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Masturbating and knowing your needs

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By *ayHaych OP   Man
over a year ago

Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work)

How important do you think masturbation is for people to know their own sexual needs and what gets them off? I feel like it’s literally the first step to understanding yourself sexually and helps you to tell your sexual partner(s) what you need/like/enjoy.

Without it I think you’d be at the mercy of whatever orgasms you receive, not knowing if they’re your weakest or strongest orgasms. As a massive wanker I may be biased but would love to hear other peoples thoughts.

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By *houldersSquareMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I think the important things are education and experience. "Washing the cucumber" is fine, but you may never figure out what works for you if you're lacking understanding about your own anatomy, or don't have knowledge of the types of things that typically turn people on. Wouldn't matter how often you "pickled your onions".

Also, the solo experience is very different to any experience involving other people. "Air-frying your turkey drumstick" is probs great as a first step, but I think you learn more about yourself (and others) through exploring with others.

Also I think it might be time for breakfast.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The Catholic Church setout guidelines for how long you can spend masturbating. I'm serious! Google it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The Catholic Church setout guidelines for how long you can spend masturbating. I'm serious! Google it "

Post a link. I can't Google one handed.

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By *ayHaych OP   Man
over a year ago

Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work)


"I think the important things are education and experience. "Washing the cucumber" is fine, but you may never figure out what works for you if you're lacking understanding about your own anatomy, or don't have knowledge of the types of things that typically turn people on. Wouldn't matter how often you "pickled your onions".

Also, the solo experience is very different to any experience involving other people. "Air-frying your turkey drumstick" is probs great as a first step, but I think you learn more about yourself (and others) through exploring with others.

Also I think it might be time for breakfast."

I had breakfast before I even posted it, that’s why I have my lunch at 10:30am

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By *ayHaych OP   Man
over a year ago

Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work)


"The Catholic Church setout guidelines for how long you can spend masturbating. I'm serious! Google it "

Have they really? -_-

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales


"The Catholic Church setout guidelines for how long you can spend masturbating. I'm serious! Google it "

Yeah, they’ve had enough of all this “edging” bollocks too!

Whip it out and get it done!

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

The Catholic Church is telling young men not to neglect their nipples and their balls.

To me they've been pointing at these for years though.

pt

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"The Catholic Church setout guidelines for how long you can spend masturbating. I'm serious! Google it

Have they really? -_-"

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It appears not lol

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By *ayHaych OP   Man
over a year ago

Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work)


"The Catholic Church setout guidelines for how long you can spend masturbating. I'm serious! Google it

Have they really? -_-

.

It appears not lol"

That's a shame I was hoping it was true!

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By *inky ChefMan
over a year ago

Norwich


"How important do you think masturbation is for people to know their own sexual needs and what gets them off? I feel like it’s literally the first step to understanding yourself sexually and helps you to tell your sexual partner(s) what you need/like/enjoy.

Without it I think you’d be at the mercy of whatever orgasms you receive, not knowing if they’re your weakest or strongest orgasms. As a massive wanker I may be biased but would love to hear other peoples thoughts.

"

I had maybe 1 relationship in my life, where I rarely masturbated. She gave me lots of sex and most things I wanted. Closest to my type in appearance too.

Otherwise I'm a massive wanker too, but not my choice this time.

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