FabSwingers.com forum: Your experiences on fab

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Have they been good or bad?

Was the sex great or shite?

And have you encountered shitty behaviours much?

Dramas?

How much have you been treated to an experience that was great or one of life's luxury's along the way?

What was the nicest thing and what was the worst?

What stands out the most for you?

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
over a year ago

Essex

I’ve had great & awful.

I’ve made friends & lovers.

I’ve had people turn up with 10’years out of date pictures, I’ve had people turn up who I’ve drooled across the table at.

I’ve had walks, drinks, dinner, brunch, debauchery, laughs.

I’ve seen the best of people and I’ve seen the worst of people.

I’ve been lied to needlessly (because really what is the point - it’s NSA you plum) I’ve been treated with respect and even reverence.

I’ve learned a lot about myself. And I’ve only just scratched the surface

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"Have they been good or bad?

Was the sex great or shite?

And have you encountered shitty behaviours much?

Dramas?

How much have you been treated to an experience that was great or one of life's luxury's along the way?

What was the nicest thing and what was the worst?

What stands out the most for you?"

Both

Yes

Definitely Yes

One time I stayed in a Posh hotel Yes

Making amazing new friends , people being twats on the forum !!

The many social events and 1 to 1 evenings and weekends away all equally

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I can’t think of any negative experiences. I’ve been lucky with the folk I chat to and have met.

You get the occasional wild card that sends you a pm that shows they didn’t get enough hugs as a kid, but hey ho.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a guy I fell completely in love with.

I've known guys I think are completely awesome.

I've met a weirdo or 4.

I don't think anyone has ever purposely hurt me or been mean to me.

So I'm good.

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By *hortishblondeWoman
over a year ago

Essex

There has always been good and bad but the good outweighs the bad and had some amazing times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I met a guy I fell completely in love with.

I've known guys I think are completely awesome.

I've met a weirdo or 4.

I don't think anyone has ever purposely hurt me or been mean to me.

So I'm good."

Oh and bi women seem to hate me for some reason

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

I am in a happy place in life.

Just look at fab now rather than meet as I have no need to upset a good life balance.

If a nice person comes my way and we meet then fine. But I'm relaxed and not fussed.

I still speak to friends I made through fab

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Started out really really badly so I left.

Slight improvement second time around but left again because it wasn't for me.

Third time lucky with much better experiences but left again because someone wanted to create drama where there was none but made some lifelong friends.

This time around my experiences have been mostly great with the odd blip caused by other people and their sad games.

Haven't met anyone new in more than 3 years for various reasons but met my fab bestie so I don't feel I'm missing out on much.

All in all it has been a positive experience and the sex has mostly been great but it's hard to get away from the drama and the shit stirring from the manic obsessives.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some good some bad. For me the most genuine and relaxed/fun meets who aren't wanting loads of messages before a meet.

Sex has been varied and shows me verifications are a load of bollocks.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I met one of the most important people in my life on here

I've met some absolutely wonderful people, had a lot of fun, and intend to have a lot more.

Sure, there's a lot of mediocre shit to filter through. But it can be worth it

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By *hortishblondeWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"I met one of the most important people in my life on here

I've met some absolutely wonderful people, had a lot of fun, and intend to have a lot more.

Sure, there's a lot of mediocre shit to filter through. But it can be worth it

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

"I met one of the most important people in my life on here

I've met some absolutely wonderful people, had a lot of fun, and intend to have a lot more.

Sure, there's a lot of mediocre shit to filter through. But it can be worth it

Don't forget, you also found out that not all scouse accents are terrible!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mostly good experiences I’ll say over the years.

Was the sex shit? Ummm, I think I’ve had a few experiences with shit sex but I communicate well and I’m more happy to wait to find someone I’m compatible with.

Drama? Back in my youth yes. Years ago when I was on here between 21-23 I was in dramas and I think I was super immature. But life forces us to grow up quickly. And we change. I’m not in any drama now. But people still talk about me. Famous

Nicest thing that’s happened to me? Probably finding someone that likes me for me, that I can really be myself with and feeling myself fall in love.

Worst thing? Definitely believe someone that said they were in love with me, fall in love with them and them turn around and say they never loved me. That or a recent experience that I won’t talk about.

What stands out the most? Definitely the sex I’m having at the moment. That shit is hitting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell us about yours, PW?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve thoroughly enjoyed my fab experience, going right back to the beginning some 14-15 years ago while experimenting as a couple.

I/we never met anyone that we disliked, never really had any negative experiences. Met some wonderful people, and hope to meet many more.

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

"I met one of the most important people in my life on here

I've met some absolutely wonderful people, had a lot of fun, and intend to have a lot more.

Sure, there's a lot of mediocre shit to filter through. But it can be worth it

Don't forget, you also found out that not all scouse accents are terrible!

I like a scouse accent

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By *hortishblondeWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"I met one of the most important people in my life on here

I've met some absolutely wonderful people, had a lot of fun, and intend to have a lot more.

Sure, there's a lot of mediocre shit to filter through. But it can be worth it

Don't forget, you also found out that not all scouse accents are terrible!

My sister in law is scouse and she's fab

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By *educing_EmCouple
over a year ago

Tipperary

"I met a guy I fell completely in love with.

I've known guys I think are completely awesome.

I've met a weirdo or 4.

I don't think anyone has ever purposely hurt me or been mean to me.

So I'm good.

Oh and bi women seem to hate me for some reason

I don't hate you I think you're brilliant actually

Em x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met some wonderful, genuine people, who I now consider as friends , had some amazing horny times along the way and a few really decadent parties ( yes you guys ! ) and there are inevitably the liars , fakes and assholes, but I tend to forget them !!

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I steer clear of dramas so I have been pretty lucky with an almost complete lack of shitty behaviours from the people I have met.

I am sure there has been bad sex at some point but I can’t really recall it and my overwhelming experience has been

Treat people well and they show you the good side of humanity.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

"Don't forget, you also found out that not all scouse accents are terrible!

Oh it's still terrible. But you make it tolerable somehow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awesome. I've only met amazing people. I'm pretty thorough with my research though. No bad experiences

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Great to start ten years ago met cherry then Maya and have met with other over they years who join us .then Maya got Ill covid happen fuck it up for us. Met others who still in contact with .made lots friends over the years.but these days people who contact are either fake or fantacist joined forums made friends there and enjoy posting .

Still chatting with new people will see where it leads fab has it ups and down days .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have they been good or bad?"

This must be my fourth stay on Fab, this time it has been good (but I blame the Forum for that), two other times have been bad.

"Was the sex great or shite? "

Both, and sometimes average. Might be my fault

"And have you encountered shitty behaviours much?"

No, but my FWB was shitty to one of my plutonic Fab friends, which then caused problems (and the break up with the FWB - probably not soon enough)

"Dramas? "

Yes. I left the site one time because of jealousy and a stalker and came back with a completely different user name. However things have settled down so I have my original user name.

"How much have you been treated to an experience that was great or one of life's luxury's along the way?"

I enjoy my fab experience, people are really interesting - not seen the luxury yet.

"What was the nicest thing and what was the worst?"

Nicest thing is meeting different Fab friends socially for meals or whilst on holiday (not saying I don't like meeting for sex, that is great fun, but you said nicest).

Worst goes back to the acrimony with the FWB.

"What stands out the most for you?"

I like the lounge, this has been fun, meeting people who I do not come across in my everyday life.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

Too many questions for my delicate little head tonight

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

"I met a guy I fell completely in love with.

I've known guys I think are completely awesome.

I've met a weirdo or 4.

I don't think anyone has ever purposely hurt me or been mean to me.

So I'm good.

Oh and bi women seem to hate me for some reason

Not all of us missus!

Tinder

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Can't complain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s been a mixture of good and bad experiences on here over the years.

I think I’ve been lucky that I haven’t had to deal with half of the stuff i see others talking about on here.

One of the best was meeting someone I clicked with straight away and we had some amazing times together. Sadly it ended but it made me realise that there are guys like that out there, you’ve just got to wait a while before they come along

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By *reat me rightWoman
over a year ago

Rotherham

"Have they been good or bad?

Both

Was the sex great or shite?

Both

And have you encountered shitty behaviours much?

God aye. One guy looked up at my living room window, saw me looking down at him and literally ran away

Also had hair ripped out and hand marks round my throat

Dramas?

How much have you been treated to an experience that was great or one of life's luxury's along the way?

Had one guy who always brought me Revels does that count? And another that promised the earth before ghosting me!

What was the nicest thing and what was the worst?

Hopefully not had my nicest experience yet. Worst was the guy who ripped my hair out and left hand marks round my throat

What stands out the most for you?"

The amount of guys who just don't even bother to read my profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Tell us about yours, PW?"
.

Don't make me do that.

FFS pickles.

I've had some awesome experiences, I had a two year relationship with someone, there's one man on here who stands out from the rest and I really wish more were like him.

I have had a good few luxuries along the way including hotels, club nights,fancy meals out etc which is just an unexpected treat but mainly from the relationship.

I've also had some shite sex once or twice, met a couple of crazy people, liars and manipulative twats. Several men that fell in love with me.... apparently. I fell for one of them.

What stands out the most are the rope experiences I've had and one man's BDSM side that actually matched mine and some friendships that have stood the test of time, lockdown and in one case men.

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By *929Man
over a year ago

newcastle

Have only ever chatted nothing else and have chatted to some real nice people, one I’m still friends with off here. A few missed opportunities with great people I regret too this day haha also had some great advice when asked on this forum from lovely people who took the time to reply and offer advice when asked

Nothing really bad experience not much that can’t be laughed off one thing that was really quite annoying was some vile cunt who messaged me at the time off family breakup just to insist it all must be my fault, that the ex as well as taking 100% of the house we owned together should take at least 50% of my house and even made snide indirect comments about the fact my son chose to live with me over his mother this was someone who I had had absolutely zero interaction with prior to her messaging out the blue. I know it’s no big deal especially compared to the experiences some lasses have had on here

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

"I met a guy I fell completely in love with.

I've known guys I think are completely awesome.

I've met a weirdo or 4.

I don't think anyone has ever purposely hurt me or been mean to me.

So I'm good.

Oh and bi women seem to hate me for some reason

I'm not a bi woman!

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By *ongandharderMan
over a year ago

Rotherham

Enjoyed it so far met a great couple and enjoyed my meets

enjoyed chatting on forums

I do wish for a bit more engagement though

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Tell us about yours, PW?.

Don't make me do that.

FFS pickles.

I've had some awesome experiences, I had a two year relationship with someone, there's one man on here who stands out from the rest and I really wish more were like him.

I have had a good few luxuries along the way including hotels, club nights,fancy meals out etc which is just an unexpected treat but mainly from the relationship.

I've also had some shite sex once or twice, met a couple of crazy people, liars and manipulative twats. Several men that fell in love with me.... apparently. I fell for one of them.

What stands out the most are the rope experiences I've had and one man's BDSM side that actually matched mine and some friendships that have stood the test of time, lockdown and in one case men."

Oh and drama, yes been dragged into one that I really shouldn't have been dragged into and was fucking crazy.

And from saying no to people and them throwing one whe they don't get their own way.

I once left fab because of someone majorly gaslighting me in the forums. It was fucking horrible. And left it's scars.

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

Ah all pretty good you know! Had some laughs, had some wanks, had some nudes.

Encountered a load of people who think they are gods gift and act with such little fun sex appeal it makes me wonder if they have a sex addiction which brings them to this site when in fact they hate penis so much but they must have it so fuck you you twat give me penis but fuck you - I'm really hot and you will fuck me but men are gross but don't use me treat me call me pretty but I will hate you anyway but you just want to fuck me have you not seen me?

So good!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I met a guy I fell completely in love with.

I've known guys I think are completely awesome.

I've met a weirdo or 4.

I don't think anyone has ever purposely hurt me or been mean to me.

So I'm good.

Oh and bi women seem to hate me for some reason

What makes you think that? Why bi women specifically?

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

My experience of fab in the overall had been good. I have met people I would have not normally have met. Some of who have become behind and aquantences in the vannila world. And people in the vannila world I wold have not expected to be here.

Meets are extant few and far between. But I have gained sexually liberty and freedom.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tell us about yours, PW?.

Don't make me do that.

FFS pickles.

I've had some awesome experiences, I had a two year relationship with someone, there's one man on here who stands out from the rest and I really wish more were like him.

I have had a good few luxuries along the way including hotels, club nights,fancy meals out etc which is just an unexpected treat but mainly from the relationship.

I've also had some shite sex once or twice, met a couple of crazy people, liars and manipulative twats. Several men that fell in love with me.... apparently. I fell for one of them.

What stands out the most are the rope experiences I've had and one man's BDSM side that actually matched mine and some friendships that have stood the test of time, lockdown and in one case men."

Thank you for sharing.

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

"My experience of fab in the overall had been good. I have met people I would have not normally have met. Some of who have become behind and aquantences in the vannila world. And people in the vannila world I wold have not expected to be here.

Meets are extant few and far between. But I have gained sexually liberty and freedom."

I should add that fab had given me the opportunity to sleep/ talk with women that I would not even stand a chance in the real world.

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

It has been a hell of a joyride…

I am still involved in a more or lesser degree with the 3 men who have shaped my whole journey on Fab. I met them all in 2019 and never believed my luck and thought how on earth did I end up getting these guys’ attention… I fell madly in love with one (bad mistake) but healed afterwards- was getting dangerously close to doing the same with another one, but stopped myself on time and the third one set his barriers quite early on so no crazy love but I love him dearly too. My fantasy is to have them all together, blindfold me and see if I can tell them apart by their touch, kisses, etc! Haha! We seldom meet now but they gave me my confidence back and that was awesome.

Outside of that bubble, I have met many, many people on here who have made me smile, giggle excitedly and made me feel giddy with happiness. I’ve been lucky to attend several socials and have had the chance to exchange wonderful conversations, cheeky kisses and laughs with so many people.

Fab has been amazing to me and I owe it so much. I am awkward IRL and it is difficult for me to connect- so online first suits me perfectly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know really know what to make of my experiences. I joined at a time when no one was allowed to go anywhere and joining the forums helped understand different perspectives and opinions which allowed me to chat to numerous fantastic people and it's also allowed me to find body confidence I never thought I had.

When we were let out, I managed to find the confidence to put myself out there by going to group socials which loved and it allowed me to meet the fantastic people I had seen online really made me gain a lot of confidence in just being myself.

The sex side has been less successful. I still have a mixed opinion on clubs that probably comes from the stigma of being a single male and I want to give up, and persevere at the same time to tr and crack it. Finding what I want locally has been so tough which has drained my confidence on occasion and although I've had great sex with women locally, it's not been anything that's lasted and everyone I like or likes me is too far away for anything regular to happen. I have had some brilliant nights and weekends with women though and there's someone who I am looking forward to seeing again when the opportunity arises so that's what's stopping all hope being lost. Hope that wasn't too long

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

I have had in general a good experience, but unfortunately most of us know the ratios are not in a man’s favour, and we do get tared with the same brush. But it is what it is.

I have made some really good friends and have had the opportunity to meet some really nice people. This place has definitely given me great time. And I just hope I have changed people perceptions because it has definitely changed mine . And I most definitely have matured in my approach on how things are in here.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

"Have they been good or bad?

Was the sex great or shite?

And have you encountered shitty behaviours much?

Dramas?

How much have you been treated to an experience that was great or one of life's luxury's along the way?

What was the nicest thing and what was the worst?

What stands out the most for you?"

God how to summarise a decade of highs and lows… I have to say that overall my experience has been positive as I’ve learnt a lot about myself. I’ll always have a soft spot for fab which is why I still pop back.

Overall most of the partners have been pretty mindblowing. I’ve done some crazy shit and ticked a lot of _oxes. A few have absolutely matched my mind and that’s been magical.

I’ve had my fair share of shitty behaviour. Gaslighting, bullying, lies upon lies. I’ve had people I thought were friends turn out to be anything but… it’s changed how I use fab and how much I give to anyone.

Overall it’s been a blast. I’ll take the lows just to have met people who absolutely got me on a level I never expected. But I’ll enjoy from a distance now, until I simply don’t log back on

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over

"I don't know really know what to make of my experiences. I joined at a time when no one was allowed to go anywhere and joining the forums helped understand different perspectives and opinions which allowed me to chat to numerous fantastic people and it's also allowed me to find body confidence I never thought I had.

4 lines longer than the one above

it's interesting to hear people who you would have thought would have all the confidence in the world say they don't or at least hadn't. A really candit response

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty poor for us. We’ve joined and left a couple of times, each as a result of being let down by guys we had invested time in getting to know and building the confidence needed for that big leap.

We do enjoy the buzz of interest, but embracing it more now as a digital playground and adjunct to our sex life vs. a place to find genuine prospects.

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By *ez669Man
over a year ago

East Kilbride

Its been a slow burner for meets being a single guy but had loads of laughs on these fourms. Awsome pics to perv on, cams can be good also so happy plug away and see if the meeting side pica up

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Have they been good or bad? Good

Was the sex great or shite? Fantastic

And have you encountered shitty behaviours much?

Dramas? Nope never

How much have you been treated to an experience that was great or one of life's luxury's along the way? It's a secret

What was the nicest thing and what was the worst? We became great friends/ na

What stands out the most for you? Remaining a secret

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Hope that wasn't too long

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"4 lines longer than the one above

it's interesting to hear people who you would have thought would have all the confidence in the world say they don't or at least hadn't. A really candit response

I appreciate that. I suppose we all build an online persona that we don't know how it's going to come across in real life, but as far as the social side though, I'll always credit Fab for building my confidence in that regard which has helped in being social in other aspects of my life too

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By *entlemanFoxMan
over a year ago

North East / London

Have they been good or bad?

Generally, it has been a positive experience. I have met people I would never otherwise encounter and that has given me a more open and rounded view of the world.

Was the sex great or shite?

Fabulous

And have you encountered shitty behaviours much?

Shitty - no; totally unnecessary rudeness and lack of manners - more often than you would have thought.

Dramas?

The politics forum is a constant drama and a guilty pleasure.

How much have you been treated to an experience that was great or one of life's luxury's along the way?

Making extraordinary new friends is a great experience.

What was the nicest thing and what was the worst?

Arranging a successful social.

Worst - watching yet another post slide unremarked to oblivion.

What stands out the most for you?

The great friends I have made.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing to report.

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

South East & Europe

Had some great times and some less great times but its been good overall. There's been some drama along the way, I've made some mistakes and I've been strung along a few times, but other than that I've had a lot of fun and it's been more good than bad.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"Tell us about yours, PW?"

Slightly changing the wording is still plagiarism BTW

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m meticulous. Only good experiences. Who likes surprises.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tough crowd on here for single guys! Lol!

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Being bi I call Fabswingers and Fabguys 'the Fabs', and over the years it's been good, but certainly up and down. I think I pretty quickly realised what it was 'all about' in terms of the likelihood of actual 'meets' and how to go about getting them. Not sure I've met any friends for life yet (maybe it's just not something I calculate in that way), but I'm met some really interesting people and had some pretty good times. I'm happy with the downtime too, I'm not after sex all the time and I always have my extra kink-contacts anyway.

I find the forum quite unique, and on FS the balance just about works. On FG it's impossibly bitchy - if you haven't seen it you just wouldn't believe. Especially the PM stuff, the things that fly around, they can't always contain it! I'm talking about the bisexual married men who take up most of the forum too! 'Real men' who think and talk pretty tough are often bitchy poo puff on fabguys, it's a thing to behold lol. No actual women to show off to perhaps. Or maybe they've run there I don't know.

I actually get most of my meets from Fabguys but FS is the place I always preferred when I fluctuated between the two. It has a bit more variety here, and I suspect that I probably actually need women to be part of wherever I am in life too. It's more balanced, it's more fun. pt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some good meets some bad, but maybe that's down to me

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By *orfolk777Man
over a year ago

Norwich

My main experience of fab is being ignored, I’d say 1 in 30 people I message bother to read the message, maybe 1 in 20 of those that do read it might reply, it’s basically a total waste of time

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

"My main experience of fab is being ignored, I’d say 1 in 30 people I message bother to read the message, maybe 1 in 20 of those that do read it might reply, it’s basically a total waste of time

Think of it like applying for jobs maybe. If you need the work you need the work! At the end of the day, all the singles here on playing on the back of a largely-couples swingers site. And as we all know, there are far more single men than women on here too (over the whole site that is, not so much on the forum). pt

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

In the main, good. No dramas. Lots of great sex, some ok sex, no horrendous sex.

The curveball for me was the forums. Didn't know they were a thing, found them, made all sorts of unexpected connections. Some has lasted, some haven't. Revelled in the freedom to have conversations I could never have in the rest of my life. Finally made an organised social and had the best time.

Learned lots about myself and about our relationship. The experiences we've had through fab have brought us closer than ever, even through very tough times in other parts of our lives.

So in conclusion - yay, fab!

Mrs TMN x

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

I'll keep it simple: in regards to real-life interactions and/or sex I haven't met anyone I didn't like. I've genuinely met some lovely people and experienced fantastic encounters.

On the whole there really aren't that many I would refer to Wankstains Anonymous.

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By *hatBeardedChapMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Have they been good or bad?

Was the sex great or shite?

And have you encountered shitty behaviours much?

Dramas?

How much have you been treated to an experience that was great or one of life's luxury's along the way?

What was the nicest thing and what was the worst?

What stands out the most for you?"
mostly positive one or two dramas but friendly members stuck up for me so all in all not too shabby.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

I carried a watermelon.

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By *edanitoTV/TS
over a year ago

Kings Lynn

Overall my experiences have been positive. Ive had mindblowing sex, mediocre sex and please for the love of god can this be over cos your profile pic is 15 years out of date sex lol!

Ive learnt a lot about myself and met people from all walks of life. Ive made genuine lifetime friends. Ive had some drama - usually people not being honest to themselves or me. I've learnt to take people as I find them and treat others how I'd like to be treated. Im on both sites and there are stark differences and a lot of similarities between them.

Overall its been great and has boosted my confidence in myself, my body and how I meet the needs of others whilst having mine met!

I hope I meet many more attractive and interesting Fabbers

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By *inky ChefMan
over a year ago

Norwich

"My main experience of fab is being ignored, I’d say 1 in 30 people I message bother to read the message, maybe 1 in 20 of those that do read it might reply, it’s basically a total waste of time"

Those numbers are not even that bad.

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

Nothing to report, but I have made a lot of forum friends, the forum is comedy gold

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"I married a watermelon."

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

All our sexy meets have been fabulous. We've had a few no-shows for conversations and met up socially with a couple and the spark we hoped for wasn't there. But when we've met for rumpy-pumpy it has been universally great.

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By *londebiguyMan
over a year ago

Southport

I'm a Scouser and the accent is really only terrible it seems when it's on TV.

Otherwise it's a brilliant accent.

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

"Have they been good or bad?

Was the sex great or shite?

And have you encountered shitty behaviours much?

Dramas?

How much have you been treated to an experience that was great or one of life's luxury's along the way?

What was the nicest thing and what was the worst?

What stands out the most for you?"

There's supposed to be sex?

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
over a year ago

your head

It's been different that's for sure. I've had the good, the bad and the ugly.

There's definitely some bad stuff that sticks out but then the bad stuff always does doesn't it. The positives will always outweigh the crap and the drama.

I have people in my life I adore and treasure. I wouldn't know them without fab and I know they'll be around long after fab isn't.

I found friendships and love, I don't need anything else

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

tears for fears,,, its a mad world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have they been good or bad?"
Mostly good bar one.

"Was the sex great or shite?"
All good bar one

"And have you encountered shitty behaviours much?"
None

"Dramas?"
One trying to put a wedge between me and someone else because she changed her mind and wanted me back.

"How much have you been treated to an experience that was great or one of life's luxury's along the way?"
I often enjoy the friendship side of it all and have date days.

"What was the nicest thing and what was the worst?"
I don't tend to score days out and none are rubbish if the company is good.

"What stands out the most for you?"
I live in the present and I take the positives from every situation where possible.

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

There's a lot of rough terrain on Fab, dodgy ground around... whatever you want call it. I think that most people are going to step in the wrong place at some point if they stay and play on Fab for literally years. pt

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By *inky ChefMan
over a year ago

Norwich

Awesome!

I'm bulk buying the condoms on retail price.

I would need to have 2 cocks to keep up.

Needed to hire my ex to help me deal with all the messages.

I bet she regrets now not having enough sex with me.

Most people are nice, but some doesn't like sarcasm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Over the years I've had pretty positive experiences of fab. Each time I've come back it's been different. Mostly because what I've wanted at that point has been.

I'm always tempted back here by possibilities, I start off feeling empowered and embracing being single. Possibly trying too hard to convince myself I am not just a bit too single and a little lonely.

I view fab a bit like the all you can eat Chinese buffet.

Its fun, a good way to try new things and a free for all. However you can only go so often before you just want one fully prepared home cooked meal!

I've met some truly incredible people and actually even more so this time round. One in particular I hope to keep in my life.

However, inevitably for me as a hopeful romantic I'm back at really just wanting my happily ever after.

Maybe with luck it might happen

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By *ssex-coupleCouple
over a year ago

clacton on sea

Bad so far but we believe we’ll find the right things sooner or later

We’ve progressed to group chats with couples twice but one it just didn’t click and the second one we walked away from due to their drug usage.

All three of the single women we’ve tried to meet expected a fully expenses paid night out on us

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

It's been a mix, we've had the bad - some lady couldn't take a no and became so abusive we had to seek legal advice! Removed our profile for a while after that.

There's the obvious entitelled people that piss me off but nothing too bad.

The good - met some amazing people, fulfiled some fantasies and made some great friends had some sex & get to pass my coffee breaks scrolling the forums.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One pleasant social

A few pleasant chats

I don't do drama

That's it for the whole 10 years...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve had some great meets, some just meh meets, not had any bad ones. I made a few friendships but nobody I’m in regular contact with anymore. 2 of the people I met I did develop really strong feelings for. Others I haven’t really thought twice about. It’s a mixed bag!

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By *inky ChefMan
over a year ago

Norwich

"One pleasant social

A few pleasant chats

I don't do drama

That's it for the whole 10 years..."

In 10 years???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meet last night was the worst one in a long time

Arrange to meet at mine, she changed it last minute to a hotel, fine

I get there and she’s already a bottle of wine deep. Says shes just nervous.

I have 2 glasses and in that time she has 2 more bottles.

She’s too d*unk now and I don’t feel comfortable doing anything with her. She’s slurring her words.

But I’m 2-3 glasses deep at a hotel 30 mins from mine, I can’t drive home, so I’m forced to stay.

She wouldn’t take no for an answer and tried it on all night. And again this morning. I just politely brushed her off and said no each time

Always trust your gut, the suddenly switch to a hotel was a hint, being a bottle deep as I arrived was another that I should have just left there and then

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By *inky ChefMan
over a year ago

Norwich

"Meet last night was the worst one in a long time

Arrange to meet at mine, she changed it last minute to a hotel, fine

I get there and she’s already a bottle of wine deep. Says shes just nervous.

I have 2 glasses and in that time she has 2 more bottles.

She’s too d*unk now and I don’t feel comfortable doing anything with her. She’s slurring her words.

But I’m 2-3 glasses deep at a hotel 30 mins from mine, I can’t drive home, so I’m forced to stay.

She wouldn’t take no for an answer and tried it on all night. And again this morning. I just politely brushed her off and said no each time

Always trust your gut, the suddenly switch to a hotel was a hint, being a bottle deep as I arrived was another that I should have just left there and then "

I'm probably more horny and desperate than you, but I would have done exactly the same as you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve had a laugh on here. I don’t take it too seriously and it’s good to connect with others who are also pretty laid back.

I’ve had mostly great meets - with a few not so great ones sprinkled in there.

Made some people I’d call friends, though we respect each others boundaries and keep it discreet and don’t invade one another’s personal lives.

I’ve also had a few people who don’t understand NSA and seem to get emotionally attached or jealous very quickly.

It’s a mixed bag, it’s a good site mostly - ive found that it’s best to keep it in perspective that it’s just a laugh and nothing more.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

It’s been a pretty amazing 7-8 years starting with couple swapping, then swinging , then poly now just forums and chatting to friends.

Had trips to Goa and a few adventures abroad with people from here and still get the odd visitor! Explored a lot of kink / fetish , been to parties , clubs , a few threessomes, and had some really good relationships.

What stands out the most and was sone time ago was how I used to get guys for a women I was seeing. How trusting they were coming to hotels with just me & allowing me to tie them naked to chairs before she arrived. People do sone stupidly risky things for the chance of sex

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"Have they been good or bad?

Was the sex great or shite?

And have you encountered shitty behaviours much?

Dramas?

How much have you been treated to an experience that was great or one of life's luxury's along the way?

What was the nicest thing and what was the worst?

What stands out the most for you?"

Overall, brilliant

I met a number of attractive and interesting women, experiencing many memorable weekends.

Club visits were eye opening. I managed to co host one which was great fun. Participated in shenanigans most "normies" could only imagine.

Inevitably encountered some drama, though minor compared to the great overall experience.

What stood out the most was meeting her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Over the years I've had pretty positive experiences of fab. Each time I've come back it's been different. Mostly because what I've wanted at that point has been.

I view fab a bit like the all you can eat Chinese buffet.

Its fun, a good way to try new things and a free for all. However you can only go so often before you just want one fully prepared home cooked meal!

I've met some truly incredible people and actually even more so this time round. One in particular I hope to keep in my life.

However, inevitably for me as a hopeful romantic I'm back at really just wanting my happily ever after.

Maybe with luck it might happen

That’s the most honest and sweet thing I’ve read on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Meet last night was the worst one in a long time

Arrange to meet at mine, she changed it last minute to a hotel, fine

I get there and she’s already a bottle of wine deep. Says shes just nervous.

I have 2 glasses and in that time she has 2 more bottles.

She’s too d*unk now and I don’t feel comfortable doing anything with her. She’s slurring her words.

But I’m 2-3 glasses deep at a hotel 30 mins from mine, I can’t drive home, so I’m forced to stay.

She wouldn’t take no for an answer and tried it on all night. And again this morning. I just politely brushed her off and said no each time

Always trust your gut, the suddenly switch to a hotel was a hint, being a bottle deep as I arrived was another that I should have just left there and then "

Sounds like she didn’t really want to do it despite the begging. Changing to hotel because nervous, and drinking to excess. She’s got issues.

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By *tsJustKateWoman
over a year ago

London

Mostly it's been fun and I've met some fab guys in hotels, clubs and their homes and the sex has mostly been pretty great. There's been a few idiots and time wasters, but thats to be expected. Love Fabswingers and hope to be here a while longer. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Meet last night was the worst one in a long time

Arrange to meet at mine, she changed it last minute to a hotel, fine

I get there and she’s already a bottle of wine deep. Says shes just nervous.

I have 2 glasses and in that time she has 2 more bottles.

She’s too d*unk now and I don’t feel comfortable doing anything with her. She’s slurring her words.

But I’m 2-3 glasses deep at a hotel 30 mins from mine, I can’t drive home, so I’m forced to stay.

She wouldn’t take no for an answer and tried it on all night. And again this morning. I just politely brushed her off and said no each time

Always trust your gut, the suddenly switch to a hotel was a hint, being a bottle deep as I arrived was another that I should have just left there and then

Sounds like she didn’t really want to do it despite the begging. Changing to hotel because nervous, and drinking to excess. She’s got issues. "

To add the changing to hotel was probably a safety thing. The heavy drinking is concerning.

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By *ortheastcoupleukCouple
over a year ago

easington were the sun dont shine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Meet last night was the worst one in a long time

Arrange to meet at mine, she changed it last minute to a hotel, fine

I get there and she’s already a bottle of wine deep. Says shes just nervous.

I have 2 glasses and in that time she has 2 more bottles.

She’s too d*unk now and I don’t feel comfortable doing anything with her. She’s slurring her words.

But I’m 2-3 glasses deep at a hotel 30 mins from mine, I can’t drive home, so I’m forced to stay.

She wouldn’t take no for an answer and tried it on all night. And again this morning. I just politely brushed her off and said no each time

Always trust your gut, the suddenly switch to a hotel was a hint, being a bottle deep as I arrived was another that I should have just left there and then

Sounds like she didn’t really want to do it despite the begging. Changing to hotel because nervous, and drinking to excess. She’s got issues.

To add the changing to hotel was probably a safety thing. The heavy drinking is concerning. "

Possibly, she paid so I wasn’t too fussed, but yeah the drinking is a problem

She kinda half apologised in the morning and said next time she won’t drink so much because she won’t be nervous. Definitely not gonna be a next time

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I've had a wonderful time. Mostly good to great sex. Little drama as I won't get pulled into that nonsense. Worst had been one scarey guy who I luckily never met and one guy who got way too serious.

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By *airytaleOfNewPorkMan
over a year ago

Close By

I've been here quite some time, so I've had my fill of good and bad!

Some wonderful people met over the years, and some weird and wonderful meets

Worst one? Probably tur I g up to a couples house, only the wife there and the husband turned up d*unk as hell with his mate...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, I’ve met mainly very sore people but the there’s been 1 or 2 that have been a delight! But I’ve gone away from meets etc, mainly stick to the forums as some are more nicer on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wind the clock back to 2014

Great

2019.. Great times

Been back 3 months and

Good bad and ugly..

I override negatives it helps.

Positive..

Never divulges sex life.

Here its non existent 2023.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Bit wank really isn’t it.

But then again there’s plenty of piss taking material to keep myself entertained.

The mr

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By *dd_soxMan
over a year ago

Suffolk

Worst sex I had was merely fantastic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a really good time on here, meets have been few and far between. But I'd say it's quality over quantity

My first meet was a MFM meet with a couple, and that one will always stand out for me.

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By *ustincamebridgeCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Our Silver account is soon up for renewal and we are considering wether it is worth renewing. In a tear where our personal lives have seen far too much turmoil, we have put Fab on the back-burner.

We originally thought are we right for Fab. We now think: is Fab right for us. One thing we both do know is we find Fab better than other sites we have tried.

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Our Silver account is soon up for renewal and we are considering wether it is worth renewing. In a tear where our personal lives have seen far too much turmoil, we have put Fab on the back-burner.

We originally thought are we right for Fab. We now think: is Fab right for us. One thing we both do know is we find Fab better than other sites we have tried.

Not much will change if you go from Silver to free, and it won't cost much t renew either. You can always hide your profile if you want to give it a break too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's been a mixture, sadly most of the time 85% of the time you get guys at the small pictures or cyber sex which is incredibly boring. When people on here they expect to meet up not to be cyberpoked.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

We’ve been extremely lucky, our first meet was fantastic and it’s been improving since then! Even the people we met who we didn’t play with have been lovely people so we’ve only ever experienced the positives of Fab.

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By *eading RayMan
over a year ago

Reading

Met 2 great couples , still have fun with them only down bit was being called disgusting because of bi on my profile by a woman who is bi herself.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

Oh, I've had some wonderful times, and met some fabulous people. I've had some unique experiences, and enjoyed the company of those that I otherwise would never have crossed paths with.

I don't believe that rubbish sex exists, it's either sexual incompatibility or lack of communication.

The only drama and shitty behaviour I've ever experienced in my many years on here has been from women...and I don't meet women, don't even really chat to many

The standout is obviously meeting himself...who knew what a flippant comment on the forum would lead to?

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By *ex LutherMan
over a year ago

Closer than you think

I’ve met some amazing people that I most likely would not have met in every day life so for me fab has been a positive experience along with visiting many of the clubs too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One pleasant social

A few pleasant chats

I don't do drama

That's it for the whole 10 years...

In 10 years???

Yes, although I was over 50 when I joined. The age of death on fab…..

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By *orl1971Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

We’ve had good and bad experiences.

Sex has been mostly great.

We’ve encountered shitty behaviours. Mostly from single guys. Not judging just a fact. D*unk guys, guys cancelling because they forgot they were taking their kids on holiday, the list goes on.

Dramas? One guy trying bareback. One on solo meet trying to force wife to take p0ppers and not taking no for an answer.

Not been treated to any luxuries other than maybe shared nice hotel.

Nicest thing. New friends

Worst thing. Losing a potential long term FWB because he tried to force wife to take substances on solo meet

The variety of experiences stands out.

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Mostly awesome fun great experiences

A couple of interesting encounters

but overall it’s been great & made great sexy friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The sex? Pedestrian and nothing that's become regular. I'm not a good match as I don't want NSA. The drama has really affected me at times.

The friendships, laughs and conversations? Unsurpassed and memorable. I've discovered a lot about myself, my sexuality and sex. Wouldn't trade it for anything!

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By *ingle_horny_availableMan
over a year ago

hoylake

Enjoyed some cams and chats and more but finding it so hard to get verified that it just makes it really hard to have a better time on here.

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

"Have they been good or bad?

Was the sex great or shite?

And have you encountered shitty behaviours much?

Dramas?

How much have you been treated to an experience that was great or one of life's luxury's along the way?

What was the nicest thing and what was the worst?

What stands out the most for you?"

Bit of both

Lot of both

Loads and loads of shitty behaviour. Lots of which has made me really sad.

Way too much drama. Associating with the wrong people who then attracted horrid people who revel in drama. Hate it.

Had some great experiences in some great places.

Meeting people who I love who will be lifelong friends. Realising people who I thought would be lifelong friends didn’t care for me at all.

The great times I’ve had with the girls stand out. Along with some very sexy club encounters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have they been good or bad?

Was the sex great or shite?

And have you encountered shitty behaviours much?

Dramas?

How much have you been treated to an experience that was great or one of life's luxury's along the way?

What was the nicest thing and what was the worst?

What stands out the most for you?"

It has its ups and downs.

I have made good friends through fab so have a positive attitude towards the platform considering it's downsides

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've had the good, the bad and the ugly (quite literally)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nonexistent, I don't think I appeal to the masses.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I’ve met some lovely people including my best friends.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

I’ve had a great experience on fab this time and all those years ago.

Some absolutely amazing sex… the best I’ve ever had in fact

And made friends for life who I love speaking to all the time.

I’m enjoying every minute of it… oh and I don’t do drama. Ever. So any of that had passed me by…

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

"We've had the good, the bad and the ugly (quite literally) "

Fancy some more bad and ugly with that?

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

It really is a mixed bag all round for the majority of people.

The true success stories will be the minority. Followed by the only negative experience, though they will be the most vocal by far.

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By *aiseiMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Have they been good or bad?

Was the sex great or shite?

And have you encountered shitty behaviours much?

Dramas?

How much have you been treated to an experience that was great or one of life's luxury's along the way?

What was the nicest thing and what was the worst?

What stands out the most for you?"

Overall it’s been OK here.

Can’t comment on the sex as I’ve not slept with anyone from here. Have done a couple of group socials which were good.

Only heard about shitty stuff, not been on the end of it. Same goes for drama.

Wouldn’t say this has been one of life’s luxuries, by any stretch of the imagination!

Nicest thing - can’t say there’s one stand out thing. This place has been a distraction when I needed one; I’ve also had lovely compliments from some people. Plenty of great pics and vids too, being honest….

Worst thing - this place has made me feel as shit as it has good, at times. I’ve previously left twice but it drags me back.

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By *oneybee1001Woman
over a year ago

Around and about

"Have they been good or bad?

Was the sex great or shite?

And have you encountered shitty behaviours much?

Dramas?

How much have you been treated to an experience that was great or one of life's luxury's along the way?

What was the nicest thing and what was the worst?

What stands out the most for you?"

Pretty good overall, had some excellent sexy times

Yup defo been at the receiving end of some crappy behaviour but hey, it's FABSwingers, it ain't personal, no folk on here know me well enough, I just smile and breathe and let it pass me by.

Hmm what stands out the most? I'd say that the majority of the folk I've interacted with have been sound, good laugh, good fun and often, great sex!

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By *ick-Dastardly-Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.

The jury is still out for me?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Mostly really great. If it hasn't been, I own the responsibility for it, including poorer effort and choices.

Nothing awful

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

I've met some lovely people. I've met some interesting people. I've met some sexy people. I've made some of the best friends I've ever had. At clubs I've seen things that I never thought happened outside of porn. I've taken a minor side part in a few multi-person activities. Actual full sexual intercourse has essentially never happened.

I've not yet found the sort of regular partner(s) that I'd like to have, whether as FB, FWB, NSA, poly or whatever. [Exclusive is something that I'm pretty sure I don't want again, I don't want someone to be committed to me, I don't want the responsibility of being "the person" in their life.]

My sex life may be over now, or it may not. If anything is going to happen, I'm pretty damn sure it will only be through contacts made on this site.

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By *inky ChefMan
over a year ago

Norwich

"One pleasant social

A few pleasant chats

I don't do drama

That's it for the whole 10 years...

In 10 years???

Yes, although I was over 50 when I joined. The age of death on fab…..

Apparently it's all about attitude and confidence. Not the age, looks or cock size. Right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One pleasant social

A few pleasant chats

I don't do drama

That's it for the whole 10 years...

In 10 years???

Yes, although I was over 50 when I joined. The age of death on fab…..

Apparently it's all about attitude and confidence. Not the age, looks or cock size. Right?

Fuck knows? It’s certainly divorced from the real world. Yet it still keeps us here…

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

In general very positive. We have had a lot of good meets, a few bad meets and a couple of just plain weird meets.

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By *hrek101Man
over a year ago

Herts

Can't say anything negative, not had much interaction, no meets, but no one has been horrible. Mainly just enjoyed the characters on the forums and the serious and not so serious posts.

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By *NGthe2ndWoman
over a year ago

Here and there

Overall Fab has been great. I certainly wouldn't be where I am now if I hadn't joined almost 7yrs ago.

The drama is avoidable, I stay away from the forums if I see anything kicking off. It's not my thing, life is hard enough without escapism descending into an abyss of anger and arguments.

The highs, well the 3 lounge socials were amazing! Finally seeing the people you see every day in the forums was such good fun! And meeting my partner here, we would definitely not have met in every day life due to distance.

The lows.. 1 very keen stalker ( support from forum members helped immensely) and one divorce. Tough at times.

I can't honestly say I've had luxuries through fab but I've had the pleasure of making wonderful friends which is priceless

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By *ick-Dastardly-Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.

"Overall Fab has been great. I certainly wouldn't be where I am now if I hadn't joined almost 7yrs ago.

The drama is avoidable, I stay away from the forums if I see anything kicking off. It's not my thing, life is hard enough without escapism descending into an abyss of anger and arguments.

The lows.. 1 very keen stalker ( support from forum members helped immensely) and one divorce. Tough at times.

I can't honestly say I've had luxuries through fab but I've had the pleasure of making wonderful friends which is priceless

Sounds colourful

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

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By *NGthe2ndWoman
over a year ago

Here and there

"Overall Fab has been great. I certainly wouldn't be where I am now if I hadn't joined almost 7yrs ago.

The drama is avoidable, I stay away from the forums if I see anything kicking off. It's not my thing, life is hard enough without escapism descending into an abyss of anger and arguments.

The lows.. 1 very keen stalker ( support from forum members helped immensely) and one divorce. Tough at times.

I can't honestly say I've had luxuries through fab but I've had the pleasure of making wonderful friends which is priceless

Sounds colourful "

It's certainly not been dull

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

"One pleasant social

A few pleasant chats

I don't do drama

That's it for the whole 10 years...

In 10 years???

Yes, although I was over 50 when I joined. The age of death on fab…..

Apparently it's all about attitude and confidence. Not the age, looks or cock size. Right?

Honestly it largely it is!

To complain about naturally-occurring statistics such as age is to complain about life itself imo. I actually think fabbers on the whole (who likely have a high mean age anyway) do a pretty good job of expanding the natural world, it just isn't sent to everyone's door on a plate. And ilyou can't rely on everyone you meet on the site obviously.

If you want 25 but have hit 50 you just need to look a bit harder to find it. Again, obviously.

If you are unlucky with your locality you need to expand your Search. If fab is the only place you expect to get sex from you are putting to much on it surely. It's surely not the only option most people have I life.

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By *lueDressWoman
over a year ago

Bath

Mostly treated with respect and had many more meets with the same people.Just a couple of people that I did not like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have they been good or bad?

Was the sex great or shite?

And have you encountered shitty behaviours much?

Dramas?

How much have you been treated to an experience that was great or one of life's luxury's along the way?

What was the nicest thing and what was the worst?

What stands out the most for you?"

They've been mixed my experiences on fab, but to be fair all the negative are all self inflicted and taking things to heart.

Aside from that good or bad I think the more you put yourself out there, be it meets and getting involved in chats etc obviously the more experience you have.

I'd like to say I've met the love of my life through here, but for me it's more escapism and plucking up the courage to go to some more events. Thankfully as of yet I've had no nastiness, but I've had some weird, weird (!) messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m fortunate enough to be able to say that I’ve only had good experiences here. Being on fab has brought both friends and lovers into my life just when I needed them.

I think if you’re patient, discerning, respectful and actually willing to take the time to get to know someone then the rewards that follow are immense.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Had a good laugh and chats...great place to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Over the years I've had pretty positive experiences of fab. Each time I've come back it's been different. Mostly because what I've wanted at that point has been.

I view fab a bit like the all you can eat Chinese buffet.

Its fun, a good way to try new things and a free for all. However you can only go so often before you just want one fully prepared home cooked meal!

I've met some truly incredible people and actually even more so this time round. One in particular I hope to keep in my life.

However, inevitably for me as a hopeful romantic I'm back at really just wanting my happily ever after.

Maybe with luck it might happen

That’s the most honest and sweet thing I’ve read on here "

Ha ha thanks. There's a place for us romantics even here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good if anything looks bad I block...

same for behaviours I try to be polite but I keep getting called a cock tease because I wrote provocative status's so my block list keeps growing .

Not dramas as such but men call me full of shit as I don't show verifications and instead of reading my profile they mouth off.... again block

I was taken to a weekend spa for lots of sex if that's classed as a luxury, I'm not here to score though I'm here for my own satisfaction

Probs the nicest was a fwb I have for about a year we have became very good friends...

I haven't had any bad experiences I wouldn't allow myself to get into anything I'm not comfortable with.

What stand out the most is men who have no clue and message with a pic of cock saying suck that slut!!! Emmm no thanks

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Generally all good ! Can't think of any negatives! Made some cool friends x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All my meets here have been excellent...all 5 of them & still friends with 4....one eventually turned into a stalker but the initial meets were good with him till he went all loopy....

One meet was a super super surprise he looked so much better in person omg stunning he is....still friends too.... actually 2 looked way better in person....XX

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By *aughtyandhandsomeMan
over a year ago

button moon

I’ve had good. I’ve had bad. But I’ve also had the opportunity to make some really good friends too. There was someone once I could open up to and spill my guts to and I’ll always be forever grateful to her for that as well as just being a down fucking great person too as well as hot!! But mainly most have been good times really. One not so good but I think most get the odd bad experience.

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