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By *ohntall123 OP   Man
over a year ago

Biggleswade

what’s the opening line that gets you to reply ? In dm’s

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By *mwirralMan
over a year ago

wirral

Well that very much depends on why your making contact i think

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By *ohntall123 OP   Man
over a year ago

Biggleswade


"Well that very much depends on why your making contact i think"

That’s true , but why does anyone on here lol

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By *untimes wantedMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield

All a message does is gets me to look at their profile.

Could just be a simple hi/hello.

If their profile matches what i am looking for at the time i will reply.

Exceptions are opening messages asking for more pics,phone chat,asking to chat via another app ,cock pic or gaping arse pic in first message just get blocked.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

For me it's a direct reference to my profile, paying me a compliment in her opening message with something more substantive than a monosyllabic "Hi".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi how are you.

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By *ohntall123 OP   Man
over a year ago

Biggleswade


"Hi how are you."

I’m good you ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t seem to matter what I write in a DM you still get not reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A hot photo and a sarcastic message generally works, if I'm in a talkative mood.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always reply. I'm intrigued as to why they can type out words but not read them.

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By *ohntall123 OP   Man
over a year ago

Biggleswade


"I always reply. I'm intrigued as to why they can type out words but not read them. "

Hahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oi woman, I wanna wear you like a hat.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I look at the profile and if the message is friendly, it gets my interest

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By *ohntall123 OP   Man
over a year ago

Biggleswade


"Oi woman, I wanna wear you like a hat."

Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Compliments mostly of the pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*empty space but coming from a fem profile*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi how are you."

That's my go to opening line. 100% of the time, this works none of the times, so you know its effective.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

It's not as much about the message as it is about the profile that's sending it, but we WILL respond to any message that we're sent.

Cal

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

We look at the profile pic first, if it's a silhouette that's as far as it goes, then the profile, if that doesn't have any red flags then we'll open the message (unless it can be read without opening)

There is no 'magic bullet' first message.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

It totally depends on my mood. Sometimes I'm more open to messages than other times. Filth gets an instant block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll reply to anything funny or that at least attempts to be funny. If it’s from the forums There’s a good chance I’ll ignore it

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Something aimed personally at something I've said or shown, something more than a vapid compliment, something that invites a reply and an actual conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what’s the opening line that gets you to reply ? In dm’s "

Something that shows you read my profile

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