FabSwingers.com forum: When they're close to doing that orgasm thing...

By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago

London

Do you go harder and faster?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I stay at the same pace, they’re enjoying what’s happening so why change it up

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Sometimes but it's a risk, sometimes it goes really well and amazing orgasm other times the change stops the orgasm in its tracks which is super frustrating.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, stick to the thing that got me to the dance

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Very rarely, if I know them well enough and know that it's going to tip them over the edge.

As a woman, it's so fucking frustrating when my orgasm is building and the tempo is switched up with the belief it'll bring me to a more intense orgasm. No, it throws everything off.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Away for Christmas

Did she say harder or faster?

Unless she did then change nothing. Keep at the same pace, only exception is if you know them and their tells well enough for what they want and where it will be going next which is entirely situational.

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere

I carry on as i was - steadily giving them the best sex of their life and also some good advice on winter gutter maintenance so they are both turned on and stimulated by interesting conversation!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope, stick to the thing that got me to the dance

This!!! If there’s one thing they need to teach men at man school it’s this!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a woman, it's so fucking frustrating when my orgasm is building and the tempo is switched up with the belief it'll bring me to a more intense orgasm. No, it throws everything off."

This!

Also why I stopped announcing I was going to orgasm. If they know, they change everything which makes me not orgasm at all.

I was going to orgasm because I was enjoying how it felt. I don’t need it changed!

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

"Sometimes but it's a risk, sometimes it goes really well and amazing orgasm other times the change stops the orgasm in its tracks which is super frustrating.

Mrs "

This.

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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago

London

What about DURING the orgasm?!

Plot thickens!

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

No, I keep to the same pelvic rhythm like a masculine metronome.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Away for Christmas

"What about DURING the orgasm?!

Plot thickens!"

Then it's time for risks. They got what they needed, now it's time for a gamble and up the intensity and see what happens. Or completely stop.

It is extremely situational at that point. Some women need you to stop entirely, some the increased intensity brings on another orgasm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Advice to all men.. Pack it in going faster. If we're at that point, keep doing what your doing EXACTLY the same. My fanny hasn't stopped beating, no need to resuscitate it.

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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Advice to all men.. Pack it in going faster. If we're at that point, keep doing what your doing EXACTLY the same. My fanny hasn't stopped beating, no need to resuscitate it."

Yeah but once you're doing it and shaking we can smash it right?

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
over a year ago

Essex

And now I’m horny.

Thanks everyone. I hope you’re all pleased with yourselves!!!

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Away for Christmas

"And now I’m horny.

Thanks everyone. I hope you’re all pleased with yourselves!!!"

I'm not

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"And now I’m horny.

Thanks everyone. I hope you’re all pleased with yourselves!!!

I'm not"

Horny or pleased with yourself?

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I know with C that I can slow it down to intensify the orgasm but with someone I don’t know their body, then I wouldn’t change a thing.

If I’m getting a BJ and they change things near the point of no return then you more than likely make me lose my orgasm…don’t change anything!

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Away for Christmas

"And now I’m horny.

Thanks everyone. I hope you’re all pleased with yourselves!!!

I'm not

Horny or pleased with yourself?"

Both

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