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By *B9 Queen OP   Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

How often do women get all three at the same time from the same person without any initial contact having been made? I seem to be getting loads of these at the moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't a message be classed as 'initial contact' ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How often do women get all three at the same time from the same person without any initial contact having been made? I seem to be getting loads of these at the moment.

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Triple flirting coz their shy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do and I've just posted a update about it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People will try every option available to grab your attention with so much competition out there...simples tchk

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By *B9 Queen OP   Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Wouldn't a message be classed as 'initial contact' ?"

No - I mean they send all three together without having made any prior contact.

Just seems odd to me - a bit of overkill, if you like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How often do women get all three at the same time from the same person without any initial contact having been made? I seem to be getting loads of these at the moment. "

We get this, but just see it as someone trying to stand out from the crowd. look at me, look at me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wouldn't a message be classed as 'initial contact' ?

No - I mean they send all three together without having made any prior contact.

Just seems odd to me - a bit of overkill, if you like."

They are just covering all bases in trying to get your attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wouldn't a message be classed as 'initial contact' ?

No - I mean they send all three together without having made any prior contact.

Just seems odd to me - a bit of overkill, if you like."

overkill or they think you are hot stuff??? You decide xxx

i wouldnt complain if it was me it was happening to lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do and I've just posted a update about it lol "

But most without a message, just wink and friend request x

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By *B9 Queen OP   Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Wouldn't a message be classed as 'initial contact' ?

No - I mean they send all three together without having made any prior contact.

Just seems odd to me - a bit of overkill, if you like.

They are just covering all bases in trying to get your attention "

I realise that but it is off-putting, especially since the message is usually a 'hi, hows u?'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We delete all friend requests and winks without looking at them, so wouldn't be able to say.

Maybe the recent sunshine has gone to peoples heads.

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By *B9 Queen OP   Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"We delete all friend requests and winks without looking at them, so wouldn't be able to say.

Maybe the recent sunshine has gone to peoples heads."

Or elsewhere!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We delete all friend requests and winks without looking at them, so wouldn't be able to say.

Maybe the recent sunshine has gone to peoples heads.

Or elsewhere! "

Yeah depends which head I suppose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do and I've just posted a update about it lol

But most without a message, just wink and friend request x"

a wink and a message with a pic is the polite thing to do x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to confess I have uncontrollable phases/urges where I go around winking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do and I've just posted a update about it lol

But most without a message, just wink and friend request x"

Winks we see as interest, the lack of message has come from the ignorance very often found, we ignore winks if wer not interested and wink back if we are, no harm done, ball in their court! Friend invites altho midly offensive as its obvious of the intent are optional for acceptance. Messages are a no brainer. Communication or lack thereof seems to be a major problem!

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

I got caught winking once. It was only because my friend requested me to do it. I never did it again though and he soon got the message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How often do women get all three at the same time from the same person without any initial contact having been made? I seem to be getting loads of these at the moment.

"

We do but have never seen it as a problem as the delete button is only one click and solves it instantly.

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By *B9 Queen OP   Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"How often do women get all three at the same time from the same person without any initial contact having been made? I seem to be getting loads of these at the moment.

We do but have never seen it as a problem as the delete button is only one click and solves it instantly."

I didn't suggest it was a problem. I just wondered how prevalent it was.

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