifestyle choices?

Chatting to a lady friend, we discussed being 2 Hot Wives. I reckon that would be a massive novelty.

There must be many advantages no? A more understanding partner, similar boundaries, never a need to worry about child care, sharing lingerie, financial bonuses.

What say you Fabbers?

I've re read this now. Do you mean I have to have a WIFE ? Two women. Me and another one ? Living together ? Sharing the Bills and the Cleaning and Shopping, Kids and Cooking ?

"

Well, I think that sounds more appealing than marrying a man. Of course, 2 men could do the same.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I’ve pretty much got this. We didn’t marry for that reason though . I’m still married after 32 years. We have a fantastic “friends” relationship. Share everything (not sexual) and always will. He doesn’t wear my lingerie though (that I know of!)

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