FabSwingers.com forum: Male half of a couple

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I stopped meeting couples as I was finding the male half was asking for one on one meets.

Recently I thought I would meet couples again and surprise surprise just had the male half of a genuine couple knock on my front door asking about meeting up with just him.

Is it just me or has anyone else experience this?

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By *unchalMan
over a year ago

Dartford

"I stopped meeting couples as I was finding the male half was asking for one on one meets.

Recently I thought I would meet couples again and surprise surprise just had the male half of a genuine couple knock on my front door asking about meeting up with just him.

Is it just me or has anyone else experience this?

Fucking bastard. I wish. I can't believe he found you desireable. What a git! Seriously. That is sneaky and a bit creepy. One of the things I like about all these apps, including this one usually, is that we can be completly honest about what we want. There is no excuse for not telling you up front. I hope he wasn't scary.

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By *abrielle43Woman
over a year ago

Kildare

Yes I'm often asked for 1-1 with the guy but I only meet them together. I did it once after a 4 and 3 with them and the woman was fully aware and we chatted about it afterwards but I wouldn't do it again as I think she was upset which made me feel awful.

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By *abrielle43Woman
over a year ago

Kildare

"Yes I'm often asked for 1-1 with the guy but I only meet them together. I did it once after a 4 and 3 with them and the woman was fully aware and we chatted about it afterwards but I wouldn't do it again as I think she was upset which made me feel awful. "

They haven't turned up at the house though.

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By *heArrowsCouple
over a year ago

I never asked for a 1-1 meet. We were always looking for a third.

I'm sorry that happened to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I stopped meeting couples as I was finding the male half was asking for one on one meets.

Recently I thought I would meet couples again and surprise surprise just had the male half of a genuine couple knock on my front door asking about meeting up with just him.

Is it just me or has anyone else experience this?

Are you going to fuck him or tell his wife?

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

"I stopped meeting couples as I was finding the male half was asking for one on one meets.

Recently I thought I would meet couples again and surprise surprise just had the male half of a genuine couple knock on my front door asking about meeting up with just him.

Is it just me or has anyone else experience this?

Are you going to fuck him or tell his wife?"

Maybe she knows?

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

We've had the Male of verified couples recently message in the hope of meeting alone. Part of a swinging couple yet looking to cheat on their partner.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Someone knocking on your door

Somebody ringing your bell

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

"I stopped meeting couples as I was finding the male half was asking for one on one meets.

Recently I thought I would meet couples again and surprise surprise just had the male half of a genuine couple knock on my front door asking about meeting up with just him.

Is it just me or has anyone else experience this?

Yeah I had this happen at my old apartment when I used to do meets at my place .. I met a couple once was cool and stuff ... then a few weeks later got a random knock at the door and it was the guy seeing if I was about for a quick fuck ...not impressed ..

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By *dy-ukTV/TS
over a year ago

Alcester

I'm single, so nothing to hide.

Often see 'couple' profiles, where the lady is never available, business trip, stuck in the loo, wherever, it's always just the male looking

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By *rixie_BlondeWoman
over a year ago

London (She/Her)

Yeah, and the male half says, “what?! It’s just sex!”

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By *dreamofunicornsWoman
over a year ago

wakefield

Iv had the same but never a knock at the door thankfully. Its just goes to show even couples that enjoy a extra female the male can't always be trusted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met as a couple with a couple - they were both keen afterwards to have one on one meets with us separately. We declined, although they contacted and suggested it again a few times. So not just men

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By *ileen doverWoman
over a year ago

faberdare

Yip I won’t though meet just the male half I don’t do drama

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I stopped meeting couples as I was finding the male half was asking for one on one meets.

Recently I thought I would meet couples again and surprise surprise just had the male half of a genuine couple knock on my front door asking about meeting up with just him.

Is it just me or has anyone else experience this?

I have met them as a couple, which is why he know were I lived. I did invite him in just being friendly, not as a invite. Lucky he left not long after he release it was a no.

I was more pissed off then scared. Rethink my decision to meet couples again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Male halves of genuine couples don’t make me. Only men pretending to be couples.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Male halves of genuine couples don’t make me. Only men pretending to be couples. "

I would say at least 50% of couples are men. Normal you can tell as there profile is just female pictures. Because the the fictitious female can't take pictures of the male.

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By *dy-ukTV/TS
over a year ago

Alcester

I'm amazed at the amount of 'couples' only were the only male only available, all alone but clearly state they are 100% straight. Send me messages asking me to meet up and all the sexual things they'd love to do

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By *hunky ChefMan
over a year ago

Norwich

"I stopped meeting couples as I was finding the male half was asking for one on one meets.

Recently I thought I would meet couples again and surprise surprise just had the male half of a genuine couple knock on my front door asking about meeting up with just him.

Is it just me or has anyone else experience this?

Probably they are just single men with couple profiles.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

No never experienced this. Was this the first meet?

We always ask for the first meet to be a social in a public bar so that should the unthinkable happen and only one member of the couple turn up we can walk away.

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By *nyx_xyMan
over a year ago

Feel sorry that the OP had a bad experience, but this feels like a lack of due diligence to me.

It isn’t necessary to meet people for the first time at one’s own home. And even then, it’s possible to video call with everyone you intend to meet (both halves of the couple for example) so that everyone knows what’s going on.

All of this won’t prevent a determined liar from turning up, but it reduces the odds significantly.

Happy to be corrected if I’m missing something here though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've noticed if a few of the couples we've spoken to the male half seems to get over eager and at that point we stop talking.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

"Feel sorry that the OP had a bad experience, but this feels like a lack of due diligence to me.

All of this won’t prevent a determined liar from turning up, but it reduces the odds significantly.

Happy to be corrected if I’m missing something here though. "

I didn’t read it as he was faking being a couple. I read it as the bloke going behind the woman’s back to chance his arm at a one to one.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

"I stopped meeting couples as I was finding the male half was asking for one on one meets.

Recently I thought I would meet couples again and surprise surprise just had the male half of a genuine couple knock on my front door asking about meeting up with just him.

Is it just me or has anyone else experience this?

Well to try to restore some faith, as the male half of a couple who never asks to meet alone, will always be with Mrs.

Well unless she's off doing her hotwife thing and I'm at home watching the telly, point is we are not all like that.

Jools has actively been trying to get me to meet alone and it's not my thing at all.

I'm just happy to chat with no expectations.

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By *orthsouth4957Couple
over a year ago

swords

"Male halves of genuine couples don’t make me. Only men pretending to be couples.

I would say at least 50% of couples are men. Normal you can tell as there profile is just female pictures. Because the the fictitious female can't take pictures of the male. "

Nearly all our photos are of baby on our profile because I love showing her off and also the reason we are here is because she loves exploring girl on girl fun, we know not all people are honest not only here but to each other, been on this journey has made us even tighter because we are totally honest and so open with each other and would never do anything unless we we’re together and both happy. Unfortunately others have agendas and you need to be careful. That is also why we like meeting at clubs because you can read people better.

Terrible that you had to experience this and he should be called out for his behaviour

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By *nyx_xyMan
over a year ago

"I didn’t read it as he was faking being a couple. I read it as the bloke going behind the woman’s back to chance his arm at a one to one. "

Fair point, and I’m not trying to diminish the guy’s responsibility in all this.

My perspective is: choosing not to meet couples at all is one potential solution. Another is to be much more selective about who, where, and how soon one chooses to meet.

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

It seems to me that some couples join Fab with the best intentions of meeting other men, women and couples.

After a short while, the woman loses interest, but the man continues to use their profile to suck in females in the hope of a meet or a chance to engage in wank chat.

The only solution is to ask to speak to the woman before agreeing to the meet. At that point there will be a plethora of excuses as to why she cannot do that, at which point you report, block, delete and move on.

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By *unchalMan
over a year ago

Dartford

"Someone knocking on your door

Somebody ringing your bell"

Do me a favour

Open the door and let 'em in

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

If you have already met and you know their a genuine couple then if his wife/partner is unaware then he’s a sneaky bastard …Majority of the times we have this it’s just fake couple accounts ..

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By *unchalMan
over a year ago

Dartford

"Male halves of genuine couples don’t make me. Only men pretending to be couples. "

What he says

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By *randMrsLPCouple
over a year ago

london

A long time back when i was an experience cuk - when Mrs was alone with a guy, a few tried to get her to meet them without my knowldge, lol.

Good thing is we stopped meeting people at our place and nor did they have wifes number and nor was she going to cheat as she was NSA cocks

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By *unchalMan
over a year ago

Dartford

"Male halves of genuine couples don’t make me. Only men pretending to be couples.

I would say at least 50% of couples are men. Normal you can tell as there profile is just female pictures. Because the the fictitious female can't take pictures of the male. "

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

"Male halves of genuine couples don’t make me. Only men pretending to be couples.

I would say at least 50% of couples are men. Normal you can tell as there profile is just female pictures. Because the the fictitious female can't take pictures of the male.

Really? I hate the idea of that. Don't you think they are men who have split up and trying to recreate something or am I being too generous? I have certainly been 'lured' a couple of times by men who eventually admit there are no women or they have hurt their back..."
We’ve been messaged by a few couples profile where it’s run by the man as they have split so yeah theirs definitely a lot of couples profiles that shouldn’t be ..We also get a lot of men message us that have their gender as female it’s purely to get through filters ..

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

So many different types of fake profiles out there. So many different types of genuine people out there, being genuine about meeting doesn’t guarantee they will be nice.

Don’t let it put you off couples altogether. There are some truly lovely ones out there.

Clubs and socials do allow you more choice and the ability to gauge their personalities.

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By *randMrsLPCouple
over a year ago

london

if you are unsure profile is fake or not - as we get nearing to agreeing a possible meet, we have asked for the bloke to send a pic holuding our user name and u can do that with a couple - if they are genuine you will get the pic

A cuople of guys went all quite when we asked them to hold our username and their face pic - their profiles were loaded with face pics already, so a luck escape

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Yeah, it happens. Set your boundaries and do your due diligence

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So many different types of fake profiles out there. So many different types of genuine people out there, being genuine about meeting doesn’t guarantee they will be nice.

Don’t let it put you off couples altogether. There are some truly lovely ones out there.

Clubs and socials do allow you more choice and the ability to gauge their personalities."

Clubs are not an option as I don't drive and I worked it out if everything runs on time it would take me 6 hours to get to the nearest club and I wouldn't be able to make it back to catch the last bus home.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you have already met and you know their a genuine couple then if his wife/partner is unaware then he’s a sneaky bastard …Majority of the times we have this it’s just fake couple accounts .."

I have meet them both a few times and they are married. He was being sneaky.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

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