FabSwingers.com forum: New member issue

By *lexr5044 OP Man
over a year ago

horsforth

Hey everyone , just a quick one, is there some sort of algorithm on here as I dont get any message reply, any profile visits or anything, Good lucking lad with good banter but not much going on.

Cheers

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By *ick-Dastardly-Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.

"Hey everyone , just a quick one, is there some sort of algorithm on here as I dont get any message reply, any profile visits or anything, Good lucking lad with good banter but not much going on.

Cheers "

Self praise is no recommendation apparently so they say...

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

No, that's pretty normal and not an algorithm or anything like that. A lot of guys have trouble breaking in, apparently, because women in particular get so many messages. (Women also tend to look at profiles in what's known as stealth mode - there's a setting where you don't show up on views. I did just look at your profile, and you'd only know because I just told you)

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

You're not a lad, you're in your 40's. And most swingers will want more than "banter."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello and welcome to the lounge no algorithm going on at all

Fab can be hard for single guys with the number heavy 10-1 in terms off woman 5-8 to 1 in terms off couples

Best thing I can recommend for single guys is get yourself to soicals and clubs whare the numbers suit better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You won’t be for everyone on here

Self praise and all that

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
over a year ago

South West London

Socials I don't mind but won't be going to swinging clubs where they charge top dollar entry price for single men compared to women and couples

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

"Socials I don't mind but won't be going to swinging clubs where they charge top dollar entry price for single men compared to women and couples "

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That has no bearing to the OP's post. It's irrelevant.

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By *aiseiMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Nope, no algorithm.

Unfortunately you’re just one of many tens of thousands of men on here and therefore about as unique as single a blade of grass in an entire lawn on passing view by someone else.

But….put effort into your profile and pics, stay respectful, keep posting in the forums so people get to know you a bit, get to some socials and treat them as such and you’ll make yourself stand out.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

User interaction isn't governed by algorithms here, it's 100% authentic. I don't know what your expectations were but it really helps if they are realistic, especially if a single man.

There's incredible levels of choice here, so people can find close matches to what they want. Just as having a phone number or website doesn't get punters making contact with a new business, having a profile and sending some messages doesn't get the knickers dropped and make compatibility like magic here.

It's worth reading some of the posts from men who struggle, seeing the advice given and what may be relevant for you OP.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Hey everyone , just a quick one, is there some sort of algorithm on here as I dont get any message reply, any profile visits or anything, Good lucking lad with good banter but not much going on.

Cheers "
when you say you're good lucking is that a reference to your gambling skills

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

The three ps

1 patience. It can treasure weeks or months ti get a reply

2 persistence keep sending good replies after you have read the profile and natch what the profiler is looking for

3 profile have a good one use the search on the forums for hundreds of threads of advice

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Most women & couples view in stealth mode so you won't see they've looked.

There's absolutely tons of men to every woman & couple.

I'm afraid it's time to get used to hardly any replies.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No disrespect to the op, but his question really tickled me

Ignorance really is bliss where this site and single men are concerned

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"The three ps

1 patience. It can treasure weeks or months ti get a reply

2 persistence keep sending good replies after you have read the profile and natch what the profiler is looking for

3 profile have a good one use the search on the forums for hundreds of threads of advice"
should be four P's Penis

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

You’ve been here over a year. I’d ring head office your vagina conveyor belt must be lost in the post.

The mr.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Algorithms

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By *cott73Man
over a year ago

brighton

Anyone using the word 'banter' gets in the algorithm corner...

Thems the rules.

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By *aiseiMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

"You’ve been here over a year. I’d ring head office your vagina conveyor belt must be lost in the post.

The mr.

That must absolutely be my problem too, then.

Bloody Yodel……

Disclaimer - Yodel have been very good with my deliveries, in truth.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Join in with forum/cam room chat op and get noticed. Forget about sending messages, women and couples get large numbers. Good luck!

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Hey everyone , just a quick one, is there some sort of algorithm on here as I dont get any message reply, any profile visits or anything, Good lucking lad with good banter but not much going on.

Cheers "

FAB is really simple. Firstly, you need to be aware that single guys outnumber everyone else by 10 to 1, so competition is high. You need to stand out from the crowd.

Secondly, you need to understand that what you put on your profile will hugely impact how much interest you get. Use the forum search features to look for profile advice and message advice.

Thirdly, the site requires patience. Just like real life, crossing paths with someone you find attractive AND who also finds you attractive can take some time... there are many on here who have been here for over a year without getting as much as one reply to their messages.

Finally, getting verified helps but isn't a silver bullet. You can EASILY get verified by attending organised socials or visiting a club... club staff are generally happy to verify people.

Cal

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Also, FAB was created long before algorithms were invented. There is no system interacting with your profile or messages, and definitely no AI embedded into the site... you need to rely on your own real intelligence to figure out how the game is played.

Cal

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Also, FAB was created long before algorithms were invented. There is no system interacting with your profile or messages, and definitely no AI embedded into the site... you need to rely on your own real intelligence to figure out how the game is played.

Cal"

I suppose it's yet another trendy thing to blame when it's too hard to look at yourself and what you're doing wrong.

Damn it AI! Never mind my enormous flaws, it's all the AI! (not aimed at the OP or anyone else, more a societal phenomenon of blaming the fashionable thing rather than looking at yourself)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Socials I don't mind but won't be going to swinging clubs where they charge top dollar entry price for single men compared to women and couples "

You do realise that the women spend 4xs the single guy entry on getting their hair/nails done, waxing, buying sexy lingerie and heals for the evening only to be followed around by single guys in polo shirts and jeans wanking their cocks through their open flies, right? Clubs where there are strict dress codes like torture Garden men and women pay the same entry because they have put in the same level of effort.

Hope this clears thing up. Now back to the OP

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By *ick-Dastardly-Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.

Nobody likes me, I'll blame it on the algorithms!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Welcome , Good Looking Guy with Banter.

No algorithm.

What , precisely, were you expecting ?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

P.S.

Your , 'I don't bite' line is often reviled on the forums but don't let that put you off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi Op

New member issue?

Been here over a year is not new member op.

It is the way fab is, you message, you not get a reply means not their type. Without having to respond, yes no response means no.

Over a year members should know the norm. It will never change op.

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

No, it's just...it's a jungle here man. Strap on tight!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Algorithms.. Is that fake orgasm.

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

OK so ypu say you are a new member but one look at your profile tells us that's not true.

You've been here over a year and still not worked out how the site works?

Women will look at your profile and if they don't like what they see the won't bother with your message it's that simple really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nobody likes me, I'll blame it on the algorithms! "

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

U are rather cute! Surprised u don't get lots of interest! X

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

"Socials I don't mind but won't be going to swinging clubs where they charge top dollar entry price for single men compared to women and couples "

Allways think that's very unfair! I usually pair up with someone so it's just the couples fee x

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By *ick-Dastardly-Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.

"Socials I don't mind but won't be going to swinging clubs where they charge top dollar entry price for single men compared to women and couples

Allways think that's very unfair! I usually pair up with someone so it's just the couples fee x"

It's discrimination.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Socials I don't mind but won't be going to swinging clubs where they charge top dollar entry price for single men compared to women and couples

Hope this clears thing up. Now back to the OP

You should work in Marketing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Welcome , Good Looking Guy with Banter.

No algorithm.

What , precisely, were you expecting ?"

Not the Spanish Inquisition…?..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m new to the site and just assumed it was like the rest of life. You get what you put in and nobody is entitled to anything.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

"Nobody likes me, I'll blame it on the algorithms!

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If all else fails blame it on the boogie. ¶¶||¶..¶

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

"I’m new to the site and just assumed it was like the rest of life. You get what you put in and nobody is entitled to anything. "

Spot on but some think because it's the kind of site it that women will be queuing up to drop their knickers.

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By *NGthe2ndWoman
over a year ago

Here and there

I guess you also need to look at it like real life. There's someone out there, you've just got to be patient enough to find them.

Sorry, boring answer but that's all I have and it worked for me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What’s Al Gore’s rhythm got to do with Fab?

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