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Refused a clitoral piercing

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By *moothstaffspeeps OP   Couple
over a year ago

Stafford

We wondered if any of the ladies on here have had a refusal from a piercing studio for a clitoral piercing? My other half had this request refused a few weeks ago from a really reputable piercer local to us. Research would suggest this is quite common, he said the reason was a main vein close to entry point for the piercing. He said it was too risky for either version, our request was for a clitoral hood piercing. All advice appreciated. Thanks

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By *ose manMan
over a year ago

kells

Ouch

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By *ouple4voyeurCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Any advice? Well i'd say listen to the reputable piercer lol

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Everyone's anatomy is different. Is it really worth the potential of piercing through an artery?! Take the advice of the trained person and leave it, is my advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like you’ve had your advice lol

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By *vilgasamWoman
over a year ago

The dot in the i


"Any advice? Well i'd say listen to the reputable piercer lol"

Seconded

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's common knowledge that everyone doesn't have the anatomy for every piercing

If the piercer is reputable as you say then it sounds like he knows what he is talking about

Not sure what advice anyone here could give you that would be better than the advice of a qualified professional

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We wondered if any of the ladies on here have had a refusal from a piercing studio for a clitoral piercing? My other half had this request refused a few weeks ago from a really reputable piercer local to us. Research would suggest this is quite common, he said the reason was a main vein close to entry point for the piercing. He said it was too risky for either version, our request was for a clitoral hood piercing. All advice appreciated. Thanks "

You have been told by a professional why do you need to ask any more?

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By *oolkoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

Listen to the professional piercer.

Everyone's anatomy is different and some body parts won't be suitable for piercing. No matter how much you want it it's not worth the risk.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"Any advice? Well i'd say listen to the reputable piercer lol"

Exactly this, no one wants to loose clit sensation

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any advice? Well i'd say listen to the reputable piercer lol"

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

They overcautious nowadays because of the risks of being sued or even prosecuted for FGM if it goes bad.

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Fulwood

I’ll more than happily take a lick at it for you.. but I would say listen to the professional…

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

I couldn’t get my tongue pierced as I’m tongue tied..Its not worth the risk to their livelihood or your health..

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By *moothandslimMan
over a year ago

North Walsham

Seek the advice of a medical professional.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seek the advice of a medical professional."

Medical professional won't know the first thing a out piercings

They have already been told by a professional piercer they don't have the anatomy for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When someone who could take your money tells you something you don’t want to hear it’s usually something worth listening to.

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By *moothandslimMan
over a year ago

North Walsham


"Seek the advice of a medical professional.

Medical professional won't know the first thing a out piercings

They have already been told by a professional piercer they don't have the anatomy for it "

Who knows better about anatomy, the medical profession or the piercer. If both agree then the debate is over.

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By *ddie1966Man
over a year ago

Paper Town Central, Essex.

Clitoral piercing is classified as female genital mutilation in the UK now and is illegal.

No professional piercer will be likely to do them.

Many will make up some excuse as you have found.

However, there is no law which covers male genital mutilation, so it's still fine for a man to get a Prince Albert.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea


"Seek the advice of a medical professional.

Medical professional won't know the first thing a out piercings

They have already been told by a professional piercer they don't have the anatomy for it

Who knows better about anatomy, the medical profession or the piercer. If both agree then the debate is over."
I think medical professionals have enough on their plate without people asking them advice on piercings.

Professional piercers are trained in this area and if they refuse to give you a piercing then theirs a good reason why..

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By *ose manMan
over a year ago

kells

Go somewhere else , but do you or your bf want it more ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seek the advice of a medical professional.

Medical professional won't know the first thing a out piercings

They have already been told by a professional piercer they don't have the anatomy for it

Who knows better about anatomy, the medical profession or the piercer. If both agree then the debate is over."

Medical professionals won't know anything about piercings unless they're speaking from personal experience

Not sure what you think they learn in medical school but suitable anatomy for clit piercings isn't one of their modules...

The professional piercer is the one with the appropriate knowledge here

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Clitoral piercing is classified as female genital mutilation in the UK now and is illegal.

No professional piercer will be likely to do them.

Many will make up some excuse as you have found.

However, there is no law which covers male genital mutilation, so it's still fine for a man to get a Prince Albert."

Not exactly true. I found this on a piercer's website:

"Female Intimate Piercing and the Law:

In 2015, newspapers reported that the UK Government updated their Female Genital Mutilation or FGM laws to include body piercings known as female intimate piercings as a crime. This was not the intended purpose of this law, but we were unfortunately caught up in the knee-jerk reactionary stance that the government took. If you want to read more about the concept of FGM and body piercing, I highly recommend reading this article from the APP. Body piercing studios in the UK practically stopped piercing female intimates overnight, as any doctor or nurse who saw these piercings such as during a pap smear, would be compelled to report the incident to the police.

The UKAPP was formed, in part, to fight this legislative oversight. We campaigned to allow adult women to have full control of their bodies in the same way that adult men can. We can confidently say that we have had confirmation that the grey area that female intimate piercings occupied for several years has now been clarified, and consensual body piercing of an adult woman is now recognised as legal in the UK. We still work closely to the law and require a minimum of 24 hours cooling off period before intimate piercings as part of our studio policy. Part of the consultation that we require is also used to discuss the piercing and make sure you are happy and confident to have it pierced and heal it."

The same piercer states that not all people have the right anatomical layout for these piercings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Clitoral piercing is classified as female genital mutilation in the UK now and is illegal.

No professional piercer will be likely to do them.

Many will make up some excuse as you have found.

However, there is no law which covers male genital mutilation, so it's still fine for a man to get a Prince Albert."

It has been for a while but they vch piercing is still legal which I think is what the OP was asking about

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By *ose manMan
over a year ago

kells

Would it not drive you crazy tho

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By *moothstaffspeeps OP   Couple
over a year ago

Stafford


"Clitoral piercing is classified as female genital mutilation in the UK now and is illegal.

No professional piercer will be likely to do them.

Many will make up some excuse as you have found.

However, there is no law which covers male genital mutilation, so it's still fine for a man to get a Prince Albert.

It has been for a while but they vch piercing is still legal which I think is what the OP was asking about "

Thanks yes that’s what we are asking about. The Fem half of us is really disappointed that she couldn’t get the VCH. We have an appointment with a specialist intimate piercing expert on the 28th in Manchester who we spoke too earlier. For those who’s retort suggested listening to the experts then we will. The professional consultation is with an intimacy piercing SME of 21 years. The FGM could be the reason behind our lovely local piercings guys coyness.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Some ear piercings aren’t suitable for everyone’s ears, I don’t see how genitalia should be different.

Isn’t it better they didn’t do it than if they did and it caused a whole lot of bother.

If you want a second opinion best option is to go to another reputable piercer.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

My piercer won't do certain ear piercings if the anatomy isn't suitable. I take it as a sign of a good piercer. Yes it's a shame if you can't what you want due to anatomy, but having a piercing that won't heal etc is a far worse option.

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"We wondered if any of the ladies on here have had a refusal from a piercing studio for a clitoral piercing? My other half had this request refused a few weeks ago from a really reputable piercer local to us. Research would suggest this is quite common, he said the reason was a main vein close to entry point for the piercing. He said it was too risky for either version, our request was for a clitoral hood piercing. All advice appreciated. Thanks "

DIY, Ice and a knitting needle. What do the professionals know anyway

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By *nsatiable n baldCouple
over a year ago

somewhere only we know

I was considering an intimate piercing but I’m a shitbag with pain especially in that area I’d probably kick the person in head - not ideal

a lovely person informed me of something called EMLA cream now dont get it mixed up with ELMLEA cream as I won’t be held accountable

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By *uri00620Woman
over a year ago

Croydon

It happens. I could have mine pierced horizontally but not vertically (which I wanted) for the same reason. I didn't question it they know what they're doing (it's like to assume!)

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By *unx2019Couple
over a year ago

Moray

Can I suggest a "Christina piercing" it's not quite in the genatalia area but looks pretty and mine certainly hits the spot

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By *moothstaffspeeps OP   Couple
over a year ago

Stafford


"Can I suggest a "Christina piercing" it's not quite in the genatalia area but looks pretty and mine certainly hits the spot "

Thanks lovely that’s what I am hoping for x

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