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Why do I always wake up at this time?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

For the past week I've been waking up at 2/3am and it's really starting to piss me off .

I'm not in the mood for sex and I'd hate to wake Mr when he's up in a couple of hours for work anyway.

I got really pissed off yesterday with something and I've put my pride aside and asked for help on this matter.. Revealing to people what I've been going through the last few years

I need a cup of tea, a cuddle and my forehead kissed.

And yes, please feel sorry for me whilst I pick myself up from the floor.

F

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By *an de LyonMan
over a year ago

welling


"For the past week I've been waking up at 2/3am and it's really starting to piss me off .

I'm not in the mood for sex and I'd hate to wake Mr when he's up in a couple of hours for work anyway.

I got really pissed off yesterday with something and I've put my pride aside and asked for help on this matter.. Revealing to people what I've been going through the last few years

I need a cup of tea, a cuddle and my forehead kissed.

And yes, please feel sorry for me whilst I pick myself up from the floor.

F"

Tea on its way. Biccy too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Tea on its way. Biccy too"

You are a sweetheart

F

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By *an de LyonMan
over a year ago

welling


"

Tea on its way. Biccy too

You are a sweetheart

F"

Milk? Sugar?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Tea on its way. Biccy too

You are a sweetheart

F

Milk? Sugar?"

Please. Just a little bit of each

F

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope you r ok nothing worse when you can't sleep

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By *an de LyonMan
over a year ago

welling


"

Tea on its way. Biccy too

You are a sweetheart

F

Milk? Sugar?

Please. Just a little bit of each

F"

Done. With you in five

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’re not alone. I too was up around this time, almost every night without fail.

I usually try to read a few pages of a book to try and send myself back off.

Seeing as you’re already fixed for tea, I’ll kiss ya forehead and stroke your hair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*wake*

Typo fix

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hope you r ok nothing worse when you can't sleep "

Thank you

F

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You’re not alone. I too was up around this time, almost every night without fail.

I usually try to read a few pages of a book to try and send myself back off.

Seeing as you’re already fixed for tea, I’ll kiss ya forehead and stroke your hair. "

You're a gentleman. Thank you. A hair stroke would be amazing, my leg hairs are getting long enough to run between your fingers now.

F

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You’re not alone. I too was up around this time, almost every night without fail.

I usually try to read a few pages of a book to try and send myself back off.

Seeing as you’re already fixed for tea, I’ll kiss ya forehead and stroke your hair.

You're a gentleman. Thank you. A hair stroke would be amazing, my leg hairs are getting long enough to run between your fingers now.

F"

Oooft! Can I plait it?

And nobodies ever accused me of being a gentleman before.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

Hope you’re ok. I’m up for a bit too.

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By *imber wolfMan
over a year ago

Aycliffe

This isn’t a one off, I often wake up in the early hours.

I find 20 minutes of doom scrolling tends to make my eyelids heavy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hope you’re ok. I’m up for a bit too. "

F

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This isn’t a one off, I often wake up in the early hours.

I find 20 minutes of doom scrolling tends to make my eyelids heavy."

I think I'm just going to read a book. Mr is up in a hour and I'll have a cup of tea with him then.

F

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth


"This isn’t a one off, I often wake up in the early hours.

I find 20 minutes of doom scrolling tends to make my eyelids heavy.

I think I'm just going to read a book. Mr is up in a hour and I'll have a cup of tea with him then.

F"

What’s your book?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This isn’t a one off, I often wake up in the early hours.

I find 20 minutes of doom scrolling tends to make my eyelids heavy.

I think I'm just going to read a book. Mr is up in a hour and I'll have a cup of tea with him then.

F

What’s your book? "

The thing about Clare - Imogen Clark. I really like her writing style. My unlimited kindle subscription finishes in a few days so need to get through it before I lose access to the book. Then I can make a start on my 200 physical TBR pile

F

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth


"This isn’t a one off, I often wake up in the early hours.

I find 20 minutes of doom scrolling tends to make my eyelids heavy.

I think I'm just going to read a book. Mr is up in a hour and I'll have a cup of tea with him then.

F

What’s your book?

The thing about Clare - Imogen Clark. I really like her writing style. My unlimited kindle subscription finishes in a few days so need to get through it before I lose access to the book. Then I can make a start on my 200 physical TBR pile

F"

Is it good? I was looking at that the other day.

They were doing 3 months free the other day… I just signed back up.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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Is it good? I was looking at that the other day.

They were doing 3 months free the other day… I just signed back up. "

I'm only about 30% through but I'm finding it OK. I don't necessarily find her books have wildly intricate story lines but I do find them an easy read which I enjoy sometimes

F

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By *andadbodMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Lots on your mind?

If you find it difficult to talk to anyone, write them down like a diary, never read it back to yourself though, i find this a great way to vent off……. oh and don’t have any caffeine after noon, if you do that is.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Only for the last week I've been waking up at odd hours for years you get used to it in the end

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Lots on your mind?"

A ton.


"If you find it difficult to talk to anyone, write them down like a diary, never read it back to yourself though, i find this a great way to vent off……. oh and don’t have any caffeine after noon, if you do that is."

I do have my husband to talk to, thankfully. I usually walk to clear my mind a bit. I'm looking forward to the kids getting up so we can go out.

F

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry, I'll put the voodoo doll down...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For the past week I've been waking up at 2/3am and it's really starting to piss me off .

I'm not in the mood for sex and I'd hate to wake Mr when he's up in a couple of hours for work anyway.

I got really pissed off yesterday with something and I've put my pride aside and asked for help on this matter.. Revealing to people what I've been going through the last few years

I need a cup of tea, a cuddle and my forehead kissed.

And yes, please feel sorry for me whilst I pick myself up from the floor.

F"

Sounds like something stressful that has been building up. Hopefully now it's in the open you can get outside help to fix it. When the stress eases your brain will stop waking you in the night. If you expect to wake at 2am for the next week you can be ready for it. Maybe trawl the forums, they're usually pretty WTF at night.

Hope things get better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been doing similar. Feels like my body clock has shifted. I put mine down to being menopausal but that probably isn't the case with you, OP

It's frustrating and I haven't founda way to break the cycle yet.

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By *obajxMan
over a year ago

Cheshire


"For the past week I've been waking up at 2/3am and it's really starting to piss me off .

I'm not in the mood for sex and I'd hate to wake Mr when he's up in a couple of hours for work anyway.

I got really pissed off yesterday with something and I've put my pride aside and asked for help on this matter.. Revealing to people what I've been going through the last few years

I need a cup of tea, a cuddle and my forehead kissed.

And yes, please feel sorry for me whilst I pick myself up from the floor.

F

Sounds like something stressful that has been building up. Hopefully now it's in the open you can get outside help to fix it. When the stress eases your brain will stop waking you in the night. If you expect to wake at 2am for the next week you can be ready for it. Maybe trawl the forums, they're usually pretty WTF at night.

Hope things get better. "

I've been waking up at silly o'clock for months

A number of things are stressing me out and no matter what I attempt, I can't rid myself of the insomnia and my mind racing at 3/4am

Perhaps I've just turned into a grumpy old bastard who hates himself for being old and grumpy

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire


"Sorry, I'll put the voodoo doll down..."
,, you are the voodoo doll x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Waking up at 3 am is a thing. It's particularly prevalent if your diabetic ( just been diagnosed) but non the less it's a scientific fact . Just can't remember why lol. Google it though it makes for an interesting read.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Throwing a smutty fantasy book your way, and gently placing a cup of tea on the bedside cabinet. Now go back to bed

LvM

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Do you drink caffeine in the evening.

Are you worried about something.

Do you wake up to pee.

Are you going to bed too early.

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By *obajxMan
over a year ago

Cheshire


"Do you drink caffeine in the evening.

Are you worried about something.

Do you wake up to pee.

Are you going to bed too early.

"

Absolutely not

Too many things

No

No

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you drink caffeine in the evening.

Are you worried about something.

Do you wake up to pee.

Are you going to bed too early.

"

Yes Nanna, but please don't tell me off. Be gentle .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Had an appointment today and they cancelled it when I got there because something wasn't up to date. I woke up from my nap to get to that appointment too . Life has it in for me right now.

F

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