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Should a date be romantic?

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

I think that it depends what kind of dare it is, but other wise I think that a should be a bit romantic, put the wine in the fridge and put on some candles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think that it depends what kind of dare it is, but other wise I think that a should be a bit romantic, put the wine in the fridge and put on some candles "
Hell yes. Isn’t that what dating’s all about, finding a potential romantic partner?

Otherwise it’s just a meet/social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If there’s no romance then it’s not a date it’s just an outing.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Nope, it should be fun. I don't want her dressing me up in a feather boa, combing my hair, painting my nails or feeding me twiglets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what you mean by “date”

Every date with a partner should be romantic

But if we mean date as in dating, 1st 2nd date kinda stuff then no. First few dates are to figure out if you want to be romantic, and receive romantic treat, from that person

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.


"I think that it depends what kind of dare it is, but other wise I think that a should be a bit romantic, put the wine in the fridge and put on some candles Hell yes. Isn’t that what dating’s all about, finding a potential romantic partner?

Otherwise it’s just a meet/social"
Yes, you are right there and that is what dating is all about for a romantic partner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Romance isn't about clichés.

There can be romance in a single moment in am unlikely place too.

I'm all for romance though x

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I loves a bit of romance I does

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Away for Christmas


"Romance isn't about clichés.

There can be romance in a single moment in am unlikely place too.

I'm all for romance though x

"

Indeed.

The thing is romance is personal and unique between people. What may be romantic between me and my partner may be different for you and yours. Or even multiple partners.

So yes, if it's a date it should be romantic, it's about showing interest and attraction just as much as it is about showing love. But again it's not always just about candlelight dinners, roses, walks on the beach and all that other cliché stuff.

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.


"If there’s no romance then it’s not a date it’s just an outing. "
Yes, you are right there, that without romances it is not a date

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think that it depends what kind of dare it is, but other wise I think that a should be a bit romantic, put the wine in the fridge and put on some candles "

Morning Shag. What is a dare

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I know it is a daring date of yours..

Romantic interludes.. Depends on how much you are into someone and if you both feel romantically inclined.

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By *oadsafun1960Man
over a year ago

Somerset & Hertfordshire

Romance isn't dead it's always nice to share romantic moments and have happy memories.

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.


"I think that it depends what kind of dare it is, but other wise I think that a should be a bit romantic, put the wine in the fridge and put on some candles

Morning Shag. What is a dare "
Afternoon becs and yes. I am also wondering the same thing

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.


"Oh I know it is a daring date of yours..

Romantic interludes.. Depends on how much you are into someone and if you both feel romantically inclined.

"
Hi becs and yes, with the romance it also depends on how much one are into someone too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is why I avoid dates.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love my dates.. In my sticky toffee pudding. Only dates I get.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

M&S dine in deals are made for dates

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London


"I think that it depends what kind of dare it is …"

I dare you to go on a romantic date. I double dare you.

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(Couldn’t resist, sorry. Not sorry.)

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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It depends on what you both interpret as romantic. The mood. The dynamic. You don't need candlelit meals to have a romantic date. A fun one.

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.


"It depends on what you both interpret as romantic. The mood. The dynamic. You don't need candlelit meals to have a romantic date. A fun one. "
Yes, you are right there too, it depends on that as well and no, one doesnt need a candlelit meal if they dont want to have it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing turns me on more than a bit of romance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure my idea of romance matches with most people's...

But no it doesn't need to be clichéd definition of romance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unless its a ziplining through the trees type of date, a bit of romance with a candle doesn't go amiss.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Having your version of romantic running sounds like a wise move. It can be a good part of respective partners getting to know each other

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By *oxongyMan
over a year ago

grimsby

Should you wear underwear on a date?

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

First dates should be fun rather than romantic. The third date onwards can up the smooch levels a bit.

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.


"Nothing turns me on more than a bit of romance "
That sounds good to me that you like a bit of romance too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think that it depends what kind of dare it is, but other wise I think that a should be a bit romantic, put the wine in the fridge and put on some candles

Morning Shag. What is a dare Afternoon becs and yes. I am also wondering the same thing "

I think perhaps you were daring us all to go on romantic dates

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Might get my dates out..

Pre-packed from Sainsburys..

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.


"I think that it depends what kind of dare it is, but other wise I think that a should be a bit romantic, put the wine in the fridge and put on some candles

Morning Shag. What is a dare Afternoon becs and yes. I am also wondering the same thing

I think perhaps you were daring us all to go on romantic dates "
Hi becs and yes. I might have done that too, romantic dates are nice as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think that it depends what kind of dare it is, but other wise I think that a should be a bit romantic, put the wine in the fridge and put on some candles

Morning Shag. What is a dare Afternoon becs and yes. I am also wondering the same thing

I think perhaps you were daring us all to go on romantic dates Hi becs and yes. I might have done that too, romantic dates are nice as well "

When was your last date op?

Mine was 2007 in Broadstairs.. I remember it well.. We just met in a cafe, had a chat and walked to Ramsgate.. How was that for romance

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.


"I think that it depends what kind of dare it is, but other wise I think that a should be a bit romantic, put the wine in the fridge and put on some candles

Morning Shag. What is a dare Afternoon becs and yes. I am also wondering the same thing

I think perhaps you were daring us all to go on romantic dates Hi becs and yes. I might have done that too, romantic dates are nice as well

When was your last date op?

Mine was 2007 in Broadstairs.. I remember it well.. We just met in a cafe, had a chat and walked to Ramsgate.. How was that for romance "
Yes, that is good too becs, mine was 7 years ago at her place. I also remember it very well like it was yesterday, we had wine and pizza, it was a hawaii pizza with pineapples on it, it was my favourite one as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"First dates should be fun rather than romantic. The third date onwards can up the smooch levels a bit."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Should they be rule only few messages and quick chat before hand to make it more intresting and informative liason...

Or more common full life story and sexual do,s and dont,s before date ??

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

Depends first on the people going on the date. Romance comes from feelings where not everyone displays their feelings and some even struggle with that

Secondly if it's a first date I wouldn't say it should be romantic get to know the person first

Thirdly when a rapport has been established and all are on the same page then yeah why not make the following dates romantic and lastly not everyone even likes romantic when it's purposefully done, there's different levels of romance and some levels is too much for some people. Some types of romance is cheesy and cringey for some

That's my perspective on that

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By *mber81Woman
over a year ago

Lives in Preston, Eng

Romance can be in anything I am doing with someone I am romantically interested in. Washing the dishes with my ex could be romantic. Although it could also be bloody annoying.

But a lack of romance on a date doesn't necessarily mean a lack of excitement or passion.

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.


"Depends first on the people going on the date. Romance comes from feelings where not everyone displays their feelings and some even struggle with that

Secondly if it's a first date I wouldn't say it should be romantic get to know the person first

Thirdly when a rapport has been established and all are on the same page then yeah why not make the following dates romantic and lastly not everyone even likes romantic when it's purposefully done, there's different levels of romance and some levels is too much for some people. Some types of romance is cheesy and cringey for some

That's my perspective on that "
Those are good points and yes, it also depends on the people going on the the date too

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.


"Depends what you mean by “date”

Every date with a partner should be romantic

But if we mean date as in dating, 1st 2nd date kinda stuff then no. First few dates are to figure out if you want to be romantic, and receive romantic treat, from that person "
You are right there about those things, it also depends what kind of date it is as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Romance is so personal though, depending on people’s love languages/styles.

Not everything romantic has to be candlelit dinners, roses, champagne and bubble baths

I do miss a bit of romance though x

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