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By *rJ88888 OP   Man
over a year ago

London/Cardiff

Joined over a year ago. Had a few meets that were lovely, the women I’ve met on here have all been absolutely amazing and lovely. Unfortunately women like that are as rare as they come on this site. Fab has now become as shallow and snobby as any other dating app. And don’t give me that bollocks “Awh men are trash and horrible so why should I be”….your choices in men doesn’t justify treated the rest of us like trash. Like we’re all here to meet people, make connections and yes, have great sex. You can be as kind and as genuine as possible, you’re getting blocked regardless. Girls you need to sort it out because we can’t all be bad….

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Aw. Bless.

Good luck out there OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do they treat you like trash? Or just say no?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP you had a meet this month so what you’re saying is….what exactly?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They ain’t ruined anything for me.

Quite the opposite actually. They make my fab time fuckin awesome.

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By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

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By *rJ88888 OP   Man
over a year ago

London/Cardiff


"Do they treat you like trash? Or just say no?"

I bet you’ve never had anyone reply “eww”

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Why do you find it shallow and snobby OP? That's a genuine question, not snark.

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
over a year ago

Essex

I’m going to sit on my hands. This is not the right day for me to comment.

(Breathe Misty, breathe)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do they treat you like trash? Or just say no?

I bet you’ve never had anyone reply “eww” "

Actually yes I have. I’ve been called chubby, fat, selfish, fake, irresponsible, and many more. I don’t let it make me hate all men tho

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Is there an echo in here we had this thread before .

Try been been here for ten years youl soon not change your tune .but that fab for you. There always forums ah youd worked that one out .

I'll just settle down with some pop corn then .

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton


"Joined over a year ago. Had a few meets that were lovely, the women I’ve met on here have all been absolutely amazing and lovely. Unfortunately women like that are as rare as they come on this site. Fab has now become as shallow and snobby as any other dating app. And don’t give me that bollocks “Awh men are trash and horrible so why should I be”….your choices in men doesn’t justify treated the rest of us like trash. Like we’re all here to meet people, make connections and yes, have great sex. You can be as kind and as genuine as possible, you’re getting blocked regardless. Girls you need to sort it out because we can’t all be bad…."

And not all women are bad and need to "sort it out" .... I joined around 18 months ago and it took ages and lots of being fucked about before I started getting half sensible messages from people wanting to meet...

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By *rJ88888 OP   Man
over a year ago

London/Cardiff


"Why do you find it shallow and snobby OP? That's a genuine question, not snark."

It’s the same bullshit. Like if you just messaged me “sorry not interested” that’s fine. But that’s not what’s happening. It’s either immediate block or a horrible comment. And the only thing I usually as is something cheeky like “you seem like a lot of fun” or something. Like I don’t get it.

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Carlisle


"Do they treat you like trash? Or just say no?

I bet you’ve never had anyone reply “eww” "

Only when i send a face pic ‘ewwww were you in a chip pan fire or something?’ Is the usual one or ‘whoa - you’re a three-bagger!!’ Grandparents have no filter do they?

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

They don't fancy you!!!

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton


"Do they treat you like trash? Or just say no?

I bet you’ve never had anyone reply “eww” "

I did get to fuck off with my mental health once...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh dear.

Just because we are on a sex site, doesn't mean we have to have sex with anyone who asks.

If lots of woman are saying no OP, then I'm afraid the common denominator is you.

Perhaps your approach needs some work

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By *UFSWoman
over a year ago

belfast


"Joined over a year ago. Had a few meets that were lovely, the women I’ve met on here have all been absolutely amazing and lovely. Unfortunately women like that are as rare as they come on this site. Fab has now become as shallow and snobby as any other dating app. And don’t give me that bollocks “Awh men are trash and horrible so why should I be”….your choices in men doesn’t justify treated the rest of us like trash. Like we’re all here to meet people, make connections and yes, have great sex. You can be as kind and as genuine as possible, you’re getting blocked regardless. Girls you need to sort it out because we can’t all be bad…."

From your post,all I can see is boohoo.

Grow up

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"Do they treat you like trash? Or just say no?

I bet you’ve never had anyone reply “eww” "

Quite often. At least once or twice a week in response to my no thank you

Doesn't put me off seeing what other people are out there.

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton


"Why do you find it shallow and snobby OP? That's a genuine question, not snark.

It’s the same bullshit. Like if you just messaged me “sorry not interested” that’s fine. But that’s not what’s happening. It’s either immediate block or a horrible comment. And the only thing I usually as is something cheeky like “you seem like a lot of fun” or something. Like I don’t get it. "

I think you need to have a thick skim on here....

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton


"Why do you find it shallow and snobby OP? That's a genuine question, not snark.

It’s the same bullshit. Like if you just messaged me “sorry not interested” that’s fine. But that’s not what’s happening. It’s either immediate block or a horrible comment. And the only thing I usually as is something cheeky like “you seem like a lot of fun” or something. Like I don’t get it. "

Why is being blocked a problem? Because they didn't tell you why?

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By *rJ88888 OP   Man
over a year ago

London/Cardiff


"Joined over a year ago. Had a few meets that were lovely, the women I’ve met on here have all been absolutely amazing and lovely. Unfortunately women like that are as rare as they come on this site. Fab has now become as shallow and snobby as any other dating app. And don’t give me that bollocks “Awh men are trash and horrible so why should I be”….your choices in men doesn’t justify treated the rest of us like trash. Like we’re all here to meet people, make connections and yes, have great sex. You can be as kind and as genuine as possible, you’re getting blocked regardless. Girls you need to sort it out because we can’t all be bad….

From your post,all I can see is boohoo.

Grow up"

Sigh* as usual you don’t get it

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By *rJ88888 OP   Man
over a year ago

London/Cardiff


"Why do you find it shallow and snobby OP? That's a genuine question, not snark.

It’s the same bullshit. Like if you just messaged me “sorry not interested” that’s fine. But that’s not what’s happening. It’s either immediate block or a horrible comment. And the only thing I usually as is something cheeky like “you seem like a lot of fun” or something. Like I don’t get it.

Why is being blocked a problem? Because they didn't tell you why? "

It’s just unnecessary

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By *nimaginativeUsernameMan
over a year ago

Rochester, Kent

This site isn’t for everyone. If you think it ‘sucks’, then leave.

One thing I’ve noticed on here is that moaners don’t get much sympathy.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Joined over a year ago. Had a few meets that were lovely, the women I’ve met on here have all been absolutely amazing and lovely. Unfortunately women like that are as rare as they come on this site. Fab has now become as shallow and snobby as any other dating app. And don’t give me that bollocks “Awh men are trash and horrible so why should I be”….your choices in men doesn’t justify treated the rest of us like trash. Like we’re all here to meet people, make connections and yes, have great sex. You can be as kind and as genuine as possible, you’re getting blocked regardless. Girls you need to sort it out because we can’t all be bad…."

Hi op

Also need to be an attraction otherwise why waste time and miss the opportunity to find someone to sprinkle thy drizzle

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

OP is there something on your ceiling that’s particularly interesting ?

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By *rJ88888 OP   Man
over a year ago

London/Cardiff


"Do they treat you like trash? Or just say no?

I bet you’ve never had anyone reply “eww”

Actually yes I have. I’ve been called chubby, fat, selfish, fake, irresponsible, and many more. I don’t let it make me hate all men tho "

Well I’m sorry that someone’s said that to you, truly unnecessary and horrible.

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By *UFSWoman
over a year ago

belfast


"Joined over a year ago. Had a few meets that were lovely, the women I’ve met on here have all been absolutely amazing and lovely. Unfortunately women like that are as rare as they come on this site. Fab has now become as shallow and snobby as any other dating app. And don’t give me that bollocks “Awh men are trash and horrible so why should I be”….your choices in men doesn’t justify treated the rest of us like trash. Like we’re all here to meet people, make connections and yes, have great sex. You can be as kind and as genuine as possible, you’re getting blocked regardless. Girls you need to sort it out because we can’t all be bad….

From your post,all I can see is boohoo.

Grow up

Sigh* as usual you don’t get it "

And obviously neither do you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Horrible comments and blocks?

It happens, there’s not much point in whining about it. Consider it a lucky escape instead. That you found out their vibe before you fucked ‘em. I’d rather call that winning really. Dunno what you’re complaining for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do they treat you like trash? Or just say no?

I bet you’ve never had anyone reply “eww” "

No offence but 'eww' is mild

Try being a woman here

We go from being a hot and wanted woman to a fat slag in 2 seconds flat when we turn men down

Sorry love, I think you need to toughen up a bit

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton


"Why do you find it shallow and snobby OP? That's a genuine question, not snark.

It’s the same bullshit. Like if you just messaged me “sorry not interested” that’s fine. But that’s not what’s happening. It’s either immediate block or a horrible comment. And the only thing I usually as is something cheeky like “you seem like a lot of fun” or something. Like I don’t get it.

Why is being blocked a problem? Because they didn't tell you why?

It’s just unnecessary "

Why? They aren't interested in you and don't want you possibly contacting them again... I don't see the problem... I block people I don't want any contact with,otherwise they show in searches etc and that is a waste of my time... Amd theirs

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
over a year ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders


"Joined over a year ago. Had a few meets that were lovely, the women I’ve met on here have all been absolutely amazing and lovely. Unfortunately women like that are as rare as they come on this site. Fab has now become as shallow and snobby as any other dating app. And don’t give me that bollocks “Awh men are trash and horrible so why should I be”….your choices in men doesn’t justify treated the rest of us like trash. Like we’re all here to meet people, make connections and yes, have great sex. You can be as kind and as genuine as possible, you’re getting blocked regardless. Girls you need to sort it out because we can’t all be bad…."

So you've met some amazing women and lovely women and also some shallow and snobby ones

So you're doing OK then are you not? You're not going to be for everyone. And everyone has different attributes some positive some negative. It's Fab

What do you define as treating you like trash?

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By *ebaucherous_duoCouple
over a year ago

Bristol/ Daventry

Perhaps thinking of this as a dating site is what might be the start of your dissonance? Have a Google of Swinging or “the Lifestyle”.

If you’re only looking for women, your Venn diagram is tiny to start with, not to mention that there are tens if not hundreds (area depending), of alternatives from them to chose from. With such choice, people tend to fall back on things that make it easier to compare… ergo perceivably shallow attributes. good luck out there. Tinder, whiplr, et al. Might have more success for you.

Xx ms

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By *rJ88888 OP   Man
over a year ago

London/Cardiff


"Do they treat you like trash? Or just say no?

I bet you’ve never had anyone reply “eww”

No offence but 'eww' is mild

Try being a woman here

We go from being a hot and wanted woman to a fat slag in 2 seconds flat when we turn men down

Sorry love, I think you need to toughen up a bit"

I said eww as just an example, I’ve been sent ALOT worse. Regardless this is a losing battle I can see. Thanks for the input

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

"Girls need to sort it out" do they?!

Poor op, maybe just have a wank.

Mrs

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By *rJ88888 OP   Man
over a year ago

London/Cardiff

It’s clear I’m in the wrong. I’ll stop talking now. Everyone have a good weekend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I totally agree with you.

How dare these little women act the way they do! I mean, who could possibly resist you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"Why do you find it shallow and snobby OP? That's a genuine question, not snark.

It’s the same bullshit. Like if you just messaged me “sorry not interested” that’s fine. But that’s not what’s happening. It’s either immediate block or a horrible comment. And the only thing I usually as is something cheeky like “you seem like a lot of fun” or something. Like I don’t get it.

Why is being blocked a problem? Because they didn't tell you why?

It’s just unnecessary "

But it isn't harming you any? You sent a message, recipient wasn't interested and they removed the possibility of you sending another message.

Why is that snobby? Genuinely curious as to why that is snobby?

MrsAbz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Joined over a year ago. Had a few meets that were lovely, the women I’ve met on here have all been absolutely amazing and lovely. Unfortunately women like that are as rare as they come on this site. Fab has now become as shallow and snobby as any other dating app. And don’t give me that bollocks “Awh men are trash and horrible so why should I be”….your choices in men doesn’t justify treated the rest of us like trash. Like we’re all here to meet people, make connections and yes, have great sex. You can be as kind and as genuine as possible, you’re getting blocked regardless. Girls you need to sort it out because we can’t all be bad…."

Your post certainly reeks of maturity.... A 'woe is me' thread will really have us filling up your inbox with "gee fella, you seem like a lot of fun!"

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By *idnight_Express69Man
over a year ago

Rochdale


"Joined over a year ago. Had a few meets that were lovely, the women I’ve met on here have all been absolutely amazing and lovely. Unfortunately women like that are as rare as they come on this site. Fab has now become as shallow and snobby as any other dating app. And don’t give me that bollocks “Awh men are trash and horrible so why should I be”….your choices in men doesn’t justify treated the rest of us like trash. Like we’re all here to meet people, make connections and yes, have great sex. You can be as kind and as genuine as possible, you’re getting blocked regardless. Girls you need to sort it out because we can’t all be bad…."

Have you tried building a bridge and getting over yourself?

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

OP, if you write an opening post like you have done here and complain of Fab responses like "ewwww", then people here are naturally going to assume the problems are likely in what you write rather than the replies you receive.

You are 26 and look fine, you probably don't need Fab (and those 'other sites' too) if online messaging is going this badly for you (and it hardly goes perfectly for anyone!). Good luck out there anyway I say, FS probably isn't for you right now.

pt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Joined over a year ago. Had a few meets that were lovely, the women I’ve met on here have all been absolutely amazing and lovely. Unfortunately women like that are as rare as they come on this site. Fab has now become as shallow and snobby as any other dating app. And don’t give me that bollocks “Awh men are trash and horrible so why should I be”….your choices in men doesn’t justify treated the rest of us like trash. Like we’re all here to meet people, make connections and yes, have great sex. You can be as kind and as genuine as possible, you’re getting blocked regardless. Girls you need to sort it out because we can’t all be bad…."

This is the very reason we want nothing to do with single males under the age of 35.

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By *weet and SpiceCouple
over a year ago

Around the Midlands


"Why do you find it shallow and snobby OP? That's a genuine question, not snark.

It’s the same bullshit. Like if you just messaged me “sorry not interested” that’s fine. But that’s not what’s happening. It’s either immediate block or a horrible comment. And the only thing I usually as is something cheeky like “you seem like a lot of fun” or something. Like I don’t get it. "

We try and respond to actual messages (rather than copy and paste or dick pics) without being rude or blocking as we believe they've gone to some effort. We do block those that become block-worthy in our opinion or don't take no for an answer, which we feel is only fair.

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By *untimes wantedMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield

OP if you have read other threads on this forum there is a good reason why many either don't answer or just ignore/delete messages.Once you reply to a message it means in future if a person changes filters anyone they replied to can still message.

If they block you just take it as a no thank you.And don't try to overthink reason why.

Same as it tells you on fab no reply=no thank you.

As a man who only meets men if the responses women get from replying no thanks to men on here are anything like ones i have had in the past i don't blame them for just block or not reply.

You might be a genuine polite guy that would just accept a polite no thank you,but your just a stranger to everyone on here who does not know you.

sadly a lot of people on this site don't take rejection well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It seems the OPs wagon train is surrounded by those fab injuns........the OP is clearly tired and emotional.

He’ll survive

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

This has gone incredibly well

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By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever


"This has gone incredibly well "

As usual, I’d say.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"This has gone incredibly well

As usual, I’d say."

Research would have shown how this was going to pan out

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"This has gone incredibly well "

I was just enjoying an early Friday evening read of the forums. Good to know that somethings don’t change.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Threads like this get on my tits and I usually ignore them. But no op. Either you suck or the people you message don’t want to meet you. I rarely like anyone and I block everyone who messages me that I’m not interested in. Is that the site fault? No.

Entitled people do my bonce in

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

It went all downhill once Nora arrived on the scene

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By *abriellajackCouple
over a year ago

Newport


"Why do you find it shallow and snobby OP? That's a genuine question, not snark.

It’s the same bullshit. Like if you just messaged me “sorry not interested” that’s fine. But that’s not what’s happening. It’s either immediate block or a horrible comment. And the only thing I usually as is something cheeky like “you seem like a lot of fun” or something. Like I don’t get it. "

If you're opening message is 'you seem like a lot fun' then you haven't stood out at all from the 50 or so other guys that have sent a similar pointless message that day so we would just not reply/delete. There isn't enough time in the day to send polite messages to guys/couples/ladies who haven't spent more than 5 seconds writing their message.

If you don't put the effort in then you can't expect the people YOU have decided to initiate contact with to make much effort either.

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By *rJ88888 OP   Man
over a year ago

London/Cardiff


"This has gone incredibly well

As usual, I’d say."

Yeah I’m defo just keeping my thoughts to myself on here, feels like Alot of you were itching to say something combative and I was just coming from a place of self loathing and being tired of the same shit.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Can not understand why the use of nasty comments it's a form of bullying action from an adult seriously!!!

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

Is "shallow and snobby" code for them not fancying you?

I know it can be tough as a single guy on here, OP, but sounding bitter is never a good look.

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By *itygamesMan
over a year ago

UK

not many seem to like my long hair , i'm growing it longer lol......

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"This has gone incredibly well

As usual, I’d say.

Yeah I’m defo just keeping my thoughts to myself on here, feels like Alot of you were itching to say something combative and I was just coming from a place of self loathing and being tired of the same shit. "

Yep these threads do create traction .

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania


"This has gone incredibly well

As usual, I’d say.

Research would have shown how this was going to pan out "

I bet Sydney University could have told you.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Can not understand why the use of nasty comments it's a form of bullying action from an adult seriously!!!"

Saying women are shallow and snobby and treat men like trash. Yep.

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By *rLothbrokMan
over a year ago

Lancs

It does if you get the meet the right people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This has gone incredibly well

As usual, I’d say.

Yeah I’m defo just keeping my thoughts to myself on here, feels like Alot of you were itching to say something combative and I was just coming from a place of self loathing and being tired of the same shit. "

I think if you'd asked for advice and maybe a little bit of sympathy for the rude messages, you'd have found it. But blaming all women on the site aggressively is never going to go down well- same if I posted that all men here should sort themselves out. It just gets peoples backs up. But no-one deserves to receive rude messages, it's unpleasant. It's on them, not you. Don't let strangers online ruin your day.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"It went all downhill once Nora arrived on the scene"

. I’m off now. Can’t be doing

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By *rJ88888 OP   Man
over a year ago

London/Cardiff

I’ve clearly upset people, I apologise profusely. I promise you this is my LAST forum post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the words of future, ‘it’s a evil world we live in.’

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"This has gone incredibly well

As usual, I’d say.

Yeah I’m defo just keeping my thoughts to myself on here, feels like Alot of you were itching to say something combative and I was just coming from a place of self loathing and being tired of the same shit. "

OP if you are genuinely coming from a place of self loathing then I would really urge you to close the account and move on. This place will _not_ help you - it just won’t.

Take a step back. Take a breath and give it some time.

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By *urious couple22Couple
over a year ago

Derby

We block straight away I get your point it's tough being a single male on here but for us the amount of abuse we get when we say sorry, not interested a lot of guys on here think that because we are on here we instantly want to fuck everybody and unfortunately that isn't the case it's easier to block them and go on about your day if you don't they keep messaging or if you tell them you're not interested they give you abuse.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"Girls you need to sort it out because we can’t all be bad…."

You're 26, mate!

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By *eartsmanMan
over a year ago

southeast , midlands, southern France


"I’m going to sit on my hands. This is not the right day for me to comment.

(Breathe Misty, breathe)"

I'm impressed with your restrength Misty, it must be killing you not to say something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Girls you need to sort it out because we can’t all be bad….

You're 26, mate! "
what’s age got to do with it

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Can not understand why the use of nasty comments it's a form of bullying action from an adult seriously!!!

Saying women are shallow and snobby and treat men like trash. Yep. "

It's his opinion not experience but doesn't make it right to use vulgar language towards the op but by most of the comments you can see shallow

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"This has gone incredibly well

As usual, I’d say.

Yeah I’m defo just keeping my thoughts to myself on here, feels like Alot of you were itching to say something combative and I was just coming from a place of self loathing and being tired of the same shit. "

.

I actually thought you said you were off from here - sorry I clearly just assumed it.

Thing is, you let of steam on a forum like this what do you expect? Entitle a thread 'this site sucks' and you've really got people before they even read your post!

Your post is up and down anyway (like your experience of Fab).

If you've always had amazing meets then you've been really lucky surely?

You go from saying Fab sucks, to saying it's great, to saying it's crap again and girls need to sort themselves out! Such generalisation will pee people off too obviously!

pt

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"Joined over a year ago. Had a few meets that were lovely, the women I’ve met on here have all been absolutely amazing and lovely. Unfortunately women like that are as rare as they come on this site. Fab has now become as shallow and snobby as any other dating app. And don’t give me that bollocks “Awh men are trash and horrible so why should I be”….your choices in men doesn’t justify treated the rest of us like trash. Like we’re all here to meet people, make connections and yes, have great sex. You can be as kind and as genuine as possible, you’re getting blocked regardless. Girls you need to sort it out because we can’t all be bad…."

Op I feel the struggles real for you

BTW no one owes you nice, I get its a respect thing, but again it's not owed or entitled.....

If its having a negative affect on your life, and the way your viewing women, which is evident as you make such a generalisation at the end..maybe have a break from fab

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan
over a year ago

Norwich

You’ll find your diamonds in the rough, you just need to keep trying and stay positive….

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
over a year ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders


"I’ve clearly upset people, I apologise profusely. I promise you this is my LAST forum post. "

Don't worry, honestly. Shit happens and you're only human

Stick about, the forum is for all afterall

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By *enSiskoMan
over a year ago

Cestus 3

Some of the usual suspects I see.

I do not know why these keep on commenting on threads that are the same, and p ss them off so much.

Just leave the thread bare as no reply means no thanks I do not wish to answer your thread due to the receptiveness of it all.

Or does one like to make the O.P feel even worst about themselves.

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By *esafinadOHolyNightMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Start hitting on men OP, that'll improve your chances greatly. I jest, but maybe get yourself to a club or 2 regularly if you can and talk to Fab women in person.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Can not understand why the use of nasty comments it's a form of bullying action from an adult seriously!!!

Saying women are shallow and snobby and treat men like trash. Yep.

It's his opinion not experience but doesn't make it right to use vulgar language towards the op but by most of the comments you can see shallow "

Plus wasn't directed at anyone just an opinion but to be called a prick. Wtf

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

I think this thread has had quite enough oxygen.

Nobody owes you an explanation, a reply, or sex.

Maybe if your pics were not 7 identical top-down images, or you went to clubs instead of relying on Fab meets.

Either way, nobody here is changing anyone's mind, the people that like Fab will continue to like it, the ones that hate it will continue to hate it and eventually leave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve clearly upset people, I apologise profusely. I promise you this is my LAST forum post.

Don't worry, honestly. Shit happens and you're only human

Stick about, the forum is for all afterall"

Is it really though?

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I'm neither shallow nor snobby.

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
over a year ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders


"I’ve clearly upset people, I apologise profusely. I promise you this is my LAST forum post.

Don't worry, honestly. Shit happens and you're only human

Stick about, the forum is for all afterall

Is it really though?"

I thought it was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve clearly upset people, I apologise profusely. I promise you this is my LAST forum post.

Don't worry, honestly. Shit happens and you're only human

Stick about, the forum is for all afterall

Is it really though?

I thought it was "

Many lols

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can not understand why the use of nasty comments it's a form of bullying action from an adult seriously!!!

Saying women are shallow and snobby and treat men like trash. Yep.

It's his opinion not experience but doesn't make it right to use vulgar language towards the op but by most of the comments you can see shallow

Plus wasn't directed at anyone just an opinion but to be called a prick. Wtf"

Have you not figured out that the Forum is mainly gang mentality?

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan
over a year ago

Norwich


"Can not understand why the use of nasty comments it's a form of bullying action from an adult seriously!!!

Saying women are shallow and snobby and treat men like trash. Yep.

It's his opinion not experience but doesn't make it right to use vulgar language towards the op but by most of the comments you can see shallow

Plus wasn't directed at anyone just an opinion but to be called a prick. Wtf

Have you not figured out that the Forum is mainly gang mentality?

"

Certainly seems prone to pile-ons and keyboard-warrioring….

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
over a year ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders


"Can not understand why the use of nasty comments it's a form of bullying action from an adult seriously!!!

Saying women are shallow and snobby and treat men like trash. Yep.

It's his opinion not experience but doesn't make it right to use vulgar language towards the op but by most of the comments you can see shallow

Plus wasn't directed at anyone just an opinion but to be called a prick. Wtf

Have you not figured out that the Forum is mainly gang mentality?

"

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Some of the usual suspects I see.

I do not know why these keep on commenting on threads that are the same, and p ss them off so much.

Just leave the thread bare as no reply means no thanks I do not wish to answer your thread due to the receptiveness of it all.

Or does one like to make the O.P feel even worst about themselves.

"

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I don't think the OP is exactly suicidal lol. pt

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World


"I’ve clearly upset people, I apologise profusely. I promise you this is my LAST forum post.

Don't worry, honestly. Shit happens and you're only human

Stick about, the forum is for all afterall

Is it really though?"

Yes, it is.

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

I actually live for pile-ons on pile-ons.

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
over a year ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders


"I actually live for pile-ons on pile-ons."

What about pylons?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some of the usual suspects I see.

I do not know why these keep on commenting on threads that are the same, and p ss them off so much.

Just leave the thread bare as no reply means no thanks I do not wish to answer your thread due to the receptiveness of it all.

Or does one like to make the O.P feel even worst about themselves.

.

I don't think the OP is exactly suicidal lol. pt"

I'm glad you're so certain of his mental state and find it humourous.... Jeez

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"Girls you need to sort it out because we can’t all be bad….

You're 26, mate! what’s age got to do with it"

It tends to suggest a level of maturity above that shown in the initial post.

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By *enSiskoMan
over a year ago

Cestus 3


"Start hitting on men OP, that'll improve your chances greatly. I jest, but maybe get yourself to a club or 2 regularly if you can and talk to Fab women in person."

If you were the O.P would you go to a club after the very people who may be there are here as well, who are just slating him.

As I say these threads keep me well away from clubs, and made me go into the real world to meet real people and not just on line personas.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can not understand why the use of nasty comments it's a form of bullying action from an adult seriously!!!

Saying women are shallow and snobby and treat men like trash. Yep.

It's his opinion not experience but doesn't make it right to use vulgar language towards the op but by most of the comments you can see shallow

Plus wasn't directed at anyone just an opinion but to be called a prick. Wtf

Have you not figured out that the Forum is mainly gang mentality?

Certainly seems prone to pile-ons and keyboard-warrioring…."

And you've only just figured this out?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Start hitting on men OP, that'll improve your chances greatly. I jest, but maybe get yourself to a club or 2 regularly if you can and talk to Fab women in person.

If you were the O.P would you go to a club after the very people who may be there are here as well, who are just slating him.

As I say these threads keep me well away from clubs, and made me go into the real world to meet real people and not just on line personas. "

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Can not understand why the use of nasty comments it's a form of bullying action from an adult seriously!!!

Saying women are shallow and snobby and treat men like trash. Yep.

It's his opinion not experience but doesn't make it right to use vulgar language towards the op but by most of the comments you can see shallow

Plus wasn't directed at anyone just an opinion but to be called a prick. Wtf

Have you not figured out that the Forum is mainly gang mentality?

"

I'm familiar with keyboard warriors whom don't have the bottle to say it in public pretty shallow within themselves an embarrassment a herd of sheep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I actually live for pile-ons on pile-ons.

What about pylons?

"

Have you seen this month's issue of Pylons Monthly magazine?

It has some shocking images.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Well... With an attitude like that, I can see why women might not want to know!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can not understand why the use of nasty comments it's a form of bullying action from an adult seriously!!!

Saying women are shallow and snobby and treat men like trash. Yep.

It's his opinion not experience but doesn't make it right to use vulgar language towards the op but by most of the comments you can see shallow

Plus wasn't directed at anyone just an opinion but to be called a prick. Wtf

Have you not figured out that the Forum is mainly gang mentality?

I'm familiar with keyboard warriors whom don't have the bottle to say it in public pretty shallow within themselves an embarrassment a herd of sheep "

Indeed but I guess it makes them feel good about themselves

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"Why do you find it shallow and snobby OP? That's a genuine question, not snark.

It’s the same bullshit. Like if you just messaged me “sorry not interested” that’s fine. But that’s not what’s happening. It’s either immediate block or a horrible comment. And the only thing I usually as is something cheeky like “you seem like a lot of fun” or something. Like I don’t get it. "

Do you know how many times a day we hear that? It's cringe.

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

Well I've no complaints, I'm in contact with some lovely people on here, and when the time is right, each and everyone of them will be invited for a seaside break combined with a sexy get together.

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Some of the usual suspects I see.

I do not know why these keep on commenting on threads that are the same, and p ss them off so much.

Just leave the thread bare as no reply means no thanks I do not wish to answer your thread due to the receptiveness of it all.

Or does one like to make the O.P feel even worst about themselves.

.

I don't think the OP is exactly suicidal lol. pt

I'm glad you're so certain of his mental state and find it humourous.... Jeez

"

Do you really think he is that bad? PM him maybe. Reading the OP I couldn't see much but frustration.

pt

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By *adore AnthonyMan
over a year ago

Swindon


"Do they treat you like trash? Or just say no?

I bet you’ve never had anyone reply “eww” "

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By *esafinadOHolyNightMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Start hitting on men OP, that'll improve your chances greatly. I jest, but maybe get yourself to a club or 2 regularly if you can and talk to Fab women in person.

If you were the O.P would you go to a club after the very people who may be there are here as well, who are just slating him.

As I say these threads keep me well away from clubs, and made me go into the real world to meet real people and not just on line personas. "

To be honest, yes I would. There would surely be other folk in the clubs who have never interacted with the OP. Also, in person is a whole different game. You get to see people as close to their true selves as possible, asopposed to an online persona.

Purely speculation on my part though lol never made it to a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some of the usual suspects I see.

I do not know why these keep on commenting on threads that are the same, and p ss them off so much.

Just leave the thread bare as no reply means no thanks I do not wish to answer your thread due to the receptiveness of it all.

Or does one like to make the O.P feel even worst about themselves.

.

I don't think the OP is exactly suicidal lol. pt

I'm glad you're so certain of his mental state and find it humourous.... Jeez

Do you really think he is that bad? PM him maybe. Reading the OP I couldn't see much but frustration.

pt"

He's had a pm from me, don't worry your pretty little head about that

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By *enSiskoMan
over a year ago

Cestus 3


"Some of the usual suspects I see.

I do not know why these keep on commenting on threads that are the same, and p ss them off so much.

Just leave the thread bare as no reply means no thanks I do not wish to answer your thread due to the receptiveness of it all.

Or does one like to make the O.P feel even worst about themselves.

.

I don't think the OP is exactly suicidal lol. pt

I'm glad you're so certain of his mental state and find it humourous.... Jeez"

When I see so many of these types of threads the usual are their slaging off and misdirecting why.

there must be something to this as so many post about it, and so many like to comment with digs and insults.

They never never ignore the thread so something is going no what that is I do not know as I do not search for anyone on here or write to anyone on here as these posts say it is a waste of time.

Is that what pee's off those usual posters to this kind of thread, having others think that they may waste their time as no one replies or just blocks so no use in sending messages, just use the forums if in the house, and then go out and meet real people.

realising that other real opportunities outside of fab.

Just wondering.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Can not understand why the use of nasty comments it's a form of bullying action from an adult seriously!!!

Saying women are shallow and snobby and treat men like trash. Yep.

It's his opinion not experience but doesn't make it right to use vulgar language towards the op but by most of the comments you can see shallow

Plus wasn't directed at anyone just an opinion but to be called a prick. Wtf

Have you not figured out that the Forum is mainly gang mentality?

I'm familiar with keyboard warriors whom don't have the bottle to say it in public pretty shallow within themselves an embarrassment a herd of sheep

Indeed but I guess it makes them feel good about themselves "

But what about their actions to the other or doesn't that matter seems like a silver spoon issue superior more likely stupidity rise above it op we can't always help the less fortunate to understand self respect

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Some of the usual suspects I see.

I do not know why these keep on commenting on threads that are the same, and p ss them off so much.

Just leave the thread bare as no reply means no thanks I do not wish to answer your thread due to the receptiveness of it all.

Or does one like to make the O.P feel even worst about themselves.

.

I don't think the OP is exactly suicidal lol. pt

I'm glad you're so certain of his mental state and find it humourous.... Jeez

Do you really think he is that bad? PM him maybe. Reading the OP I couldn't see much but frustration.

pt

He's had a pm from me, don't worry your pretty little head about that

"

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Hey I gave him some good advice of my own is this thread (and apologised for thinking he said he was off), there's no need to be snotty! And the pile-on thing was mainly just a crappy gang bang joke. There is a double pile-on here though, it happens sometimes. I won't say 'lol' again the thread has sank.

pt

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By *_Girl_Called_WendyTV/TS
over a year ago

Hailsham


"I actually live for pile-ons on pile-ons.

What about pylons?

Have you seen this month's issue of Pylons Monthly magazine?

It has some shocking images."

I prefer nylons monthly .... It has some stocking images ??

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset


"Why do you find it shallow and snobby OP? That's a genuine question, not snark.

It’s the same bullshit. Like if you just messaged me “sorry not interested” that’s fine. But that’s not what’s happening. It’s either immediate block or a horrible comment. And the only thing I usually as is something cheeky like “you seem like a lot of fun” or something. Like I don’t get it.

Why is being blocked a problem? Because they didn't tell you why?

It’s just unnecessary "

oh no its not for a woman or a couple its very necessary it the best tool on fab i use it loads i block for many many reasons from im just not interested to these moany post works for me ..

you must be very entitled if you feel your owed a reply ... simply nobody owes you or anyone else anything not even a reply

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By *emma200Woman
over a year ago

Warwickshire

Clearly it’s when you say no or don’t respond .. seems to get their backs up

Received the best messages today in my inbox calling me a stuck up bint like the rest of the girls on the site that think they are a 10/10 but clearly are a 4/10 in real life…

I don’t respond because I either don’t want too or I will not drop my standards for some one that does absolutely nothing for me.

Clearly a rejection insecurity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some of the usual suspects I see.

I do not know why these keep on commenting on threads that are the same, and p ss them off so much.

Just leave the thread bare as no reply means no thanks I do not wish to answer your thread due to the receptiveness of it all.

Or does one like to make the O.P feel even worst about themselves.

.

I don't think the OP is exactly suicidal lol. pt

I'm glad you're so certain of his mental state and find it humourous.... Jeez

Do you really think he is that bad? PM him maybe. Reading the OP I couldn't see much but frustration.

pt

He's had a pm from me, don't worry your pretty little head about that

.

Hey I gave him some good advice of my own is this thread (and apologised for thinking he said he was off), there's no need to be snotty! And the pile-on thing was mainly just a crappy gang bang joke. There is a double pile-on here though, it happens sometimes. I won't say 'lol' again the thread has sank.

pt"

Snotty? Not at all

I'm merely pointing out that comments like yours (I don't think the OP is exactly suicidal lol. pt) are uncalled for, irresponsible and insensitive.

You have zero idea on his mental state especially after the shitty comments and name calling he's received by the majority of forum users on this thread and making flippant remarks regarding suicide is, quite frankly a head shaking moment for me.

People post about being kind all the time, maybe if people stopped being cunts to each other online the rates of suicide would drop

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By *renzMan
over a year ago

Between Chichester and Havant

You are having meets, from reading some of the replies and you should count yourself lucky as many will not have any after being on here for several years. I've been on and off of here for many years and will agree it was a lot easier years ago. Of course I was younger then, in my 30's and I had many meets, the vast majority repeat. One thing I have learnt is to not have any expectations. If I message, I don't expect a reply. Being honest there aren't as many on here that I would message, so it works both ways.

Nobody should be rude to anyone even if rejected but that's not life unfortunately. Lower your expectations, it's not life threatening to not have meets all the time.

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
over a year ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders


"I actually live for pile-ons on pile-ons.

What about pylons?

Have you seen this month's issue of Pylons Monthly magazine?

It has some shocking images."

Lmao! I need to check that out! I haven't looked at Pylon of the Month in a while. They hadn't updated it last time I checked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I actually live for pile-ons on pile-ons.

What about pylons?

Have you seen this month's issue of Pylons Monthly magazine?

It has some shocking images.

Lmao! I need to check that out! I haven't looked at Pylon of the Month in a while. They hadn't updated it last time I checked "

It'll fry your brain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I actually live for pile-ons on pile-ons.

What about pylons?

Have you seen this month's issue of Pylons Monthly magazine?

It has some shocking images.

I prefer nylons monthly .... It has some stocking images ??"

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women just need to stop being so frigid god dammit and take that meet me now penis.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op basically got bullied off the thread.

Maybe his approach to women was wrong, maybe it wasn’t. But hardly anyone has bothered actually starting a conversation with the man or maybe even giving him pointers on what the correct way is to approach women.

Maybe he lacks certain conversations making skills?! Someone could have helped

Instead he was bullied off

Great going guys

#mensmentalhealath #bullying #beinghuman #compasion

Now please I’m not trying to start an argument or reply to anyone else so please there is no need to directly reply back to me if you want to continue with your negative energy

Shame on you all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Op basically got bullied off the thread.

Maybe his approach to women was wrong, maybe it wasn’t. But hardly anyone has bothered actually starting a conversation with the man or maybe even giving him pointers on what the correct way is to approach women.

Maybe he lacks certain conversations making skills?! Someone could have helped

Instead he was bullied off

Great going guys

#mensmentalhealath #bullying #beinghuman #compasion

Now please I’m not trying to start an argument or reply to anyone else so please there is no need to directly reply back to me if you want to continue with your negative energy

Shame on you all"

A number of people (including me) suggested options for the OP. And he came back and apologised, hopefully to start afresh. I always think more of someone who admits when they're wrong.

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"Op basically got bullied off the thread.

Maybe his approach to women was wrong, maybe it wasn’t. But hardly anyone has bothered actually starting a conversation with the man or maybe even giving him pointers on what the correct way is to approach women.

Maybe he lacks certain conversations making skills?! Someone could have helped

Instead he was bullied off

Great going guys

#mensmentalhealath #bullying #beinghuman #compasion

Now please I’m not trying to start an argument or reply to anyone else so please there is no need to directly reply back to me if you want to continue with your negative energy

Shame on you all"

This nosence the hand grenade threads come up all time by this guy useally all go to 175 its a community rallying call .

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By *apxxxWoman
over a year ago

North Shropshire not Wales!!!ffs & Manchester


"They ain’t ruined anything for me.

Quite the opposite actually. They make my fab time fuckin awesome. "

I wanna ruin you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They ain’t ruined anything for me.

Quite the opposite actually. They make my fab time fuckin awesome.

I wanna ruin you "

OOOFT!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Joined over a year ago. Had a few meets that were lovely, the women I’ve met on here have all been absolutely amazing and lovely. Unfortunately women like that are as rare as they come on this site. Fab has now become as shallow and snobby as any other dating app. And don’t give me that bollocks “Awh men are trash and horrible so why should I be”….your choices in men doesn’t justify treated the rest of us like trash. Like we’re all here to meet people, make connections and yes, have great sex. You can be as kind and as genuine as possible, you’re getting blocked regardless. Girls you need to sort it out because we can’t all be bad…."

Women do get inundated wit messages and simply don't have the time to say no thanks. If they try and say 'no thanks' they then get spammed with "fuck off you slag" or grovely ones like "but why? I'm nice" et al, from the same make 10 times over.

One woman had over 400 messages. How can she find time to reply to them all?

Easiest way is to just block to stem the flood

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Narcissist not pointing towards anyone but it comes from both sides of the coin and the sensible ones understand so is it fair to judge... Go figure

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

Until I read this thread, I'd never come across the use of 'eww' but nothing surprises me in this age of internet derived linguistic mediocrity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Op basically got bullied off the thread.

Maybe his approach to women was wrong, maybe it wasn’t. But hardly anyone has bothered actually starting a conversation with the man or maybe even giving him pointers on what the correct way is to approach women.

Maybe he lacks certain conversations making skills?! Someone could have helped

Instead he was bullied off

Great going guys

#mensmentalhealath #bullying #beinghuman #compasion

Now please I’m not trying to start an argument or reply to anyone else so please there is no need to directly reply back to me if you want to continue with your negative energy

Shame on you all"

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By *ndycoinsMan
over a year ago

Whaley Bridge,Nr Buxton,


"Op basically got bullied off the thread.

Maybe his approach to women was wrong, maybe it wasn’t. But hardly anyone has bothered actually starting a conversation with the man or maybe even giving him pointers on what the correct way is to approach women.

Maybe he lacks certain conversations making skills?! Someone could have helped

Instead he was bullied off

Great going guys

#mensmentalhealath #bullying #beinghuman #compasion

Now please I’m not trying to start an argument or reply to anyone else so please there is no need to directly reply back to me if you want to continue with your negative energy

Shame on you all"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This site sucks

Yes, we suck cocks and pussy and fingers and toes..

Suck on forumites

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Until I read this thread, I'd never come across the use of 'eww' but nothing surprises me in this age of internet derived linguistic mediocrity."

Correct way to spell is ew...

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