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By *ruceyy OP   Man
over a year ago

London

Why not take a chance on the people you think are shit?

Food for thought this evening. Hope everyone's had some food this evening.

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

Had a bit of crumpet earlier lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just had pizza.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chicken drumsticks and chocolate (not on the same plate)

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

The man is on to something here.

Better the shit you know, right?

As usual the womens of the place don't take things serious enough and focus on the food.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Fab exists mainly on first looks. It's only if they chat that you can show your worth

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton


"The man is on to something here.

Better the shit you know, right?

As usual the womens of the place don't take things serious enough and focus on the food. "

Well I would but you keep ignoring me

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By *ruceyy OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"The man is on to something here.

Better the shit you know, right?

As usual the womens of the place don't take things serious enough and focus on the food. "

Hence them going for shit men. It all makes sense. It's the women's fault!

(Forum veterans who don't get my humour and newbies, this is a joke)

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling


"The man is on to something here.

Better the shit you know, right?

As usual the womens of the place don't take things serious enough and focus on the food.

Well I would but you keep ignoring me "

only sometimes!

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling


"The man is on to something here.

Better the shit you know, right?

As usual the womens of the place don't take things serious enough and focus on the food.

Hence them going for shit men. It all makes sense. It's the women's fault!

(Forum veterans who don't get my humour and newbies, this is a joke)"

Always the womens fault. Well, always the couples fault, the women are a close second. Which means it's usually the woman of the couple causing the issues.

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton


"The man is on to something here.

Better the shit you know, right?

As usual the womens of the place don't take things serious enough and focus on the food.

Well I would but you keep ignoring me

only sometimes! "

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton


"The man is on to something here.

Better the shit you know, right?

As usual the womens of the place don't take things serious enough and focus on the food.

Hence them going for shit men. It all makes sense. It's the women's fault!

(Forum veterans who don't get my humour and newbies, this is a joke)

Always the womens fault. Well, always the couples fault, the women are a close second. Which means it's usually the woman of the couple causing the issues. "

See!! This is exactly what I mean !

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By *ruceyy OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"The man is on to something here.

Better the shit you know, right?

As usual the womens of the place don't take things serious enough and focus on the food.

Hence them going for shit men. It all makes sense. It's the women's fault!

(Forum veterans who don't get my humour and newbies, this is a joke)

Always the womens fault. Well, always the couples fault, the women are a close second. Which means it's usually the woman of the couple causing the issues. "

I'm gonna be real controversial here and say....it's usually the couple accounts I most like -- eeek

To me they level each other out. Apart from that one couple, you know the one

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

Left over Dirty Chips from last night, and omelette made with left over bit of steak from last night. Might have a Magnum for pudding.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You know what Bruce, I've been analysing the fuck out of my previous choices.

And I keep getting stuck. I can list things my bad choices have in common. And I could try to avoid the things I go for barring one. But!!! And I mean but! There's one guy who has all the same characteristics/traits and he's not a wanker, far far far from it. So he throws the whole thing way off.

There's also a nice guy, has only shown me one thing that makes me think no....but I just don't fancy him.

And there's two men in particular that I've warmed to massively in life and trusted in ways I didn't with others and they both had the same problem.

I'm still processing it all. And in the meantime I seem to have backstepped from fab in terms of looking for guys. I'm just not so fussed.

I've also noticed I find it hard to find a guy attractive in the first place and need in person over a profile. And I think that's where it all falls down for me. Or maybe I'm actually a lesbian. But I love penis.

The people that I think are to be avoided are generally the ones that threw their toys out of the pram when I said or asked them not to do something and they then branded me the arsehole for my reaction and treated me that way. So I can't imagine I'd go anywhere near them.

What's your definition of shit people? just so the shit people know who you are referring to and the not so shit people know too.

It's not really nice to categorise people like that is it?

How's that for the longest response ever from me to one of your threads?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't forget though, people are always on their best behaviour till they relax, become complacent and the mask comes off.

Is anyone choosing badly when all they get to see is a mask?

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By *ruceyy OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"You know what Bruce, I've been analysing the fuck out of my previous choices.

And I keep getting stuck. I can list things my bad choices have in common. And I could try to avoid the things I go for barring one. But!!! And I mean but! There's one guy who has all the same characteristics/traits and he's not a wanker, far far far from it. So he throws the whole thing way off.

There's also a nice guy, has only shown me one thing that makes me think no....but I just don't fancy him.

And there's two men in particular that I've warmed to massively in life and trusted in ways I didn't with others and they both had the same problem.

I'm still processing it all. And in the meantime I seem to have backstepped from fab in terms of looking for guys. I'm just not so fussed.

I've also noticed I find it hard to find a guy attractive in the first place and need in person over a profile. And I think that's where it all falls down for me. Or maybe I'm actually a lesbian. But I love penis.

The people that I think are to be avoided are generally the ones that threw their toys out of the pram when I said or asked them not to do something and they then branded me the arsehole for my reaction and treated me that way. So I can't imagine I'd go anywhere near them.

What's your definition of shit people? just so the shit people know who you are referring to and the not so shit people know too.

It's not really nice to categorise people like that is it?

How's that for the longest response ever from me to one of your threads?"

You're lucky I was in the mood for an essay.

You know, the only people I think are shit are people that belong in prisons or sex offender wards. Genuinely.

Everyone's different and some aren't for me due to their attitudes but I don't think they're shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You know what Bruce, I've been analysing the fuck out of my previous choices.

And I keep getting stuck. I can list things my bad choices have in common. And I could try to avoid the things I go for barring one. But!!! And I mean but! There's one guy who has all the same characteristics/traits and he's not a wanker, far far far from it. So he throws the whole thing way off.

There's also a nice guy, has only shown me one thing that makes me think no....but I just don't fancy him.

And there's two men in particular that I've warmed to massively in life and trusted in ways I didn't with others and they both had the same problem.

I'm still processing it all. And in the meantime I seem to have backstepped from fab in terms of looking for guys. I'm just not so fussed.

I've also noticed I find it hard to find a guy attractive in the first place and need in person over a profile. And I think that's where it all falls down for me. Or maybe I'm actually a lesbian. But I love penis.

The people that I think are to be avoided are generally the ones that threw their toys out of the pram when I said or asked them not to do something and they then branded me the arsehole for my reaction and treated me that way. So I can't imagine I'd go anywhere near them.

What's your definition of shit people? just so the shit people know who you are referring to and the not so shit people know too.

It's not really nice to categorise people like that is it?

How's that for the longest response ever from me to one of your threads?

You're lucky I was in the mood for an essay.

You know, the only people I think are shit are people that belong in prisons or sex offender wards. Genuinely.

Everyone's different and some aren't for me due to their attitudes but I don't think they're shit."

Oh am I now? Wow go me

Has anyone ever considered that some people get massively triggered by the actions of others and will cut them off as a result because it looks too much like something they've suffered before?? And that might be painful.

Or that actually what one person judges as acceptable isn't to someone else and should be actually then be accepted as just simply being different instead of conforming to someone else's opinion or belief of how someone should be?

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By *ruceyy OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"You know what Bruce, I've been analysing the fuck out of my previous choices.

And I keep getting stuck. I can list things my bad choices have in common. And I could try to avoid the things I go for barring one. But!!! And I mean but! There's one guy who has all the same characteristics/traits and he's not a wanker, far far far from it. So he throws the whole thing way off.

There's also a nice guy, has only shown me one thing that makes me think no....but I just don't fancy him.

And there's two men in particular that I've warmed to massively in life and trusted in ways I didn't with others and they both had the same problem.

I'm still processing it all. And in the meantime I seem to have backstepped from fab in terms of looking for guys. I'm just not so fussed.

I've also noticed I find it hard to find a guy attractive in the first place and need in person over a profile. And I think that's where it all falls down for me. Or maybe I'm actually a lesbian. But I love penis.

The people that I think are to be avoided are generally the ones that threw their toys out of the pram when I said or asked them not to do something and they then branded me the arsehole for my reaction and treated me that way. So I can't imagine I'd go anywhere near them.

What's your definition of shit people? just so the shit people know who you are referring to and the not so shit people know too.

It's not really nice to categorise people like that is it?

How's that for the longest response ever from me to one of your threads?

You're lucky I was in the mood for an essay.

You know, the only people I think are shit are people that belong in prisons or sex offender wards. Genuinely.

Everyone's different and some aren't for me due to their attitudes but I don't think they're shit.

Oh am I now? Wow go me

Has anyone ever considered that some people get massively triggered by the actions of others and will cut them off as a result because it looks too much like something they've suffered before?? And that might be painful.

Or that actually what one person judges as acceptable isn't to someone else and should be actually then be accepted as just simply being different instead of conforming to someone else's opinion or belief of how someone should be?

"

That last bit got real confusing but I think I just made sense of it!

Everyone's entitled to react however they want to, to anyone or anything obviously. So all of that is obviously acceptable. As long as people are polite about things and aren't rude or aggressive I think it's fine!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just a shit judge of men

I can only blame myself for my choices.

Guys I find attractive usually turn out to be arseholes..... or maybe it's just me and my expectations? Who knows?

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By *lexm87Man
over a year ago

Various

A picture free area of fab could offer us without 'pretty privilege' a better chance to chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A picture free area of fab could offer us without 'pretty privilege' a better chance to chat. "

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder surely?

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"A picture free area of fab could offer us without 'pretty privilege' a better chance to chat.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder surely? "

You have beholden me

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
over a year ago

Essex

But they’re not shit when I go for them.

Either they’re full of bullshit

Or

I turn them into shits

I strongly suspect the former.

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

Pizza.

I don't think of people as shit.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"But they’re not shit when I go for them.

Either they’re full of bullshit

Or

I turn them into shits

I strongly suspect the former."

I've enjoyed our brief chats. You're cool

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"But they’re not shit when I go for them.

Either they’re full of bullshit

Or

I turn them into shits

I strongly suspect the former.

I've enjoyed our brief chats. You're cool "

And you’re not a shit!!! My thesis is proven

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"But they’re not shit when I go for them.

Either they’re full of bullshit

Or

I turn them into shits

I strongly suspect the former.

I've enjoyed our brief chats. You're cool

And you’re not a shit!!! My thesis is proven "

I think that's a compliment

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By *lexm87Man
over a year ago

Various


"A picture free area of fab could offer us without 'pretty privilege' a better chance to chat.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder surely? "

No, that's lust.

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By *echnosonic_BrummieMan
over a year ago

Willenhall


"

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder surely? "

Beauty is in the eye of the beerholder...

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

^^^He's wearing beer goggles

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By *an de LyonMan
over a year ago

welling


"

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder surely?

Beauty is in the eye of the beerholder..."

Beer is in the hand of the beerholder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're right, all of them had one thing in common.

Problem is I'm not into necrophi....

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