FabSwingers.com forum: Thought's

By *aughty_Smooth_Operator OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

So I met someone not of fabs for fun but all they want is for me to give them oral nothing else ok some fingering to but that's it. Have had one meet so far and wanting me to meet again.

Would like some advice on should I ask for more or just be happy with what I'm getting....

As far as me I would like a little more but think if I did ask for more maybe dumped.

All thoughts would be a great help. Thanks in advance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gosh

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By *athuilMan
over a year ago

up north

Maybe a post oral coffee and some jammie dodgers

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By *aughty_Smooth_Operator OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Maybe a post oral coffee and some jammie dodgers"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s easy, if you’re not happy to stick with what the other person wants, don’t meet them.

Not very cool to try and persuade them further.

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By *ake_or_deathMan
over a year ago

Manchester

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s very early days if you’ve only seen them once.

In fact you did fairly well to get as much as you did!

Maybe they want to get to know you a bit more before having full sex.

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

give the girl a chance,,

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By *aughty_Smooth_Operator OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"It’s very early days if you’ve only seen them once.

In fact you did fairly well to get as much as you did!

Maybe they want to get to know you a bit more before having full sex."

Maybe she doesn't feel ready for it yet I'm happy for a few meets just as she wants

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe a post oral coffee and some jammie dodgers"

Just don’t finger the jammie dodgers.

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By *hatsWhatCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

It’s your Fab journey - do what feels right to you

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By *aughty_Smooth_Operator OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Maybe a post oral coffee and some jammie dodgers

Just don’t finger the jammie dodgers. "

Nope definitely not their getting eaten

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I met someone not of fabs for fun but all they want is for me to give them oral nothing else ok some fingering to but that's it. Have had one meet so far and wanting me to meet again.

Would like some advice on should I ask for more or just be happy with what I'm getting....

As far as me I would like a little more but think if I did ask for more maybe dumped.

All thoughts would be a great help. Thanks in advance

Ok thoughts. If this was me.. if I was gonna dump someone for wanting more I’d not meet them in the first place, and you should see it that way. It’s not take take and one way. I’d have that limit to start maybe, to get used to you and see if you can respect my wishes.maybe next time suggest something short of full sex you would like to do I dunno wank on her or something, blow job that’s sort of thing. See if she will reciprocate. If she won’t have a think if this feels ok and equal to you. It should be a mutual thing.

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
over a year ago

Essex

I think if you’re unhappy with it - don’t do it.

I’m inclined to suggest you are being used.

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By *aughty_Smooth_Operator OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"So I met someone not of fabs for fun but all they want is for me to give them oral nothing else ok some fingering to but that's it. Have had one meet so far and wanting me to meet again.

Would like some advice on should I ask for more or just be happy with what I'm getting....

As far as me I would like a little more but think if I did ask for more maybe dumped.

All thoughts would be a great help. Thanks in advance

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If its not what you want then don't go!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s your Fab journey - do what feels right to you "

The OP mentioned it’s not a Fab meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s very early days if you’ve only seen them once.

In fact you did fairly well to get as much as you did!

Maybe they want to get to know you a bit more before having full sex.

Maybe she doesn't feel ready for it yet I'm happy for a few meets just as she wants

Are you only with her for the hope of sex? Dump her.

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

Stick, no twist.

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By *opetop4UMan
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Did this happen in the back row of the cinema?

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By *aughty_Smooth_Operator OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"It’s very early days if you’ve only seen them once.

In fact you did fairly well to get as much as you did!

Maybe they want to get to know you a bit more before having full sex.

Maybe she doesn't feel ready for it yet I'm happy for a few meets just as she wants

Are you only with her for the hope of sex? Dump her."

Well at the moment it just seems she wants all the pleasure would be nice to get some back even if its not sex and oral in return

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By *aughty_Smooth_Operator OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Did this happen in the back row of the cinema?"

Them days are long gone

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"It’s very early days if you’ve only seen them once.

In fact you did fairly well to get as much as you did!

Maybe they want to get to know you a bit more before having full sex.

Maybe she doesn't feel ready for it yet I'm happy for a few meets just as she wants

Are you only with her for the hope of sex? Dump her.

Well at the moment it just seems she wants all the pleasure would be nice to get some back even if its not sex and oral in return

You've met her once

Don't try to run before you can walk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s very early days if you’ve only seen them once.

In fact you did fairly well to get as much as you did!

Maybe they want to get to know you a bit more before having full sex.

Maybe she doesn't feel ready for it yet I'm happy for a few meets just as she wants

Are you only with her for the hope of sex? Dump her.

Well at the moment it just seems she wants all the pleasure would be nice to get some back even if its not sex and oral in return

You've met her once

Don't try to run before you can walk "

Yeah but what's the point of a woman if she won't fuck and suck?

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By *aughty_Smooth_Operator OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"It’s very early days if you’ve only seen them once.

In fact you did fairly well to get as much as you did!

Maybe they want to get to know you a bit more before having full sex.

Maybe she doesn't feel ready for it yet I'm happy for a few meets just as she wants

Are you only with her for the hope of sex? Dump her.

Well at the moment it just seems she wants all the pleasure would be nice to get some back even if its not sex and oral in return

You've met her once

Don't try to run before you can walk "

Well second meet is asking for oral only so I'm not trying to run

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By *oofy321Man
over a year ago

moon base zero

"give the girl a chance,,"

Do we know its a girl?

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By *aughty_Smooth_Operator OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"give the girl a chance,,

Do we know its a girl?"

Ha ha ha very funny of course it's a girl

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
over a year ago

Essex

I’m obviously not suggesting she should have sex if she doesn’t want to.

BUT. If I were to post here saying bloke wants to meet and wants me to give him a blow job, with nothing in return then I suspect the comments would be :-

He’s a twat

Bin him off he’s a chancer/user etc

Don’t do anything you don’t want to do.

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By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

"I think if you’re unhappy with it - don’t do it.

I’m inclined to suggest you are being used.

I’m with you on this one Misty.

Exactly my thoughts.

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

Why are you worried about being dumped by someone you think doesn't care about what you want, only what they do?

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By *oofy321Man
over a year ago

moon base zero

Maybe she just likes oral and not full sex,but if you want more and she doesn't then maybe stop seeing her

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By *aughty_Smooth_Operator OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Why are you worried about being dumped by someone you think doesn't care about what you want, only what they do? "

I hear what your saying I may do the dumping before she does. Not so sure if I will have a second or more meets

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By *aughty_Smooth_Operator OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"I think if you’re unhappy with it - don’t do it.

I’m inclined to suggest you are being used.

I’m with you on this one Misty.

Exactly my thoughts. "

There was me thinking only the men did the using

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I don't think it sounds like you are being used

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

If you're posting on here thinking about ending it before it's a real thing... end it OP. Sometimes people aren't compatible sexually. You're clearly not happy so why carry it on?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why don’t you ask yourself what you want and act accordingly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did they expressly say they want oral only meets and did you agree to it?

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
over a year ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders

See how it goes, if it looks likely things aren't changing after a few weeks have an open honest conversation with her, could be all kinds of reasons as to why she doesn't want penetrative sex including medical reasons at least knowing will help you decide on what to do

Good luck OP, your needs matter too, the sex is meant to be enjoyable for all

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

Just ask! Ask if they are comfortable telling you why they don't want it packed into!

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

Perhaps if youve been lovebombing her she has learned from previous experiences that sometimes men disappear once theyve conquered

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

May I ask how you met her ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s very early days if you’ve only seen them once.

In fact you did fairly well to get as much as you did!

Maybe they want to get to know you a bit more before having full sex.

Maybe she doesn't feel ready for it yet I'm happy for a few meets just as she wants

Are you only with her for the hope of sex? Dump her.

Well at the moment it just seems she wants all the pleasure would be nice to get some back even if its not sex and oral in return

You've met her once

Don't try to run before you can walk

Well second meet is asking for oral only so I'm not trying to run

It was your first date and she was ok with oral. But now you think you're not compatible because she won't fuck. On the first date.

Honestly, dump her. She can do better. You both can.

First date and she won't fuck like a whore. Fuckinell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take what you can get. Nothing in this life is promised. #Deep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would you settle for something that clearly isn’t satisfying you?

You’ve met each other once, I can’t imagine it being that deep already. My suggestion would be find someone you are compatible with if she’s made it clear that’s all she is looking for.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

You just give oral op with nothing the other way? Not for me, one way sex is not that good to be honest.

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By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

"I think if you’re unhappy with it - don’t do it.

I’m inclined to suggest you are being used.

I’m with you on this one Misty.

Exactly my thoughts.

There was me thinking only the men did the using

As far as I’m concerned, it’s not gender specific.

Unless you were aware prior meeting it’s going to be just that, and agreed to it regardless, that’s completely different story.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s very early days if you’ve only seen them once.

In fact you did fairly well to get as much as you did!

Maybe they want to get to know you a bit more before having full sex."

This makes perfect sense.

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

How about you just ask her?

You’re obviously considering not meeting her again anyway. People can make many untrue assumptions because they are afraid to ask.

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else

"If you're posting on here thinking about ending it before it's a real thing... end it OP. Sometimes people aren't compatible sexually. You're clearly not happy so why carry it on? "

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By *elshcouple18Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"It’s very early days if you’ve only seen them once.

In fact you did fairly well to get as much as you did!

Maybe they want to get to know you a bit more before having full sex.

Maybe she doesn't feel ready for it yet I'm happy for a few meets just as she wants

"
seems like you've contradicted yourself there.. just saying.

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By *erseykevMan
over a year ago

St Helier

Mate! When you've been without sex as long as I have believe me you would be more than happy happy with eating a pussy!

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By *aughty_Smooth_Operator OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"May I ask how you met her ?"

From tinder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This makes perfect sense. "

Thank you. I’m struggling with this thread tbh.

The OP meets someone on Tin**r goes on one date, gives her oral and is now stressing before he’s even had a second date.

Totally overthinking the situation.

Some people won’t even kiss on a first date.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

If it's not working for you then talk to her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This makes perfect sense.

Thank you. I’m struggling with this thread tbh.

The OP meets someone on Tin**r goes on one date, gives her oral and is now stressing before he’s even had a second date.

Totally overthinking the situation.

Some people won’t even kiss on a first date."

I realise that people on a site looking to fuck around will have a different view to normal people but good grief. First date and they're writing her off as useless at sex.

Sex meat. Fuck it, use it, move on to the next batch.

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