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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Tell me if you’re comfortable in group sexual situations and if you’re comfortable in group social situations.

Completely different questions but I like that. I’m provocative. Get the people going.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No to both.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Yes.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Group sex, yes.

Group social. Can I just sneak off and talk to one person at a time please?

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By *en_Dover79Man
over a year ago

Oswaldtwistle

Group sex absolutley. and socials too.. if you aren't then is this the lifestyle for you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Group sex? Never had that yet, but I’m open.

Group socials… I tend to stay away, my introverted self prefers 1-3 ppl groups

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Group sexual...meh

Group social...yes fucking please, even easier if they're all cute as that makes it even easier for some reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Introvert personality so I struggle with group social situations. As for group sexual situations

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By *t0600Man
over a year ago

elvedon

Pretty comfortable in both

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

Love a bit of group fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes.

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What about me? Fgs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No to both. The thought petrifies me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Group socials I’m ok with but not built up the courage to do a group sex or club meet yet …

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Group sex yes. Social interactions, nah. 1-1

my preference

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Yes, no.

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By *olly Goodhead83Woman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Group sex : 100%

Group social : No thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't say I'm not comfortable but both can make me very anxious. What makes me comfortable all depends on the people and the environment -- how familiar I am with either

Certainly most comfortable one-to-one overall, though

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By *lueDressWoman
over a year ago

Bath

I prefer a one on one if Im honest.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Group sex is something that has never appealed to me at all.

Group socials are fine though and been to a few & enjoyed them.

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By *efined gentlemanMan
over a year ago

harrow

Group sex, yes.

Group social situations, no.

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By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

I struggle with social situations to the point I have now given up trying, but I feel at ease and very comfortable within group sex setting and I actively seek those.

Unfortunately, one cannot entirely exist without another.

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By *inky ChefMan
over a year ago

Norwich

Kind of introvert, so group social would be a gamble.

Group sex would be like first Christmas.

I would have the shiniest eyes for sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I struggle with social situations to the point I have now given up trying, but I feel at ease and very comfortable within group sex setting and I actively seek those.

Unfortunately, one cannot entirely exist without another."

This. I’ve had some majorly good spontaneous & otherwise, times at clubs. Because all our daft social pretences have been pared back and we’re all as one

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By *herry delightWoman
over a year ago

Ilfracombe

I enjoy group sex loads be it private party or club pile on the bed.

I avoid social situations even one on one social let alone group.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

On both completely comfortable

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

No. Too many people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not comfortable with people in general, because they are just annoying. So no to both.

Unless it's 2 or more guys getting it on than I'm down for that.

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

Not sure, haven’t been in a group situation for over 4 years.

Think I’m starting to lose my mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a one on one kinda girl

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus


"Not sure, haven’t been in a group situation for over 4 years.

Think I’m starting to lose my mind "

Oh wait! Sexual

Read the OP Kenobi

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

Yes to both ..

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By *hawn ScottMan
over a year ago

london Brixton

I'm quite introverted and bailed on the first group session. Me and my wife then took things slower so ok now

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

Yes to both sometimes.

Other days I like my own company or the company of just one good friend.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"Yes.

What about me? Fgs "

Whatevs

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
over a year ago

Stoke

Group sex, definitely

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Sex - no. I struggle being chatty with one partner never mind two or more.

Socially - no.

I’m just not chatty!

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Seriously, though, I positively thrive. I love it.

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
over a year ago

Tamworth

Yes to both for me

No to both for the Mr

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Socially hell yeah. Sexually nah not for me, because I don’t want to though. I’d probably be confident if I wanted to do it

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I don't like the idea of someone touching me who may have the fluids of the last woman they touched on their hands.

No point gloving up if you chlamydia fingers.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I don't like the idea of someone touching me who may have the fluids of the last woman they touched on their hands.

No point gloving up if you chlamydia fingers.

"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm a one on one kinda girl "
I’ll have a one on one please

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sex - no. I struggle being chatty with one partner never mind two or more.

Socially - no.

I’m just not chatty! "

You don’t need to talk in the sexual situation

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

yes next question

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

Group sexual if I am turned on yes.

Group social yes unless there's too many simultaneous conversations or noise then I struggle to focus.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been in a group sex situation but it doesn’t float my boat.

Socially I’m a bit meh

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Sexual - never done it. Don't think I ever will. So that's a no because it doesn't do anything for me.

Social - erm... once I'm over my sensory overload yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't like the idea of someone touching me who may have the fluids of the last woman they touched on their hands.

No point gloving up if you chlamydia fingers.

"

Nana you often make me laugh

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

Not totally, I'm getting better at both, I just need more practice.

B

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Group social yes, group sex no.

Mrs

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By *ambertMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Depends who's thighs I have round my face at any given time.

Gets an odd look at the staff meetings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being uncomfortable in a group socially but ok in a group sexually makes me think someone’s got issue and should talk to someone about it. I think that’s worrying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not totally, I'm getting better at both, I just need more practice.

B"

Practising on both scores sounds fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Group sex with others around all having pleasure and showing off yes absolutely.

Group social situations. Urgh hell no people. Yuk!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Group sex with others around all having pleasure and showing off yes absolutely.

Group social situations. Urgh hell no people. Yuk!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would survive both. Couldn't promise to enjoy it though.

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By *ensible lady 1960Woman
over a year ago

Near Bishop Auckland.

Group sex = nope. Group social= yes.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Depends on the size of the group.4-6 is ok more than 6 isn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Group sex absolutley. and socials too.. if you aren't then is this the lifestyle for you?"

I don't think that's very fair. People are here for all sorts - they don't have to like group sex or group socials to be here

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Sexually in the past yes but that’s not for me anymore

Socially always

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Social - yes absolutely

Sexual - how many is a group?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Social - yes absolutely

Sexual - how many is a group? "

a group is more than 2 right? But for this we’ll say 3+

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexually yes. More so than 1 to 1.

Socially yes. More so than 1 to 1.

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

yes and yes

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

I'm comfortable in every sense all the time. Except tight spaces. My penis is fine with those though don't worry ladies

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"Social - yes absolutely

Sexual - how many is a group? a group is more than 2 right? But for this we’ll say 3+"

Then I’ll say yes to a small group. The smallest group in fact

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By *appy nakedMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

More comfortable in a group sexual situation than in a group social but soon relax when everyone starts talking

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By *mber81Woman
over a year ago

Lives in Preston, Eng

Group sex - yes

Group social with swingers - yes

Group social with non swingers - occasionally

In all of them I might need to take a time out now and then if it is very loud or busy.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Yes to both x

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex


"Tell me if you’re comfortable in group sexual situations and if you’re comfortable in group social situations.

Completely different questions but I like that. I’m provocative. Get the people going. "

Me and and group sex have a love hate relationship. Sometimes it's been great other times less so and I have really not enjoyed myself. Other times I feel super confident while other times I'm struggling to get it up and comparing myself to the other men or feeling like I'm just slab meat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes to both.

I'm a princess in both scenarios.

F

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Group sexual situations I love and come alive which is funny cos in group social situations I am shy and feel quite uncomfortable.

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex


"Group sexual situations I love and come alive which is funny cos in group social situations I am shy and feel quite uncomfortable. "

Different situations elicit different responses

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Much happier in group sexual situations rather than large social crowds. Lots of people just talking eventually becomes exhausting and I much prefer smaller groups for that.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Yes to both

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By *illyjohnyCouple
over a year ago

brighton

I'm a chat slag and a bigger slag in group sex . John

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes to both.

I'm a princess in both scenarios.

F"

Group sex, nope

Group social, yes

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By *heArrowsCouple
over a year ago

I'm very comfortable in social situations. I'm a natural talker.

I never had a problem with groups.

It's not like you are fucking everyone there. You just focus on what you are going, enjoy the sights and smells and have fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tell me if you’re comfortable in group sexual situations and if you’re comfortable in group social situations.

Completely different questions but I like that. I’m provocative. Get the people going. "

More comfortable in group sexual situations than group social

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

Group social - yes

Group sex - how many makes a group? I find i am better with smaller numbers. I don’t like there being too much going on around me. Maybe it depends on the situation.

Kx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the answer to both is that it depends on the people around you

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Probably more comfortable in group sex situations over group social situations!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Group sex, yes.

Group social. Can I just sneak off and talk to one person at a time please?"

You can hide with me in the kitchen

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By *amieLDN22Man
over a year ago

London

I have social anxiety issues but completely comfortable in group sex situations

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By *azzler2Man
over a year ago

halifax

Yes to both

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow

Group sex - yes and happily one of the first to get it going and get my clothes off

Group social situations - less so

Group social swinging situations - much less so these days, tend to get bored talking about the same old swinging things and my mind wanders imagining somebody naked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tell me if you’re comfortable in group sexual situations and if you’re comfortable in group social situations.

Completely different questions but I like that. I’m provocative. Get the people going. "

They’re both completely different emotionally. There’s no real excitement, tension, thrill of a simply social situation. I’m both comfortable and at the same time slightly uncomfortable in a group sexual context for that reason. Socially I’m neither up nor down really. I tend to be the class clown to get around any anxiety there.

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By *aleakalaMan
over a year ago

Perth Australia

If strangers are involved then I'm more comfortable with group sex than group social situations.

With people I know I'm equally comfortable.

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

Fine with both personally, but if I happen to be with someone who is uncomfortable with either then I always respect that, and go along with their preferred choice.

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By *ubcdverykinkyMan
over a year ago

Bourne lincs

Chance of a group meet would be heaven x but a lot of pics hunters or guys that like to talk about it on here

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