FabSwingers.com forum: Is it ok not ghey?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why do I see (regularly) questions about wether something might be ok for a straight person, with the implication it might be or make them gay? I’ve never in my life ever heard a gay person asked xyz ok or is it a bit…straight?

Serious answers or funny ones welcome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I’d think that there are some who are genuinely petrified to be associated with the idea of anything remotely homosexual, even if they like it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once upon a time my ghey dad asked if his shirt made him look straight

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Insecurity?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Once upon a time my ghey dad asked if his shirt made him look straight "

Now I’m curious what the shirt looked like

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

All the football lads just need clarification before they partake in anything, lest they have their season tickets revoked for potentially ghey behaviour... Or for using words like "lest"

LvM

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I've had a lesbian friend ask me if her outfit made her look like she'd ever touch a penis if that counts

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

"Once upon a time my ghey dad asked if his shirt made him look straight

Now I’m curious what the shirt looked like"

Had pussys all over it,

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

I always assume this is just people who are not entirely comfortable or secure in their own sexuality tbh.

There's not really another logical reason.

Tbf though one of my best friends always asks if clothes make her look straight, going out clothes. Just because she's fed up of having to explain when she compliments a woman she's being gay, not just happy tipsy girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because I’d think that there are some who are genuinely petrified to be associated with the idea of anything remotely homosexual, even if they like it."

Pretty much this. I think they’re probably looking for someone to justify it as “normal”.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Once upon a time my ghey dad asked if his shirt made him look straight

Now I’m curious what the shirt looked like"

It wasn’t pink

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

"Because I’d think that there are some who are genuinely petrified to be associated with the idea of anything remotely homosexual, even if they like it.

Pretty much this. I think they’re probably looking for *a woman to justify it as “normal”. "

Fixed it for you

LvM

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Once upon a time my ghey dad asked if his shirt made him look straight

Now I’m curious what the shirt looked like

It wasn’t pink

I owned a pink shirt once.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Away for Christmas

"Because I’d think that there are some who are genuinely petrified to be associated with the idea of anything remotely homosexual, even if they like it.

Pretty much this. I think they’re probably looking for someone to justify it as “normal”. "

I have noticed some people (not just men) go to great lengths and explanations over how something or somebody else is extremely point of no return ghey but they are most certainly not themselves. They need to justify their straightness with both subtle and blunt justification and comparison.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because I’d think that there are some who are genuinely petrified to be associated with the idea of anything remotely homosexual, even if they like it.

Pretty much this. I think they’re probably looking for *a woman to justify it as “normal”.

Fixed it for you

LvM"

Yeah or that

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

"Once upon a time my ghey dad asked if his shirt made him look straight

Now I’m curious what the shirt looked like

It wasn’t pink

I owned a pink shirt once. "

Haha I once watched a New York gay standup recall how a straight guy asked him if he should wear a Prada shirt because he didn't want to be chatted up by gays... The stand-up's droll retort was... if only it was that easy!

But a serious response about all Monosexuals (those 100% straight or gay), I turn them down when they ask for invites to my parties because they inevitably give me a list of "Oh I don't do....." which is sooooo narrow. Yawn!

Fully Bi and Versatile people, ie those who love to suck/lick and fuck both ways, are the most fun!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Once upon a time my ghey dad asked if his shirt made him look straight

Now I’m curious what the shirt looked like

It wasn’t pink

I owned a pink shirt once.

Fully Bi and Versatile people, ie those who love to suck/lick and fuck both ways, are the most fun!"

I’m mono. I don’t judge bi or versies. I am getting asked a lot on here if I am vers though. Maybe I need a new pink shirt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do I see (regularly) questions about wether something might be ok for a straight person, with the implication it might be or make them gay? I’ve never in my life ever heard a gay person asked xyz ok or is it a bit…straight?

Serious answers or funny ones welcome. "

You won’t ever hear that in real life because it’s a question asked by someone deeply troubled with their own view of their sexuality, so it’s only something they’ll ask somewhat anonymously online

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

"Is it OK if I want to wear an M&S Blue Harbour fleece, or is that a bit straight?"

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Serious answers or funny ones welcome. "

A Gay Guy will soon tell you, if that brown check shirt is either Gay Cowboy or Chav Estate Straight.

It’s generally the tassels that give it away

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Serious answers or funny ones welcome.

A Gay Guy will soon tell you, if that brown check shirt is either Gay Cowboy or Chav Estate Straight.

It’s generally the tassels that give it away

Not to mention the arseless chaps

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Serious answers or funny ones welcome.

A Gay Guy will soon tell you, if that brown check shirt is either Gay Cowboy or Chav Estate Straight.

It’s generally the tassels that give it away

Not to mention the arseless chaps "

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By *andadbodMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Serious answers or funny ones welcome. "

cause they’re brain dead fuckwits acting very immature maybe?

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