FabSwingers.com forum: What are the most important values

By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

you follow in your life? Light hearted and semi serious - for me they include honesty, loyalty and a good bottle of red wine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Family first, self respect, consideration, tolerance, the ability to fasten stockins

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Honesty, respect, equality.

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Family first, self respect, consideration, tolerance, the ability to fasten stockins"
Love everyone of yours - try hold ups?

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

If it feels wrong,it most likely is,don't do it.

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By *oulou45Woman
over a year ago

Bucks

Its nice to be important but more important to be nice. Well I try to be lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

treat others as you wish to be treated

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By *oasterCockbumMan
over a year ago

Highway 61

My kids happiness .... humanity ... and my natural ability to get absoluteleyed via a liason with a single malt ....

Oh , and keepin craws away .... obviously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"treat others as you wish to be treated

i was just about to say that lol

and that does not only go for people that goes for anything in life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mercy

Kindness

Empathy

A good bottle of Red

Shit, that last one has been done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Teaching my kids right from wrong loving and caring for them and honesty.

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"If it feels wrong,it most likely is,don't do it.

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Sadly that means most fun is out

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"treat others as you wish to be treated

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I like to think I try and live by that - including sharing my bottle of red

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"My kids happiness .... humanity ... and my natural ability to get absoluteleyed via a liason with a single malt ....

Oh , and keepin craws away .... obviously "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it feels wrong,it most likely is,don't do it.

Sadly that means most fun is out

My mother once said "I wish I'd done a bit more of what my mother told me not to..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To quote the great Rufus "Be excellent to each other"

But for me: honesty, respect, loyalty, the ability not to be an asshole when d*unk.

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"If it feels wrong,it most likely is,don't do it.

Sadly that means most fun is out

My mother once said "I wish I'd done a bit more of what my mother told me not to..."

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I like that

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"..., the ability not to be an asshole when d*unk.

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Love the idea of a negative statement turned in to a positive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

be true to yourself

look out for number one

trust no one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"treat others as you wish to be treated

I like to think I try and live by that - including sharing my bottle of red

cheers can I have a white instead please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honesty & Integrity

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"be true to yourself

look out for number one

trust no one"
Love the first one and that is you to a TEE

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"treat others as you wish to be treated

I like to think I try and live by that - including sharing my bottle of red

cheers can I have a white instead please

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Now you are pushing it ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it feels wrong,it most likely is,don't do it.

Sadly that means most fun is out

My mother once said "I wish I'd done a bit more of what my mother told me not to..."

)I like that

my Nans saying was

Go to you grave regretting the things you have done rather than those you havnt

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Honesty & Integrity

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Can I ask you what you understand by integrity as I have found different people have associated different meanings to that?

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

"If it feels wrong,it most likely is,don't do it.

Sadly that means most fun is out

if everyone is having fun,that can never be wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest

To treat people as I would like to be treated

To look out for all my family and close friends

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By *aris23Woman
over a year ago

France

Faithfulness, honesty and consideration.

I often joke with people that patience is a virtue - and I'm a very virtuous lady..lol

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Humility, Individuality, Diversity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"treat others as you wish to be treated

I like to think I try and live by that - including sharing my bottle of red

cheers can I have a white instead please

Now you are pushing it ...

nothing new there then

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By *smCouple
over a year ago

Liskeard

live every moment

love beyond words

laugh every day

honesty is paramount

and always talk things through with the ones you love, because you never know when they may be taken from you xHSM

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Faithfulness, honesty and consideration.

I often joke with people that patience is a virtue - and I'm a very virtuous lady..lol"
I like the "consideration" - it is about treating others as you d like to be treated I guess?

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Humility, Individuality, Diversity"
My list would include all those as well.

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"treat others as you wish to be treated

I like to think I try and live by that - including sharing my bottle of red

cheers can I have a white instead please

Now you are pushing it ...

nothing new there then

I think I better grant you the white - comes under "treating others as you would like to be treated" after all

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"live every moment

love beyond words

laugh every day

honesty is paramount

and always talk things through with the ones you love, because you never know when they may be taken from you xHSM"
So so so true!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"treat others as you wish to be treated

I like to think I try and live by that - including sharing my bottle of red

cheers can I have a white instead please

Now you are pushing it ...

nothing new there then

I think I better grant you the white - comes under "treating others as you would like to be treated" after all

oooo thankyou - now what can I get you ??

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"treat others as you wish to be treated

I like to think I try and live by that - including sharing my bottle of red

cheers can I have a white instead please

Now you are pushing it ...

nothing new there then

I think I better grant you the white - comes under "treating others as you would like to be treated" after all

oooo thankyou - now what can I get you ??

I have had no wine tonight... so I ll be ready for a large one tomorrow night if the offer is still going ?;-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"..., the ability not to be an asshole when d*unk.

Love the idea of a negative statement turned in to a positive

Why thank you

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

Stand by your opinions...I will stick with what I believe unless a good arguement changes my mind (to be honest it doesn't happen often)

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Do to others as you wish to be done to you and try to leave things in a better state than when you found them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loving broadly and deeply

Learning and adapting continually

Acting with integrity

Passion live life to its fullest potential

Respect to treat people as you would like to be treated

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By * n zCouple
over a year ago

leamington spa

I would say trust your gut instincts, and never be quick to judge someone, there's always more than one side to a story.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone who says "Live life to the max" never really does. It's just one of the slogans put about by Pepsi.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Honesty

respect

empathy

Value yourself

Love unconditionally those that love you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honesty, Respect and to trust my Intuition (its usually always right!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never expect nothing from anyone and always treat people with respect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honesty, it sometimes works in your favour swingingly and can work against you too.

Embrace your independance too, if single, just enjoy it, so often i read,, "lookin for a partner", well,been there, done that personally and for me certainly, swinging solo is and has been the best fun.

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Never expect nothing from anyone and always treat people with respect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Learn from the past, live for the present, look forward to the future.

Also appriciate the things you have, not the things you don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loving yourself if you want happiness rather than expect happiness from someone else loving you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

like yourself, be as kind to animals and people as you can and dont take them for granted because you may regret it one day.

dont be a doormat.

dont feel you have to be like everyone else.

dont expect things to go the way you want them too, then you wont be so disapointed.

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Polonius has some great lines, not the least of which is "To thine own self be true".

Get that right and the rest's easy.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Honesty, respect, equality."

Yep! Respect and equality allow honesty in a good way

and these three qualities are not common enough.

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

I'll never grow up, and I'll never grow old, blame it on my love of rock and roll!!!

Sorry, was singing along to that whilst I read the thread. Seemed apt!!!

On a more serious note, I'd rather be hated for telling the truth, then liked for living a lie.

And a good bottle of Russian Vodka for when things go tits up!!

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"I'll never grow up, and I'll never grow old, blame it on my love of rock and roll!!!

Sorry, was singing along to that whilst I read the thread. Seemed apt!!!

On a more serious note, I'd rather be hated for telling the truth, then liked for living a lie.

And a good bottle of Russian Vodka for when things go tits up!! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Live simply to simply live. Works for me.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

There is only one Universal Truth:

Try not to be a dick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There is only one Universal Truth:

Try not to be a dick

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ok but godda go pick up me Mazarati from the valet right now.xxx

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley

Faith, hope and charity.

Have faith in others

Have hope in what you can achieve

The charity to forgive and forget

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

"you follow in your life? Light hearted and semi serious - for me they include honesty, loyalty and a good bottle of red wine

Be true to myself always...can't go far wrong..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't assume others have the have values as you !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't take anything at all seriously, it's all just bollocks anyway so you may as well laugh through it

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Faith, hope and charity.

Have faith in others

Have hope in what you can achieve

The charity to forgive and forget

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I particualrly like the bit about Charity.

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Don't assume others have the have values as you !"
Another interesting and valid point - assuming this often causes a clash between people whoi would otherwise get on well.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I don't have values. I'm a diva - I only have demands.

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"I don't have values. I'm a diva - I only have demands.

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That is ok.. it is a value in itself. Achieving others to respond to it is an achievement

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley

"Faith, hope and charity.

Have faith in others

Have hope in what you can achieve

The charity to forgive and forget

I particualrly like the bit about Charity.

A family member once said to be able to forgive someone is one of the greatest and hardest things for a person to do. Was listening to a article about a lady that forgave a driver that had caused the death if her husband. She asked the court to go lightly on the driver. I am sure I could not forgive so easy. The lady made me feel very humble

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Faith, hope and charity.

Have faith in others

Have hope in what you can achieve

The charity to forgive and forget

I particualrly like the bit about Charity.

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I guess we never know how we would feel if something affected us personally - but it makes me feel humble, too.

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