FabSwingers.com forum: Making the effort on Fab

By *unandgamegeek OP Man
over a year ago

Bolton

When it comes to Fab, I hardly look anyone up and get messaging (which hasn't happened for a very long while) and posting on the forums has become almost a monthly thing. I don't know if I've lost the encouragement to make an effort or I've just given up out of fear.

Making an effort in a club is easy but on Fab, it's nigh on impossible as I've no idea how. My profile may not be the best but at least I tried to make it decent. There are times where I feel like my best just ain't good enough.

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

You have to get to know the site, and using a PC/laptop website is good if you can. (use tabbed browsing etc). So Browse/Search and reach out. Search via interest etc (Oral etc), different localities each time perhaps (you can even save your different searches) - do it regularly too to catch new members.

It's the only way if you don't use the forum much (and the forum is only a small side of fab anyway, as it cam chat).

It's not a free luch obv, you have to do the work. Especially if you are a single male and not extremely lucky with both your location and vital stats.

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

The green arrow shows you post regularly ?or did you mean starting a thread ?

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By *unandgamegeek OP Man
over a year ago

Bolton

"The green arrow shows you post regularly ?or did you mean starting a thread ?"

Starting a thread mainly. I do realise that I've posted more than I thought in the past month or so.

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

The dates by the threads are actually it's last poster, they could be years old.

There is no easy way to track our own posts unfortunately. pt

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

Either way it's hard as...bricks? Here. Don't worry about it you're not alone brother. My dick is dryyyyyy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Persiantug gave sone good advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just do me if people don’t like it or show me things I don’t like I make a note off it

And no matter what they go on a no list no matter if we at a social club or fab

How you treat me here has a bareing across all it’s just that simple

You Icnore me I icore you when you release what was infort off them

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

"When it comes to Fab, I hardly look anyone up and get messaging (which hasn't happened for a very long while) and posting on the forums has become almost a monthly thing. I don't know if I've lost the encouragement to make an effort or I've just given up out of fear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Persiantug gave sone good advice "

PT always does x

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By *unandgamegeek OP Man
over a year ago

Bolton

"The dates by the threads are actually it's last poster, they could be years old.

There is no easy way to track our own posts unfortunately. pt"

I checked, they always say how many weeks by the first post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or in it, as the case may be.

* gets off it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Persiantug gave sone good advice

PT always does x"

I gave good advice once. Was on my own so it was wasted but it was gooooood.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Your best might be someone else's bare minimum.

If the clubs work, stick with them and the other organised socials.

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

"Your best might be someone else's bare minimum.

If the clubs work, stick with them and the other organised socials. "

I mean lads I even accept toes in butt for this one. It's about SACRIFICE

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I put effort in with those I like. Well kinda.

If there's no one that gets me going I lack effort. A lot.

Effort is hard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably going to catch heat here but don’t really care

This put effort is is total bs

It’s if your face fits

Now if you really want to see just start searching though the forums and

Look at my forum posts

People wonder why I spout complete nonsense

It’s because when I put “effort” in

It gose unnoticed passed over this that and the next thing what’s the point

All because I upset a little group boohoo

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Probably going to catch heat here but don’t really care

This put effort is is total bs

It’s if your face fits

Now if you really want to see just start searching though the forums and

Look at my forum posts

People wonder why I spout complete nonsense

It’s because when I put “effort” in

It gose unnoticed passed over this that and the next thing what’s the point

All because I upset a little group boohoo "

I'd rather you just gave me a link tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Probably going to catch heat here but don’t really care

This put effort is is total bs

It’s if your face fits

Now if you really want to see just start searching though the forums and

Look at my forum posts

People wonder why I spout complete nonsense

It’s because when I put “effort” in

It gose unnoticed passed over this that and the next thing what’s the point

All because I upset a little group boohoo "

Only time they want to talk to me is when they want a “fight”

There was someone I not post there name but was happy to jump on me in the maths thread with they little gang

But completely skip over my post when I posted something nice and serious to them in another thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Probably going to catch heat here but don’t really care

This put effort is is total bs

It’s if your face fits

Now if you really want to see just start searching though the forums and

Look at my forum posts

People wonder why I spout complete nonsense

It’s because when I put “effort” in

It gose unnoticed passed over this that and the next thing what’s the point

All because I upset a little group boohoo

I'd rather you just gave me a link tbh"

Maths thread the other day people who skip over constantly polled on in a group bullying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Probably going to catch heat here but don’t really care

This put effort is is total bs

It’s if your face fits

Now if you really want to see just start searching though the forums and

Look at my forum posts

People wonder why I spout complete nonsense

It’s because when I put “effort” in

It gose unnoticed passed over this that and the next thing what’s the point

All because I upset a little group boohoo

I'd rather you just gave me a link tbh

Maths thread the other day people who skip over constantly polled on in a group bullying

Start going though my post look at the people who skip over me they go look at the math thread

Funny how they want to reply to me with they gang when they want to “fight”

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Prehaps just view it as an easy distraction when bored?

It is cliquey on the forums but hey, what does it matter? You can still post away to your hearts content.

As for messaging, can't say as we don't message anyone first (couples are evil you know) but you say you have enjoy clubs, maybe just focus there.

Pointless and no advice there but I hope you appreciate the sentiment and just potter through the site, joining in where you want and dont let it change you into a bitter person.

MrsAbz

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By *ooo wet tight hornyWoman
over a year ago

lancashire

But you've had 16 meets so you must be doing some thing right

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"Your best might be someone else's bare minimum.

If the clubs work, stick with them and the other organised socials.

I mean lads I even accept toes in butt for this one. It's about SACRIFICE "

Preparing to sacrifice you B, it's nearly Halloween

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

"Your best might be someone else's bare minimum.

If the clubs work, stick with them and the other organised socials.

I mean lads I even accept toes in butt for this one. It's about SACRIFICE

Preparing to sacrifice you B, it's nearly Halloween "

Ah bring it on. Sounds like a story anyway!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've just made me think....

Clubs might be far simpler than fab.

I can just leave after, no strings.

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Probably going to catch heat here but don’t really care

This put effort is is total bs

It’s if your face fits

Now if you really want to see just start searching though the forums and

Look at my forum posts

People wonder why I spout complete nonsense

It’s because when I put “effort” in

It gose unnoticed passed over this that and the next thing what’s the point

All because I upset a little group boohoo

I'd rather you just gave me a link tbh

Maths thread the other day people who skip over constantly polled on in a group bullying

Start going though my post look at the people who skip over me they go look at the math thread

Funny how they want to reply to me with they gang when they want to “fight” "

It's way off your arrow list, it's Saturday now too. Did it have 'maths' in the title? pt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Probably going to catch heat here but don’t really care

This put effort is is total bs

It’s if your face fits

Now if you really want to see just start searching though the forums and

Look at my forum posts

People wonder why I spout complete nonsense

It’s because when I put “effort” in

It gose unnoticed passed over this that and the next thing what’s the point

All because I upset a little group boohoo

I'd rather you just gave me a link tbh

Maths thread the other day people who skip over constantly polled on in a group bullying

Start going though my post look at the people who skip over me they go look at the math thread

Funny how they want to reply to me with they gang when they want to “fight”

It's way off your arrow list, it's Saturday now too. Did it have 'maths' in the title? pt"

Ooo yes it not be on my arrow list you need to dig out 3+ years off threads but if

You do so you will see a pattern

Off whare I put in effort for 3-4 months and just get completely skip over content so go back to spount pure funny nonsense at ever thread

They to say something that upsets the “group” and watch them all start replying to me group bullying at its finest and there’s are supposed nice people

Then you see me go back to putting in effort for the same thing to happen there’s anuff data on the forums to link the connection

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By *urve_your_enthusiasmWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

I feel I'm in a similar place, for different reasons. I've hidden my profile, had a massive sort out of my friends list and I just feel like hiding. On forums whenever I tried, I got ignored 99% of the time, which is fine.

Not sure I'll ever be back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure I'll ever be back."

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Probably going to catch heat here but don’t really care

This put effort is is total bs

It’s if your face fits

Now if you really want to see just start searching though the forums and

Look at my forum posts

People wonder why I spout complete nonsense

It’s because when I put “effort” in

It gose unnoticed passed over this that and the next thing what’s the point

All because I upset a little group boohoo

I'd rather you just gave me a link tbh

Maths thread the other day people who skip over constantly polled on in a group bullying

Start going though my post look at the people who skip over me they go look at the math thread

Funny how they want to reply to me with they gang when they want to “fight”

It's way off your arrow list, it's Saturday now too. Did it have 'maths' in the title? pt

Ooo yes it not be on my arrow list you need to dig out 3+ years off threads but if

You do so you will see a pattern

Off whare I put in effort for 3-4 months and just get completely skip over content so go back to spount pure funny nonsense at ever thread

They to say something that upsets the “group” and watch them all start replying to me group bullying at its finest and there’s are supposed nice people

Then you see me go back to putting in effort for the same thing to happen there’s anuff data on the forums to link the connection

I do remember that $300 or $400? cow question from a couple of days ago (I've just found it too). As I remember it's how you interpret the question that one for me. Lot's of disagreement though!

There is still a lot of auto-sarcasm on in the Lounge but it's getting better I think. You always seemed like one of the more popular members here to me. Maybe not clique popular but over all lol! Definitely don't take anything personally though whatever you do natalie, fight against that if you have to. pt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure I'll ever be back.

Hi "

Ooo look one off the group bully’s who never reply’s to me till they gangs around and looking for a fight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure I'll ever be back."

The forums are swamped with the same group blowing smoke up each others asses. It’s fucking dull. Do fab your way. The forums have become repetitive drivel mostly anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Probably going to catch heat here but don’t really care

This put effort is is total bs

It’s if your face fits

Now if you really want to see just start searching though the forums and

Look at my forum posts

People wonder why I spout complete nonsense

It’s because when I put “effort” in

It gose unnoticed passed over this that and the next thing what’s the point

All because I upset a little group boohoo

I'd rather you just gave me a link tbh

Maths thread the other day people who skip over constantly polled on in a group bullying

Start going though my post look at the people who skip over me they go look at the math thread

Funny how they want to reply to me with they gang when they want to “fight”

It's way off your arrow list, it's Saturday now too. Did it have 'maths' in the title? pt

Ooo yes it not be on my arrow list you need to dig out 3+ years off threads but if

You do so you will see a pattern

Off whare I put in effort for 3-4 months and just get completely skip over content so go back to spount pure funny nonsense at ever thread

They to say something that upsets the “group” and watch them all start replying to me group bullying at its finest and there’s are supposed nice people

Then you see me go back to putting in effort for the same thing to happen there’s anuff data on the forums to link the connection

I do remember that $300 or $400? cow question from a couple of days ago (I've just found it too). As I remember it's how you interpret the question that one for me. Lot's of disagreement though!

As sed there’s a nuff data on the forums if you really dig to establish group bullying at its finest

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By *ick-Dastardly-Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.

If you think your profile may not be the best, just look at mine.

Probably contender for worst profile on Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you think your profile may not be the best, just look at mine.

Probably contender for worst profile on Fab

No where near!

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By *ick-Dastardly-Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.

Not sure I'll ever be back."

Being ignored 99% of your time, who cares as these people in reality most of the time are misfits & not worth even looking at.

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By *ick-Dastardly-Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.

If you think your profile may not be the best, just look at mine.

Probably contender for worst profile on Fab

No where near! "

You sure?

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By *ick-Dastardly-Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.

Not sure I'll ever be back.

The forums are swamped with the same group blowing smoke up each others asses. It’s fucking dull. Do fab your way. The forums have become repetitive drivel mostly anyway. "

Do people take forums seriously?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure I'll ever be back.

The forums are swamped with the same group blowing smoke up each others asses. It’s fucking dull. Do fab your way. The forums have become repetitive drivel mostly anyway.

Do people take forums seriously? "

Hard to say. Can appear that way but no idea what people really think.

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

Not sure I'll ever be back.

Ooo look one off the group bully’s who never reply’s to me till they gangs around and looking for a fight "

Called out ya know

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By *ick-Dastardly-Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.

Not sure I'll ever be back.

Ooo look one off the group bully’s who never reply’s to me till they gangs around and looking for a fight "

Can't you just meet up & sort out your differences? & grow some proverbial goolies as they say?

There's some very fragile minds posting away...

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Not sure I'll ever be back."

Your profile is your own matter obv, but he forum thing is par for the course of course. Unfortunately it doesn't really lend itself to easy responses (and there is no likey etc). I must have made 99 posts in a row before now without any response, some even questions. It used to amuse me and I started adding little emoji art pictures to my posts (I can't be arsed to do that these days). I exclude ErectJim, nicecouple and Wonko of course (Wonko will always reply if you're feeling lonely - it won't be much but he will reply). There are still one or two posters here who will never reply to anyone they are not interested in (like you care, it's only a question!) - but screw them it's best to say. The forum actually is getting better... I think. At least it seems that way to me. It's been a lot better for me lately certainly, but I think it's partly because I've spent so much time on here of late, more than I'll be able to realistically keep up but I'm enjoying it.

If its fun stay, if it's not take a break I guess.

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

"You have to get to know the site, and using a PC/laptop website is good if you can. (use tabbed browsing etc). So Browse/Search and reach out. Search via interest etc (Oral etc), different localities each time perhaps (you can even save your different searches) - do it regularly too to catch new members.

It's the only way if you don't use the forum much (and the forum is only a small side of fab anyway, as it cam chat).

It's not a free luch obv, you have to do the work. Especially if you are a single male and not extremely lucky with both your location and vital stats.

pt"
this is fantastic advice.

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By *urve_your_enthusiasmWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Not sure I'll ever be back.

Being ignored 99% of your time, who cares as these people in reality most of the time are misfits & not worth even looking at. "

Well I don't expect replies anymore and yeah I've learnt to do what I like/not force anything.

I think I'm a fuss pot and get turned off/bored very easily. Bit that's me

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By *ick-Dastardly-Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.

Not sure I'll ever be back.

The forums are swamped with the same group blowing smoke up each others asses. It’s fucking dull. Do fab your way. The forums have become repetitive drivel mostly anyway.

Do people take forums seriously?

Hard to say. Can appear that way but no idea what people really think. "

Yes they do take it seriously...

A few get all upset & emotional by a few tapped out words on the internet.

You get the White Knights, Ones up themselves, Wannabe Bunny Boilers, Romantic Novelists, The wannabe sex offenders (I've seen posts on here about exposing themselves in public), 50 odd year old type men living with their elderly mothers, & other oddballs. They don't get any real social interaction in reality, but on the internet you can be whatever you want to bd..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure I'll ever be back.

Ooo look one off the group bully’s who never reply’s to me till they gangs around and looking for a fight

Called out ya know

Yes to track just go through all the his threads they started and then look at all the skips

And then find threads I have upset the group and watch as he’s replying to me never wants to talk or in less it’s to fight or pile on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure I'll ever be back.

Ooo look one off the group bully’s who never reply’s to me till they gangs around and looking for a fight "

sorry?

Me and my gang?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure I'll ever be back.

Ooo look one off the group bully’s who never reply’s to me till they gangs around and looking for a fight

Called out ya know

Yes to track just go through all the his threads they started and then look at all the skips

And then find threads I have upset the group and watch as he’s replying to me never wants to talk or in less it’s to fight or pile on "

I literally don’t recall ever replying to you.

Sorry that I don’t reply to you though. There’s LOADS of people I don’t reply to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure I'll ever be back.

Ooo look one off the group bully’s who never reply’s to me till they gangs around and looking for a fight

Called out ya know

What a surprise you’re here commenting.

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By *ick-Dastardly-Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.

Not sure I'll ever be back.

Being ignored 99% of your time, who cares as these people in reality most of the time are misfits & not worth even looking at.

Well I don't expect replies anymore and yeah I've learnt to do what I like/not force anything.

I think I'm a fuss pot and get turned off/bored very easily. Bit that's me

As long as you don't do one of those dramatic attention seeking leaving threads - "I'm leaving Fab cos" blah blah then it's all groovy.

Peace be with you:

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure I'll ever be back.

Ooo look one off the group bully’s who never reply’s to me till they gangs around and looking for a fight

Can't you just meet up & sort out your differences? & grow some proverbial goolies as they say?

There's some very fragile minds posting away..."

I don’t recall us ever having an interaction this is mad to me.

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

Clubs so much easier than fab, fab is fucked these days, compared to how it used to be when I first joined. The forums can be clickey as fuck, some ppl like to think there very big fish in such a small pond, sad reality most don't actually meet, good few are married and ain't honest about that fact

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By *urve_your_enthusiasmWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Not sure I'll ever be back.

Being ignored 99% of your time, who cares as these people in reality most of the time are misfits & not worth even looking at.

Well I don't expect replies anymore and yeah I've learnt to do what I like/not force anything.

I think I'm a fuss pot and get turned off/bored very easily. Bit that's me

As long as you don't do one of those dramatic attention seeking leaving threads - "I'm leaving Fab cos" blah blah then it's all groovy.

Peace be with you: "

Haha oh I know exactly what you mean and rest assured I will not. We all know everyone is back anyway.

I wasn't only referring to forums. Messages are draining. Hence the break. I come here from time to time. This thread has been quite nice and then I'll hide again for a bit. All good

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By *ick-Dastardly-Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.

& nobody likes me here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure I'll ever be back.

The forums are swamped with the same group blowing smoke up each others asses. It’s fucking dull. Do fab your way. The forums have become repetitive drivel mostly anyway.

Do people take forums seriously?

Hard to say. Can appear that way but no idea what people really think.

Yes they do take it seriously...

A few get all upset & emotional by a few tapped out words on the internet.

I guess we’re all oddballs to someone.

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

Not sure I'll ever be back.

Ooo look one off the group bully’s who never reply’s to me till they gangs around and looking for a fight

Called out ya know

What a surprise you’re here commenting. "

Mate you got called out, it made me laugh so I commented.

Tell me the last time I commented anything to you, since I challenged you, and you got all sensitive and spat your dummy out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you think you’re being bullied or excluded by a bunch of nobodies on a sex site forum go outside and touch some grass and get a hobby

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By *unandgamegeek OP Man
over a year ago

Bolton

Not sure I'll ever be back.

Being ignored 99% of your time, who cares as these people in reality most of the time are misfits & not worth even looking at.

Well I don't expect replies anymore and yeah I've learnt to do what I like/not force anything.

I think I'm a fuss pot and get turned off/bored very easily. Bit that's me

As long as you don't do one of those dramatic attention seeking leaving threads - "I'm leaving Fab cos" blah blah then it's all groovy.

Peace be with you:

Haha oh I know exactly what you mean and rest assured I will not. We all know everyone is back anyway.

I wasn't only referring to forums. Messages are draining. Hence the break. I come here from time to time. This thread has been quite nice and then I'll hide again for a bit. All good "

I know what you mean when it comes to messaging. It makes me feel pressured and stressed so I just don't bother.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure I'll ever be back.

Ooo look one off the group bully’s who never reply’s to me till they gangs around and looking for a fight

Called out ya know

What a surprise you’re here commenting.

Mate you got called out, it made me laugh so I commented.

Tell me the last time I commented anything to you, since I challenged you, and you got all sensitive and spat your dummy out "
frame it that if you want. You challenged me. Lol. But I remember exactly what happened when we last interacted.

But anyway, you commenting here is so on brand. Carry on though. You’re not fooling anyone.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Not sure I'll ever be back.

Ooo look one off the group bully’s who never reply’s to me till they gangs around and looking for a fight

Called out ya know

Yes to track just go through all the his threads they started and then look at all the skips

And then find threads I have upset the group and watch as he’s replying to me never wants to talk or in less it’s to fight or pile on

I literally don’t recall ever replying to you.

Sorry that I don’t reply to you though. There’s LOADS of people I don’t reply to "

Reading this has reminded me she did this to me once on a thread not long ago. I had no idea why either and I couldn’t be arsed getting involved so I ignored it. Certainly couldn’t be about any gang I could be in

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

There is bullying here, repetition, good and bad days - lots of negative things. But if it's well over 50% shit and people are still posting here? Are you all just waiting for Granny Crumpet to amble by? I know recently J-TV has vanished. I was sad to see ErectJim had too when I was off for a while. But this happens.. There is a lot of self-referential faf around atm, but who cares? I think it must be better here than people are saying on the whole.

I'll debate anything but I'm really in it for the yucks and I find myself chortling at good ones all the time on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure I'll ever be back.

Ooo look one off the group bully’s who never reply’s to me till they gangs around and looking for a fight

Called out ya know

Yes to track just go through all the his threads they started and then look at all the skips

And then find threads I have upset the group and watch as he’s replying to me never wants to talk or in less it’s to fight or pile on

I literally don’t recall ever replying to you.

Sorry that I don’t reply to you though. There’s LOADS of people I don’t reply to

You and I are certainly not in a gang together

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By *urve_your_enthusiasmWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Not sure I'll ever be back.

Being ignored 99% of your time, who cares as these people in reality most of the time are misfits & not worth even looking at.

Well I don't expect replies anymore and yeah I've learnt to do what I like/not force anything.

I think I'm a fuss pot and get turned off/bored very easily. Bit that's me

As long as you don't do one of those dramatic attention seeking leaving threads - "I'm leaving Fab cos" blah blah then it's all groovy.

Peace be with you:

Haha oh I know exactly what you mean and rest assured I will not. We all know everyone is back anyway.

I wasn't only referring to forums. Messages are draining. Hence the break. I come here from time to time. This thread has been quite nice and then I'll hide again for a bit. All good

I know what you mean when it comes to messaging. It makes me feel pressured and stressed so I just don't bother."

It's tough. Just enjoy yourself. It's hard here as so many people are aggressive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure I'll ever be back.

Ooo look one off the group bully’s who never reply’s to me till they gangs around and looking for a fight

Called out ya know

Yes to track just go through all the his threads they started and then look at all the skips

And then find threads I have upset the group and watch as he’s replying to me never wants to talk or in less it’s to fight or pile on

I literally don’t recall ever replying to you.

Sorry that I don’t reply to you though. There’s LOADS of people I don’t reply to

Your forgetting Nora we developed you phone apps witch means we have access as you singed the forum we can see

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

Not sure I'll ever be back.

Ooo look one off the group bully’s who never reply’s to me till they gangs around and looking for a fight

Called out ya know

What a surprise you’re here commenting.

Mate you got called out, it made me laugh so I commented.

Tell me the last time I commented anything to you, since I challenged you, and you got all sensitive and spat your dummy out frame it that if you want. You challenged me. Lol. But I remember exactly what happened when we last interacted.

But anyway, you commenting here is so on brand. Carry on though. You’re not fooling anyone. "

Go and deal with all those chips on your shoulder Pickles, when you have maybe you'll view life and the world a little more realisticly, till then be happy and one love....

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Not sure I'll ever be back.

Ooo look one off the group bully’s who never reply’s to me till they gangs around and looking for a fight

Called out ya know

Yes to track just go through all the his threads they started and then look at all the skips

And then find threads I have upset the group and watch as he’s replying to me never wants to talk or in less it’s to fight or pile on

I literally don’t recall ever replying to you.

Sorry that I don’t reply to you though. There’s LOADS of people I don’t reply to

You and I are certainly not in a gang together

Well I think everyone knows that

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By *ick-Dastardly-Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.

"If you think you’re being bullied or excluded by a bunch of nobodies on a sex site forum go outside and touch some grass and get a hobby"

I like this post.

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By *ick-Dastardly-Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.

Not sure I'll ever be back.

Being ignored 99% of your time, who cares as these people in reality most of the time are misfits & not worth even looking at.

Well I don't expect replies anymore and yeah I've learnt to do what I like/not force anything.

I think I'm a fuss pot and get turned off/bored very easily. Bit that's me

As long as you don't do one of those dramatic attention seeking leaving threads - "I'm leaving Fab cos" blah blah then it's all groovy.

Peace be with you:

Haha oh I know exactly what you mean and rest assured I will not. We all know everyone is back anyway.

I wasn't only referring to forums. Messages are draining. Hence the break. I come here from time to time. This thread has been quite nice and then I'll hide again for a bit. All good

I know what you mean when it comes to messaging. It makes me feel pressured and stressed so I just don't bother."

Give your head a wobble matey.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Not sure I'll ever be back.

Ooo look one off the group bully’s who never reply’s to me till they gangs around and looking for a fight

Called out ya know

Yes to track just go through all the his threads they started and then look at all the skips

And then find threads I have upset the group and watch as he’s replying to me never wants to talk or in less it’s to fight or pile on

I literally don’t recall ever replying to you.

Sorry that I don’t reply to you though. There’s LOADS of people I don’t reply to

Your forgetting Nora we developed you phone apps witch means we have access as you singed the forum we can see "

Sorry. I don’t understand that sentence

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

I wasn't feeling it a while back, I just sacked it off for a bit and played Hell Let Loose.

Weirdly I got chatting to a woman on there on discord there may be a little thing.

All started with us both ripping an over-zealous absuive squad leader who kept screaming check your maps.

Variations on the theme.

Omfg how have we lost the garrison you xxxxxxx?

Probably weren't checking our maps

Yeah sorry I didn't check map

Yeah me either I completely forgot to check my map.

We made him rage quit. It was most entertaining.

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By *ick-Dastardly-Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.

Not sure I'll ever be back.

The forums are swamped with the same group blowing smoke up each others asses. It’s fucking dull. Do fab your way. The forums have become repetitive drivel mostly anyway.

Do people take forums seriously?

Hard to say. Can appear that way but no idea what people really think.

Yes they do take it seriously...

A few get all upset & emotional by a few tapped out words on the internet.

I guess we’re all oddballs to someone. "

There's certainly misfits isn't there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure I'll ever be back.

Ooo look one off the group bully’s who never reply’s to me till they gangs around and looking for a fight

Called out ya know

What a surprise you’re here commenting.

Mate you got called out, it made me laugh so I commented.

But anyway, you commenting here is so on brand. Carry on though. You’re not fooling anyone.

Go and deal with all those chips on your shoulder Pickles, when you have maybe you'll view life and the world a little more realisticly, till then be happy and one love...."

Your one love shite is so funny. It wasn’t one Love when I was talking about my experiences with SA though. And you got called out for it.

I view the world realistically. Realistically, it’s not all sunshine and rainbows.

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By *unandgamegeek OP Man
over a year ago

Bolton

Not sure I'll ever be back.

Being ignored 99% of your time, who cares as these people in reality most of the time are misfits & not worth even looking at.

Well I don't expect replies anymore and yeah I've learnt to do what I like/not force anything.

I think I'm a fuss pot and get turned off/bored very easily. Bit that's me

As long as you don't do one of those dramatic attention seeking leaving threads - "I'm leaving Fab cos" blah blah then it's all groovy.

Peace be with you:

Haha oh I know exactly what you mean and rest assured I will not. We all know everyone is back anyway.

I wasn't only referring to forums. Messages are draining. Hence the break. I come here from time to time. This thread has been quite nice and then I'll hide again for a bit. All good

I know what you mean when it comes to messaging. It makes me feel pressured and stressed so I just don't bother.

It's tough. Just enjoy yourself. It's hard here as so many people are aggressive. "

I'll do what I can. I think this thread has lost it's purpose as it's been hijacked.

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By *ick-Dastardly-Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.

Not sure I'll ever be back.

Ooo look one off the group bully’s who never reply’s to me till they gangs around and looking for a fight

Called out ya know

Yes to track just go through all the his threads they started and then look at all the skips

And then find threads I have upset the group and watch as he’s replying to me never wants to talk or in less it’s to fight or pile on

I literally don’t recall ever replying to you.

Sorry that I don’t reply to you though. There’s LOADS of people I don’t reply to

Your forgetting Nora we developed you phone apps witch means we have access as you singed the forum we can see

Sorry. I don’t understand that sentence "

Cos it da'forum lingo init babe...

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By *ick-Dastardly-Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.

Not sure I'll ever be back.

Being ignored 99% of your time, who cares as these people in reality most of the time are misfits & not worth even looking at.

Well I don't expect replies anymore and yeah I've learnt to do what I like/not force anything.

I think I'm a fuss pot and get turned off/bored very easily. Bit that's me

As long as you don't do one of those dramatic attention seeking leaving threads - "I'm leaving Fab cos" blah blah then it's all groovy.

Peace be with you:

Haha oh I know exactly what you mean and rest assured I will not. We all know everyone is back anyway.

I wasn't only referring to forums. Messages are draining. Hence the break. I come here from time to time. This thread has been quite nice and then I'll hide again for a bit. All good

I know what you mean when it comes to messaging. It makes me feel pressured and stressed so I just don't bother.

It's tough. Just enjoy yourself. It's hard here as so many people are aggressive.

I'll do what I can. I think this thread has lost it's purpose as it's been hijacked."

Hijacked by forum bandits?

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

Not sure I'll ever be back.

Ooo look one off the group bully’s who never reply’s to me till they gangs around and looking for a fight

Called out ya know

What a surprise you’re here commenting.

Mate you got called out, it made me laugh so I commented.

But anyway, you commenting here is so on brand. Carry on though. You’re not fooling anyone.

Go and deal with all those chips on your shoulder Pickles, when you have maybe you'll view life and the world a little more realisticly, till then be happy and one love....

Your one love shite is so funny. It wasn’t one Love when I was talking about my experiences with SA though. And you got called out for it.

I view the world realistically. Realistically, it’s not all sunshine and rainbows.

I recall the Interaction, I also recall you trying to twist what I said to you and asked. You have it a little bit twisted along the way there pickles a wee bit.

No shit lifes not all rainbows n unicorns, but then living with chips on one's shoulder doesn't help matters either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I joined fab for dick. Didn’t realise I needed to be popular too. I’m fucked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think fab can give you tunnel vision if you let it. Look up and around every once in a while, things might not look so bad.

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By *urve_your_enthusiasmWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Not sure I'll ever be back.

Being ignored 99% of your time, who cares as these people in reality most of the time are misfits & not worth even looking at.

Well I don't expect replies anymore and yeah I've learnt to do what I like/not force anything.

I think I'm a fuss pot and get turned off/bored very easily. Bit that's me

As long as you don't do one of those dramatic attention seeking leaving threads - "I'm leaving Fab cos" blah blah then it's all groovy.

Peace be with you:

Haha oh I know exactly what you mean and rest assured I will not. We all know everyone is back anyway.

I wasn't only referring to forums. Messages are draining. Hence the break. I come here from time to time. This thread has been quite nice and then I'll hide again for a bit. All good

I know what you mean when it comes to messaging. It makes me feel pressured and stressed so I just don't bother.

It's tough. Just enjoy yourself. It's hard here as so many people are aggressive.

I'll do what I can. I think this thread has lost it's purpose as it's been hijacked.

Hijacked by forum bandits? "

Forum bandits. That's made me chuckle

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By *unandgamegeek OP Man
over a year ago

Bolton

Not sure I'll ever be back.

Being ignored 99% of your time, who cares as these people in reality most of the time are misfits & not worth even looking at.

Well I don't expect replies anymore and yeah I've learnt to do what I like/not force anything.

I think I'm a fuss pot and get turned off/bored very easily. Bit that's me

As long as you don't do one of those dramatic attention seeking leaving threads - "I'm leaving Fab cos" blah blah then it's all groovy.

Peace be with you:

Haha oh I know exactly what you mean and rest assured I will not. We all know everyone is back anyway.

I wasn't only referring to forums. Messages are draining. Hence the break. I come here from time to time. This thread has been quite nice and then I'll hide again for a bit. All good

I know what you mean when it comes to messaging. It makes me feel pressured and stressed so I just don't bother.

It's tough. Just enjoy yourself. It's hard here as so many people are aggressive.

I'll do what I can. I think this thread has lost it's purpose as it's been hijacked.

Hijacked by forum bandits? "

I'm not in the mood for jokes.

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By *urve_your_enthusiasmWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Not sure I'll ever be back.

Being ignored 99% of your time, who cares as these people in reality most of the time are misfits & not worth even looking at.

Well I don't expect replies anymore and yeah I've learnt to do what I like/not force anything.

I think I'm a fuss pot and get turned off/bored very easily. Bit that's me

As long as you don't do one of those dramatic attention seeking leaving threads - "I'm leaving Fab cos" blah blah then it's all groovy.

Peace be with you:

Haha oh I know exactly what you mean and rest assured I will not. We all know everyone is back anyway.

I wasn't only referring to forums. Messages are draining. Hence the break. I come here from time to time. This thread has been quite nice and then I'll hide again for a bit. All good

I know what you mean when it comes to messaging. It makes me feel pressured and stressed so I just don't bother.

It's tough. Just enjoy yourself. It's hard here as so many people are aggressive.

I'll do what I can. I think this thread has lost it's purpose as it's been hijacked."

People are in different moods. You got some genuine responses. I'd say focus on them.

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By *ick-Dastardly-Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.

"I joined fab for dick. Didn’t realise I needed to be popular too. I’m fucked. "

Jesus Loves You.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I joined fab for dick. Didn’t realise I needed to be popular too. I’m fucked.

Jesus Loves You. "

I’m ok with beards and he can turn water in wine. It’s good he loves me.

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

"I think fab can give you tunnel vision if you let it. Look up and around every once in a while, things might not look so bad.

Is that a Ferris Buller quote?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure I'll ever be back.

Ooo look one off the group bully’s who never reply’s to me till they gangs around and looking for a fight

Called out ya know

What a surprise you’re here commenting.

Mate you got called out, it made me laugh so I commented.

But anyway, you commenting here is so on brand. Carry on though. You’re not fooling anyone.

Go and deal with all those chips on your shoulder Pickles, when you have maybe you'll view life and the world a little more realisticly, till then be happy and one love....

Your one love shite is so funny. It wasn’t one Love when I was talking about my experiences with SA though. And you got called out for it.

I view the world realistically. Realistically, it’s not all sunshine and rainbows.

I recall the Interaction, I also recall you trying to twist what I said to you and asked. You have it a little bit twisted along the way there pickles a wee bit.

No shit lifes not all rainbows n unicorns, but then living with chips on one's shoulder doesn't help matters either."

I recall it too. I didn’t trust a single word you said.

Hope you kept your receipts. I did.

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By *ick-Dastardly-Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.

Not sure I'll ever be back.

Being ignored 99% of your time, who cares as these people in reality most of the time are misfits & not worth even looking at.

Well I don't expect replies anymore and yeah I've learnt to do what I like/not force anything.

I think I'm a fuss pot and get turned off/bored very easily. Bit that's me

As long as you don't do one of those dramatic attention seeking leaving threads - "I'm leaving Fab cos" blah blah then it's all groovy.

Peace be with you:

Haha oh I know exactly what you mean and rest assured I will not. We all know everyone is back anyway.

I wasn't only referring to forums. Messages are draining. Hence the break. I come here from time to time. This thread has been quite nice and then I'll hide again for a bit. All good

I know what you mean when it comes to messaging. It makes me feel pressured and stressed so I just don't bother.

It's tough. Just enjoy yourself. It's hard here as so many people are aggressive.

I'll do what I can. I think this thread has lost it's purpose as it's been hijacked.

Hijacked by forum bandits?

I'm not in the mood for jokes."

Do you think some bit of fanny will come & offer you a sympathy bonk? You might get lucky mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think fab can give you tunnel vision if you let it. Look up and around every once in a while, things might not look so bad.

Is that a Ferris Buller quote?"

I have a good memory if it is, I havent seen that film in decades

Its just my natural toxic positivity shining through

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By *unandgamegeek OP Man
over a year ago

Bolton

Not sure I'll ever be back.

Being ignored 99% of your time, who cares as these people in reality most of the time are misfits & not worth even looking at.

Well I don't expect replies anymore and yeah I've learnt to do what I like/not force anything.

I think I'm a fuss pot and get turned off/bored very easily. Bit that's me

As long as you don't do one of those dramatic attention seeking leaving threads - "I'm leaving Fab cos" blah blah then it's all groovy.

Peace be with you:

Haha oh I know exactly what you mean and rest assured I will not. We all know everyone is back anyway.

I wasn't only referring to forums. Messages are draining. Hence the break. I come here from time to time. This thread has been quite nice and then I'll hide again for a bit. All good

I know what you mean when it comes to messaging. It makes me feel pressured and stressed so I just don't bother.

It's tough. Just enjoy yourself. It's hard here as so many people are aggressive.

I'll do what I can. I think this thread has lost it's purpose as it's been hijacked.

Hijacked by forum bandits?

I'm not in the mood for jokes.

Do you think some bit of fanny will come & offer you a sympathy bonk? You might get lucky mate

I'm not after any sympathy. You know what? I give up. I just wanted some advice but this has become a joke.

Forget it

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

"I think fab can give you tunnel vision if you let it. Look up and around every once in a while, things might not look so bad.

Is that a Ferris Buller quote?

I have a good memory if it is, I havent seen that film in decades

Its just my natural toxic positivity shining through

To be honest After reading Betrand Russell's History of Western Philosophy. And several religions. I came to the conclusion Ferris Bueller and the Breakfast Club were the superior belief systems.

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

Not sure I'll ever be back.

Being ignored 99% of your time, who cares as these people in reality most of the time are misfits & not worth even looking at.

Well I don't expect replies anymore and yeah I've learnt to do what I like/not force anything.

I think I'm a fuss pot and get turned off/bored very easily. Bit that's me

As long as you don't do one of those dramatic attention seeking leaving threads - "I'm leaving Fab cos" blah blah then it's all groovy.

Peace be with you:

Haha oh I know exactly what you mean and rest assured I will not. We all know everyone is back anyway.

I wasn't only referring to forums. Messages are draining. Hence the break. I come here from time to time. This thread has been quite nice and then I'll hide again for a bit. All good

I know what you mean when it comes to messaging. It makes me feel pressured and stressed so I just don't bother.

It's tough. Just enjoy yourself. It's hard here as so many people are aggressive.

I'll do what I can. I think this thread has lost it's purpose as it's been hijacked.

Hijacked by forum bandits?

I'm not in the mood for jokes.

Do you think some bit of fanny will come & offer you a sympathy bonk? You might get lucky mate

I'm not after any sympathy. You know what? I give up. I just wanted some advice but this has become a joke.

Forget it"

I totally gave you advice. And you blanked me. Don't know why I bother - irony for ya.

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By *ick-Dastardly-Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.

Not sure I'll ever be back.

Being ignored 99% of your time, who cares as these people in reality most of the time are misfits & not worth even looking at.

Well I don't expect replies anymore and yeah I've learnt to do what I like/not force anything.

I think I'm a fuss pot and get turned off/bored very easily. Bit that's me

As long as you don't do one of those dramatic attention seeking leaving threads - "I'm leaving Fab cos" blah blah then it's all groovy.

Peace be with you:

Haha oh I know exactly what you mean and rest assured I will not. We all know everyone is back anyway.

I wasn't only referring to forums. Messages are draining. Hence the break. I come here from time to time. This thread has been quite nice and then I'll hide again for a bit. All good

I know what you mean when it comes to messaging. It makes me feel pressured and stressed so I just don't bother.

It's tough. Just enjoy yourself. It's hard here as so many people are aggressive.

I'll do what I can. I think this thread has lost it's purpose as it's been hijacked.

Hijacked by forum bandits?

I'm not in the mood for jokes.

Do you think some bit of fanny will come & offer you a sympathy bonk? You might get lucky mate

I'm not after any sympathy. You know what? I give up. I just wanted some advice but this has become a joke.

Forget it"

What's the joke mate?

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

Not sure I'll ever be back.

Ooo look one off the group bully’s who never reply’s to me till they gangs around and looking for a fight

Called out ya know

What a surprise you’re here commenting.

Mate you got called out, it made me laugh so I commented.

But anyway, you commenting here is so on brand. Carry on though. You’re not fooling anyone.

Go and deal with all those chips on your shoulder Pickles, when you have maybe you'll view life and the world a little more realisticly, till then be happy and one love....

Your one love shite is so funny. It wasn’t one Love when I was talking about my experiences with SA though. And you got called out for it.

I view the world realistically. Realistically, it’s not all sunshine and rainbows.

I recall the Interaction, I also recall you trying to twist what I said to you and asked. You have it a little bit twisted along the way there pickles a wee bit.

No shit lifes not all rainbows n unicorns, but then living with chips on one's shoulder doesn't help matters either.

I recall it too. I didn’t trust a single word you said.

Hope you kept your receipts. I did.

Add it to the notes mate, know you like to keep all your little notes on people......because fab lifes so important ain't it....

. Truthfully I coundnt give two fucks, whether you kept receipts or not or if you trust anything I say, because you mean nothing to my life....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope you kept your receipts. I did.

Add it to the notes mate, know you like to keep all your little notes on people......because fab lifes so important ain't it....

. Truthfully I coundnt give two fucks, whether you kept receipts or not or if you trust anything I say, because you mean nothing to my life...."

You’re honestly hilarious. You’re talking a lot for someone that literally doesn’t know me. Go back to leaving me alone seen as you don’t care.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure I'll ever be back.

Being ignored 99% of your time, who cares as these people in reality most of the time are misfits & not worth even looking at.

Well I don't expect replies anymore and yeah I've learnt to do what I like/not force anything.

I think I'm a fuss pot and get turned off/bored very easily. Bit that's me

As long as you don't do one of those dramatic attention seeking leaving threads - "I'm leaving Fab cos" blah blah then it's all groovy.

Peace be with you:

Haha oh I know exactly what you mean and rest assured I will not. We all know everyone is back anyway.

I wasn't only referring to forums. Messages are draining. Hence the break. I come here from time to time. This thread has been quite nice and then I'll hide again for a bit. All good

I know what you mean when it comes to messaging. It makes me feel pressured and stressed so I just don't bother.

It's tough. Just enjoy yourself. It's hard here as so many people are aggressive.

I'll do what I can. I think this thread has lost it's purpose as it's been hijacked.

Hijacked by forum bandits?

I'm not in the mood for jokes.

Do you think some bit of fanny will come & offer you a sympathy bonk? You might get lucky mate

I'm not after any sympathy. You know what? I give up. I just wanted some advice but this has become a joke.

Forget it"

People haven given you advice. Good, hard earned advice. Your original post was more a complaint than asking for advice and still forum users stepped up to pass on what they’ve learned. What more did you want?

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By *unandgamegeek OP Man
over a year ago

Bolton

Not sure I'll ever be back.

Being ignored 99% of your time, who cares as these people in reality most of the time are misfits & not worth even looking at.

Well I don't expect replies anymore and yeah I've learnt to do what I like/not force anything.

I think I'm a fuss pot and get turned off/bored very easily. Bit that's me

As long as you don't do one of those dramatic attention seeking leaving threads - "I'm leaving Fab cos" blah blah then it's all groovy.

Peace be with you:

Haha oh I know exactly what you mean and rest assured I will not. We all know everyone is back anyway.

I wasn't only referring to forums. Messages are draining. Hence the break. I come here from time to time. This thread has been quite nice and then I'll hide again for a bit. All good

I know what you mean when it comes to messaging. It makes me feel pressured and stressed so I just don't bother.

It's tough. Just enjoy yourself. It's hard here as so many people are aggressive.

I'll do what I can. I think this thread has lost it's purpose as it's been hijacked.

Hijacked by forum bandits?

I'm not in the mood for jokes.

Do you think some bit of fanny will come & offer you a sympathy bonk? You might get lucky mate

I'm not after any sympathy. You know what? I give up. I just wanted some advice but this has become a joke.

Forget it

I totally gave you advice. And you blanked me. Don't know why I bother - irony for ya."

Sorry, I missed it when all this started happening.

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By *ick-Dastardly-Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.

Not sure I'll ever be back.

Ooo look one off the group bully’s who never reply’s to me till they gangs around and looking for a fight

Called out ya know

What a surprise you’re here commenting.

Mate you got called out, it made me laugh so I commented.

But anyway, you commenting here is so on brand. Carry on though. You’re not fooling anyone.

Go and deal with all those chips on your shoulder Pickles, when you have maybe you'll view life and the world a little more realisticly, till then be happy and one love....

Your one love shite is so funny. It wasn’t one Love when I was talking about my experiences with SA though. And you got called out for it.

I view the world realistically. Realistically, it’s not all sunshine and rainbows.

I recall the Interaction, I also recall you trying to twist what I said to you and asked. You have it a little bit twisted along the way there pickles a wee bit.

No shit lifes not all rainbows n unicorns, but then living with chips on one's shoulder doesn't help matters either.

I recall it too. I didn’t trust a single word you said.

Hope you kept your receipts. I did.

Add it to the notes mate, know you like to keep all your little notes on people......because fab lifes so important ain't it....

. Truthfully I coundnt give two fucks, whether you kept receipts or not or if you trust anything I say, because you mean nothing to my life...."

Popcorn anyone?

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

Hope you kept your receipts. I did.

Add it to the notes mate, know you like to keep all your little notes on people......because fab lifes so important ain't it....

. Truthfully I coundnt give two fucks, whether you kept receipts or not or if you trust anything I say, because you mean nothing to my life....

You’re honestly hilarious. You’re talking a lot for someone that literally doesn’t know me. Go back to leaving me alone seen as you don’t care. "

The humour comes off the milkman and the chest hair off my mother.

Have a nice life Pickles

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By *ick-Dastardly-Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.

Not sure I'll ever be back.

Being ignored 99% of your time, who cares as these people in reality most of the time are misfits & not worth even looking at.

Well I don't expect replies anymore and yeah I've learnt to do what I like/not force anything.

I think I'm a fuss pot and get turned off/bored very easily. Bit that's me

As long as you don't do one of those dramatic attention seeking leaving threads - "I'm leaving Fab cos" blah blah then it's all groovy.

Peace be with you:

Haha oh I know exactly what you mean and rest assured I will not. We all know everyone is back anyway.

I wasn't only referring to forums. Messages are draining. Hence the break. I come here from time to time. This thread has been quite nice and then I'll hide again for a bit. All good

I know what you mean when it comes to messaging. It makes me feel pressured and stressed so I just don't bother.

It's tough. Just enjoy yourself. It's hard here as so many people are aggressive.

I'll do what I can. I think this thread has lost it's purpose as it's been hijacked.

Hijacked by forum bandits?

I'm not in the mood for jokes.

Do you think some bit of fanny will come & offer you a sympathy bonk? You might get lucky mate

I'm not after any sympathy. You know what? I give up. I just wanted some advice but this has become a joke.

Forget it

I totally gave you advice. And you blanked me. Don't know why I bother - irony for ya.

Sorry, I missed it when all this started happening."

Here we go.

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By *ick-Dastardly-Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.

Hope you kept your receipts. I did.

Add it to the notes mate, know you like to keep all your little notes on people......because fab lifes so important ain't it....

. Truthfully I coundnt give two fucks, whether you kept receipts or not or if you trust anything I say, because you mean nothing to my life....

You’re honestly hilarious. You’re talking a lot for someone that literally doesn’t know me. Go back to leaving me alone seen as you don’t care.

The humour comes off the milkman and the chest hair off my mother.

Have a nice life Pickles

Testosterone overflowing here

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

Dunno i make no effort

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By *unandgamegeek OP Man
over a year ago

Bolton

Not sure I'll ever be back.

Being ignored 99% of your time, who cares as these people in reality most of the time are misfits & not worth even looking at.

Well I don't expect replies anymore and yeah I've learnt to do what I like/not force anything.

I think I'm a fuss pot and get turned off/bored very easily. Bit that's me

As long as you don't do one of those dramatic attention seeking leaving threads - "I'm leaving Fab cos" blah blah then it's all groovy.

Peace be with you:

Haha oh I know exactly what you mean and rest assured I will not. We all know everyone is back anyway.

I wasn't only referring to forums. Messages are draining. Hence the break. I come here from time to time. This thread has been quite nice and then I'll hide again for a bit. All good

I know what you mean when it comes to messaging. It makes me feel pressured and stressed so I just don't bother.

It's tough. Just enjoy yourself. It's hard here as so many people are aggressive.

I'll do what I can. I think this thread has lost it's purpose as it's been hijacked.

Hijacked by forum bandits?

I'm not in the mood for jokes.

Do you think some bit of fanny will come & offer you a sympathy bonk? You might get lucky mate

I'm not after any sympathy. You know what? I give up. I just wanted some advice but this has become a joke.

Forget it

Sorry, my mind is all over the place.

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

Not sure I'll ever be back.

Being ignored 99% of your time, who cares as these people in reality most of the time are misfits & not worth even looking at.

Well I don't expect replies anymore and yeah I've learnt to do what I like/not force anything.

I think I'm a fuss pot and get turned off/bored very easily. Bit that's me

As long as you don't do one of those dramatic attention seeking leaving threads - "I'm leaving Fab cos" blah blah then it's all groovy.

Peace be with you:

Haha oh I know exactly what you mean and rest assured I will not. We all know everyone is back anyway.

I wasn't only referring to forums. Messages are draining. Hence the break. I come here from time to time. This thread has been quite nice and then I'll hide again for a bit. All good

I know what you mean when it comes to messaging. It makes me feel pressured and stressed so I just don't bother.

It's tough. Just enjoy yourself. It's hard here as so many people are aggressive.

I'll do what I can. I think this thread has lost it's purpose as it's been hijacked.

Hijacked by forum bandits?

I'm not in the mood for jokes.

Do you think some bit of fanny will come & offer you a sympathy bonk? You might get lucky mate

I'm not after any sympathy. You know what? I give up. I just wanted some advice but this has become a joke.

Forget it

I totally gave you advice. And you blanked me. Don't know why I bother - irony for ya.

Sorry, I missed it when all this started happening."

Lesson there mate: looking in the wrong places.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The forum alpha’s facing off to see why rules the fab kingdom

Who will be crowded king of the pride and still not get any meets

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By *urve_your_enthusiasmWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Not sure I'll ever be back.

Being ignored 99% of your time, who cares as these people in reality most of the time are misfits & not worth even looking at.

Well I don't expect replies anymore and yeah I've learnt to do what I like/not force anything.

I think I'm a fuss pot and get turned off/bored very easily. Bit that's me

As long as you don't do one of those dramatic attention seeking leaving threads - "I'm leaving Fab cos" blah blah then it's all groovy.

Peace be with you:

Haha oh I know exactly what you mean and rest assured I will not. We all know everyone is back anyway.

I wasn't only referring to forums. Messages are draining. Hence the break. I come here from time to time. This thread has been quite nice and then I'll hide again for a bit. All good

I know what you mean when it comes to messaging. It makes me feel pressured and stressed so I just don't bother.

It's tough. Just enjoy yourself. It's hard here as so many people are aggressive.

I'll do what I can. I think this thread has lost it's purpose as it's been hijacked.

Hijacked by forum bandits?

I'm not in the mood for jokes.

Do you think some bit of fanny will come & offer you a sympathy bonk? You might get lucky mate

I'm not after any sympathy. You know what? I give up. I just wanted some advice but this has become a joke.

Forget it

I totally gave you advice. And you blanked me. Don't know why I bother - irony for ya."

Snap! I told him to focus on the good advice he got but he's blanking us. Oh well

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

"The forum alpha’s facing off to see why rules the fab kingdom

Who will be crowded king of the pride and still not get any meets "

Let me put you in the picture let me show you what I mean.

The Messiah is my sister ain't no king man she's my queen.

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

Erotic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*swings handbag

Don’t mind me. Just practicing.

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

Well....

It's nice for me to not be involved for a change

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By *unandgamegeek OP Man
over a year ago

Bolton

Not sure I'll ever be back.

Being ignored 99% of your time, who cares as these people in reality most of the time are misfits & not worth even looking at.

Well I don't expect replies anymore and yeah I've learnt to do what I like/not force anything.

I think I'm a fuss pot and get turned off/bored very easily. Bit that's me

As long as you don't do one of those dramatic attention seeking leaving threads - "I'm leaving Fab cos" blah blah then it's all groovy.

Peace be with you:

Haha oh I know exactly what you mean and rest assured I will not. We all know everyone is back anyway.

I wasn't only referring to forums. Messages are draining. Hence the break. I come here from time to time. This thread has been quite nice and then I'll hide again for a bit. All good

I know what you mean when it comes to messaging. It makes me feel pressured and stressed so I just don't bother.

It's tough. Just enjoy yourself. It's hard here as so many people are aggressive.

I'll do what I can. I think this thread has lost it's purpose as it's been hijacked.

Hijacked by forum bandits?

I'm not in the mood for jokes.

Do you think some bit of fanny will come & offer you a sympathy bonk? You might get lucky mate

I'm not after any sympathy. You know what? I give up. I just wanted some advice but this has become a joke.

Forget it

I totally gave you advice. And you blanked me. Don't know why I bother - irony for ya.

Snap! I told him to focus on the good advice he got but he's blanking us. Oh well"

I did see the advice and it is good. I've just had a lot on my mind at the moment

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Not sure I'll ever be back.

Being ignored 99% of your time, who cares as these people in reality most of the time are misfits & not worth even looking at.

Well I don't expect replies anymore and yeah I've learnt to do what I like/not force anything.

I think I'm a fuss pot and get turned off/bored very easily. Bit that's me

As long as you don't do one of those dramatic attention seeking leaving threads - "I'm leaving Fab cos" blah blah then it's all groovy.

Peace be with you:

Haha oh I know exactly what you mean and rest assured I will not. We all know everyone is back anyway.

I wasn't only referring to forums. Messages are draining. Hence the break. I come here from time to time. This thread has been quite nice and then I'll hide again for a bit. All good

I know what you mean when it comes to messaging. It makes me feel pressured and stressed so I just don't bother.

It's tough. Just enjoy yourself. It's hard here as so many people are aggressive.

I'll do what I can. I think this thread has lost it's purpose as it's been hijacked.

Hijacked by forum bandits?

I'm not in the mood for jokes.

Do you think some bit of fanny will come & offer you a sympathy bonk? You might get lucky mate

I'm not after any sympathy. You know what? I give up. I just wanted some advice but this has become a joke.

Forget it

I totally gave you advice. And you blanked me. Don't know why I bother - irony for ya.

Sorry, I missed it when all this started happening.

Lesson there mate: looking in the wrong places.

lol

I got a bit caught-up too before looking back properly OP, but I've got to say, I've had a few 'agrees' to the advice I gave, more than I can remember seeing before on any one thread for sure (thanks guys btw). Add them all up (ie and the help from other posters too) and you do have some direction here - ie how to get Veris via fab itself, not just clubbers who are also on fab - if you wanted that kind of advice of course. pt

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By *unandgamegeek OP Man
over a year ago

Bolton

Not sure I'll ever be back.

Being ignored 99% of your time, who cares as these people in reality most of the time are misfits & not worth even looking at.

Well I don't expect replies anymore and yeah I've learnt to do what I like/not force anything.

I think I'm a fuss pot and get turned off/bored very easily. Bit that's me

As long as you don't do one of those dramatic attention seeking leaving threads - "I'm leaving Fab cos" blah blah then it's all groovy.

Peace be with you:

Haha oh I know exactly what you mean and rest assured I will not. We all know everyone is back anyway.

I wasn't only referring to forums. Messages are draining. Hence the break. I come here from time to time. This thread has been quite nice and then I'll hide again for a bit. All good

I know what you mean when it comes to messaging. It makes me feel pressured and stressed so I just don't bother.

It's tough. Just enjoy yourself. It's hard here as so many people are aggressive.

I'll do what I can. I think this thread has lost it's purpose as it's been hijacked.

Hijacked by forum bandits?

I'm not in the mood for jokes.

Do you think some bit of fanny will come & offer you a sympathy bonk? You might get lucky mate

I'm not after any sympathy. You know what? I give up. I just wanted some advice but this has become a joke.

Forget it

I totally gave you advice. And you blanked me. Don't know why I bother - irony for ya.

Sorry, I missed it when all this started happening.

Lesson there mate: looking in the wrong places.

lol

There is indeed good advice but I think I missed the one about varies via fab as I only saw one comment mentioning my varies.

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Not sure I'll ever be back.

Being ignored 99% of your time, who cares as these people in reality most of the time are misfits & not worth even looking at.

Well I don't expect replies anymore and yeah I've learnt to do what I like/not force anything.

I think I'm a fuss pot and get turned off/bored very easily. Bit that's me

As long as you don't do one of those dramatic attention seeking leaving threads - "I'm leaving Fab cos" blah blah then it's all groovy.

Peace be with you:

Haha oh I know exactly what you mean and rest assured I will not. We all know everyone is back anyway.

I wasn't only referring to forums. Messages are draining. Hence the break. I come here from time to time. This thread has been quite nice and then I'll hide again for a bit. All good

I know what you mean when it comes to messaging. It makes me feel pressured and stressed so I just don't bother.

It's tough. Just enjoy yourself. It's hard here as so many people are aggressive.

I'll do what I can. I think this thread has lost it's purpose as it's been hijacked.

Hijacked by forum bandits?

I'm not in the mood for jokes.

Do you think some bit of fanny will come & offer you a sympathy bonk? You might get lucky mate

I'm not after any sympathy. You know what? I give up. I just wanted some advice but this has become a joke.

Forget it

I totally gave you advice. And you blanked me. Don't know why I bother - irony for ya.

Sorry, I missed it when all this started happening.

Lesson there mate: looking in the wrong places.

lol

There is indeed good advice but I think I missed the one about varies via fab as I only saw one comment mentioning my varies.

I'm alluding to it really, and your own opening post. I had a quick look a them, and it looks like your veris are via club meets, which makes sense given your opening post (ie you are fine in clubs but are finding it hard to meet from fab). But maybe they are from fab social meets too I don't really know. My first advice stands anyway, there is a limited amount you can do on Fab really, after that it's plain perseverance and then eventually ending up on the forum!

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

"*swings handbag

Don’t mind me. Just practicing. "

My auntie broke a guy's nose with a handbag.

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By *unandgamegeek OP Man
over a year ago

Bolton

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By *unandgamegeek OP Man
over a year ago

Bolton

I'm sorry everyone. I do appreciate the advice. It just when things start getting me down, I end up feeling negative and worthless. I lose sight of all the good things in my life and it sucks.

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By *unandgamegeek OP Man
over a year ago

Bolton

Not sure I'll ever be back.

Being ignored 99% of your time, who cares as these people in reality most of the time are misfits & not worth even looking at.

Well I don't expect replies anymore and yeah I've learnt to do what I like/not force anything.

I think I'm a fuss pot and get turned off/bored very easily. Bit that's me

As long as you don't do one of those dramatic attention seeking leaving threads - "I'm leaving Fab cos" blah blah then it's all groovy.

Peace be with you:

Haha oh I know exactly what you mean and rest assured I will not. We all know everyone is back anyway.

I wasn't only referring to forums. Messages are draining. Hence the break. I come here from time to time. This thread has been quite nice and then I'll hide again for a bit. All good

I know what you mean when it comes to messaging. It makes me feel pressured and stressed so I just don't bother.

It's tough. Just enjoy yourself. It's hard here as so many people are aggressive.

I'll do what I can. I think this thread has lost it's purpose as it's been hijacked.

Hijacked by forum bandits?

I'm not in the mood for jokes.

Do you think some bit of fanny will come & offer you a sympathy bonk? You might get lucky mate

I'm not after any sympathy. You know what? I give up. I just wanted some advice but this has become a joke.

Forget it

I totally gave you advice. And you blanked me. Don't know why I bother - irony for ya.

Sorry, I missed it when all this started happening.

Lesson there mate: looking in the wrong places.

lol

There is indeed good advice but I think I missed the one about varies via fab as I only saw one comment mentioning my varies.

pt "

They're mainly meets at clubs.

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

"I'm sorry everyone. I do appreciate the advice. It just when things start getting me down, I end up feeling negative and worthless. I lose sight of all the good things in my life and it sucks."

I can only speak for myself, but it's all good. You are allowed to feel down, you are human.

I hope it picks up for you.

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

"I'm sorry everyone. I do appreciate the advice. It just when things start getting me down, I end up feeling negative and worthless. I lose sight of all the good things in my life and it sucks."

I lose site like that sometimes. I think the better you get at thinking your way back in, the better the effect will be when you do it. I was mopey this week and I apologised to a couple of people today (I was totally unprepared for something). Everything is like a habit in a way I think. pt

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By *unandgamegeek OP Man
over a year ago

Bolton

"I'm sorry everyone. I do appreciate the advice. It just when things start getting me down, I end up feeling negative and worthless. I lose sight of all the good things in my life and it sucks.

All I can do is try to sleep it off and hope to feel better in the morning.

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By *unandgamegeek OP Man
over a year ago

Bolton

"I'm sorry everyone. I do appreciate the advice. It just when things start getting me down, I end up feeling negative and worthless. I lose sight of all the good things in my life and it sucks.

I can only speak for myself, but it's all good. You are allowed to feel down, you are human.

I hope it picks up for you."

Thanks

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By *ick-Dastardly-Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.

Then forum Bandits are naughty peeps.

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By *ick-Dastardly-Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.

"I'm sorry everyone. I do appreciate the advice. It just when things start getting me down, I end up feeling negative and worthless. I lose sight of all the good things in my life and it sucks.

I can only speak for myself, but it's all good. You are allowed to feel down, you are human.

I hope it picks up for you.

Thanks"

Minimum effort, maximum satisfaction.

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By *ab FunstersCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

"You've just made me think....

Clubs might be far simpler than fab.

I can just leave after, no strings.

Exactly this..works better for us.

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

Nah, just keep being you.. we can't all be everyone's cup of tea. I'm pretty sure the right person will come along. In the meantime, just stick to clubs, reach out and say hi to people, and who knows right?

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By *sername already in useMan
over a year ago

manchester

Treat em’ mean, keep em’ keen, or…. And this is the preferred option, just care less

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I remember fab when I first joined it was so bloody great.

I still like it as a rule but meeting in clubs is far easier.

The forums have always been clicky I get ignored most of the time I do not care. I post to what I want to then leave to go about my day now.

I let people to carry on as they're and not let it affect me and my mood. Some people have been lovely and some just ignore that is their prerogative.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I don't make any effort to meet, I find it hard to connect online, the organised socials are much easier to meet people so we tend to just do that.

Chatting to people at face value is so much easier for me than trying to small talk via messages I never know if there's any full attraction from me until meeting in person.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"*swings handbag

Don’t mind me. Just practicing.

My auntie broke a guy's nose with a handbag."

Was she carrying a brick in it?

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Just focus on your profile OP, make it the best you can then let it do the work for you while you get on with your life

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Dear God.

That's 26 minutes of my life I will never get back.

I'm a bit disappointed in myself because I found amusement at the absurdity of two grown men having a playground hissy. They can get on with themselves. They must have been enjoying it. From my perch they looked pretty bloody stupid.

BTW ... it's not a good look when you respond publicl OVER someone who is clearly suffering and there is someone on this thread who is suffering. Their perceptions maybe somewhat different to yours but they are suffering. We've seen it before.

My advice to the O.P.

Grannyfucious she say : - If you want dance you must go into disco not look at pictures of people who say they dance.

That is all Glasshopppppaaaaaaaaa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh I remember fab when I first joined it was so bloody great.

I still like it as a rule but meeting in clubs is far easier.

The forums have always been clicky I get ignored most of the time I do not care. I post to what I want to then leave to go about my day now.

I let people to carry on as they're and not let it affect me and my mood. Some people have been lovely and some just ignore that is their prerogative. "

If there was a Like button for posts it would be better.

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over a year ago

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Damn ..... i've failed my comprehension. I'm not going back to check.

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