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By *mber81 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Lives in Preston, Eng

What's for you, won't go by you.

I think this might actually be a Scottish phrase. It means don't spend too much time worrying about something because if fate intends you to have it then you will.

Personally I think it is trite bollocks.

What phrase do you hear that resonates with you or pisses you off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where there's a will, there's a way.

What bollocks.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"What's for you, won't go by you.

I think this might actually be a Scottish phrase. It means don't spend too much time worrying about something because if fate intends you to have it then you will.

Personally I think it is trite bollocks.

What phrase do you hear that resonates with you or pisses you off?"

It is scottish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's for you, won't go by you.

I think this might actually be a Scottish phrase. It means don't spend too much time worrying about something because if fate intends you to have it then you will.

Personally I think it is trite bollocks.

What phrase do you hear that resonates with you or pisses you off?"

Ah see I kind of like this phrase. One of my friends lives by it. I like to think Ryan won't pass me by.

Ones I hate?

"Smile, it might never happen"

" We're all the same height laid down!"

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

TOTAL BOLLOCKS

I hate that.

What doesn't kill you, makes you stronger - I mean, sometimes. Other times, it leaves you with trauma.

Mrs TMN x

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"TOTAL BOLLOCKS

I hate that.

What doesn't kill you, makes you stronger - I mean, sometimes. Other times, it leaves you with trauma.

Mrs TMN x"

Divorce certainly does

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By *nFairnessMan
over a year ago

The Four Corners


"What's for you, won't go by you.

I think this might actually be a Scottish phrase. It means don't spend too much time worrying about something because if fate intends you to have it then you will.

Personally I think it is trite bollocks.

What phrase do you hear that resonates with you or pisses you off?"

Oh I could have a very interesting conversation/debate with you about this. I support that sentiment 100%. Everything happens for a reason and have never been shown otherwise. Would be very interested in your reasoning and your perspective.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"TOTAL BOLLOCKS

I hate that.

What doesn't kill you, makes you stronger - I mean, sometimes. Other times, it leaves you with trauma.

Mrs TMN x

Divorce certainly does "

Did it kill you, though? You must be stronger!

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"TOTAL BOLLOCKS

I hate that.

What doesn't kill you, makes you stronger - I mean, sometimes. Other times, it leaves you with trauma.

Mrs TMN x

Divorce certainly does

Did it kill you, though? You must be stronger! "

Fuck me, I lost 4 stone and my hair went grey. Never again!

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By *nFairnessMan
over a year ago

The Four Corners


"TOTAL BOLLOCKS

I hate that.

What doesn't kill you, makes you stronger - I mean, sometimes. Other times, it leaves you with trauma.

Mrs TMN x

Divorce certainly does

Did it kill you, though? You must be stronger! "

Trauma is trauma when you are in it. growth comes from stepping out of it and making/having different choices I would argue you stand to gain.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"TOTAL BOLLOCKS

I hate that.

What doesn't kill you, makes you stronger - I mean, sometimes. Other times, it leaves you with trauma.

Mrs TMN x

Divorce certainly does

Did it kill you, though? You must be stronger!

Trauma is trauma when you are in it. growth comes from stepping out of it and making/having different choices I would argue you stand to gain."

Potentially, yes. But only if you manage to find your way through it.

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By *nFairnessMan
over a year ago

The Four Corners


"TOTAL BOLLOCKS

I hate that.

What doesn't kill you, makes you stronger - I mean, sometimes. Other times, it leaves you with trauma.

Mrs TMN x

Divorce certainly does

Did it kill you, though? You must be stronger!

Trauma is trauma when you are in it. growth comes from stepping out of it and making/having different choices I would argue you stand to gain.

Potentially, yes. But only if you manage to find your way through it. "
agree completely... I just don't like the idea of people out there thinking that trauma is permanent or letting it define them. Takes some self reflection, And often a fresh perspective... but its all doable.

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester


"What's for you, won't go by you.

I think this might actually be a Scottish phrase. It means don't spend too much time worrying about something because if fate intends you to have it then you will.

Personally I think it is trite bollocks.

What phrase do you hear that resonates with you or pisses you off?"
Buy it today it'll be gone tomorrow

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"TOTAL BOLLOCKS

I hate that.

What doesn't kill you, makes you stronger - I mean, sometimes. Other times, it leaves you with trauma.

Mrs TMN x

Divorce certainly does

Did it kill you, though? You must be stronger!

Trauma is trauma when you are in it. growth comes from stepping out of it and making/having different choices I would argue you stand to gain.

Potentially, yes. But only if you manage to find your way through it. agree completely... I just don't like the idea of people out there thinking that trauma is permanent or letting it define them. Takes some self reflection, And often a fresh perspective... but its all doable."

Absolutely. For me, the flip side is if you are struggling, hearing "what doesn't kill you makes you stronger" is liable to makes you feel worse.

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Things happen for a reason …… how many times I heard this when my grandson died made me want to scream

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Work hard pays off. I'm still waiting for the reward.

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By *nFairnessMan
over a year ago

The Four Corners


"TOTAL BOLLOCKS

I hate that.

What doesn't kill you, makes you stronger - I mean, sometimes. Other times, it leaves you with trauma.

Mrs TMN x

Divorce certainly does

Did it kill you, though? You must be stronger!

Trauma is trauma when you are in it. growth comes from stepping out of it and making/having different choices I would argue you stand to gain.

Potentially, yes. But only if you manage to find your way through it. agree completely... I just don't like the idea of people out there thinking that trauma is permanent or letting it define them. Takes some self reflection, And often a fresh perspective... but its all doable.

Absolutely. For me, the flip side is if you are struggling, hearing "what doesn't kill you makes you stronger" is liable to makes you feel worse. "
I can understand that I suppose. How insightful.

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By *inky ChefMan
over a year ago

Norwich

Life is what you make it

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over


"Life is what you make it"

That is deep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Living the dream makes my blood boil!!

This is a common phrase amongst pissed off squaddies haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whenever I'm feeling down about my particular situation, my tells me "things don't stay the same forever". It pisses me right off because I know she thinks it's helpful but thinking it might be better in future doesn't help me feel better in the present

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By *inky ChefMan
over a year ago

Norwich


"Life is what you make it

That is deep "

It's the one pissing me off.

Sorry, posted it unfinished.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I live by the what's for me won't pass me by saying. It's the straw I cling too I do think that what we may want isn't the same as 'what's for us', so plenty is passing me by and it's a bastard to wave it on

I hate the saying we just need to learn resilience when life is kicking is in the bollocks. We arent learning any resilience just drowning instead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Crime doesn't pay

I know a couple of people who disprove that.

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