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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've got something to tell ya

I've got something to say

I chickened out and let myself down this morning

Even Billy didn't help get myself in a mental state to leave the house.

My question is...

When faced with a challenge how do you prepare/ face it/ psych yourself up for it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Faced with a challenge or situation that makes me anxious I don’t focus on what could go wrong I focus on what what my options would be if they did. Know your exits, is my advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've got something to tell ya

I've got something to say

I chickened out and let myself down this morning

Even Billy didn't help get myself in a mental state to leave the house.

My question is...

When faced with a challenge how do you prepare/ face it/ psych yourself up for it?"
Embrace the suck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

“Embrace the suck” means that while the current situation sucks, you have to accept it and work toward changing it. It's not about being in-denial, as much as accepting present discomfort for future success. To embrace the suck means to confront things that make you uncomfortable so that you can surmount it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t give myself time to think, or overanalyse it.

I dive right in, and get my hands dirty. Time given to think just starts to put those devils on your shoulder, demons in the head, etc.

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

Hugs SS. Next time!

I prepare by overpreparing a ridiculous amount. I make *all* the lists. I do mental run throughs (sometimes positive, sometimes catastrophic) and I have stress dreams. Do not prepare like me

J

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By *unx2019Couple
over a year ago

Moray

Just change should to could. You should have gone out changes to could have gone out, less guilt and less pressure on yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best swingers club for halloween

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take some deep breaths and make the first step

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aggressively masturbate to the rocky theme tune.. can face anything after that.

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By *ake_or_deathMan
over a year ago

Manchester

...go and have a little cry in the corner - Arnold Rimmer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Aggressively masturbate to the rocky theme tune.. can face anything after that."

Or you end up lying crumpled, out of breath, in a heap, and a puddle on the bed, too exhausted to do anything, so you just pull the duvet over your head and pretend that the world will go away

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I did it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I did it "

Get in

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By *eliciousDiva69Woman
over a year ago

Schitts Creek


"I did it "

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By *eliciousDiva69Woman
over a year ago

Schitts Creek

Sometimes you have to feel the fear and do it anyway. Go you OP!!

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