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"Actually single on here? " Me I am | |||
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"Actually single on here? " Most of the average guys are single. Most of the pretty boys are married or in relationships. I honestly believe it's kind of how it is. | |||
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"??....wonder what the percentage is on here that just pretend to be??? " Massive.. | |||
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"Are we talking fab single or single single OP? Either way, yes I’m single " What's fab single? Is that where they are cheating on their fab partner they have a couples profile with? I've had that one. Or just attached and pretending to be single? Seriously how many excuses and cover stories do they think actually work????? | |||
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"Are we talking fab single or single single OP? Either way, yes I’m single What's fab single? Is that where they are cheating on their fab partner they have a couples profile with? I've had that one. Or just attached and pretending to be single? Seriously how many excuses and cover stories do they think actually work?????" Could be either tbh - both are cheating in some way. Sometimes they’re easy to spot other times it takes a minute, but the truth always comes out eventually | |||
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"Nope ,but then my partner is here too so it's all above board." And that's completely ok. But when people try to convince you they are single when they are not, they are not only deceiving their partner, but there deceiving the person the trying to convince as well. It's so ugly. | |||
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"Are we talking fab single or single single OP? Either way, yes I’m single What's fab single? Is that where they are cheating on their fab partner they have a couples profile with? I've had that one. Or just attached and pretending to be single? Seriously how many excuses and cover stories do they think actually work?????" I’m fab single. Not single but meet as a single male is that it? | |||
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"Nope, sorry Don’t matter to me " That's good news because we're very much a couple | |||
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"I think the better percentage would be how many couples and woman are actually just guys getting some kind of kick from pretending....definitely seems to be alot I come across" Yes! There's a clue when they want to meet/wank with you, but the wife won't be there. I got that with straight profiles too. Got excited about a message from a couple, then the disappointment. | |||
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"Nope ,but then my partner is here too so it's all above board. And that's completely ok. But when people try to convince you they are single when they are not, they are not only deceiving their partner, but there deceiving the person the trying to convince as well. It's so ugly." I feel your pain! Fed up of talking to really nice guys who then eventually own up to being married and cheating. I don’t judge them I was in an unhappy and sexless marriage too, but just not someone I want to get involved with. Plus big turn off when the truth is being hidden or I’m being outright lied to - how can I trust you in my bed when you started off by lying to me?! | |||
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"Actually single on here? " very single and only one meet in two years, my choice | |||
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"Wasn't aware that it was supposed to be a singles only site?" Did I imply that anywhere??? | |||
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"Nope ,but then my partner is here too so it's all above board. And that's completely ok. But when people try to convince you they are single when they are not, they are not only deceiving their partner, but there deceiving the person the trying to convince as well. It's so ugly. I feel your pain! Fed up of talking to really nice guys who then eventually own up to being married and cheating. I don’t judge them I was in an unhappy and sexless marriage too, but just not someone I want to get involved with. Plus big turn off when the truth is being hidden or I’m being outright lied to - how can I trust you in my bed when you started off by lying to me?!" This!!! I'm exactly the same. | |||
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"Actually single on here? " Yep? | |||
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"Actually single on here? " Sadly so. | |||
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"Yep, divorce should be complete this week (well I hope so anyway!) " But this also gets used as a cover story for being all cloak and dagger to not upset the ex in the divorce and remain discreet. I'm by no means saying you're doing that at all. But seems to be a regular line used. And a hard one to argue or disprove. Like I live with my parents and I'm caring for them I could actually list so many. | |||
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"Sometimes someone can be single but circumstances (co parenting, co habiting, co owning property) results in the need to be discreet. Making it look like they may be dodgy/attached" Being discreet and being single are two different things.. | |||
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"Yes No Whatever gets me fucked" I'm starting to think I should be like this | |||
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"I think the better percentage would be how many couples and woman are actually just guys getting some kind of kick from pretending....definitely seems to be alot I come across" This is true I definitely | |||
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"Yes No Whatever gets me fucked I'm starting to think I should be like this " It’s there worry not yours so go for it | |||
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"Nope ,but then my partner is here too so it's all above board. And that's completely ok. But when people try to convince you they are single when they are not, they are not only deceiving their partner, but there deceiving the person the trying to convince as well. It's so ugly." I couldn't agree more I think anyone who is on here cheating ,should make people they may meet aware of it. Meeting people by being duplicitous isn't on and takes away their choices & makes me angry. | |||
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"Yes No Whatever gets me fucked I'm starting to think I should be like this " Today I'm separated and live with my parents.... | |||
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"Yes No Whatever gets me fucked" Do you look like Holly Willoughby? No? Id fuck you. Yes. Someone else on this site will. | |||
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"Actually single on here? " I am really single | |||
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"I’m not that bothered who’s single or not. Just be honest about it to who you meet. That’s what pisses me off no end. " ^^ she only here for the cock | |||
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"Yes No Whatever gets me fucked I'm starting to think I should be like this It’s there worry not yours so go for it " Only until their scorned partner turns up wielding an axe, which my kids then witness and are traumatized by and then I have to explain my irresponsibility to an ex that just loves to have something on me, and would never let me forget it. Erm no! And that's without even considering my moral compass. | |||
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"Yes No Whatever gets me fucked I'm starting to think I should be like this It’s there worry not yours so go for it Only until their scorned partner turns up wielding an axe, which my kids then witness and are traumatized by and then I have to explain my irresponsibility to an ex that just loves to have something on me, and would never let me forget it. Erm no! And that's without even considering my moral compass." I had this happen ,she didn't turn up but rang me constantly I was seeing a man ,not from here & he told me single ,no kids. He had 2 kids and a long term partner ,she found a text from me and was v angry not surprisingly when she rang me. It took me a long time to convince her that I didn't know she existed & she was devastated. That's why I don't like those who hide that they are in relationships. This was 15 years ago ,but still stays with me. I couldn't knowingly do that to someone else. | |||
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"Actually single on here? Me I am " You want to go on a date and see some wild animals at longleat Zoo | |||
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"Actually single on here? " 4 people | |||
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"Actually single on here? Me I am You want to go on a date and see some wild animals at longleat Zoo " Yes! Especially if they have otters | |||
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"Fabswingers conundrum. If someone claims they are single, are they actually single or taken? C" Is that like the tree in the forest that falls down paradox? | |||
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"Yes No Whatever gets me fucked I'm starting to think I should be like this It’s there worry not yours so go for it Only until their scorned partner turns up wielding an axe, which my kids then witness and are traumatized by and then I have to explain my irresponsibility to an ex that just loves to have something on me, and would never let me forget it. Erm no! And that's without even considering my moral compass. I had this happen ,she didn't turn up but rang me constantly I was seeing a man ,not from here & he told me single ,no kids. He had 2 kids and a long term partner ,she found a text from me and was v angry not surprisingly when she rang me. It took me a long time to convince her that I didn't know she existed & she was devastated. That's why I don't like those who hide that they are in relationships. This was 15 years ago ,but still stays with me. I couldn't knowingly do that to someone else." That's horrible. I can fully understand why you'd not want to go there. | |||
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"Yes No Whatever gets me fucked I'm starting to think I should be like this It’s there worry not yours so go for it Only until their scorned partner turns up wielding an axe, which my kids then witness and are traumatized by and then I have to explain my irresponsibility to an ex that just loves to have something on me, and would never let me forget it. Erm no! And that's without even considering my moral compass. I had this happen ,she didn't turn up but rang me constantly I was seeing a man ,not from here & he told me single ,no kids. He had 2 kids and a long term partner ,she found a text from me and was v angry not surprisingly when she rang me. It took me a long time to convince her that I didn't know she existed & she was devastated. That's why I don't like those who hide that they are in relationships. This was 15 years ago ,but still stays with me. I couldn't knowingly do that to someone else." I’ve had the same thing. Fiancée of a guy I’d been to a few clubs with, stayed overnight with over several months, got in touch - she was pregnant which was a nice extra touch. | |||
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"Actually single on here? Me I am You want to go on a date and see some wild animals at longleat Zoo Yes! Especially if they have otters " Do you love otters as well ??? oh my days we are fated... i have a pet cuddly otter called Oliver .. yes they do have otters and you can actually do a VIP seession where you get to feed them by hand message me lets go on a road trip | |||
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"Actually single on here? Me I am You want to go on a date and see some wild animals at longleat Zoo Yes! Especially if they have otters Do you love otters as well ??? oh my days we are fated... i have a pet cuddly otter called Oliver .. yes they do have otters and you can actually do a VIP seession where you get to feed them by hand message me lets go on a road trip " Sold!!!! | |||
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"Nope ,but then my partner is here too so it's all above board. And that's completely ok. But when people try to convince you they are single when they are not, they are not only deceiving their partner, but there deceiving the person the trying to convince as well. It's so ugly. I couldn't agree more I think anyone who is on here cheating ,should make people they may meet aware of it. Meeting people by being duplicitous isn't on and takes away their choices & makes me angry." It’s very much a consent issue | |||
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"Yes No Whatever gets me fucked I'm starting to think I should be like this It’s there worry not yours so go for it Only until their scorned partner turns up wielding an axe, which my kids then witness and are traumatized by and then I have to explain my irresponsibility to an ex that just loves to have something on me, and would never let me forget it. Erm no! And that's without even considering my moral compass." That sounds horrific! If I had doubts, I would just random call them between five and seven, what’s for dinner? What are you up to? If they regularly don’t pick up or always happen to be in the car or out for a walk, there’s your answer.. | |||
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"Actually single on here? " Yup | |||
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"Yes No Whatever gets me fucked I'm starting to think I should be like this It’s there worry not yours so go for it Only until their scorned partner turns up wielding an axe, which my kids then witness and are traumatized by and then I have to explain my irresponsibility to an ex that just loves to have something on me, and would never let me forget it. Erm no! And that's without even considering my moral compass. That sounds horrific! If I had doubts, I would just random call them between five and seven, what’s for dinner? What are you up to? If they regularly don’t pick up or always happen to be in the car or out for a walk, there’s your answer.." That didn't actually happen. In as answering the poster in a certain way. | |||
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"Yes. Very single, more single than a single thing!" From singles ville In singleshire | |||
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"Yes. Very single, more single than a single thing! From singles ville In singleshire " Shhhhh... Don't give out my address! | |||
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"Yes Is that to me or PW " OP, sorry | |||
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"Yes Is that to me or PW OP, sorry " Damnit, it's okay, so close yet so far | |||
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"I’m not that bothered who’s single or not. Just be honest about it to who you meet. That’s what pisses me off no end. ^^ she only here for the cock " . Not just the cock | |||
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"We’re as married as can be. How about you petite woman ? Are you single? " I am very single. As single as they get....well apart from some mini me's that lurk around my gaff most days | |||
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"Aye quite a few OP, but certainly far fewer than say they are. Men AND women don’t always disclose their true status, including some forum-famous “singletons” It’s up to them what they wish to disclose (of course) but it is quite amusing when *some* attached people are vocal in their condemnation of “cheaters” in public (for virtue points and PR reasons I guess?) when they’re the biggest hypocrites of the lot! I’ve seen that a few times over the years! " Same as the non smokers who smoke . Well over 50% of the people I’ve met easily! | |||
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"Aye quite a few OP, but certainly far fewer than say they are. Men AND women don’t always disclose their true status, including some forum-famous “singletons” It’s up to them what they wish to disclose (of course) but it is quite amusing when *some* attached people are vocal in their condemnation of “cheaters” in public (for virtue points and PR reasons I guess?) when they’re the biggest hypocrites of the lot! I’ve seen that a few times over the years! " Ah the hubby will find this hilarious. | |||
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"Painfully! As much as I wish I were not. " Really? I've done both a couple of times, men and women, and it is hard work. I dipped my foot again last year but it was an effort, I tell you. There is a lot of tortuous twisting and turning, unless you don't. And that is when it ends. I like the idea of being by myself (at least until the burdens leave home) and having the occasional sex through here or IRL. | |||
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"Yes No Whatever gets me fucked Do you look like Holly Willoughby? No? Id fuck you. Yes. Someone else on this site will. " I'm in! | |||
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