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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Would women rather a hot guy who never makes you cum.

OR

A guy you aren't attracted to at all who makes you cum every time??

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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If I wasn't attracted to him he wouldn't make me come. Fuck multiple times, one would be a reach.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No guys make me come so it doesn’t matter if they’re got or not

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"No guys make me come so it doesn’t matter if they’re got or not "

Cue the messages saying they can

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Away for Christmas


"No guys make me come so it doesn’t matter if they’re got or not "

The important thing is we tried!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No guys make me come so it doesn’t matter if they’re got or not

The important thing is we tried! "

You’re very trying

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Neither.

I wouldn't get aroused by someone I wasn't attracted to.

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obvs I meant hot not got

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere


"If I wasn't attracted to him he wouldn't make me come. Fuck multiple times, one would be a reach."

I can’t believe how many times i hear this from ladies on here about not climaxing and it appears some guys are ok with that….for me its only right and proper that a woman lose all semblance of propriety and turns into something from the exorcist demanding i make them cum again and uses language unbecoming a lady!!

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford


"Would women rather a hot guy who never makes you cum.

OR

A guy you aren't attracted to at all who makes you cum every time?? "

Neither, as the guy I was not attracted to would never even get a chance to make me cum. Why would I play with someone I am not attracted to/have chemistry with?

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

And no matter how attractive-looking the other guy is, if he doesn't make me cum, he is not getting an invite to play ever again.

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Would women rather a hot guy who never makes you cum.

OR

A guy you aren't attracted to at all who makes you cum every time?? "

I've tried both scenarios. Neither. I'd just keep searching!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

A nice book and a big fluffy duvet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hot guy 100%

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By *orny-DJMan
over a year ago

Leigh-on-Sea


"No guys make me come so it doesn’t matter if they’re got or not "

Sounds like achallenge to me

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else


"If I wasn't attracted to him he wouldn't make me come. Fuck multiple times, one would be a reach."

THIS

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

A guy who doesn't put pressure on me to have an orgasm please

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"If I wasn't attracted to him he wouldn't make me come. Fuck multiple times, one would be a reach.

I can’t believe how many times i hear this from ladies on here about not climaxing and it appears some guys are ok with that….for me its only right and proper that a woman lose all semblance of propriety and turns into something from the exorcist demanding i make them cum again and uses language unbecoming a lady!! "

Some women can't climax easily and that's fair enough.

Wave an erect cock in front of my face for a few minutes and I probably will. I can't orgasm with someone I'm not attracted to and if I am attracted to them and don't orgasm, I'd be questioning how hot I actually find them (because not coming is more of a challenge for me. ).

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else


"No guys make me come so it doesn’t matter if they’re got or not

Sounds like achallenge to me "

I was waiting for someone to jump in with this. *holds head*

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else


"A guy who doesn't put pressure on me to have an orgasm please"

This is also a fair point.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"No guys make me come so it doesn’t matter if they’re got or not

Sounds like achallenge to me "

People who say things like this are a red flag to me

Why is what women say a challenge to be overcome rather than people just believing them?

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

One of my favourite lovers ever was a bloke I would have call quite ugly on a purely aesthetic level. Yet because of his mind I was wildly attracted to him and he made me cum and cum. So I don't know if that's what you mean?

I don't see him anymore but I still remember the incredible sex.

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By *asty tatsyMan
over a year ago

london


"No guys make me come so it doesn’t matter if they’re got or not "

All the matters is that we cum right I thought that was the point

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Great comments and debate so far.

I would flip this on its head and ask men about women but think I know the answer already

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"Would women rather a hot guy who never makes you cum.

OR

A guy you aren't attracted to at all who makes you cum every time?? "

If he doesn't excite me enough to have me on the edge almost before he touches me, he's not hot to me.

If I'm not into the person, I'm not having consensual sex with them, never mind an orgasm

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By *UFSWoman
over a year ago

belfast

I'm more than capable of making myself cum

I'm here to find someone that meets my requirements,not necessarily theirs

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By *uicy 2020Woman
over a year ago

London


"If he doesn't excite me enough to have me on the edge almost before he touches me, he's not hot to me.

If I'm not into the person, I'm not having consensual sex with them, never mind an orgasm "

Same for me, why would i ever have sex with someone who i didnt find attractive? X

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset


"No guys make me come so it doesn’t matter if they’re got or not

Sounds like achallenge to me

People who say things like this are a red flag to me

Why is what women say a challenge to be overcome rather than people just believing them?"

Exactly this. Unless your tongue or fingers vibrate, it's not going to happen. And I don't need an orgasm to have a good time, because usually once that's happened I lose interest, so it would be over pretty quick!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Neither.

I wouldn't get aroused by someone I wasn't attracted to.

Nita"

To have and further that hypothesis you need to define attraction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would women rather a hot guy who never makes you cum.

OR

A guy you aren't attracted to at all who makes you cum every time??

I've tried both scenarios. Neither. I'd just keep searching!"

Oh you bore lol xxxx just kidding x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll take the hot guy

I’m capable of giving myself an orgasm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One of my favourite lovers ever was a bloke I would have call quite ugly on a purely aesthetic level. Yet because of his mind I was wildly attracted to him and he made me cum and cum. So I don't know if that's what you mean?

I don't see him anymore but I still remember the incredible sex."

What did he think of you in terms of attractiveness?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ll take the hot guy

I’m capable of giving myself an orgasm. "

Hot being?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ll take the hot guy

I’m capable of giving myself an orgasm.

Hot being?"

The good looking one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ll take the hot guy

I’m capable of giving myself an orgasm.

Hot being?

The good looking one. "

Tedious I know but define good looking?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’ll take the hot guy

I’m capable of giving myself an orgasm. "

Wow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ll take the hot guy

I’m capable of giving myself an orgasm.

Wow "

Was that the wrong answer?

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London


"I’ll take the hot guy

I’m capable of giving myself an orgasm. "

Phew! I scrub up well enough if you squint, but good to know orgasms aren't expected.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ll take the hot guy

I’m capable of giving myself an orgasm.

Phew! I scrub up well enough if you squint, but good to know orgasms aren't expected."

There’s no squinting needed with you

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By *inky ChefMan
over a year ago

Norwich

Less attractive guys try harder.

Especially if they think the woman is way out of they league.

It's a fact in general.

Most pretty women will never know, anyway.

Not saying hot guys don't try, but not as desperate to keep you coming back.

After all they have more choice.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’ll take the hot guy

I’m capable of giving myself an orgasm.

Wow

Was that the wrong answer? "

No wrong answers here- just wow at the thought of you giving yourself an orgasm

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London


"Less attractive guys try harder.

Especially if they think the woman is way out of they league.

It's a fact in general.

Most pretty women will never know, anyway.

Not saying hot guys don't try, but not as desperate to keep you coming back.

After all they have more choice.

"

Or what if attractive guys are better as they have more practice? Entire bollocks either way round, of course.

Do you only sleep with "less attractive" women as they "try harder"?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

There was always a saying when I was younger (never said it myself) that bigger girls were better in bed as they try harder...

Personally I've never slept with a girl & she hasn't cum- I'm sure some will say that some have faked it but I really don't think so!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Less attractive guys try harder.

Especially if they think the woman is way out of they league.

It's a fact in general.

Most pretty women will never know, anyway.

Not saying hot guys don't try, but not as desperate to keep you coming back.

After all they have more choice.

Or what if attractive guys are better as they have more practice? Entire bollocks either way round, of course.

Do you only sleep with "less attractive" women as they "try harder"?

"

It is just super performative "pick me, those other people suck" stuff.

It gives me the ick.

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By *inky ChefMan
over a year ago

Norwich


"Less attractive guys try harder.

Especially if they think the woman is way out of they league.

It's a fact in general.

Most pretty women will never know, anyway.

Not saying hot guys don't try, but not as desperate to keep you coming back.

After all they have more choice.

Or what if attractive guys are better as they have more practice? Entire bollocks either way round, of course.

Do you only sleep with "less attractive" women as they "try harder"?

"

Now you put it this way. Yes, that's possible too.

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

Doing anything intimate with someone I am not attracted to will never make me cum so... I can make me cum with someone I am

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London


"Less attractive guys try harder.

Especially if they think the woman is way out of they league.

It's a fact in general.

Most pretty women will never know, anyway.

Not saying hot guys don't try, but not as desperate to keep you coming back.

After all they have more choice.

Or what if attractive guys are better as they have more practice? Entire bollocks either way round, of course.

Do you only sleep with "less attractive" women as they "try harder"?

It is just super performative "pick me, those other people suck" stuff.

It gives me the ick."

"I'm ugly, you're grateful, let's have a blast..."

(For the avoidance of doubt, as someone will no doubt be along to point it out, I'm not saying I'm attractive or that the poster who said 'less attractive guys try harder' is ugly, but I don't think someone's sexual prowess is determined by how they look).

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Less attractive guys try harder.

Especially if they think the woman is way out of they league.

It's a fact in general.

Most pretty women will never know, anyway.

Not saying hot guys don't try, but not as desperate to keep you coming back.

After all they have more choice.

Or what if attractive guys are better as they have more practice? Entire bollocks either way round, of course.

Do you only sleep with "less attractive" women as they "try harder"?

It is just super performative "pick me, those other people suck" stuff.

It gives me the ick.

"I'm ugly, you're grateful, let's have a blast..."

(For the avoidance of doubt, as someone will no doubt be along to point it out, I'm not saying I'm attractive or that the poster who said 'less attractive guys try harder' is ugly, but I don't think someone's sexual prowess is determined by how they look)."

In my experience they're entirely independent variables.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is all a bit too mechanical for me.

I don’t know if I am cumming or cumming

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

got to be attracted,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Less attractive guys try harder.

Especially if they think the woman is way out of they league.

It's a fact in general.

Most pretty women will never know, anyway.

Not saying hot guys don't try, but not as desperate to keep you coming back.

After all they have more choice.

"

Ugly desperate men and women try harder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would women rather a hot guy who never makes you cum.

OR

A guy you aren't attracted to at all who makes you cum every time?? "

Neither.

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By *inky ChefMan
over a year ago

Norwich


"Less attractive guys try harder.

Especially if they think the woman is way out of they league.

It's a fact in general.

Most pretty women will never know, anyway.

Not saying hot guys don't try, but not as desperate to keep you coming back.

After all they have more choice.

Ugly desperate men and women try harder. "

Ugly is subjective, but people usually have a clue how attractive they are.

To make my original comment clearer. Less attractive people try harder, but I didn't say they cause more or less orgasm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No guys make me come so it doesn’t matter if they’re got or not

Sounds like achallenge to me "

You’d quite literally be wasting your time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attracted to what though op. Their body or mind or both. I have to really really want them not just off the back of a forum post or 3 messages. No. It is hard to make women cum... Only a couple of single straight guys achieved that. Not sure they exist here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all know men repeat right?

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