FabSwingers.com forum: Is sex EVER

By *lamdaddy OP Man
over a year ago

London

Better than expected?!

These days obviously there's usually quite a bit of build up to sex right? Over these messages things. So have you ever had it better than what you anticipated in your head from having their chat and sexy pictures - or has it just been great as expected, but nothing more wild?

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Of course it can be. Expect disappointment so it's only ever as good as you expect or potentially better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I've had waaaaay better sex than I imagined it would be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I once dated someone who on so many levels wasn't very exciting but he was surprisingly great at sex. Bless him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's never as good as I want it to be, of course the one common denominator is me....

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Absolutely it can be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh my gosh, yes. One guy I was so unsure about whether we were going to be compatible sexually, but we just completely fit together! There was a lot of build up and about 5-6 dates beforehand

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

The second threesome we had really took me by surprise with how good it was, and that was after already having had a great first threesome with the same lady. Luke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

YES!

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Oh hell yes.

What about you, Brucey?

Mrs TMN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes unexpected as well was left used confused covered in cum wishing I had gotten the guys number and he hadn’t ran off

Went for a little spa day

Exchanged a hello would you like to play

Guy smash my back doors in for 40 minutes straight blow his load over my ass cheeks and walked off never to be see again it’s definitely a hollow victory as it was good but knowing I never experienced him again as I didn’t know him is a bummer

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By *ixed MisterMan
over a year ago

London

Fuck yes!! Luckily I have a good few of those over the years. Even with the build up and the amazing thoughts beforehand its managed to go well beyond.

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By *lamdaddy OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Oh hell yes.

What about you, Brucey?

Mrs TMN x"

Oh thanks for asking.

I don't know about better, it has been as good as I imagined I would be though. I'm pretty thorough for really going through what we want and expect before having sex with someone though so that no awkward moments are likely to happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads better and I want more - he knows this too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me? Yes absolutely!

For the people that have sex with me? Absolutely not. Well it might be sometimes, when they’re shagging other people. But not the times they’re having sex with me.

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

So much better than I thought

Tinder x

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Well the sex at the weekend with a single male and a single female who are our FWB’s and they were meeting to play for the first time was pretty special.

Sexy AF!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes!

Especially when it's someone you've not seen for a while or had sex with someone for the first time.

It can be one of those, 'Christ oh my god' moments. Just had some on wed/sat to be fair :D

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Um.

I don't think I place a lot of expectations on sex.

I'm often dazed and confused and shaky legged and satisfied at the end of it. But I've never felt disappointed at the end of a sexual encounter. At least, not by the content, sometimes by the fact that our time is over for now, but always just a I wish we had more time to enjoy each other than an I wish we'd done x y and z instead.

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By *eliciousDiva69Woman
over a year ago

Schitts Creek

With little or no expectations, absolutely! Although there is one person who literally blew my mind and every time I’ve met him it’s just got better and better so even with expectations I guess it depends on the person

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

I’ve certainly had some pleasant surprises. And some where I’ve surprised myself with what they’ve brought out of me …

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

Yes, and I love it when it happens. I love being pleasantly surprised

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It used to be..

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"Oh hell yes.

What about you, Brucey?

Mrs TMN x

Oh thanks for asking.

I mean, making sure you're on the same page in advance is always good - but you can never completely tell how the chemistry's going to work until you're there in person, can you?

Mrs TMN x

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By *lamdaddy OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Oh hell yes.

What about you, Brucey?

Mrs TMN x

Oh thanks for asking.

I mean, making sure you're on the same page in advance is always good - but you can never completely tell how the chemistry's going to work until you're there in person, can you?

Mrs TMN x"

See I think you can if you know exactly what you're into and the flirty lead up.

Basically straight in, kiss - crack on. She was even more hot in real life I guess than I predicted?

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Absolutely

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"Oh hell yes.

What about you, Brucey?

Mrs TMN x

Oh thanks for asking.

I mean, making sure you're on the same page in advance is always good - but you can never completely tell how the chemistry's going to work until you're there in person, can you?

Mrs TMN x

See I think you can if you know exactly what you're into and the flirty lead up.

Basically straight in, kiss - crack on. She was even more hot in real life I guess than I predicted?"

Have you never been surprised by something during sex, then? Something new, different, unexpected?

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By *lamdaddy OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Oh hell yes.

What about you, Brucey?

Mrs TMN x

Oh thanks for asking.

I mean, making sure you're on the same page in advance is always good - but you can never completely tell how the chemistry's going to work until you're there in person, can you?

Mrs TMN x

See I think you can if you know exactly what you're into and the flirty lead up.

Basically straight in, kiss - crack on. She was even more hot in real life I guess than I predicted?

Have you never been surprised by something during sex, then? Something new, different, unexpected? "

No but I basically completed acts a long time ago that I ever cared to try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I was OK for medicore sex this morning and it was in fact exquisite.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"Oh hell yes.

What about you, Brucey?

Mrs TMN x

Oh thanks for asking.

I mean, making sure you're on the same page in advance is always good - but you can never completely tell how the chemistry's going to work until you're there in person, can you?

Mrs TMN x

See I think you can if you know exactly what you're into and the flirty lead up.

Basically straight in, kiss - crack on. She was even more hot in real life I guess than I predicted?

Have you never been surprised by something during sex, then? Something new, different, unexpected?

No but I basically completed acts a long time ago that I ever cared to try

Sex? Completed it, mate.

Not me. Every day's a sexy school day with Mrs TMN

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I've been lucky and had some amazing sex.

But I don't have an expectation, I fully understand everyone's different and some are going to be amazing and others not no matter what.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think I've been lucky and had some amazing sex.

But I don't have an expectation, I fully understand everyone's different and some are going to be amazing and others not no matter what.

Make sure I'm on the lower level of your expectations.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"No but I basically completed acts a long time ago that I ever cared to try

You need to open your mind, Brucey. Allow people to surprise you a little.

I didn’t think I wanted anyone rimming me until a delightful woman from Fab was laid between my legs going down on me and went all the way further down there … and well. Let me tell you, that was a very pleasant experience.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

Not of late sadly

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Yes... With an old flame. We surprised ourselves.

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else

Yes. A partner and I clicked so well sexually that I learned things I didn’t know about my body. Really pleasant surprises - like that I can have serial multiple orgasms. The kinds of orgasms I previously thought were fiction. When they happen I look like I’m having seizures. It’s a relatively new development and I’m still quite taken aback by it.

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

I’ve had way better sex than I thought I’d have and I’d like more

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"No but I basically completed acts a long time ago that I ever cared to try

You need to open your mind, Brucey. Allow people to surprise you a little.

He gets it!

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By *lamdaddy OP Man
over a year ago

London

"No but I basically completed acts a long time ago that I ever cared to try

You need to open your mind, Brucey. Allow people to surprise you a little.

Been rimmed. Great.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

"No but I basically completed acts a long time ago that I ever cared to try

You need to open your mind, Brucey. Allow people to surprise you a little.

Been rimmed. Great.

NEXT"

You sound bitter lol

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By *lamdaddy OP Man
over a year ago

London

"No but I basically completed acts a long time ago that I ever cared to try

You need to open your mind, Brucey. Allow people to surprise you a little.

Been rimmed. Great.

You sound bitter lol"

Borrrrring

No I agree with the fine gentlemen but aside from the shivering thought of being pegged I have done pretty much everything I find sexy!

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

Is it just me that doesn't like the build up? I mean, I've always discussed boundaries, and general likes and dislikes. But don't come telling me you're going to perform your list of "special" moves that never fails to impress the ladies on me

Be spontaneous, read my body and reactions like I'm going to read yours...sex by numbers is going to result in your little winky thinking he's gone on holiday to the Sahara desert!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. I was OK for medicore sex this morning and it was in fact exquisite.

Who was the unlucky victim?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been pleasantly surprised before.

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By *untimes wantedMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield

I have found from using these sites the more a guy wants to chat about sex before actually doing it, normally it turns out half of it is fantasy in their head they don't actually go through with on the day.

same with those they want a step by step list of how things will go.

Much rather chat about things other than sex to get an idea of their personality sense humour etc.

Just enough chat about sex that we are looking for similar things and set any boundries.

The best sex for me is when just go with the flow and see what happens without working to a check list.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"No but I basically completed acts a long time ago that I ever cared to try

You need to open your mind, Brucey. Allow people to surprise you a little.

Been rimmed. Great.

You sound bitter lol

Borrrrring

No I agree with the fine gentlemen but aside from the shivering thought of being pegged I have done pretty much everything I find sexy!"

I'm pretty sure there's a few women on here who would love to see your reaction to that. We could take it in turns

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

"No but I basically completed acts a long time ago that I ever cared to try

You need to open your mind, Brucey. Allow people to surprise you a little.

Been rimmed. Great.

You sound bitter lol

Borrrrring

No I agree with the fine gentlemen but aside from the shivering thought of being pegged I have done pretty much everything I find sexy!

I'm pretty sure there's a few women on here who would love to see your reaction to that. We could take it in turns

Haha I'm with you on that

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

The quiet ones really are the best

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