FabSwingers.com forum: Confidence is key

By *weet.touch OP Man
over a year ago

north west

How attractive is confidence to you? I love a confident social lady.

I think confidence is key.

Some ladies might not know what exactly they want in a man but a lot of the time it comes down to confidence.

Being cocky is not the same.

My problem is charisma and confidence is hard to display online, hard to separate yourself from the rest.

So I'll soon be attending club events as a single male.

Wish me luck

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I like confidence sometimes but I do quite like shy men

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

Love confidence. Such an attractive quality

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By *weet.touch OP Man
over a year ago

north west

"I like confidence sometimes but I do quite like shy men "

I love all walks of life, shy and slightly strange women have a place in my heart... but a confident lady has never gone unnoticed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me confidence in anything come from experience. I just don't have the experience with ladies or sex to be or give off confidence.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Quiet confidence.

A calm confidence.

A level of shyness is nice too, but to much of that just can hide too much personality which is off putting.

Arrogance is okay to a point, as its a fine line but it far too quickly becomes overconfidence and a superiority trait

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By *lamdaddyMan
over a year ago

London

I'm confident, it doesn't work out for me here but it does in general life. Make of that what you will!

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

For some men that confidence comes across as arrogance...total turn off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really like confidence as long as it's not bolshy/arrogant/OTT. I find it a really attractive trait in a person.

I like men and ladies who are confident in themselves and are happy to strike up a conversation. When it comes to sex I also find confidence a huge turn on. Shyness doesn't really do anything for me.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

It’s a very delicate line, I like women who are confident/ gutsy but don't see it I guess it’s more courage than confidence

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I like confidence however I detest arrogance and there's a fine line.

There's nothing wrong with people lacking in confidence either, making someone with low confidence feel good about themselves and shine can be incredibly sexy.

Mrs

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By *nyx_xyMan
over a year ago

It really depends.

Some people are confident about who they really are, which can be super attractive.

Others can be confidently delusional, which is insufferable.

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By *mber81Woman
over a year ago

Chorley, Eng

"Quiet confidence.

A calm confidence.

This absolutely. A calm quiet confidence is incredibly sexy.

I have found loud bolshy confidence is often a sign of the opposite. Not always though.

Lower confidence in some areas is absolutely fine too as I definitely love telling people about the things that I think are wonderful about them.

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