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By *ittle_brat_evie!! OP Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Would you stop to help a damsel in distress (I don't know what the make equivalent is but for the sake of equality a dude in distress)???

On my way to work this morning I managed to puncture my passenger front tyre. I pulled over and dutifully went about changing it.

I .was parked up in the entrance of a near by stately home and many cars pulled up to the gate and went through without so much as a 'are you ok?'!

One man did stop.....just as I was packing everything away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd stop if I could, I have done a few times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes i would help ... and if i could not myself go get help.

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By *exyeyez23Man
over a year ago

Lytham St Anne’s

Most deffinately stop to help its just good manners and not enough helpful people now we should all put ourselves in the position of the person in trouble and ask what we want other people to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite often on a deadline but I do stop when I can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good man. Just enough interest to make him seem like a white knight, but not enough that he actually had to do anything. It's hard to get that balance right.

Can I suggest next time that you unleash the puppies if you need help? They'd be queing down the road then. =-O

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

id stop and shout out the window, get out ffffing way, nice place to break down!!...

im kidding id help

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I can't do car maintenance nor change a tyre, so I would be fuck all use

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always stop and see if they need help. Changed people wheels for them and towed them to the garage quiet a few times. Not once has anyone ever asked if I need a hand though

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

You should of gone and knocked on the front door and got the butler to come and help you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i always stop n see if they need a helping hand ,id never leave anyone in distress!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I'd stop. Once I broke down on a country road with no mobile reception. About 30 cars passed without stopping. 2.5 hours later a guy stopped and towed me to nearest town and garage so I always try and stop if I can and help out. Changed a few tyres for people in my time at the side of the road. Nice to be nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would you stop to help a damsel in distress (I don't know what the make equivalent is but for the sake of equality a dude in distress)???

On my way to work this morning I managed to puncture my passenger front tyre. I pulled over and dutifully went about changing it.

I .was parked up in the entrance of a near by stately home and many cars pulled up to the gate and went through without so much as a 'are you ok?'!

One man did stop.....just as I was packing everything away

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id stop to ask if alls ok but i couldnt helped as i wouldnt have clue how to change a tyre!! haha sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't believe how many folks can't change a wheel! I've done if for several female friends in the past.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I stop if its a female...but then I am just a a guy with the silly ideal that perhaps you get the favour returned...haha.

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley

Of course I'd try and help. Cannot believe people drove past.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i just call up the AA and my knights in yellow vans come rescue me

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Apparently it's all about equality these days. No bugger helped me when my button fell off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the day of the last FA Cup final I was hot footing it back from work to watch the mighty Chelsea. I was wearing 3-4 inch Stilletos and had work clothes on (oh and my usual acrylics on!) and low and behold I got a flat tyre!

I pulled into a petrol station, climbed out of the car and looked at myself and the situation. (I had also had my appendix taken out 3 weeks previously!) a very kind man changed my tyre for me. I would have had to phone the breakdown people otherwise.

I made it home for the second half!!!

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Apparently it's all about equality these days. No bugger helped me when my button fell off

It would depend whether it was an essential button or one of those ones just for show.

OP - I'd offer to call the breakdown people.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"No

I can't do car maintenance nor change a tyre, so I would be fuck all use"

you could pump the jack..

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"No

I can't do car maintenance nor change a tyre, so I would be fuck all use

you could pump the jack..

how do I get in contact with him

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

have stopped before and see it as only being normal to assist anyone if they need it, ladies with prams etc..

think it stems from my old mum having me give up my bus seat etc as a boy..

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"No

I can't do car maintenance nor change a tyre, so I would be fuck all use

you could pump the jack..

how do I get in contact with him"

he'll be the one with his handle ready...

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"No

I can't do car maintenance nor change a tyre, so I would be fuck all use

you could pump the jack..

how do I get in contact with him

he'll be the one with his handle ready...

that is good to know, I always have a blanket, a spade, mars bar, poppers, lube and condoms in the boot.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"No

I can't do car maintenance nor change a tyre, so I would be fuck all use

you could pump the jack..

how do I get in contact with him

he'll be the one with his handle ready...

that is good to know, I always have a blanket, a spade, mars bar, poppers, lube and condoms in the boot.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"No

I can't do car maintenance nor change a tyre, so I would be fuck all use

you could pump the jack..

how do I get in contact with him

he'll be the one with his handle ready...

that is good to know, I always have a blanket, a spade, mars bar, poppers, lube and condoms in the boot.

What's the spade for?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"No

I can't do car maintenance nor change a tyre, so I would be fuck all use

you could pump the jack..

how do I get in contact with him

he'll be the one with his handle ready...

that is good to know, I always have a blanket, a spade, mars bar, poppers, lube and condoms in the boot.

What's the spade for?"

the snow

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"No

I can't do car maintenance nor change a tyre, so I would be fuck all use

you could pump the jack..

how do I get in contact with him

he'll be the one with his handle ready...

that is good to know, I always have a blanket, a spade, mars bar, poppers, lube and condoms in the boot.

What's the spade for?"

easier to dig the hole with..

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"No

I can't do car maintenance nor change a tyre, so I would be fuck all use

you could pump the jack..

how do I get in contact with him

he'll be the one with his handle ready...

that is good to know, I always have a blanket, a spade, mars bar, poppers, lube and condoms in the boot.

What's the spade for?

the snow

I couldn't quite make it fit with the blanket, poppers, lube, condoms and post-coital snacks. I do think you are missing some vital kit though: where are the wet wipes?

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

"No

I can't do car maintenance nor change a tyre, so I would be fuck all use

you could pump the jack..

how do I get in contact with him

he'll be the one with his handle ready...

that is good to know, I always have a blanket, a spade, mars bar, poppers, lube and condoms in the boot.

What's the spade for?"

Taz reckons to bury the bodies - well that's why it makes me carry one in the boot

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By *ummy mummyWoman
over a year ago

southampton-ish

I could not believe it when I once slipped on some ice when I was walking with my newborn twins,one in the pushchair and one in a babycarrier,luckily I managed to hold on the the pushchair but screwed up my knee when I hit it on the ground so struggled to stand upright again...loads of people about,not one so much as stopped to see if I was ok

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"No

I can't do car maintenance nor change a tyre, so I would be fuck all use

you could pump the jack..

how do I get in contact with him

he'll be the one with his handle ready...

that is good to know, I always have a blanket, a spade, mars bar, poppers, lube and condoms in the boot.

What's the spade for?

Taz reckons to bury the bodies - well that's why it makes me carry one in the boot

Got to say i like his thinking..

when the sat nav's bust and one has to resort to a woman reading a map then a spade could be handy at some point in the journey..

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"No

I can't do car maintenance nor change a tyre, so I would be fuck all use

you could pump the jack..

how do I get in contact with him

he'll be the one with his handle ready...

that is good to know, I always have a blanket, a spade, mars bar, poppers, lube and condoms in the boot.

What's the spade for?

the snow

I couldn't quite make it fit with the blanket, poppers, lube, condoms and post-coital snacks. I do think you are missing some vital kit though: where are the wet wipes?"

for goodness sake, I am not a sexual deviant... the spade, blanket and snack are for the winter, the rest for giving any emergency service person a tip...

I always tip... sometimes I even go baw deep after I have given the tip

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I could not believe it when I once slipped on some ice when I was walking with my newborn twins,one in the pushchair and one in a babycarrier,luckily I managed to hold on the the pushchair but screwed up my knee when I hit it on the ground so struggled to stand upright again...loads of people about,not one so much as stopped to see if I was ok"

It's not good is it?

I have a balance problem. At its worst I used to fall over in the street a lot as crossing roads took me off-balance. I fell into the road and a car stopped just before hitting me. The driver didn't get out, just backed up a bit and swerved around me. The other pedestrians just walked by. I assume they all thought I was d*unk at 11am.

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

I'd stop and offer what assistance I could for a lone female, even if just company till the breakdown folk get there...a few years ago I was taking my niece shopping when we witnessed an accident (we were about the 4th or 5th car behind a woman who lost control and slammed into the dike (not a lesbian

)) All the cars immediately behind the crashed car carried on, we stopped and helped the poor lass out of the car, fortunately she was only shaken up, we got the breakdown guys out, phoned the police and kept other motorists aware of the hazard for an hour till the police turned up - was bloody freezing but I couldn't have just carried on without stopping to help

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"No

I can't do car maintenance nor change a tyre, so I would be fuck all use

you could pump the jack..

how do I get in contact with him

he'll be the one with his handle ready...

that is good to know, I always have a blanket, a spade, mars bar, poppers, lube and condoms in the boot.

What's the spade for?

the snow

I couldn't quite make it fit with the blanket, poppers, lube, condoms and post-coital snacks. I do think you are missing some vital kit though: where are the wet wipes?

for goodness sake, I am not a sexual deviant... the spade, blanket and snack are for the winter, the rest for giving any emergency service person a tip...

I always tip... sometimes I even go baw deep after I have given the tip"

So you are relying on the emergency services having the wet wipes?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"No

I can't do car maintenance nor change a tyre, so I would be fuck all use

you could pump the jack..

how do I get in contact with him

he'll be the one with his handle ready...

that is good to know, I always have a blanket, a spade, mars bar, poppers, lube and condoms in the boot.

What's the spade for?

the snow

I couldn't quite make it fit with the blanket, poppers, lube, condoms and post-coital snacks. I do think you are missing some vital kit though: where are the wet wipes?

for goodness sake, I am not a sexual deviant... the spade, blanket and snack are for the winter, the rest for giving any emergency service person a tip...

I always tip... sometimes I even go baw deep after I have given the tip

So you are relying on the emergency services having the wet wipes?"

no, just an oily rag will do...

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

"No

I can't do car maintenance nor change a tyre, so I would be fuck all use

you could pump the jack..

how do I get in contact with him

he'll be the one with his handle ready...

that is good to know, I always have a blanket, a spade, mars bar, poppers, lube and condoms in the boot.

What's the spade for?

Taz reckons to bury the bodies - well that's why it makes me carry one in the boot

Got to say i like his thinking..

when the sat nav's bust and one has to resort to a woman reading a map then a spade could be handy at some point in the journey.."

I do hope Mrs Surreysensual doesn't see this for your sake

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"for goodness sake, I am not a sexual deviant... the spade, blanket and snack are for the winter, the rest for giving any emergency service person a tip...

I always tip... sometimes I even go baw deep after I have given the tip

So you are relying on the emergency services having the wet wipes?

no, just an oily rag will do...

You filthy thing. Not a sexual deviant? I beg to differ.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"No

I can't do car maintenance nor change a tyre, so I would be fuck all use

you could pump the jack..

how do I get in contact with him

he'll be the one with his handle ready...

that is good to know, I always have a blanket, a spade, mars bar, poppers, lube and condoms in the boot.

What's the spade for?

Taz reckons to bury the bodies - well that's why it makes me carry one in the boot

Got to say i like his thinking..

when the sat nav's bust and one has to resort to a woman reading a map then a spade could be handy at some point in the journey..

I do hope Mrs Surreysensual doesn't see this for your sake

Mrs Surreysensual..?

she is err well sort of having a day out, well a few days now in the countryside..

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By *ittle_brat_evie!! OP Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"i just call up the AA and my knights in yellow vans come rescue me "

I don't see changing a tyre as a breakdown though.

We learnt how to change a tyre at school. We also learnt how to check the oil etc, wire a plug and hang a door

Was a brave teacher who let use practice in his car lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would you stop to help a damsel in distress (I don't know what the make equivalent is but for the sake of equality a dude in distress)???

On my way to work this morning I managed to puncture my passenger front tyre. I pulled over and dutifully went about changing it.

I .was parked up in the entrance of a near by stately home and many cars pulled up to the gate and went through without so much as a 'are you ok?'!

One man did stop.....just as I was packing everything away

I stop and help people because i have been in the situation where i have needed help and have been extremly grateful to the people who stopped.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Cant say Ive ever stopped to help at a breakdown as Id be neither use nor ornament...

But Ive stopped and helped out plenty of times when Ive seen someone fall, be taken ill etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would you stop to help a damsel in distress (I don't know what the make equivalent is but for the sake of equality a dude in distress)???

On my way to work this morning I managed to puncture my passenger front tyre. I pulled over and dutifully went about changing it.

I .was parked up in the entrance of a near by stately home and many cars pulled up to the gate and went through without so much as a 'are you ok?'!

One man did stop.....just as I was packing everything away

I stop and help people because i have been in the situation where i have needed help and have been extremly grateful to the people who stopped."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do you think of this dress??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would have stopped .

It says it all in today's world where people are just to busy to help others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would you stop to help a damsel in distress (I don't know what the make equivalent is but for the sake of equality a dude in distress)???

On my way to work this morning I managed to puncture my passenger front tyre. I pulled over and dutifully went about changing it.

I was parked up in the entrance of a near by stately home and many cars pulled up to the gate and went through without so much as a 'are you ok?'!

One man did stop.....just as I was packing everything away

If you were flashing the stockings I would definately stop, seriously I would stop to give a hand. It is a shame most people don't nowadays.

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By *nfieldishCouple
over a year ago

Enfield

"Can't believe how many folks can't change a wheel! I've done if for several female friends in the past."

Is this the right time to say.... Nice arse?^

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village

Would stop and offer to help but i've had it thrown back at me and been labelled as sexist so im a tad cautious about helping strangers

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