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By *ovetolick78 OP   Man
over a year ago

The Shire

Bi men........I mean I was just perusing some morning threads and i came across one comment that shocked me! A gent actually admitted to that if a lady met a bi man it would put him off her. Do we require herding in to a separate room, do we require washing down with dettol and wire wool or do we just accept that it's 2023 and some people are just narrow minded??

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

People have all sorts of 'preferences' and all sorts of reasons for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll post what I said on another thread.

“I’m not really interested in why.

I give my energy to those who include me, and ignore those that exclude me.”

Fab is easy when one embraces the truth that you will never appeal to everyone’s tastes or desires.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

People are allowed to not have sex with anyone they don't want to have sex with for whatever reasons.

Does it have to be a fair and inclusive reason? No.

Don't sleep with people you don't want to sleep with. Don't sleep with people that don't want to sleep with you

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London


"Bi men........I mean I was just perusing some morning threads and i came across one comment that shocked me! A gent actually admitted to that if a lady met a bi man it would put him off her. Do we require herding in to a separate room, do we require washing down with dettol and wire wool or do we just accept that it's 2023 and some people are just narrow minded?? "

Yeah there's also many women that won't meet bi men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bi men........I mean I was just perusing some morning threads and i came across one comment that shocked me! A gent actually admitted to that if a lady met a bi man it would put him off her. Do we require herding in to a separate room, do we require washing down with dettol and wire wool or do we just accept that it's 2023 and some people are just narrow minded?? "

I once had someone message me asking if I fucked black men as I looked the "type that did" and he'd never fuck a woman that fucked black men. There are lots of cunts and arseholes on this site(I don't mean body parts)

Avoid them and find the people that make u happy.

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By *ovetolick78 OP   Man
over a year ago

The Shire


"Bi men........I mean I was just perusing some morning threads and i came across one comment that shocked me! A gent actually admitted to that if a lady met a bi man it would put him off her. Do we require herding in to a separate room, do we require washing down with dettol and wire wool or do we just accept that it's 2023 and some people are just narrow minded??

Yeah there's also many women that won't meet bi men. "

That I understand and respect, but to be put off a person because of someone they've been with in the past. It's still acceptable for women to be bi but not men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember a FWB years ago telling me about this. She said that it’s because anal sex is riskier even with a condom. It is more likely to cause tears and increases the risk of HIV.

So as gay and bi men or more likely to do anal it ups the risk.

Like I said it was something I was told so don’t take it as gospel.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually


" That I understand and respect, but to be put off a person because of someone they've been with in the past. It's still acceptable for women to be bi but not men."

People can be put off by whatever they're put off by. Stop letting it bother you what incompatible people's reasons are. It doesn't matter.

I have known several people who have said they wouldn't be with me because I'm bi. It may be less common for women to be rejected for it than men, but it still happens.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

People be people. People should stop being nasty to and about people but let's face it, that's unlikely.

But I'm cracking up at wire brush and dettol... and shall now be watching Billy Connolly again while painting today. Thanks OP

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

I mean the herding into a room would be helpful as it would be easier for me to find you then

But yeah for a swinging site, there are some very closed minded people. But each to their own!

Now this room.....

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By *ovetolick78 OP   Man
over a year ago

The Shire


"People be people. People should stop being nasty to and about people but let's face it, that's unlikely.

But I'm cracking up at wire brush and dettol... and shall now be watching Billy Connolly again while painting today. Thanks OP "

Glad you spotted the reference.

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By *ovetolick78 OP   Man
over a year ago

The Shire


"I mean the herding into a room would be helpful as it would be easier for me to find you then

But yeah for a swinging site, there are some very closed minded people. But each to their own!

Now this room....."

Trouble is theyed have to admit to being bi to enter and no be "fab straight"

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish


"I mean the herding into a room would be helpful as it would be easier for me to find you then

But yeah for a swinging site, there are some very closed minded people. But each to their own!

Now this room.....

Trouble is theyed have to admit to being bi to enter and no be "fab straight" "

Exactly, it's a great filter and everyone in here is because they want to be. Some of my hottest rent free moments involve bi men

J

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By *ovetolick78 OP   Man
over a year ago

The Shire


"I mean the herding into a room would be helpful as it would be easier for me to find you then

But yeah for a swinging site, there are some very closed minded people. But each to their own!

Now this room.....

Trouble is theyed have to admit to being bi to enter and no be "fab straight"

Exactly, it's a great filter and everyone in here is because they want to be. Some of my hottest rent free moments involve bi men

J"

Well that sounds like my kind of moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing is wrong with bi men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I remember a FWB years ago telling me about this. She said that it’s because anal sex is riskier even with a condom. It is more likely to cause tears and increases the risk of HIV.

So as gay and bi men or more likely to do anal it ups the risk.

Like I said it was something I was told so don’t take it as gospel."

I think it might be this.

It's another reason why I imagine others are put off by race or interracial affairs.

https://www.gov.uk/guidance/hiv-migrant-health-guide

I remember being curious when some health related immigration questions were centred around whether "I'd recently come from Africa" so I looked up why.

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By *rBeejayMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I mean the herding into a room would be helpful as it would be easier for me to find you then

But yeah for a swinging site, there are some very closed minded people. But each to their own!

Now this room.....

Trouble is theyed have to admit to being bi to enter and no be "fab straight" "

Yes, otherewise it'd be like the Bisexual rooms on here lol

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Pity the convoluted brain dynamics that they've been through, trying to estimate and assess the sexual obscenities that were enjoyed, even if they weren't.

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