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By *ittycen OP   Man
over a year ago

south west

That’s a Monty python reference rather than an actual complaint.

I’ve just realised that no women have looked at my profile for at least a month, every viewing is male. There are a handful of couples who have taken a look, but I always get the feeling they are usually the male half looking.

Do most of you ladies stop your viewing being shown, or am I just attractive to men?

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

Yes they have!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look at profiles in stealth mode. So for all you know, there could be hundreds of ladies viewing your profile every day.

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

Ps... The stoning scene??

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By *ittycen OP   Man
over a year ago

south west


"Ps... The stoning scene?? "

Indeed

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

[Removed by poster at 13/10/23 22:25:55]

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

It's all the ninjas...

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By *ittycen OP   Man
over a year ago

south west


"I look at profiles in stealth mode. So for all you know, there could be hundreds of ladies viewing your profile every day."

If only lol! Yeah, possibly. I suspect you would get loads of messages saying “saw you looking!”

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Not having ninja mode on means a constant stream of "I saw you look" messages. Fuck that noise. I can't imagine many women live outside of ninja mode.

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By *ittycen OP   Man
over a year ago

south west

God I’ve just looked at my winks. Last one from a woman was over a year ago (although I don’t claim to get many!).

Just gonna sit in a corner and stare into my drink I think…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have stealth mode activated, just because too many messages were sent to me by guys I had looked at and they had taken my looking as me being interested.

You don't know if you're interested until you've looked though do you?

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By *orny-DJMan
over a year ago

Leigh-on-Sea

Most women view in mode, so you won't know how many women actually are looking at your profile.

They do this to avoid the inevitable 'I saw you looked at my profile...' messages

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By *inky ChefMan
over a year ago

Norwich


"That’s a Monty python reference rather than an actual complaint.

I’ve just realised that no women have looked at my profile for at least a month, every viewing is male. There are a handful of couples who have taken a look, but I always get the feeling they are usually the male half looking.

Do most of you ladies stop your viewing being shown, or am I just attractive to men?"

I'll see you on physio therapy, when your hand can't handle it anymore either. Always a new years wow I change hand, but never do.

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

No none

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By *andadbodMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Most women will not show on your “looked at me”, mainly because they’ll start getting messages like “you looked but never messaged, why?” and that’s just a headache they can do without on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

always

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Stealth mode here too, it's not worth the messages showing up on who's looked at me.

Mrs

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By *ez669Man
over a year ago

East Kilbride

Also use stealth mode but actually pointless as i cant help but fab any nice pics or videoa i come across

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have stealth mode activated, just because too many messages were sent to me by guys I had looked at and they had taken my looking as me being interested.

You don't know if you're interested until you've looked though do you? "

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Jehova !

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

Suffering suckatash

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"That’s a Monty python reference rather than an actual complaint.

I’ve just realised that no women have looked at my profile for at least a month, every viewing is male. There are a handful of couples who have taken a look, but I always get the feeling they are usually the male half looking.

Do most of you ladies stop your viewing being shown, or am I just attractive to men?"

It is a foolish woman/couple who peaks out from behind the stealth curtain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No women here op..

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"I look at profiles in stealth mode. So for all you know, there could be hundreds of ladies viewing your profile every day.

"

This. And there are so many more men, most of whom don't get inundated with messages whenever they start to openly look at random people.

Btw, the viewing figure that the mobile site gives you doesn't include hidden profiles either, so nobody really knows how many views they get a day.

And a lot of men do hide their profiles too!

Fab is a huge place, and many if not most of those men's looks could be out of pure curiosity and possibly a harmless natural instinct to see what is out there/the 'competition'. There are a lot of bi men on Fab too though.

pt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I look at profiles in stealth mode. So for all you know, there could be hundreds of ladies viewing your profile every day."

That’s even worse, because if there are hundreds of viewers, none of them feel inclined to make contact!…..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I view in stealth mode a lot of women do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not having ninja mode on means a constant stream of "I saw you look" messages. Fuck that noise. I can't imagine many women live outside of ninja mode."

Agree! Plus tbh I don’t think a lot of women need to go ‘hunt’ for profiles - I tend to only look at the ones of people who have messaged me, or maybe looked at me if a nice pic catches my eye

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