FabSwingers.com forum: First encounters

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you remember your first on fab? I don't mean the first you knobbed (

) I mean that first connection you had?

The first one that made you smile a little, the first one that you frantically faffed off over.

Good?

Bad?

Ugly

I just saw mine a few days ago on a fellow forumites veris, haven't thought about the guy for years! But there he was, a complete utter psycho but, he is probably the reason I stayed on fab that very first time. He has lot to answer for! Fucking dickhead.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

I do.

Was good at the time

Then it went bad

Then ugly.

We no longer talk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They're still here posting on the forums. They don't know it was me.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

My first meet was on another site before Fab came into being with the Big Bang.

Can’t for the life of me think who my first Fab meet was, got to be 15 years ago.

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

Yes, of course

Still in touch, we meet up every once in a blue moon but sparks fly when we do.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I do.

Was good at the time

Then it went bad

Then ugly.

We no longer talk"

Sounds like all my meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

“Got knobbed” hahahahaha! ,made my day that did, and FYI I couldn’t talk about it or I’d get banned lol

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By *oco_marsWoman
over a year ago

Stockport

I don't remember from when I first joined about 10 years ago-ish, but the first this time round was great!

We chatted like old friends and he was lovely

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By *aiseiMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

The first people I remember talking to regularly on here was a couple from Stoke. They’re long departed from here now, but they were both really welcoming to a newbie.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Yes, I was with him yesterday. We have an amazing connection. I knew from the minute I saw him walking through the park.

He was my first social, first proper meet.

Life got in the way shortly after, but recently started things up again. He's a very much needed ray of sunshine in my life.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I do. And I still think of him now and again. We don't talk now but that's just because our lives went in different directions. He is a sweetheart.

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
over a year ago

Tamworth

Ugh our first one is sour now!

Absolutely fantastic meet which led to more than one. Lots of communication, lots of teasing. He was truly a fantastic guy. Until he wasn't.

It got to a point where we never had time between us to actually meet so I messaged him to say we were going to be moving forward with looking for someone else (we wanted a regular guy and opted not to look for others whilst that was going on), offered to recommend him as a genuine and lovely guy to another couple who were friends, actively looking for a single guy.

He was cool about then by the weekend sent me alot of abuse because he felt I'd lied to him about it being due to us never being available at the same time and that actually I didn't like him.

A shame. He was hot, just seemed to magically know what I liked, was such a laugh too. But yeah, went weird.

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

He wasn’t from the forums and was local to me. I met him after around two months on here.

After a few month he wanted exclusivity and I didn’t so we parted ways. He left Fab shortly after. Still think of him with a smile and hope he’s doing okay

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

"Do you remember your first on fab? I don't mean the first you knobbed (

) I mean that first connection you had?

The first one that made you smile a little, the first one that you frantically faffed off over.

Good?

Bad?

Ugly

Can’t believe you’ve commandeered my knobbing

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"They're still here posting on the forums. They don't know it was me.

Well dam lady.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do you remember your first on fab? I don't mean the first you knobbed (

) I mean that first connection you had?

The first one that made you smile a little, the first one that you frantically faffed off over.

Good?

Bad?

Ugly

Can’t believe you’ve commandeered my knobbing

Imitation is the sincerest form of flattery

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes, I was with him yesterday. We have an amazing connection. I knew from the minute I saw him walking through the park.

He was my first social, first proper meet.

Life got in the way shortly after, but recently started things up again. He's a very much needed ray of sunshine in my life."

That's the kind of sunshine I wouldn't mind

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ugh our first one is sour now!

Absolutely fantastic meet which led to more than one. Lots of communication, lots of teasing. He was truly a fantastic guy. Until he wasn't.

He was cool about then by the weekend sent me alot of abuse because he felt I'd lied to him about it being due to us never being available at the same time and that actually I didn't like him.

A shame. He was hot, just seemed to magically know what I liked, was such a laugh too. But yeah, went weird. "

They always go weird!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, I can remember my first fab meet from here.

We met at a Costa for a quick coffee just to see if their was an actual attraction and there was. After the coffee date she sent me a message saying how she was disappointed that we did not kiss or at very least, hug.

Jump to the second date which was a bit more steamy but nothing full on. During this date I really started to like the lass. We had really great conversation and plenty of giggles.

Many texts and conversations later a third date was organised and again a little more heavy petting. I really started to feel a connection with this person.

It was after this point two things happened. I realised this was not a woman I could see myself only having a FWB relationship with. The other point was that I was given some horrible news about my health. The combination of both led me to just shutdown and retreat from the scenario.

Cut today, a year later. I really regret my decisions that I made back then. I wish I had the strength and the backbone to have gone through with everything. The way I carried myself and the way acted makes me feel ashamed. She is a very special person and I screwed up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do yes. 6 ish years later still on messaging terms. We broke through the other side of weird just about.

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

First connection was probs you OP!

Then they got weird

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes was a couple

Was grate for me

Not sure if it was good for the woman hafe off the couple

Man hafe seems to injoy him self

Was all a bit much for me

First time PA so kind off poped my clogs fast only haveing one condom ment I couldn’t change it

End up give oral to her as hubby banged away splat a load over my bum cheeks both got up and left

With the prems off meeting again but when messing to ask if meeting again

My message went read icnored so I take it they were being polite when they sed they meet again

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By *929Man
over a year ago

newcastle

First who chatted to was a lass from Hexham who messaged me we chat for a bit before swap numbers and stayed up a few late nights drinking and texting, we got on amazingly and she admitted she would like to have taken further (dating not casual sex) if my situation was different. Often wonder how different life would be had it worked out never thought she would give me a second look till she message

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I do. And I still chat to him occasionally when he's not being an utter nob. Kinda a love-hate relationship over the years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep!

They were just one of those people you instantly felt at ease with. The sex was amazing and I never got tired of seeing them. Then it all started feeling a bit too full on and I had to distance myself. It was nice while it lasted though.

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By *heArrowsCouple
over a year ago

I remember her. She was lovely. We got on really well and she sold me on the whole lifestyle.

She burned out a week before we were due to host her at our house. It's a big what if for my wife and I. We didn't want to rush but we missed out on someone who was genuinely special.

She left fab, found happiness and we chatted a bit until we lost contact during lockdown.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"First connection was probs you OP!

Then they got weird

I'm pretty sure I wasn't your first!

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

"First connection was probs you OP!

Then they got weird

I'm pretty sure I wasn't your first! "

Probably first I really got a long with and wanted to be inside?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I do. And I still chat to him occasionally when he's not being an utter nob. Kinda a love-hate relationship over the years. "

Yeah I know those!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. Turned out to be a total git. He's lost a decade of his real age when I came across his profile recently...

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Yeah.

She was a very popular poster at the time.

She’s not been around for a good few years now and we haven’t spoken in even longer but if we bumped into each other tomorrow we’d hug and laugh like old friends.

On a side note… She had the tightest vagina I’ve ever experienced.

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

"Yeah.

She was a very popular poster at the time.

She’s not been around for a good few years now and we haven’t spoken in even longer but if we bumped into each other tomorrow we’d hug and laugh like old friends.

On a side note… She had the tightest vagina I’ve ever experienced."

Name and number?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep and I still see him to this day

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

"Yeah.

She was a very popular poster at the time.

She’s not been around for a good few years now and we haven’t spoken in even longer but if we bumped into each other tomorrow we’d hug and laugh like old friends.

On a side note… She had the tightest vagina I’ve ever experienced.

Name and number?"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yeah.

She was a very popular poster at the time.

She’s not been around for a good few years now and we haven’t spoken in even longer but if we bumped into each other tomorrow we’d hug and laugh like old friends.

On a side note… She had the tightest vagina I’ve ever experienced."

Do you wanna experience the loosest?

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"Yes, I was with him yesterday. We have an amazing connection. I knew from the minute I saw him walking through the park.

He was my first social, first proper meet.

Life got in the way shortly after, but recently started things up again. He's a very much needed ray of sunshine in my life.

That's the kind of sunshine I wouldn't mind"

Definitely a rare find!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He was the only reason I stayed on Fab when it was overwhelming at the start. Very supportive and lovely. We never met as I fucked it up, but he graciously accepted my apology for that.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

"Yeah.

She was a very popular poster at the time.

She’s not been around for a good few years now and we haven’t spoken in even longer but if we bumped into each other tomorrow we’d hug and laugh like old friends.

On a side note… She had the tightest vagina I’ve ever experienced.

Do you wanna experience the loosest?

Loosest? It never fucking opens!

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

"Yeah.

She was a very popular poster at the time.

She’s not been around for a good few years now and we haven’t spoken in even longer but if we bumped into each other tomorrow we’d hug and laugh like old friends.

On a side note… She had the tightest vagina I’ve ever experienced.

Do you wanna experience the loosest?

Loosest? It never fucking opens! "

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
over a year ago

Essex

First connection from here - we still message. We’ve never managed to actually meet. He’s a pretty fantastic bloke and we’ve had some really deep discussions etc & he’s taught me a lot about myself & the “scene”. Hopefully we might even manage to meet one day.

The first connection & meet - we met a number of times, messaged a lot in between. Super hot. He took some time out from the whole thing so we’ve not seen each other since. Happy memories though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yeah.

She was a very popular poster at the time.

She’s not been around for a good few years now and we haven’t spoken in even longer but if we bumped into each other tomorrow we’d hug and laugh like old friends.

On a side note… She had the tightest vagina I’ve ever experienced.

Do you wanna experience the loosest?

Loosest? It never fucking opens! "

That's the sweetest thing you've ever said to me

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

"Yeah.

She was a very popular poster at the time.

She’s not been around for a good few years now and we haven’t spoken in even longer but if we bumped into each other tomorrow we’d hug and laugh like old friends.

On a side note… She had the tightest vagina I’ve ever experienced.

Do you wanna experience the loosest?

Loosest? It never fucking opens!

That's the sweetest thing you've ever said to me "

FAK?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yeah.

She was a very popular poster at the time.

She’s not been around for a good few years now and we haven’t spoken in even longer but if we bumped into each other tomorrow we’d hug and laugh like old friends.

On a side note… She had the tightest vagina I’ve ever experienced.

Do you wanna experience the loosest?

Loosest? It never fucking opens!

That's the sweetest thing you've ever said to me

FAK? "

I've forgotten what this means!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup, I remember. I think we had a bit of everything; the good bad and ugly. I'll always wish the best for him though.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

"Yeah.

She was a very popular poster at the time.

She’s not been around for a good few years now and we haven’t spoken in even longer but if we bumped into each other tomorrow we’d hug and laugh like old friends.

On a side note… She had the tightest vagina I’ve ever experienced.

Do you wanna experience the loosest?

Loosest? It never fucking opens!

That's the sweetest thing you've ever said to me

FAK?

I've forgotten what this means!"

How much have you had to drink!

FANCY A KNOBBING?

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By *ear in the chairMan
over a year ago

yeah there

Yup, my first connection was amazing. We both moved on though but still remain in contact and are now sanity checks for red flags for each other, lol

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

I will never forget my first meet as a singleton. He was bloody incredible and I have nothing but amazing memories from that time. I think it ended at the right time and I’m glad we are still friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember my first meet.... I was nieve and believed the veris

Never to be seen again.

First connection was quite something and lasted 3 years but sadly no more.

One of my first I met up with again back in the summer and all the feelings came flooding back, the connection is electric

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Yep, we still kept in touch for a good while after meeting a few times.

He was cool, no longer on here though.

I hope he's doing well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stay real

Connection? Yeah she’s still in here and dibs in on the form in time

To time… it was great while it lasted and stayed friends for a while. But drifted apart and now just pass on here,

But it was great and it was my first time making a weekend out of a meet. Which I very much enjoyed. I prefer a connection now to just a simple meet.

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent

"Do you remember your first on fab? I don't mean the first you knobbed (

) I mean that first connection you had?

The first one that made you smile a little, the first one that you frantically faffed off over.

Good?

Bad?

Ugly

Our first was and is a truly lovely, beautiful person. It was at least five years ago. We lost touch for a long while, but reconnected again recently and now we are growing close once again

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Yes i still see him.

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
over a year ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders

Yep, and we're still good friends... Meet up for coffee when we can still.

I have also banged his brother but I didn't realise they were brothers at the time, oops a daisy

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By *ake_or_deathMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I was very lucky the first time I joined Fab as a lady messaged me quite soon after I joined. I had hardly any pictures, and none of them good, and her profile only had two Friends Only pictures, so I was sceptical, but we had a nice chat and she seemed genuine, and when we exchanged face pics I found she was really pretty.

So we arranged to meet for a social and yes, she looked just like her photos, and we got on really well. I walked her back to her car and we kissed...a few times.

She ended up becoming a proper Friend With Benefits for a while (with the 'Friend' being as important as the 'Benefits') and we met up a number of times. But things drifted a little and we didn't see each other for a bit as life stuff got in the way so it fizzled out.

Then when lockdown was easing we got back in touch and met for a socially distanced catch up in a park. We had a really nice chat and led to an understanding that we'd meet up as we used to when the rules allowed, but for some reason it didn't happen and she doesn't seem to be contactable now - I suspect some life stuff she had told me about took her attention away from anything else, but only she knows that. I hope she's doing well, whatever the reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a virgin.

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

They're still around, we used to chat daily on and off of here, then they suddenly went quiet

Is what it is

Tinder x

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

"They're still around, we used to chat daily on and off of here, then they suddenly went quiet

Is what it is

Tinder x"

Edit...we never met just chatted a fair bit

Tinder

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