FabSwingers.com forum: Couples profile

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why is it a large volume of couples profile have little or no photos of the male half??

As a guy seeking couples myself it’s always nice to see both halves of the story.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many reasons I think, the husband could be an absolute boiler covered in scabs with a tiny winky or a total Adonis and hung like a horse, both of which could be a turn off for people who may not fit into either of those ‘types’. There’s a chance to build up a rapport with the couple before revealing the munter or hunk so more chance of meeting.

Or it’s a guy showing off pictures of his mrs without her consent and wanking while reading the messages.

There could of course be many more reasons, maybe ask one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have mainly pics of me (mrs) as my husband only likes to play with me so don’t see the need to have lots of pictures of him up. We do have private face pics for when we arrange a meet but other than that are happy with what we show and have to offer for what we are looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have mainly pics of me (mrs) as my husband only likes to play with me so don’t see the need to have lots of pictures of him up. We do have private face pics for when we arrange a meet but other than that are happy with what we show and have to offer for what we are looking for. "

Oh and my husband is an absolute hottie

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By *inky ChefMan
over a year ago

Norwich

"Why is it a large volume of couples profile have little or no photos of the male half??

As a guy seeking couples myself it’s always nice to see both halves of the story.

Because usually the photos of the woman gives them better chances with singles.

It's ruining their chances with other couples in my opinion.

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By *ick-Dastardly-Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.

Secrecy

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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds

Because I don't want them on there. We have them for sending privately but nobody has the right to something unless I want them to. We've had our share of creeps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Many reasons I think, the husband could be an absolute boiler covered in scabs with a tiny winky or a total Adonis and hung like a horse, both of which could be a turn off for people who may not fit into either of those ‘types’. There’s a chance to build up a rapport with the couple before revealing the munter or hunk so more chance of meeting.

Or it’s a guy showing off pictures of his mrs without her consent and wanking while reading the messages.

There could of course be many more reasons, maybe ask one?"

An absolute boiler!!

Oh crap that's me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it a large volume of couples profile have little or no photos of the male half??

As a guy seeking couples myself it’s always nice to see both halves of the story.

Because usually the photos of the woman gives them better chances with singles.

It's ruining their chances with other couples in my opinion.

Sex bait pussy

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By *armandwet50Couple
over a year ago

Far far away

"Why is it a large volume of couples profile have little or no photos of the male half??

As a guy seeking couples myself it’s always nice to see both halves of the story.

Because it's their choice

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By *inky ChefMan
over a year ago

Norwich

"Why is it a large volume of couples profile have little or no photos of the male half??

As a guy seeking couples myself it’s always nice to see both halves of the story.

Because usually the photos of the woman gives them better chances with singles.

It's ruining their chances with other couples in my opinion.

Sex bait pussy

Exactly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it a large volume of couples profile have little or no photos of the male half??

As a guy seeking couples myself it’s always nice to see both halves of the story.

Because it's their choice

Exactly

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By *nsatiable n baldCouple
over a year ago

somewhere only we know

I think ours are pritty equal

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Lots of excuses I've read ,he doesn't like his pic taken ,he needs to be discreet etc.

It's a frustration for many of us ,I'm straight and half a couple so seeing the male is essential for me .

If there's no pics of him on the profile & they don't attach one in a message to us ,we delete.Its a good filter as in the past we used to chat for a while & then when I finally got to see the Mr ,often there was no attraction for me.

Obviously people can choose how to run their profile how they like & if it's just the woman who plays I can totally understand why they don't show the man.

Often profiles with just the woman on, will start a thread moaning why they can't meet women or couples though.

If both meet and play,they should have at least one of the mr I think,just to give an idea if his shape .

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By *C_playtimeCouple
over a year ago

Stoke on trent

Do you think, it's more appealing to other couples having a even amount of photos of the couples?

Or will more of the female potentially get more couples interested?

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By *ilf and old fartCouple
over a year ago

Between Ely and Mildenhall

We mainly have photos of My wife on our profile as she's gorgeous.

I think that I'm only photogenic in a dark room in a power cut, and everyone else is wearing a blindfold as they face the walls, so I avoid being on the wrong side of a camera

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

Or it’s a guy showing off pictures of his mrs without her consent and wanking while reading the messages.

There could of course be many more reasons, maybe ask one?"

It could also be that men are crap at taking selfies and that the women aren't very interested in taking pics of the male half. Whereas the male half loves to take pics of the sexier half? Maybe?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We included one of me, just to make sure potential meets aren't going to be put off looking at me, but ultimately it's all about Miss J really so focus naturally on her. Mr J

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

"Why is it a large volume of couples profile have little or no photos of the male half??

As a guy seeking couples myself it’s always nice to see both halves of the story.

We have tried every combination possible and the messages predominantly aimed at Mrs it gets to the point of why bother.

We did block all single guy's from messaging at one point but I quite enjoy chatting with some guy's and the banter.

Mrs has her own profile for hotwifeing.

We could have a 100 pictures of me and 1 of her guaranteed to get 99 messages for her

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
over a year ago

Stoke

We aren't seeking males as the fella is straight, but he's plenty of pics on the profile for women in couples to see, I don't get couples who just show the female half off unless they're just after males!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We think people can do what they like in terms of photos. If there aren't any of the guy or one or two really old and blurry ones we know that they aren't interested in me as the woman so we choose not to interact.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Absolutely no idea, I totally get it if only the woman meets but if both do then i want to see both.

I've given up if they have no pics of the man, trying to get one is like pulling teeth, I just assume he's ugly hence no pics, it's not blind date for me.

Mrs

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

"Do you think, it's more appealing to other couples having a even amount of photos of the couples?

Or will more of the female potentially get more couples interested? "

Seeing both is more appealing, I want to see who I'm expected to sleep with of course.

Mrs

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By *randMrsLPCouple
over a year ago

london

A very simple answer, for our profile at least and which applies to most others I guess

One pic of me and the remainder of my wife. Simple reason, we are not looking for couples or Bi's but I'm a Cuk, potential cuk as I was years ago. Therefore, the blokes we seek are not going to be interested in my cock but Mrs P's pussy/tits/body etc.

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By *annabarberaCouple
over a year ago

Staffs

Because I was battered with the ugly stick when I was a kid and Miss P is simply stunning

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Admittedly one of the first things we look at is Photo's. Commonly we see no Photo's of the male or any of any decent insight into what the male looks like. It's not a game of blind date, so it's feels like why they hiding him? After all Mrs Misfit needs to be attracted to him, its just as important as the female (which I think seems a concept lost in this game sometimes). Generally we tend not to follow up a profile where we don't get any decent insight into the male half.

Because we want to be with people who fancy us both (as applicable to their sexuallity) we keep a range of photos of the two of us. It's not blind date, this is us as we both are.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We show both…we’d be more inclined to chat more to people who show both as we are looking for chat to be easy rather than trying to get Mr’s pics only for him to be not what C likes.

But people can do what they want with profiles - it’s what works for them. If it doesn’t fit your dynamic then there’s many more profiles that will.

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

Erm, as a couple when we're seeking other couples it is a frustration of mine..

Each to they're own though and it merely places them quite low on our/my list..

But as you're listed as a single, straight male why would it bother you out of interest?

Mrs

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Absolutely no idea, I totally get it if only the woman meets but if both do then i want to see both.

I've given up if they have no pics of the man, trying to get one is like pulling teeth, I just assume he's ugly hence no pics, it's not blind date for me.

Mrs "

I don't know about you but I find it incredibly disrespectful that they think I don't matter when it comes to choosing who we meet in terms of physical attraction.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I understand if the profiles are seeking males only and for the purpose of cuck or Similar if they state it then it would be 100% female based. But for mmf play would be nice to see photos of the guy before we pair up to play with fem. Saves the guess work on wondering what the guy looks like before I message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When only the woman is used to attract I find it, god what's the right word???

But using a woman to bait a bisexual woman doesn't quite sit right and I can't explain why. It's like they ignore half of your sexuality by acknowledging what they think want more.

Not sure if I'm getting my thoughts across.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

"Why is it a large volume of couples profile have little or no photos of the male half??

As a guy seeking couples myself it’s always nice to see both halves of the story.

This our most consistent gripe about this site. It makes it really hard to find couples we think we might be attracted to.

It's not just that some couples don't show the man. It's the norm. It's unusual to find a profile clearly showing him. It amazes me. If he's not involved in shenanigans then I understand it, but if the couple needs somebody to be attracted to him to get what they came here for, then surely you should show him. It baffles and annoys us. It seems so obvious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it a large volume of couples profile have little or no photos of the male half??

As a guy seeking couples myself it’s always nice to see both halves of the story.

Usually it's because people whom are looking aren't interested in the male half

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

"Absolutely no idea, I totally get it if only the woman meets but if both do then i want to see both.

I've given up if they have no pics of the man, trying to get one is like pulling teeth, I just assume he's ugly hence no pics, it's not blind date for me.

Mrs

I don't know about you but I find it incredibly disrespectful that they think I don't matter when it comes to choosing who we meet in terms of physical attraction. "

Absolutely agree, how can they expect me to invest my time and possibly meet when I can't even guage an attraction it's beyond me and asking for pics via inbox just becomes tedious so I avoid any profiles that don't show thean, from experience there's usually a reason.

Mrs

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

It seems almost a rule that profiles should show the woman. So it's not really something women get away with.

However I do wonder if there is a lack male body confidence out there? And if this is a factor in some couples profiles? Reading many forum posts over the years a lot of guys seem to really overestimate how good looking women want them to be on here to be desirable.

I sometimes get the impression with some couples and sometimes people's attitudes towards couples that the male is just attachment that comes with the female and must be accepted to access the female. Those attitudes are not for us.

Must admit we are more interested in couples/single ladies that show intrest in both of us and/or fab pictures of both of us. We are very dubious of couples/single ladies who come across as pure unicorn chasers on our couples profile.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Absolutely no idea, I totally get it if only the woman meets but if both do then i want to see both.

I've given up if they have no pics of the man, trying to get one is like pulling teeth, I just assume he's ugly hence no pics, it's not blind date for me.

Mrs

I don't know about you but I find it incredibly disrespectful that they think I don't matter when it comes to choosing who we meet in terms of physical attraction.

Mrs "

One of the my most depressing experiences of swinging was where we agreed to meet a couple who had very reluctantly provided a blurry photo of the guy. We met socially, all went well, we agreed a date to take things further.

He could not have been less interested in having sex with me, he literally shrunk from my touch. It turned out that all be wanted was to watch his wife with another woman. Considering I'm straight and his wife was having a rare old time with Mr N it left me out on a bit of a limb

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

This and a couple of similar experiences are what made us decide not to interact with couples profiles where we can't see the man

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

I think it mostly boils down to wanting attention.

Make pictures just don’t get the same attention that you get with women’s.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it mostly boils down to wanting attention.

Make pictures just don’t get the same attention that you get with women’s.

Nice beard.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

"I think it mostly boils down to wanting attention.

Make pictures just don’t get the same attention that you get with women’s.

Nice beard.

You like this one… you should see my husband’s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think, it's more appealing to other couples having a even amount of photos of the couples?

Or will more of the female potentially get more couples interested?

Seeing both is more appealing, I want to see who I'm expected to sleep with of course.

Mrs "

Agree - it’s hard to find 3 or 4 way attraction. Nothing worse than chatting for a while then realising it’s not there. Much better to see everyone’s pics early on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it mostly boils down to wanting attention.

Make pictures just don’t get the same attention that you get with women’s.

If you put effort into your pictures.....

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

"Absolutely no idea, I totally get it if only the woman meets but if both do then i want to see both.

I've given up if they have no pics of the man, trying to get one is like pulling teeth, I just assume he's ugly hence no pics, it's not blind date for me.

Mrs

I don't know about you but I find it incredibly disrespectful that they think I don't matter when it comes to choosing who we meet in terms of physical attraction.

Mrs

That sounds awful, to be honest I'm considering giving up on the couples side of things, it's either here's my cock I want you to .....

or he's none existent either of which isn't for me.

Mrs

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Because I'm a show off and he's not. Plus I do think women in general gets more fabs etc on their photos and therefore more inclined to add more photos than men.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Absolutely no idea, I totally get it if only the woman meets but if both do then i want to see both.

I've given up if they have no pics of the man, trying to get one is like pulling teeth, I just assume he's ugly hence no pics, it's not blind date for me.

Mrs

I don't know about you but I find it incredibly disrespectful that they think I don't matter when it comes to choosing who we meet in terms of physical attraction.

Mrs

That sounds awful, to be honest I'm considering giving up on the couples side of things, it's either here's my cock I want you to .....

or he's none existent either of which isn't for me.

Mrs "

I laugh about it now.

I agree with you that it's very difficult to find couples who are respectful and who don't have a sense of entitlement.

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