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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If you had any of course.

Who did the cooking?

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

me always like to cook,,

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Swanage

We shared it i like to cook

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

We both did but mainly him as he actually enjoyed it and was damn good at it. I did the baking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me, always.

I love to cook.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They did (mostly)

Both of us

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By *tanley FunseekerMan
over a year ago

stanley

Shared, as with all the other household type stuff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me, I like

To cook and experiment with recipes, my ex wasn’t that good at cooking. Sh was threat and planning and booking amazing travel

Ideas though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve done the cooking, I do enjoy it though! Although both my exes had dirty dish blindness! So I’d do the washing up too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ex husband married me for my cooking skills

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

Previous relationship, I did.

Now, we both share but Becky will agree that I’m the better cook.

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania

Mostly me.

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

Wasn't me.. I only learn to properly cook when we got divorced. I won't say I'm now equivalent to Gordon Ramsey but I no longer Burn food

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By *dward_TeagueMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Me, I really enjoy cooking.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I’d say I do 90% of the cooking.

C is probably the better cook (she doesn’t follow recipes) but she’s busier usually with work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only ever been in a relationship with Mr

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

o o OO o o

Them. I wholeheartedly view cooking as a chore. I only cook for my children.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Me. Well, no. In one he did the majority of cooking when we didn't eat out. Generally, I can count on one hand the amount of times someone's cooked for me in a relationship. I love cooking, it's a love language for me.

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By *hrisukbishareCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"We both did but mainly him as he actually enjoyed it and was damn good at it. I did the baking

Love the sharing and love your profile. Some of the sexiest shots I've seen. Not 5/10.

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By *hrisukbishareCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I tend to do the roasts and things my Nan taught me. K dies stir fries and amazing made up use up dishes.

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By *cott73Man
over a year ago

brighton

All this talk of cooking, I've got the pan on.

Who fancies a round of bacon sarnies?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All this talk of cooking, I've got the pan on.

Who fancies a round of bacon sarnies?"

Yes please, though I had a burger last night, so probably not good to have all that processed meat.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

Always shared.

Now, he likes to cook as he prefers it to washing up...but he's the messiest cook

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Me, always. Even when I married a chef

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By *annibal_LickedherMan
over a year ago

north

50/50

I enjoy cooking but I’ve been in relationships with people who are good at cooking.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"Always shared.

Now, he likes to cook as he prefers it to washing up...but he's the messiest cook

A creative process can be messy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did ha in literally every single one

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By *hastityPleasureGiverMan
over a year ago

Rotherham

I have done most of the cooking in all my relationships

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

It was shared. Now it’s mainly me as T works long hours.

J x

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Some me, some her, some shared.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The chef

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

"If you had any of course.

Who did the cooking? "

Shared PW, shared!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you had any of course.

Who did the cooking? "

We both did, but I thoroughly enjoyed when the ex did the cooking as he was a good cook (ex husband of 22 yrs didnt do any cooking)

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

I do the cooking. Relationships where I didn’t have been the ones that didn’t work out. Coincidence? I don’t think so.

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By *ornyguyMan
over a year ago

Hillsborough, NI

I can't say I can cook; I can make meals, but things need to come from a tin, jar or packet.

When I lived on my own I felt I was perfectly fine and made decent meals for myself. Now I live with my partner, she does the dinner but complains about doing it, but when I go to make something, everything I suggest has a negative response and often what I do make is criticised in some way. So I can't really win there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've only ever been in a relationship with Mr

And before me you just jumped from victim to victim

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

90% me with the only man I've lived with. But my ex-boyfriend always cooked for me and I loved him for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both of us

I enjoyed cooking and she didn’t so she tended to do the quick meals and I’d do the sit down ones.

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By *aidbacklover2021Man
over a year ago

perth

Cest moi I'm the Gordon Ramsey in our house

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

Shared, probably mostly me with my wife over the years but that was due to her having an eating disorder for a long period.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Previous relationship, took it in turns with the majority down to her as I got back late.

I actually enjoy cooking, I'm rather good at it too. So the weekends were BBQs setup by me after marinating the meats. Or a chicken/lamb/beef curry or stew n rice.

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By *untimes wantedMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Me I do all the cooking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a man cook for me for the first time today, and it was the most lovely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't trust other people to cook.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

Mostly me. I’m my last relationship, he did some simpler stuff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you had any of course.

Who did the cooking? "

Didn’t live with anyone until my current relationship/marriage, so with previous girlfriends it was usually both of us.

Now, I do all the cooking

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By *he_Horny_VariantMan
over a year ago

manchester

In the last relationship we both cooked, she did most. Deal was whoever cooked the other person cleans up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't trust other people to cook."

You must've eaten out once in a while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my most recent relationship I did the cooking purely because they never did and it was often complained about

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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago

london stratford

"If you had any of course.

Who did the cooking? "
I always did the cooking in my marriage as she, the ex wife, did the cleaning. I am a crap cleaner but not a bad cook! so that was the deal.

The last long term relationship was a woman from another swing web site. She would come to me every weekend and I always cooked then too!

Weird thing is, now I am single and do not have the company at home. I very rarely cook a proper meal! all frozen microwave meals for a saddo like me,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you had any of course.

Who did the cooking? I always did the cooking in my marriage as she, the ex wife, did the cleaning. I am a crap cleaner but not a bad cook! so that was the deal.

The last long term relationship was a woman from another swing web site. She would come to me every weekend and I always cooked then too!

Weird thing is, now I am single and do not have the company at home. I very rarely cook a proper meal! all frozen microwave meals for a saddo like me, "

You cook Gary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't trust other people to cook."

Are chicken nuggets that hard to get right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've only ever been in a relationship with Mr

And before me you just jumped from victim to victim "

I wanted no strings attached sex. I was far too busy at school for a relationship

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I've only ever been in a relationship with Mr

And before me you just jumped from victim to victim

I wanted no strings attached sex. I was far too busy at school for a relationship

Nerd!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've only ever been in a relationship with Mr

And before me you just jumped from victim to victim

I wanted no strings attached sex. I was far too busy at school for a relationship

Nerd! "

A star student

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I've only ever been in a relationship with Mr

And before me you just jumped from victim to victim

I wanted no strings attached sex. I was far too busy at school for a relationship

Nerd!

A star student

That's what I said, Nerd!

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By *ekezza and BilfCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

My (bilf) ex never cooked, she also never helped with the food shopping, one time after a 13 hour work day she still expected me to cook, and half way through me doing so ordered a takeaway. Now we split it fairly even. Some nights I cook if Kez is busy, others she cooks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My (bilf) ex never cooked, she also never helped with the food shopping, one time after a 13 hour work day she still expected me to cook, and half way through me doing so ordered a takeaway. Now we split it fairly even. Some nights I cook if Kez is busy, others she cooks."

Sounds familiar in some ways that

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By *inkyDom96Man
over a year ago

Yarmouth

Always been me, i love cooking… not so much of a fan of washing up after tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't trust other people to cook.

You must've eaten out once in a while

That's professional people. Normal people, no.

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

"I don't trust other people to cook.

You must've eaten out once in a while

That's professional people. Normal people, no. "

Nonsense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't trust other people to cook.

You must've eaten out once in a while

That's professional people. Normal people, no.

Nonsense "

True!! I have a weird thing about people making me food.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't trust other people to cook.

You must've eaten out once in a while

That's professional people. Normal people, no.

Nonsense

True!! I have a weird thing about people making me food. "

It's alright you can cook

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Domino’s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't trust other people to cook.

You must've eaten out once in a while

That's professional people. Normal people, no.

Nonsense

True!! I have a weird thing about people making me food.

It's alright you can cook "

We're eating out!

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

I'm not great, so mostly other people when there's been opportunity.

Mrs TMN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't trust other people to cook.

You must've eaten out once in a while

That's professional people. Normal people, no.

Nonsense

True!! I have a weird thing about people making me food.

It's alright you can cook

We're eating out!"

Even better, fuck the washing up I say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't trust other people to cook.

You must've eaten out once in a while

That's professional people. Normal people, no.

Nonsense

True!! I have a weird thing about people making me food.

It's alright you can cook

We're eating out!

Even better, fuck the washing up I say "

You'll be busy fucking other things.

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By *aissez-faireMan
over a year ago

Right behind you…. Boo

Mostly me. I found it a good way to decompress (yes I hate they term too) after work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't trust other people to cook.

You must've eaten out once in a while

That's professional people. Normal people, no.

Nonsense

True!! I have a weird thing about people making me food.

It's alright you can cook

We're eating out!

Even better, fuck the washing up I say

You'll be busy fucking other things.

Like my knees

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By *oneybee1001Woman
over a year ago

Around and about

Totally me, I love cooking and make great food, the kitchen is a happy place for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me. But that may be one of my deal breakers for a new relationship. He has to cook (but be good at it)

I also dont want to be the washer upper if Im not the cook.

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By *panksspankedMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Always shared. I've always enjoyed cooking.

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By *hiteWitchXXXWoman
over a year ago

North Wales

Him because he was by far the better cook

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Sweet baby Jesus, me. It's a practical thing, not a fucking production.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can tell you who does the cooking in this relationship. Me! I enjoy my food without a dash of food poisoning

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

I love cooking. Did most of it while I was married but not so much now I live by myself

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By *ick-Dastardly-Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.

"If you had any of course.

Who did the cooking? "

It's the woman's job & to make my sandwiches.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I love cooking. Did most of it while I was married but not so much now I live by myself

That's interesting. I do just as much cooking on my own.

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By *unnesscoupleMan
over a year ago

around

Me - and I clean up as I go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mostly me and that’s still the way lol

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Me but I enjoyed it and knew she enjoyed my cooking as well as her kid I did huge percent of everything which I didn't mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me, always

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By *ick-Dastardly-Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.

"Me, always "

As it should be

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Bradford and Stockport

I cook.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"I can tell you who does the cooking in this relationship. Me! I enjoy my food without a dash of food poisoning

Hang on. Is this Mr Shiv’s first post on the forums?

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane

My hubby can't even boil an egg.lol

So all cooking on Me

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By *otlips322020Woman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I burn food me hats probably why I’m single

Ha ha ha

X x

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By *echnosonic_BrummieMan
over a year ago

Willenhall

Me.

I always knew which end of the knife to hold and which chopping board was for red meat, poultry, fish, vegetables etc.

And I know how to pre-heat an oven.

Oh, and stop looking at my wok! Only "I" know how to use that properly!!

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By *ylonlover87Man
over a year ago

Brighton

"If you had any of course.

Who did the cooking? "

Always me I like to cook

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By *unchalMan
over a year ago

Dartford

"If you had any of course.

Who did the cooking? "

Me. I'm a good cook.

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By *romleyM41Man
over a year ago

orpington / surrounding

When I was with my ex wife she used to moan that she did all the cooking but every time I went into the kitchen she would watch over me like a hawk and if I didn’t do it how she did then it was wrong so she would get the hump and tell me she would cook.

Since then I’ve done all the cooking from Sunday roasts to Christmas dinner for 9 and everything in between, oddly enough not had any complaints at all so something tells me perhaps she might have just be a little controlling.

I enjoy cooking so no complaints about doing it now

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

My ex used to cook, the Mr now does the cooking mostly, I wash the pots and clean it all up.

I think I'm a shit cook, least I'm an ok pot washer!

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Due to me getting home from work later, my ex done most of the cooking.

I do enjoy cooking though

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

I’ve never had a relationship with a man who can actually cook.

That may be a sub-conscious thing as I am such a control freak in my kitchen that I can’t stand anyone in it with me

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

We shared. I'm quite good at lasagne, tacos and eggy bread. Yeah, basically a frying pan with mince or eggs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can tell you who does the cooking in this relationship. Me! I enjoy my food without a dash of food poisoning

Hang on. Is this Mr Shiv’s first post on the forums?"

Oh we’re going to fall out

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