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By *ruceyy OP   Man
over a year ago

London

Women, what are you looking for?

It seems a lot of you don't want casual hook ups right? A fair few of you. You want something more but nothing labelled. So kind of like friends with benefits but not super regular as much as good friends would.

What even is a friends with benefits to you - what does your relationship have to be like with them and how often do you need to meet/chat?

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Well I imagine it's like most guy's.

They want their cake and eat it.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Personally, I'm here to see what's happening at the clubs that aren't listed elsewhere and chat to the people I meet there and on the forums.

I don't need or actively seek any additional penis here

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By *ister1Man
over a year ago

north west


"Well I imagine it's like most guy's.

They want their cake and eat it."

I like a nice slice of cake xx

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I’d like to meet maybe twice a month. The sex would have to be super hot.

No needy texts in between shags wanting me to tell them how much my pussy yearns for their amazing cock.

Messages saying hi and being genuinely interested in day to day life is fine. But not at 3am when they’re laying awake with a hard on and they’ll steer the convo to sex chat. No. Just no.

No romantic chit chat. You don’t get to romance me unless you ARE romancing me.

The sex has to stay at amazing.

The snogging has to be good too.

They have to have a sense of humour.

But most importantly, not be needy. Needy men dry my fanny up something chronic.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.


"I’d like to meet maybe twice a month. The sex would have to be super hot.

No needy texts in between shags wanting me to tell them how much my pussy yearns for their amazing cock.

Messages saying hi and being genuinely interested in day to day life is fine. But not at 3am when they’re laying awake with a hard on and they’ll steer the convo to sex chat. No. Just no.

No romantic chit chat. You don’t get to romance me unless you ARE romancing me.

The sex has to stay at amazing.

The snogging has to be good too.

They have to have a sense of humour.

But most importantly, not be needy. Needy men dry my fanny up something chronic."

Damn that's me out on all counts especially the amazing sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women, what are you looking for?

It seems a lot of you don't want casual hook ups right? A fair few of you. You want something more but nothing labelled. So kind of like friends with benefits but not super regular as much as good friends would.

What even is a friends with benefits to you - what does your relationship have to be like with them and how often do you need to meet/chat?"
Quite literally what I’m looking for doesn’t seem to actually exist! Forums only now

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales


"I’d like to meet maybe twice a month. The sex would have to be super hot.

No needy texts in between shags wanting me to tell them how much my pussy yearns for their amazing cock.

Messages saying hi and being genuinely interested in day to day life is fine. But not at 3am when they’re laying awake with a hard on and they’ll steer the convo to sex chat. No. Just no.

No romantic chit chat. You don’t get to romance me unless you ARE romancing me.

The sex has to stay at amazing.

The snogging has to be good too.

They have to have a sense of humour.

But most importantly, not be needy. Needy men dry my fanny up something chronic.

Damn that's me out on all counts especially the amazing sex."

Nooooooooooooooooooooooo!

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Oh Brucey... why do we need to be looking for anything? *big, dramatic sigh*

Is it not enough to just be exhibitionists and attention seekers and just want to flirt with all the flirty people?

And for me, an FWB is exactly what it says on the tin. A friend. Someone I like spending time with, can go out and do things with, sit on the settee and talk for hours with, and sometimes, when the mood takes us, I sit on his face. Or penis. Or he ties me up and gives me orgasms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a semi regular thing would be nice. I am still meeting others but someone that I can call spontaneously would make my life easier. Not overly often once a week or once every 2 something like that.

We have sex lots of it a chat maybe a few laughs then they go.

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By *mber81Woman
over a year ago

Chorley, Eng

Something between friend with benefits where we speak every couple of weeks not just about sex but about life and meet at minimum once every 4 months to a relationship where we speak often offer emotional support and make the effort to see each other much more often. How much, how often would depend on their circumstances.

I need them to be about to communicate and be clear about what they want too.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I want tits in my face.

Mrs

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By *ruceyy OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"I want tits in my face.

Mrs "

You and me both sister!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just want awesome sex now and then with someone who also doesn't mind spending a bit of time just being with me for a while. Doesn't have to be the same someone all the time. I'm quite a simple being really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably not much help but what I’m looking for depends on my mood at the time.

I can go for a week or so without feeling remotely sexy, other times I need instant gratification.

I dip in and out of Fab like a sweet shop picking here and there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't want a "friend" as such. A friend to me is someone I talk to regularly and they know everything about me, no one here knows everything about me on here, and it's staying that way!

Ideally. 3 guys who I can message/talk to now and again, not every day, not every week. But we can talk general crap and they can make me smile.

Then 2/3 times a year we can meet up and have some slightly above average sex.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Too long-winded to explain . I know it when I find it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not that hard really.. communication, consistency and cock is all we need. The amount of men that can't follow through on this is the reason regular arrangements are a rare thing.

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"I’d like to meet maybe twice a month. The sex would have to be super hot.

No needy texts in between shags wanting me to tell them how much my pussy yearns for their amazing cock.

Messages saying hi and being genuinely interested in day to day life is fine. But not at 3am when they’re laying awake with a hard on and they’ll steer the convo to sex chat. No. Just no.

No romantic chit chat. You don’t get to romance me unless you ARE romancing me.

The sex has to stay at amazing.

The snogging has to be good too.

They have to have a sense of humour.

But most importantly, not be needy. Needy men dry my fanny up something chronic.

"

All those needs lol

I'm more knee deep than needy, and it's all in clunge. I'm trying to fend it off it just keeps frantically paddling my way. I may have to leave this site soon if it doesn't at least slow down just a little. Nobody warns people what fab can be like sometimes! pt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women, what are you looking for?

It seems a lot of you don't want casual hook ups right? A fair few of you. You want something more but nothing labelled. So kind of like friends with benefits but not super regular as much as good friends would.

What even is a friends with benefits to you - what does your relationship have to be like with them and how often do you need to meet/chat?"

Just start with a hello and see where it leads. If there's no connection move on. Far too much overthinking on here.

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By *ruceyy OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"It's not that hard really.. communication, consistency and cock is all we need. The amount of men that can't follow through on this is the reason regular arrangements are a rare thing."

Distance probably ruins the consistency thing for many though to be fair.

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