FabSwingers.com forum: Solitude or company?

By *mber81 OP Woman
over a year ago

Lives in Preston, Eng

What are you craving most right now? Solitude or company?

What would you be doing with it? Sleeping, conversation, hug, fuck etc?

Or is it something totally different you want?

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

Big fan of prolonged periods of solitude but every now and then a cuddle is nice

Don’t tell anyone though it’ll mess with my stoic persona

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By *heArrowsCouple
over a year ago

Solitude.

A nice quiet room, a book and no one making a sound.

(I spent 12 hours with 30 family yesterday so I'm done with noise and people atm)

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By *tyoursecretserviceMan
over a year ago

Cheltnam

What a great question for a change( on forum).

I suffer PTSD so I do prefer solitude - but my own company is Dangerous for me, so I'm very careful who I choose for a friend.

Then at the same time I crave the company of women no not to chat. Just pure unadulterated sex.

If I could live at the top of a hill and, a sexy female live in the other hill...blisssssss just meet in the middle every day lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really need a long, warm, quiet cuddle tbh

I like solitude but I spend too much time alone. And trying to get to out to meet new people is very stressful for me due to social anxiety/AvPD and sensory issues

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What are you craving most right now? Solitude or company?

What would you be doing with it? Sleeping, conversation, hug, fuck etc?

Or is it something totally different you want?"

I live alone so company is welcome. But enjoy my own time a lot as have hobbies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have solitude for the first time in a long time. I like it, I like me. Other people tend no to so company can do one. Unless it's a dog.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Away for Christmas

Intermittent solitude. Brief chat with specific people is okay.

Like Elphaba says though, company with dogs is acceptable at all times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Company. I don't do well being alone for long periods of time. I'm a complete social animal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Company for the most part, but I need and respect the need for some alone time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Solitude for me right now but that’s with 4 assignments to work on and submit in the next 6/7 weeks.

I’d much rather hugs and intimacy but I don’t mind my own company either.

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere

I think company at the moment…. Some proper intimacy….not a soulless unconnected fuck - a proper intimate encounter.

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

Right now. The kind of company that comes in the form of two people in shared solitude. If that makes any sense.

But that's a very rare thing. So I'll sit with the memory of it a while. Still not got the work I need to do done.

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By *mber81 OP Woman
over a year ago

Lives in Preston, Eng

"Big fan of prolonged periods of solitude but every now and then a cuddle is nice

Don’t tell anyone though it’ll mess with my stoic persona "

I need a little solitude too. And definitely need a cuddle from time to time. But don't worry it is just you and i on this forum noone else will find out how sensitive we actually are.

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By *mber81 OP Woman
over a year ago

Lives in Preston, Eng

"Solitude.

A nice quiet room, a book and no one making a sound.

(I spent 12 hours with 30 family yesterday so I'm done with noise and people atm)"

Oh I would be rocking in a quiet corner if I had that long with that many members of my family. I hope you get the calm and quiet you need today. X

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

When working I prefer solitude but can chat online when the mood takes me or listen to music/radio.

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By *lueDressWoman
over a year ago

Bath

I love My own company, always have.But was bombarded for many years with people.And it was driving Me insane.

So now I am so so lucky to have daytimes mon - fri on My own

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

"What are you craving most right now? Solitude or company?

What would you be doing with it? Sleeping, conversation, hug, fuck etc?

Or is it something totally different you want?"

Hugging in a big bed. Because I like hugs. There is something confirming about it

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By *mber81 OP Woman
over a year ago

Lives in Preston, Eng

"What a great question for a change( on forum).

I suffer PTSD so I do prefer solitude - but my own company is Dangerous for me, so I'm very careful who I choose for a friend.

Then at the same time I crave the company of women no not to chat. Just pure unadulterated sex.

If I could live at the top of a hill and, a sexy female live in the other hill...blisssssss just meet in the middle every day lol x"

If I could live in the middle of nowhere with no neighbours but a major city is only 15 min drive away, Uber eats delivers all the best food, and an amazing club is only 30 min drive away I would be happy.

Quiet and solitude in a major city is all I ask.

Yours sounds a little more achievable tbf.

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By *heArrowsCouple
over a year ago

"Solitude.

A nice quiet room, a book and no one making a sound.

(I spent 12 hours with 30 family yesterday so I'm done with noise and people atm)

Oh I would be rocking in a quiet corner if I had that long with that many members of my family. I hope you get the calm and quiet you need today. X"

Thanks Amber. It was wonderful torture. I have 2 kids at home ill atm but they are being ill and quiet so it's wonderful.

I love your profile. I'm more of a cream sponge cake type person myself but all your mentions were more than passable. I used to disagree about starwars and star trek but I'm now firmly in your camp.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I'd like an easy, shared company. Where we can talk if wanted, can also sit quietly with each other. Listening to music, watching something. Drinking a hot drink. Something to take my mind off the pain. I'm counting down the hours until my fiancé finishes work.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Solitude, always solitude.

The mr

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

I love shared silence.

But for now I have my dogs and that’s more than enough

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By *aiseiMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Like most, a mix.

I generally prefer having plenty of my own space, but hugs and cuddles from the right folks are greatly appreciated.

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By *mber81 OP Woman
over a year ago

Lives in Preston, Eng

"I really need a long, warm, quiet cuddle tbh

I like solitude but I spend too much time alone. And trying to get to out to meet new people is very stressful for me due to social anxiety/AvPD and sensory issues"

A warm, quiet cuddle sounds lovely. Being comfortable with someone in silence is beautiful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love solitude nothing better getting in from work and chilling out without anyone saying we need to do this or go there I do like company but I really like been alone.my job I see hundreds of different people a week so I'm not a loner just like being alone things are going to be interesting soon my daughter moving in with me I've been alone for 20 years I'm definitely set in my ways.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Solitude here too.

Mrs

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"What are you craving most right now? Solitude or company?

What would you be doing with it? Sleeping, conversation, hug, fuck etc?

Or is it something totally different you want?"

Connection

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By *appyhippoWoman
over a year ago

coventry

Solitude right now!

Think I have hit my limit of peopling, or it could be the limit of idiots and selfish people not quite sure!

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By *MattyMan
over a year ago

Naked coffee house near you - Wiltshire - Swindon

i love to be around people and is sooo bloddy cold so could do with a warm up too lol, but tea drining on my own just not the same lol

kettles on .....

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By *ake_or_deathMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I like solitude but I've had a LOT of it recently and I'd love some relaxed company which would ideally involve me resting my head on a woman's chest for a while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Solitude always! I'd like to be led on a sun lounger somewhere hot, being left alone

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

I like to have the choice.

I lived by myself in my mid-20s for a few years. I loved it. I was in control of when I was social and when I really, really wasn't.

I wouldn't change my family life but it does come at the expense of peopley overwhelm at times.

Mrs TMN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could do with a cuddle but quite enjoying my solitude.

I could do with that big blue fluffy thing from the cuppa soup adverts and they'd I'd be good.

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By *unCycleGymRepeatMan
over a year ago

Greater London

Company. Not a fan of being on my own.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Solitude. An open fire and a cup of tea and some cake with the radio on in the background.

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By *ick-Dastardly-Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.

"What are you craving most right now? Solitude or company?

What would you be doing with it? Sleeping, conversation, hug, fuck etc?

Or is it something totally different you want?"

Solitude is addictive

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By *ambertMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"What are you craving most right now? Solitude or company?

What would you be doing with it? Sleeping, conversation, hug, fuck etc?

Or is it something totally different you want?"

A cabin with a fireplace, a decent whisky and high speed Internet please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Right persona company

Adults enjoying being joyous

Make noise... I was told to shut up as a child so silence is not golden for me op.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d like your company, OP

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Solitude so I can sleep this sickness away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I pretty much exclusively prefer my own company.

I don’t mix with muggles too well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer solitude. I love being alone to recharge.

Occasionally I do like a good proper hug and a deep, meaningful chat with someone though.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Right now I'm craving very specific company. I haven't spoken to a single human since yesterday lunchtime and am unlikely to until Wednesday morning, and while I usually don't mind just my own company I'm wishing I weren't alone right now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Company.

First a fuck, followed by a conversation and cuddles.

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