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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So this is a question for the women do you like to chat or meet younger guys on here?

I feel like a lot don’t want to give a younger guy a chance cause of age etc I’ve always mainly been with someone older than me must be my personality but the age thing tends to come up like nobody thinks of a 31yr guy and a 24yr old girl but flip it round 31yr woman 24yr old guy and it can become an issue

I always like to say “depends on the person and not the birthday on there drivers license” funny little come back but if you find the person attractive surly you’d wanna get to know them a bit and then if the age thing is still a issue then no worries you just move on I dunno any answers curious as to what people think

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By *tacy.TWoman
over a year ago

luton


"So this is a question for the women do you like to chat or meet younger guys on here?

I feel like a lot don’t want to give a younger guy a chance cause of age etc I’ve always mainly been with someone older than me must be my personality but the age thing tends to come up like nobody thinks of a 31yr guy and a 24yr old girl but flip it round 31yr woman 24yr old guy and it can become an issue

I always like to say “depends on the person and not the birthday on there drivers license” funny little come back but if you find the person attractive surly you’d wanna get to know them a bit and then if the age thing is still a issue then no worries you just move on I dunno any answers curious as to what people think "

I chat and meet with younger guys now, I used to always go for older but since trying younger men I've learnt that, that is what I'm attracted too. Age is just number anyway

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By *orthernman71Man
over a year ago

N

Ex wife loved a younger guy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So this is a question for the women do you like to chat or meet younger guys on here?

I feel like a lot don’t want to give a younger guy a chance cause of age etc I’ve always mainly been with someone older than me must be my personality but the age thing tends to come up like nobody thinks of a 31yr guy and a 24yr old girl but flip it round 31yr woman 24yr old guy and it can become an issue

I always like to say “depends on the person and not the birthday on there drivers license” funny little come back but if you find the person attractive surly you’d wanna get to know them a bit and then if the age thing is still a issue then no worries you just move on I dunno any answers curious as to what people think

I chat and meet with younger guys now, I used to always go for older but since trying younger men I've learnt that, that is what I'm attracted to. Age is just number anyway "

Yeah if you’re attracted to someone shouldn’t really matter the age especially if it’s something like I dunno 5-15 year difference if you get me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ex wife loved a younger guy "

Hope a younger guy is not the reason she’s now an “ex wife”

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By *nFairnessMan
over a year ago

The Four Corners

Never had an issue and I've been on here 10 years now, just be yourself bud... half the people on here filter out what they don't want.. another 48% are looking for something specific... just figure out who you are and what you want, communicate honestly with people and don't bs people... people generally come on here with the expectation they will get bullshitted somehow or in some way...they look for it.. don't give them a reason to go there. Good luck bud.

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes


"So this is a question for the women do you like to chat or meet younger guys on here?

I feel like a lot don’t want to give a younger guy a chance cause of age etc I’ve always mainly been with someone older than me must be my personality but the age thing tends to come up like nobody thinks of a 31yr guy and a 24yr old girl but flip it round 31yr woman 24yr old guy and it can become an issue

I always like to say “depends on the person and not the birthday on there drivers license” funny little come back but if you find the person attractive surly you’d wanna get to know them a bit and then if the age thing is still a issue then no worries you just move on I dunno any answers curious as to what people think "

Didn't you say it was a question for the women lol all men commenting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes


"No "

He was asking women

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By *tacy.TWoman
over a year ago

luton


"So this is a question for the women do you like to chat or meet younger guys on here?

I feel like a lot don’t want to give a younger guy a chance cause of age etc I’ve always mainly been with someone older than me must be my personality but the age thing tends to come up like nobody thinks of a 31yr guy and a 24yr old girl but flip it round 31yr woman 24yr old guy and it can become an issue

I always like to say “depends on the person and not the birthday on there drivers license” funny little come back but if you find the person attractive surly you’d wanna get to know them a bit and then if the age thing is still a issue then no worries you just move on I dunno any answers curious as to what people think

I chat and meet with younger guys now, I used to always go for older but since trying younger men I've learnt that, that is what I'm attracted to. Age is just number anyway

Yeah if you’re attracted to someone shouldn’t really matter the age especially if it’s something like I dunno 5-15 year difference if you get me "

Exactly if you're attracted to them then why let a number get in the way!

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By *rixie_BlondeWoman
over a year ago

London (She/Her)

Of course, love a young guy - but then I’m a cougar.

(Not looking to meet right now though)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like younger men but it really depends on our chemistry etc and how we get along.

I like to be able to converse with people and meet similar like minded people.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Nothing against younger guys, I just don't want to meet them, always had a thing for the older (not too old gent) x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to go for guys younger than me, that's not necessarily young though. More mid 30's, some, not all, are a lot more mature and less desperate than older guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I won't give the young men a chance. Ever.

Men who can read and have some comprehension skills are cool whatever the age.

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By *ymbunnyfitCouple
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

As most guys who message me are much younger I don't have issue with age. It's more about if I feel comfortable with guys as we chat or meet xx

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I prefer younger guys, subject to your maturity and overall preferences. I think you should keep your focus on those like me, to avoid wasted effort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No I won't give the young men a chance. Ever.

Men who can read and have some comprehension skills are cool whatever the age. "

Met her. Made her wet. ^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve met older women from fab. It feels like on fab you have no choice but to meet people older than you

Why do people meet me? I don’t know. I think most people on this site don’t meet men my age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s tough if you’re only into older women or only looking for older women because it must feel disheartening. But if you’re not bothered about them being older or around your age, there are plenty of other ways to meet women. Dating apps are great for women around your own age even just got hook ups and casual sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Younger to me is men mid thirtys though when you tend to go to socials you don't really go up and ask people there age.

I probably should change my age range slightly on here but it's mostly there for message filters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of my best meets have been younger. I do love a younger guy

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By *weet and SpiceCouple
over a year ago

Around the Midlands

When speaking to a man in a club I don't necessarily know his age. As someone else mentioned, it's all about comfortability rather than simply age (to an extent!)

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By *ore4fundevonCouple
over a year ago

West Devon

In the pretense of Swinging, Mrs tends to prefer younger or similarly aged guys over older.

In the reality of a serious relationship it would come down to attraction and compatibility etc rather than age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whilst meeting & in a swinging context I much prefer younger (they tend to be more pliable ) fellas. They’re not as bogged down by life and generally much nicer to be around

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

Early mid 30s is great! You should try us out more

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Yes. I much prefer meeting younger guys, the youngest, who had just turned 25 is actually one of the most mature guys I've met and we got on really well in all areas.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As good as us younger men are the main reason I’ve been told is that they have kids close to my age which is slightly off putting but everyone has their preference so it’s fine. I’m mainly into older women so it does get harder to find one that likes younger men but they are out there

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By *amnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

tf1

Younger every time.

Last two relationships have been quite bit older than me. They haven’t aged well

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

I like younger guys and ladies. However just because they’re younger doesn’t mean they get a free pass to pussy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Younger but mature. Gen x mind in a gen y/z body

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Younger but mature. Gen x mind in a gen y/z body "

This!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mel likes the younger guy. She thinks the comments that “us older guys are better because of experience” is bullshit. She wants something she can’t get at home. Six pack and stamina I guess!! It makes her feel young and desirable rather than just a convenience fuck for a guy with a dad bod in a mid life crisis. Which is how 75% of the messages from guys between 40 and 65 sound sadly.

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By *ady CurvaceousWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I like younger, but not "too" young. Anyone near my son's age is a no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like younger, but not "too" young. Anyone near my son's age is a no."

Hoping I’m not your sons age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of women love younger guys. Cupids in Manchester do a cougar and cub night where all the older women go with younger guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of women love younger guys. Cupids in Manchester do a cougar and cub night where all the older women go with younger guys "

Sign me up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not too fussed about age within reason. But as others said it’s all about chemistry and being able to have a conversation.

But I think what puts me off a lot of younger guys on here is the opening messages ‘do you meet younger guys I like older women’. To me it feels like a lot of guys just want ANY older woman, and are not specifically interested in me. So that’s a big turn off.

Plus they make it all about age rather than anything else. And when a 38 year old tells me I’m an older woman that just annoys me haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of women love younger guys. Cupids in Manchester do a cougar and cub night where all the older women go with younger guys

Sign me up"

Maybe ask one of these beautiful cougars in the chat.. you never know you might get lucky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of women love younger guys. Cupids in Manchester do a cougar and cub night where all the older women go with younger guys

Sign me up

Maybe ask one of these beautiful cougars in the chat.. you never know you might get lucky "

There’s too many beautiful ones to choose from haha!!

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Never had a problem with younger men, in fact, that is all we are looking for.

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