FabSwingers.com forum: Kinks you wish you didn't have

By *inkygentkent OP Man
over a year ago

Maidstone

Does anyone here have unusual kinks that they wish they didn't have? Not looking to go into details but I mean kinks that few potential partners would understand.

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By *inkygentkent OP Man
over a year ago

Maidstone

Oh - and just to qualtify, before I get banned, I'm very definitely not referring to anything sick or illegal!!!!

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By *urious couple22Couple
over a year ago

Derby

Probably watch my partner sleep with other men as much as I enjoy it I look at other people and think it's probably not normal

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By *inkygentkent OP Man
over a year ago

Maidstone

"Probably watch my partner sleep with other men as much as I enjoy it I look at other people and think it's probably not normal "

Are any kinks truly normal?

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By *ottodot123Couple
over a year ago

Gillingham

Fucking men

The Mrs

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

Well, for my next imminent and clåndestine encøunter my partner has agreed for me to pour some ice-chilled, super-thick chocolate milkshake over her quinny...for me to lap up and devour.

Watch this space...

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By *inkygentkent OP Man
over a year ago

Maidstone

"Well, for my next imminent and clåndestine encøunter my partner has agreed for me to pour some ice-chilled, super-thick chocolate milkshake over her quinny...for me to lap up and devour.

Watch this space...

That sounds like fun!

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Can't really think of anything tbh, I'm pretty boring.

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By *hastity_roseTV/TS
over a year ago

Nowhere

Wish I’d never started dressing

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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters

Mine are pretty "usual" as kinks go. Sometimes I wish I didn't have any of them, though. Sometimes I envy asexuals, and feel like I'd be able to get a lot more shit done in life if I was like them.

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By *olbornsubguyMan
over a year ago

london

Not a kink of mine as such, but I wish so many tops weren’t into caning. A belt I can take more easily, but the cane really fucking hurts

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

"Wish I’d never started dressing "

Really that's quite interesting, is it because it's time consuming or addictive or something else??

Sorry for being nosey just say non of your business if you want.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"Not a kink of mine as such, but I wish so many tops weren’t into caning. A belt I can take more easily, but the cane really fucking hurts"

If you don't enjoy it, just say no. Bottoms have the right to say to anything and if the top doesn't listen, that's abuse.

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By *olbornsubguyMan
over a year ago

london

" If you don't enjoy it, just say no. Bottoms have the right to say to anything and if the top doesn't listen, that's abuse. "

Of course I agree. But the main kink I’ve agreed with my Master is not to refuse any top guys what they want, within sensible agreed limits. So I guess it’s CNC - consensual non consent.

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By *hoenix CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northallerton

Love other mens cum, probably not very healthy!

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By *hastity_roseTV/TS
over a year ago

Nowhere

"Wish I’d never started dressing

Really that's quite interesting, is it because it's time consuming or addictive or something else??

Sorry for being nosey just say non of your business if you want."

Can’t message in private so please send me one if you want to know xxx

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By *inkygentkent OP Man
over a year ago

Maidstone

"Can't really think of anything tbh, I'm pretty boring."

Don't ever say that - if you are happy with what turns you on, that's all that matters

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By *inkygentkent OP Man
over a year ago

Maidstone

My kinks are so embedded in me that when I send an introduction message I ask if I can run them past the person. If they reply positively then I move to the more normal introductory stuff.

It's almost as though I'd rather blow up a potential friendship/relationship rather than do without them.

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By *lueDressWoman
over a year ago

Bath

I'm happy with My kinks. Even though they are bloody expensive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well, for my next imminent and clåndestine encøunter my partner has agreed for me to pour some ice-chilled, super-thick chocolate milkshake over her quinny...for me to lap up and devour.

Watch this space...

Oh, one from Maccas?

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By *ee1967Man
over a year ago

watford

"Probably watch my partner sleep with other men as much as I enjoy it I look at other people and think it's probably not normal "

Whys it not normal? If you like to watch or join in and he likes it, then it's very normal ??

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

"Well, for my next imminent and clåndestine encøunter my partner has agreed for me to pour some ice-chilled, super-thick chocolate milkshake over her quinny...for me to lap up and devour.

Watch this space...

Oh, one from Maccas?

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Shamefully, yes!

But they make for the right consistency for...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone here have unusual kinks that they wish they didn't have? Not looking to go into details but I mean kinks that few potential partners would understand."

I find most potential partners are put off by my being a masochist. And the ones that aren't often show a lot of red flags!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well, for my next imminent and clåndestine encøunter my partner has agreed for me to pour some ice-chilled, super-thick chocolate milkshake over her quinny...for me to lap up and devour.

Watch this space...

Oh, one from Maccas?

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Shamefully, yes!

But they make for the right consistency for...

I'm crowing with delight at this.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

"Well, for my next imminent and clåndestine encøunter my partner has agreed for me to pour some ice-chilled, super-thick chocolate milkshake over her quinny...for me to lap up and devour.

Watch this space...

Oh, one from Maccas?

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Shamefully, yes!

But they make for the right consistency for...

I'm crowing with delight at this.

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Sharrrup you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well, for my next imminent and clåndestine encøunter my partner has agreed for me to pour some ice-chilled, super-thick chocolate milkshake over her quinny...for me to lap up and devour.

Watch this space...

Oh, one from Maccas?

•

Shamefully, yes!

But they make for the right consistency for...

I'm crowing with delight at this.

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Sharrrup you!

I'd go for strawberry, myself though. You know how sweet I am.

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By *enk15Man
over a year ago

Evesham

Nope. But there are plenty of kinks I wish I did have.

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By *hunky ChefMan
over a year ago

Norwich

I have one, plus the variations.

It's too gay for women, but not gay enough for men. Catch 22, unless a miracle happens with a nice kinky couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have one for cumming on heels…wish I didn’t. Most don’t get it and it’s a nightmare to find anyone into it

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By *lleyCat1969Man
over a year ago

Folkestone

"Well, for my next imminent and clåndestine encøunter my partner has agreed for me to pour some ice-chilled, super-thick chocolate milkshake over her quinny...for me to lap up and devour.

Watch this space...

Oh, one from Maccas?

Five Guys, surely.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

"Well, for my next imminent and clåndestine encøunter my partner has agreed for me to pour some ice-chilled, super-thick chocolate milkshake over her quinny...for me to lap up and devour.

Watch this space...

Oh, one from Maccas?

Five Guys, surely."

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She's not having five guys! She's just having one; Me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone here have unusual kinks that they wish they didn't have? Not looking to go into details but I mean kinks that few potential partners would understand."

I love all of my kinks but I actually wish I wasn't submissive sometimes

Being submissive has caused me a lot of problems in life. And on a base level, it's not even a kinky thing. It's just the way I happen to be emotionally and sexually

Not sure if that's relevant but it certainly makes me feel quite unusual sometimes

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By *inkygentkent OP Man
over a year ago

Maidstone

"Does anyone here have unusual kinks that they wish they didn't have? Not looking to go into details but I mean kinks that few potential partners would understand.

I love all of my kinks but I actually wish I wasn't submissive sometimes

Being submissive has caused me a lot of problems in life. And on a base level, it's not even a kinky thing. It's just the way I happen to be emotionally and sexually

Not sure if that's relevant but it certainly makes me feel quite unusual sometimes"

I'm with you there - I'm not full-on sub but my bedroom life mirrors my real life so I'll typically avoid confrontation even if it is necessary

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I have one that's potentially harmful. But it just feels so good. Until it doesn't. It would be handy to forget it if I could

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Not a kink of mine as such, but I wish so many tops weren’t into caning. A belt I can take more easily, but the cane really fucking hurts

If you don't enjoy it, just say no. Bottoms have the right to say to anything and if the top doesn't listen, that's abuse. "

I'm into impact play, but not caning. It's not an option and I make that clear. Look after yourself x

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By *olbornsubguyMan
over a year ago

london

" I love all of my kinks but I actually wish I wasn't submissive sometimes. Being submissive has caused me a lot of problems in life. And on a base level, it's not even a kinky thing. It's just the way I happen to be emotionally and sexually "

Emotionally I’m pretty strong. You need to be to take some of the rough fuckers out there. Outside of the bedroom I’m pretty dominant/assertive.

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