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Should you put all your secrets desires in your bio?

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By *inky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich

So if you have a secret desire or fantasy. Let's say pegging and your profile says straight. Probably have some bi experimenting too in the past once or twice.

Is it a lie, if you don't put it in your bio? I know I just did. Won't make any difference anyway.I was just verbally abused about it. Apparently I'm a lier and misleading people. Taking away an informed decision.

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By *lueDressWoman
over a year ago

Bath

I would say from My experience of speaking with people.. most people could with the right person be bisexual or kinky or anything with the right connection.Ive known straight ladies who in My company felt tempted.

Nice to know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have any interests ticked, and I give very little away on my bio. If I want someone to know what I like, I'll tell them.

And it can change depending on the person.

Its your profile, put on there whatever you want and want to share. There's no right or wrong answer

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By *inky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"I would say from My experience of speaking with people.. most people could with the right person be bisexual or kinky or anything with the right connection.Ive known straight ladies who in My company felt tempted.

Nice to know "

It's nothing to do with men.It's about being straight with an anal kink secretly, because it would put off normal women. Apparently it's deceiving. It's 99.9% fingers or toys while walking. God, I'm an evil man didn't let everyone know before. Sorry!

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

Same as what Bellaseas says, if someone wants to know then they should put the effort in to find out and ask me.

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By *inky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"I don't have any interests ticked, and I give very little away on my bio. If I want someone to know what I like, I'll tell them.

And it can change depending on the person.

Its your profile, put on there whatever you want and want to share. There's no right or wrong answer "

This woman done pegging, so I asked advice. It started nice, but ended up with a fuck off even after I apologized she felt offended.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well don't let it worry you OP, most of us here have had a shitty message at times.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I wouldn't put all mine in my bio, there's things I wouldn't do with many people & only ones I'm really comfortable with so it's not for all to know.

As for the shitty messages sorry you had that unfortunately some people are just pricks.

Mrs

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"This woman done pegging, so I asked advice. It started nice, but ended up with a fuck off even after I apologized she felt offended."

I'm sure the fuck off would have been aimed at a shitty comment that wasn't relevant

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"So if you have a secret desire or fantasy. Let's say pegging and your profile says straight. Probably have some bi experimenting too in the past once or twice.

Is it a lie, if you don't put it in your bio? I know I just did. Won't make any difference anyway.I was just verbally abused about it. Apparently I'm a lier and misleading people. Taking away an informed decision. "

It’s an interesting question, we just delete messages from people who have straight in their bio. We say in our bio we don’t want to meet straight men or women, and those who message to tell us they’re really bi but… just don’t interest us.

You don’t have to put everything in your profile but something as important as your sexuality you shouldn’t lie about. If you have tried something in the past and didn’t like so don’t do it anymore then that’s not a lie, so no harm as far as we’re concerned.

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By *herry delightWoman
over a year ago

Ilfracombe

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By *inky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"Well don't let it worry you OP, most of us here have had a shitty message at times. "

I just want to know what other people think.

In my opinion it's not misleading.

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By *inky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"This woman done pegging, so I asked advice. It started nice, but ended up with a fuck off even after I apologized she felt offended.

I'm sure the fuck off would have been aimed at a shitty comment that wasn't relevant "

Well, it's all there now.

Now I'm just getting weirdo messages from guys.

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By *inky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"So if you have a secret desire or fantasy. Let's say pegging and your profile says straight. Probably have some bi experimenting too in the past once or twice.

Is it a lie, if you don't put it in your bio? I know I just did. Won't make any difference anyway.I was just verbally abused about it. Apparently I'm a lier and misleading people. Taking away an informed decision.

It’s an interesting question, we just delete messages from people who have straight in their bio. We say in our bio we don’t want to meet straight men or women, and those who message to tell us they’re really bi but… just don’t interest us.

You don’t have to put everything in your profile but something as important as your sexuality you shouldn’t lie about. If you have tried something in the past and didn’t like so don’t do it anymore then that’s not a lie, so no harm as far as we’re concerned. "

I can't put bi, because according to bi/gay guys I'm straight with a kink.

Can't put bi curious, because I tried what I wanted.

Most women and straight couples would bi put off by this already. So I would ruin my already really good chances as an average single guy.

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