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By *elpieandSelkie OP   Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

About 7/10 'straight' guys who message us end up confessing that they're "actually bi, but having bi on your profile limits how many women will talk to you."

Question being, is biphobia really that rampant amongst women? Especially when you consider that about 70% of the women on here seem to be bi themselves.

Or are these guys just chancers, Trying it on to get a foot in the door?

If they're actually being honest and it really is that prevalent, why would you want to be with someone who dislikes a part of who you are? That's sad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely

Plenty of women and couples, usually older, that find being bi is off putting

I dunno if it’s a phobia though, more a misunderstanding? Not sure.

Everyone’s entitled to their preferences

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

It can be a little off-putting when bi guys put up statuses about looking for cock etc... a lot seem more interested in that than women, so it kind of makes me feel like a second choice or a bit inadequate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't want sex with a bi man

It's not a phobia

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"About 7/10 'straight' guys who message us end up confessing that they're "actually bi, but having bi on your profile limits how many women will talk to you."

Question being, is biphobia really that rampant amongst women? Especially when you consider that about 70% of the women on here seem to be bi themselves.

Or are these guys just chancers, Trying it on to get a foot in the door?

If they're actually being honest and it really is that prevalent, why would you want to be with someone who dislikes a part of who you are? That's sad. "

As someone said on this same question last week. Is it really phobia or just a preference?

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By *nnandElleCouple
over a year ago

Brackley


"I wouldn't want sex with a bi man

It's not a phobia "

Out of interest, why not? Assuming you found the man attractive and had chemistry, what would put you off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah can we stop with the phobic stuff

At this rate a straight person is gonna be homophobic, biphobic and transphobic just for existing

It’s just a preference

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I don't mind bi men and my other half can be orally bi ,with the right couple.

I've seen a fair few profiles say no bi men ,so yes it does happen .

Bi women are encouraged and it's expected that women on fab are bi,but that's because two women playing is many man's fantasy.

So yes men hide being bi,so they don't lose meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"About 7/10 'straight' guys who message us end up confessing that they're "actually bi, but having bi on your profile limits how many women will talk to you."

Question being, is biphobia really that rampant amongst women? Especially when you consider that about 70% of the women on here seem to be bi themselves.

Or are these guys just chancers, Trying it on to get a foot in the door?

If they're actually being honest and it really is that prevalent, why would you want to be with someone who dislikes a part of who you are? That's sad. "

Sadly it’s true I think

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By *eily2020TV/TS
over a year ago

Manchester


"I wouldn't want sex with a bi man

It's not a phobia "

Lol. It's the literal definition...

'Biphobia is aversion toward bisexuality or people who are identified or perceived as being bisexual.'

You have every right to choose who to have sex with, but by literally ruling out *every* bi man, based on their bisexuality, is biphobic.

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"About 7/10 'straight' guys who message us end up confessing that they're "actually bi, but having bi on your profile limits how many women will talk to you."

Question being, is biphobia really that rampant amongst women? Especially when you consider that about 70% of the women on here seem to be bi themselves.

Or are these guys just chancers, Trying it on to get a foot in the door?

If they're actually being honest and it really is that prevalent, why would you want to be with someone who dislikes a part of who you are? That's sad. "

You think men give a fuck about that? Men just want a ride, we dont care if someone 'dislikes a part' of us or not

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"I wouldn't want sex with a bi man

It's not a phobia

Lol. It's the literal definition...

'Biphobia is aversion toward bisexuality or people who are identified or perceived as being bisexual.'

You have every right to choose who to have sex with, but by literally ruling out *every* bi man, based on their bisexuality, is biphobic. "

So if someone doesnt want to have sex with gay men, are they homophobic then?

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea


"Yeah can we stop with the phobic stuff

At this rate a straight person is gonna be homophobic, biphobic and transphobic just for existing

It’s just a preference "

I totally agree …It’s definitely just personal preference we only meet bi couples and bi men as that’s our preference..People should just concentrate on the ones that want to meet them not the ones that don’t..

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"About 7/10 'straight' guys who message us end up confessing that they're "actually bi, but having bi on your profile limits how many women will talk to you."

Question being, is biphobia really that rampant amongst women? Especially when you consider that about 70% of the women on here seem to be bi themselves.

Or are these guys just chancers, Trying it on to get a foot in the door?

If they're actually being honest and it really is that prevalent, why would you want to be with someone who dislikes a part of who you are? That's sad.

Sadly it’s true I think"

What's more true is people saying anything to get their dick wet.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"I wouldn't want sex with a bi man

It's not a phobia

Lol. It's the literal definition...

'Biphobia is aversion toward bisexuality or people who are identified or perceived as being bisexual.'

You have every right to choose who to have sex with, but by literally ruling out *every* bi man, based on their bisexuality, is biphobic. "

Dont forget the extreme and irrational fear part of the definition.

Thing is preference or dislike of doesn't get the meedjer as excited as an ism ist or phobia... So much division... I think it must be the extreme right at work again.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"I wouldn't want sex with a bi man

It's not a phobia

Lol. It's the literal definition...

'Biphobia is aversion toward bisexuality or people who are identified or perceived as being bisexual.'

You have every right to choose who to have sex with, but by literally ruling out *every* bi man, based on their bisexuality, is biphobic.

So if someone doesnt want to have sex with gay men, are they homophobic then? "

I think in the old days they were called straight.

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"I wouldn't want sex with a bi man

It's not a phobia

Lol. It's the literal definition...

'Biphobia is aversion toward bisexuality or people who are identified or perceived as being bisexual.'

You have every right to choose who to have sex with, but by literally ruling out *every* bi man, based on their bisexuality, is biphobic.

Dont forget the extreme and irrational fear part of the definition.

Thing is preference or dislike of doesn't get the meedjer as excited as an ism ist or phobia... So much division... I think it must be the extreme right at work again. "

Ah yes, the mythical 'far right' i keep hearing about.

Usually prefaced by 'the rise of...'

Dont you just love our shit stirring media

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt


"I wouldn't want sex with a bi man

It's not a phobia

Lol. It's the literal definition...

'Biphobia is aversion toward bisexuality or people who are identified or perceived as being bisexual.'

You have every right to choose who to have sex with, but by literally ruling out *every* bi man, based on their bisexuality, is biphobic. "

That's not true

Biphobic just like homophobic is about discriminating them and having a hate towards them. Not the same as not having a sexual desire towards them

Totally different babe xxx

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt


"Yeah can we stop with the phobic stuff

At this rate a straight person is gonna be homophobic, biphobic and transphobic just for existing

It’s just a preference "

I agree here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't want sex with a bi man

It's not a phobia

Lol. It's the literal definition...

'Biphobia is aversion toward bisexuality or people who are identified or perceived as being bisexual.'

You have every right to choose who to have sex with, but by literally ruling out *every* bi man, based on their bisexuality, is biphobic.

So if someone doesnt want to have sex with gay men, are they homophobic then? "

If a straight man won't fuck a gay man he's homophobic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"About 7/10 'straight' guys who message us end up confessing that they're "actually bi, but having bi on your profile limits how many women will talk to you."

Question being, is biphobia really that rampant amongst women? Especially when you consider that about 70% of the women on here seem to be bi themselves.

Or are these guys just chancers, Trying it on to get a foot in the door?

If they're actually being honest and it really is that prevalent, why would you want to be with someone who dislikes a part of who you are? That's sad. "

I think men get turned down so often they need to think of a reason that doesn't crush their soul more than it is already. Can't blame them for that.

People often lie for a fuck. This is not new news.

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By *unchalMan
over a year ago

Dartford


"I wouldn't want sex with a bi man

It's not a phobia "

Err...it might be. What difference would it make to you who they had sex with before you?

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"I wouldn't want sex with a bi man

It's not a phobia

Lol. It's the literal definition...

'Biphobia is aversion toward bisexuality or people who are identified or perceived as being bisexual.'

You have every right to choose who to have sex with, but by literally ruling out *every* bi man, based on their bisexuality, is biphobic.

So if someone doesnt want to have sex with gay men, are they homophobic then?

If a straight man won't fuck a gay man he's homophobic. "

In the interests of balance if a gay man won't fuck a gay man is he homophobic too?

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By *unchalMan
over a year ago

Dartford


"I wouldn't want sex with a bi man

It's not a phobia

Lol. It's the literal definition...

'Biphobia is aversion toward bisexuality or people who are identified or perceived as being bisexual.'

You have every right to choose who to have sex with, but by literally ruling out *every* bi man, based on their bisexuality, is biphobic.

So if someone doesnt want to have sex with gay men, are they homophobic then?

If a straight man won't fuck a gay man he's homophobic. "

Biphobia isn't a real thing. What's wrong with using term homophobia?

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt


"I wouldn't want sex with a bi man

It's not a phobia

Lol. It's the literal definition...

'Biphobia is aversion toward bisexuality or people who are identified or perceived as being bisexual.'

You have every right to choose who to have sex with, but by literally ruling out *every* bi man, based on their bisexuality, is biphobic.

So if someone doesnt want to have sex with gay men, are they homophobic then?

If a straight man won't fuck a gay man he's homophobic. "

That's not true

Homophobic is a form of hate nothing to do with attraction

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By *unchalMan
over a year ago

Dartford


"About 7/10 'straight' guys who message us end up confessing that they're "actually bi, but having bi on your profile limits how many women will talk to you."

Question being, is biphobia really that rampant amongst women? Especially when you consider that about 70% of the women on here seem to be bi themselves.

Or are these guys just chancers, Trying it on to get a foot in the door?

If they're actually being honest and it really is that prevalent, why would you want to be with someone who dislikes a part of who you are? That's sad. "

This place is so disappointing sometimes.

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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago

London | Belfast


"About 7/10 'straight' guys who message us end up confessing that they're "actually bi, but having bi on your profile limits how many women will talk to you."

Question being, is biphobia really that rampant amongst women? Especially when you consider that about 70% of the women on here seem to be bi themselves.

Or are these guys just chancers, Trying it on to get a foot in the door?

If they're actually being honest and it really is that prevalent, why would you want to be with someone who dislikes a part of who you are? That's sad. "

Dunno. I am straight, in the DMs and on my profile. But I heard this before from women and read it on profiles often.

I met a woman from fab once, who set her profile to trans and said she's "non-binary". It was a nice meet, only once though. Anyway. It's in my summary. Some months later I am texting with someone else from fabs, and she asks very, very weird questions about my sexuality the whole time and then mentions the summary and was really relieved that I wasn't bisexual.

That's as far as my experience goes. So yeah, I think I understand the issue with this and why bisexual men might not want to mention it in their profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A former boss of mine pulled me into the centre of a sales floor. In front of over 70 colleagues he told me that as “a gay” I “should be gassed”.

A friend arranged a meet which turned out to be a gay bashing gang ambush, he escaped with injuries to his body and face.

I was spat on in the street for being a “fucking queer”. I needed a tetanus shot.

That’s homophobia.

A straight man not wanting to fuck me is not homophobia.

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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago

London | Belfast


"I wouldn't want sex with a bi man

It's not a phobia

Lol. It's the literal definition...

'Biphobia is aversion toward bisexuality or people who are identified or perceived as being bisexual.'

You have every right to choose who to have sex with, but by literally ruling out *every* bi man, based on their bisexuality, is biphobic.

So if someone doesnt want to have sex with gay men, are they homophobic then?

If a straight man won't fuck a gay man he's homophobic.

That's not true

Homophobic is a form of hate nothing to do with attraction"

Yeah, but it's implied that he hates them for being gay when he refuses.

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt


"I wouldn't want sex with a bi man

It's not a phobia

Lol. It's the literal definition...

'Biphobia is aversion toward bisexuality or people who are identified or perceived as being bisexual.'

You have every right to choose who to have sex with, but by literally ruling out *every* bi man, based on their bisexuality, is biphobic.

So if someone doesnt want to have sex with gay men, are they homophobic then?

If a straight man won't fuck a gay man he's homophobic.

Biphobia isn't a real thing. What's wrong with using term homophobia?"

It is a real thing and like yourself I never heard of this time before until now

Homophobia is basically hate towards gay, trans, bi, lesbian,queer hence the abbreviation LGBTQ and the movement that has a yearly celebration parade in London

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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago

London | Belfast


"A former boss of mine pulled me into the centre of a sales floor. In front of over 70 colleagues he told me that as “a gay” I “should be gassed”.

A friend arranged a meet which turned out to be a gay bashing gang ambush, he escaped with injuries to his body and face.

I was spat on in the street for being a “fucking queer”. I needed a tetanus shot.

That’s homophobia.

A straight man not wanting to fuck me is not homophobia. "

Very true. That is actual homophobia, but this whole "he wouldn't fuck me, that ole homophob" is a very popular insult you hear when you refuse.

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt


"I wouldn't want sex with a bi man

It's not a phobia

Lol. It's the literal definition...

'Biphobia is aversion toward bisexuality or people who are identified or perceived as being bisexual.'

You have every right to choose who to have sex with, but by literally ruling out *every* bi man, based on their bisexuality, is biphobic.

So if someone doesnt want to have sex with gay men, are they homophobic then?

If a straight man won't fuck a gay man he's homophobic.

That's not true

Homophobic is a form of hate nothing to do with attraction

Yeah, but it's implied that he hates them for being gay when he refuses. "

I know and I'm correcting the misunderstanding of the meaning

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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago

London | Belfast


"I wouldn't want sex with a bi man

It's not a phobia

Lol. It's the literal definition...

'Biphobia is aversion toward bisexuality or people who are identified or perceived as being bisexual.'

You have every right to choose who to have sex with, but by literally ruling out *every* bi man, based on their bisexuality, is biphobic.

So if someone doesnt want to have sex with gay men, are they homophobic then?

If a straight man won't fuck a gay man he's homophobic.

Biphobia isn't a real thing. What's wrong with using term homophobia?

It is a real thing and like yourself I never heard of this time before until now

Homophobia is basically hate towards gay, trans, bi, lesbian,queer hence the abbreviation LGBTQ and the movement that has a yearly celebration parade in London "

Biphobia is as valid a term as homophobia or transphobia.

Homophobia does NOT (technically) involve trans or bisexual. Homo means "same"

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt


"A former boss of mine pulled me into the centre of a sales floor. In front of over 70 colleagues he told me that as “a gay” I “should be gassed”.

A friend arranged a meet which turned out to be a gay bashing gang ambush, he escaped with injuries to his body and face.

I was spat on in the street for being a “fucking queer”. I needed a tetanus shot.

That’s homophobia.

A straight man not wanting to fuck me is not homophobia. "

Wow goodness me I'm very sorry to hear this Glow but I thank you for correcting those who may just be simply confused with the difference hopefully it's not all ignorance here xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A former boss of mine pulled me into the centre of a sales floor. In front of over 70 colleagues he told me that as “a gay” I “should be gassed”.

A friend arranged a meet which turned out to be a gay bashing gang ambush, he escaped with injuries to his body and face.

I was spat on in the street for being a “fucking queer”. I needed a tetanus shot.

That’s homophobia.

A straight man not wanting to fuck me is not homophobia. "

Fucking hell. All horrendous but what happened with the former boss?

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt


"I wouldn't want sex with a bi man

It's not a phobia

Lol. It's the literal definition...

'Biphobia is aversion toward bisexuality or people who are identified or perceived as being bisexual.'

You have every right to choose who to have sex with, but by literally ruling out *every* bi man, based on their bisexuality, is biphobic.

So if someone doesnt want to have sex with gay men, are they homophobic then?

If a straight man won't fuck a gay man he's homophobic.

Biphobia isn't a real thing. What's wrong with using term homophobia?

It is a real thing and like yourself I never heard of this time before until now

Homophobia is basically hate towards gay, trans, bi, lesbian,queer hence the abbreviation LGBTQ and the movement that has a yearly celebration parade in London

Biphobia is as valid a term as homophobia or transphobia.

Homophobia does NOT (technically) involve trans or bisexual. Homo means "same""

It is 2 different terms as you earlier said what was being implied.

Homo means offensive and it's a latin word for man/human

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't want sex with a bi man

It's not a phobia

Lol. It's the literal definition...

'Biphobia is aversion toward bisexuality or people who are identified or perceived as being bisexual.'

You have every right to choose who to have sex with, but by literally ruling out *every* bi man, based on their bisexuality, is biphobic.

So if someone doesnt want to have sex with gay men, are they homophobic then?

If a straight man won't fuck a gay man he's homophobic.

That's not true

Homophobic is a form of hate nothing to do with attraction

Yeah, but it's implied that he hates them for being gay when he refuses. "

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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago

London | Belfast


"I wouldn't want sex with a bi man

It's not a phobia

Lol. It's the literal definition...

'Biphobia is aversion toward bisexuality or people who are identified or perceived as being bisexual.'

You have every right to choose who to have sex with, but by literally ruling out *every* bi man, based on their bisexuality, is biphobic.

So if someone doesnt want to have sex with gay men, are they homophobic then?

If a straight man won't fuck a gay man he's homophobic.

Biphobia isn't a real thing. What's wrong with using term homophobia?

It is a real thing and like yourself I never heard of this time before until now

Homophobia is basically hate towards gay, trans, bi, lesbian,queer hence the abbreviation LGBTQ and the movement that has a yearly celebration parade in London

Biphobia is as valid a term as homophobia or transphobia.

Homophobia does NOT (technically) involve trans or bisexual. Homo means "same"

It is 2 different terms as you earlier said what was being implied.

Homo means offensive and it's a latin word for man/human "

Yes and no. Homo does mean "man", but as a prefix it means "same". Like bi means two

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I think some women are biphobic. I can't see how it's a preference if regardless of anything else you won't go near a bisexual man. It's been discussed many times here.

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By *onnie 90Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Freedom of choice and personal preference. Does anyone remember those.

If a bi/bi-curious male is rejected they don't like to think that the reason for rejection is due to them. They'd rather just form a false opinion of the other party being sexist. It's the same for women I'm sure.

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt


"I wouldn't want sex with a bi man

It's not a phobia

Lol. It's the literal definition...

'Biphobia is aversion toward bisexuality or people who are identified or perceived as being bisexual.'

You have every right to choose who to have sex with, but by literally ruling out *every* bi man, based on their bisexuality, is biphobic.

So if someone doesnt want to have sex with gay men, are they homophobic then?

If a straight man won't fuck a gay man he's homophobic.

Biphobia isn't a real thing. What's wrong with using term homophobia?

It is a real thing and like yourself I never heard of this time before until now

Homophobia is basically hate towards gay, trans, bi, lesbian,queer hence the abbreviation LGBTQ and the movement that has a yearly celebration parade in London

Biphobia is as valid a term as homophobia or transphobia.

Homophobia does NOT (technically) involve trans or bisexual. Homo means "same"

It is 2 different terms as you earlier said what was being implied.

Homo means offensive and it's a latin word for man/human

Yes and no. Homo does mean "man", but as a prefix it means "same". Like bi means two"

Homo does not mean same it means offensive we don't get to put our own definition on terms that's explained what the definition means

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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago

London | Belfast


"Freedom of choice and personal preference. Does anyone remember those.

If a bi/bi-curious male is rejected they don't like to think that the reason for rejection is due to them. They'd rather just form a false opinion of the other party being sexist. It's the same for women I'm sure. "

Don't agree here. If a woman rejects a man for being bisexual, then that's discrimination.

You can't just disguise everything as "personal preference". A racist doesn't just have a preference against black people. They are being racist.

And if you, as a woman, don't like people based on their sexual orientation, then that's discriminating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Freedom of choice and personal preference. Does anyone remember those.

If a bi/bi-curious male is rejected they don't like to think that the reason for rejection is due to them. They'd rather just form a false opinion of the other party being sexist. It's the same for women I'm sure.

Don't agree here. If a woman rejects a man for being bisexual, then that's discrimination.

You can't just disguise everything as "personal preference". A racist doesn't just have a preference against black people. They are being racist.

And if you, as a woman, don't like people based on their sexual orientation, then that's discriminating."

I'm fine with discriminating against people I don't want to fuck. Even if they call me biphobic homophobic racist ageist sizeist I still won't fuck them.

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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago

London | Belfast


"I wouldn't want sex with a bi man

It's not a phobia

Lol. It's the literal definition...

'Biphobia is aversion toward bisexuality or people who are identified or perceived as being bisexual.'

You have every right to choose who to have sex with, but by literally ruling out *every* bi man, based on their bisexuality, is biphobic.

So if someone doesnt want to have sex with gay men, are they homophobic then?

If a straight man won't fuck a gay man he's homophobic.

Biphobia isn't a real thing. What's wrong with using term homophobia?

It is a real thing and like yourself I never heard of this time before until now

Homophobia is basically hate towards gay, trans, bi, lesbian,queer hence the abbreviation LGBTQ and the movement that has a yearly celebration parade in London

Biphobia is as valid a term as homophobia or transphobia.

Homophobia does NOT (technically) involve trans or bisexual. Homo means "same"

It is 2 different terms as you earlier said what was being implied.

Homo means offensive and it's a latin word for man/human

Yes and no. Homo does mean "man", but as a prefix it means "same". Like bi means two

Homo does not mean same it means offensive we don't get to put our own definition on terms that's explained what the definition means "

Please google "homo prefix meaning in english" or something like that. Homo means man "homo-" means "same-". It's how the language works. Bi- means two of something, too. Bisexual = two sexualities (homo and hetero = 2). Bipolar means two poles (as in moods as bipolar people have only very hot or very cold personalities).

Biplane = Plane with two wings (planes)

And homo- means "same".

As in homosexual (same sex), or homophone (two words with the same pronunciation but different meaning)

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt


"Yes, I think some women are biphobic. I can't see how it's a preference if regardless of anything else you won't go near a bisexual man. It's been discussed many times here."

For some women they don't like the idea of a penis that goes up an anal holes going into their vaginal hole

Just like some men don't like the idea of putting their tongue on a vagina where penises have been.

It's a frame of mind which should be a person's choice if they want to accept that or not as long as they make things fair for others they have sexual encounters with I honestly don't see the issue

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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago

London | Belfast


"Freedom of choice and personal preference. Does anyone remember those.

If a bi/bi-curious male is rejected they don't like to think that the reason for rejection is due to them. They'd rather just form a false opinion of the other party being sexist. It's the same for women I'm sure.

Don't agree here. If a woman rejects a man for being bisexual, then that's discrimination.

You can't just disguise everything as "personal preference". A racist doesn't just have a preference against black people. They are being racist.

And if you, as a woman, don't like people based on their sexual orientation, then that's discriminating.

I'm fine with discriminating against people I don't want to fuck. Even if they call me biphobic homophobic racist ageist sizeist I still won't fuck them. "

Sometimes people say things about you and it is not to change your mind about fucking them. Stop being such a narcissist.

If you don't like bisexual men, then you're sexist.

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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago

London | Belfast


"Yes, I think some women are biphobic. I can't see how it's a preference if regardless of anything else you won't go near a bisexual man. It's been discussed many times here.

For some women they don't like the idea of a penis that goes up an anal holes going into their vaginal hole

Just like some men don't like the idea of putting their tongue on a vagina where penises have been.

It's a frame of mind which should be a person's choice if they want to accept that or not as long as they make things fair for others they have sexual encounters with I honestly don't see the issue "

That is a ridiculous claim. No woman, unless virgin, has pussies that never were penetrated by other peoples dicks.

And many guys fuck women anal, too. But you don't hear them complain about that then. Besides, what about bisexual men who take it up the arse? Wht about their cocks?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

The "if they're actually being honest" part about the reasons for why they're being blatantly dishonest in their profile gave me an eye twitch.

People are entitled to their preferences in who they fuck. Just as I'm entitled to mine when it comes to not wanting to bone bigots

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"I wouldn't want sex with a bi man

It's not a phobia

Lol. It's the literal definition...

'Biphobia is aversion toward bisexuality or people who are identified or perceived as being bisexual.'

You have every right to choose who to have sex with, but by literally ruling out *every* bi man, based on their bisexuality, is biphobic.

So if someone doesnt want to have sex with gay men, are they homophobic then?

If a straight man won't fuck a gay man he's homophobic. "

I assume you're being sarcastic here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Freedom of choice and personal preference. Does anyone remember those.

If a bi/bi-curious male is rejected they don't like to think that the reason for rejection is due to them. They'd rather just form a false opinion of the other party being sexist. It's the same for women I'm sure.

Don't agree here. If a woman rejects a man for being bisexual, then that's discrimination.

You can't just disguise everything as "personal preference". A racist doesn't just have a preference against black people. They are being racist.

And if you, as a woman, don't like people based on their sexual orientation, then that's discriminating.

I'm fine with discriminating against people I don't want to fuck. Even if they call me biphobic homophobic racist ageist sizeist I still won't fuck them.

Sometimes people say things about you and it is not to change your mind about fucking them. Stop being such a narcissist.

If you don't like bisexual men, then you're sexist. "

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By *onnie 90Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Freedom of choice and personal preference. Does anyone remember those.

If a bi/bi-curious male is rejected they don't like to think that the reason for rejection is due to them. They'd rather just form a false opinion of the other party being sexist. It's the same for women I'm sure.

Don't agree here. If a woman rejects a man for being bisexual, then that's discrimination.

You can't just disguise everything as "personal preference". A racist doesn't just have a preference against black people. They are being racist.

And if you, as a woman, don't like people based on their sexual orientation, then that's discriminating."

Did I say anything about rejecting someone because they're bi? No I didn't. Try reading my post again.

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt


"I wouldn't want sex with a bi man

It's not a phobia

Lol. It's the literal definition...

'Biphobia is aversion toward bisexuality or people who are identified or perceived as being bisexual.'

You have every right to choose who to have sex with, but by literally ruling out *every* bi man, based on their bisexuality, is biphobic.

So if someone doesnt want to have sex with gay men, are they homophobic then?

If a straight man won't fuck a gay man he's homophobic.

Biphobia isn't a real thing. What's wrong with using term homophobia?

It is a real thing and like yourself I never heard of this time before until now

Homophobia is basically hate towards gay, trans, bi, lesbian,queer hence the abbreviation LGBTQ and the movement that has a yearly celebration parade in London

Biphobia is as valid a term as homophobia or transphobia.

Homophobia does NOT (technically) involve trans or bisexual. Homo means "same"

It is 2 different terms as you earlier said what was being implied.

Homo means offensive and it's a latin word for man/human

Yes and no. Homo does mean "man", but as a prefix it means "same". Like bi means two

Homo does not mean same it means offensive we don't get to put our own definition on terms that's explained what the definition means

Please google "homo prefix meaning in english" or something like that. Homo means man "homo-" means "same-". It's how the language works. Bi- means two of something, too. Bisexual = two sexualities (homo and hetero = 2). Bipolar means two poles (as in moods as bipolar people have only very hot or very cold personalities).

Biplane = Plane with two wings (planes)

And homo- means "same".

As in homosexual (same sex), or homophone (two words with the same pronunciation but different meaning)"

That's it's prefix but the word homo is referred to as a derogatory term.

Homophobia and homosexual has two different meanings not one.

Same sex and then being discriminated against and if a person doesn't want to have sex with a gay or bi they are not discriminating it's what they are not naturally attracted to.

The problem would be if they could not engage with that person outside of a sexual encounter

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt


"Yes, I think some women are biphobic. I can't see how it's a preference if regardless of anything else you won't go near a bisexual man. It's been discussed many times here.

For some women they don't like the idea of a penis that goes up an anal holes going into their vaginal hole

Just like some men don't like the idea of putting their tongue on a vagina where penises have been.

It's a frame of mind which should be a person's choice if they want to accept that or not as long as they make things fair for others they have sexual encounters with I honestly don't see the issue

That is a ridiculous claim. No woman, unless virgin, has pussies that never were penetrated by other peoples dicks.

And many guys fuck women anal, too. But you don't hear them complain about that then. Besides, what about bisexual men who take it up the arse? Wht about their cocks?"

It's not a claim it's happened I have seen a person say and secondly I did not say a woman's vagina hasn't been penetrated by penises

Why you getting a megaphone out for Bi men your not one

Let them speak for themselves

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt


"Freedom of choice and personal preference. Does anyone remember those.

If a bi/bi-curious male is rejected they don't like to think that the reason for rejection is due to them. They'd rather just form a false opinion of the other party being sexist. It's the same for women I'm sure. "

I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Phobias and preferences are distinct concepts. It's acceptable for individuals to choose their sexual partners as long as they don't discriminate based on sexual orientation. Interestingly, I've rarely encountered men refusing to engage with bisexual women, but I've seen many women expressing reluctance toward bisexual men. Perhaps, if men had as many choices as women do, similar trends might emerge, though I'm not entirely certain. I'm not an expert on psychology, but it seems that sexuality has been predominantly shaped by the preferences of heterosexual men.These perceptions and ideas often operate unconsciously, influenced by societal messages that can affect us without our awareness. Consequently, straight women might perceive bisexual men as primarily gay and prone to leave them for another man, while straight men might view bisexual women as primarily straight but with an added allure for their fantasies.Hopefully, we will progress toward a society where men and women are seen as equals, and one's sexual orientation is no longer a source of concern or a threat to masculinity. In such a society, biases like these may eventually diminish.But for now we are far from there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So many "straight" guys on here,if you're bi phobic the chances are you'll meet a "straight" guy anyway.

Sorry for that major revelation, I know it must be a shock

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't want sex with a bi man

It's not a phobia

Lol. It's the literal definition...

'Biphobia is aversion toward bisexuality or people who are identified or perceived as being bisexual.'

You have every right to choose who to have sex with, but by literally ruling out *every* bi man, based on their bisexuality, is biphobic.

So if someone doesnt want to have sex with gay men, are they homophobic then?

If a straight man won't fuck a gay man he's homophobic. "

What utter pish.. phobic indicates a fear. If a straight man won't fuck a gay man it's because he doesn't want to fuck a gay man not because he's scared of gay men. Call it whatever label you want, it means fuck all. It's called personal preferences. All this modernist phobia shite labels the media are shoving down your throat .. ignore it all. Have three intelligence to understand media these days functions entirely on division and labelling. Don't play their tune, cut your own path of thinking to hell with modernist wokeish 'values' ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So many "straight" guys on here,if you're bi phobic the chances are you'll meet a "straight" guy anyway.

Sorry for that major revelation, I know it must be a shock "

Bi men bragging about lying about their sexuality really isn't as attractive or clever as you think. It's no wonder so many women are put off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So many "straight" guys on here,if you're bi phobic the chances are you'll meet a "straight" guy anyway.

Sorry for that major revelation, I know it must be a shock

Bi men bragging about lying about their sexuality really isn't as attractive or clever as you think. It's no wonder so many women are put off. "

I'm not saying it's attractive or clever,I'm just pointing out if you're meeting a straight guy on here there's a pretty good chance he's bi anyway.

Been on and off here a few times and 90% of contact is straight guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah. We all have ‘preferences’. My preference is not to go to bed with some god awful woman who is obsessed with the bloke or TV that I may have played with before them. Perhaps the fragile ego men are accused of affect many women too?

I also prefer not to play with couples where the straight male seems to think that I can’t control myself and will want to start humping him like a demented Jack Russell.

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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago

London | Belfast


"Freedom of choice and personal preference. Does anyone remember those.

If a bi/bi-curious male is rejected "

So you didn't say that your preference is against bisexual men? And that you don't reject them for being bisexual?

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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago

London | Belfast


"Yes, I think some women are biphobic. I can't see how it's a preference if regardless of anything else you won't go near a bisexual man. It's been discussed many times here.

For some women they don't like the idea of a penis that goes up an anal holes going into their vaginal hole

Just like some men don't like the idea of putting their tongue on a vagina where penises have been.

It's a frame of mind which should be a person's choice if they want to accept that or not as long as they make things fair for others they have sexual encounters with I honestly don't see the issue

That is a ridiculous claim. No woman, unless virgin, has pussies that never were penetrated by other peoples dicks.

And many guys fuck women anal, too. But you don't hear them complain about that then. Besides, what about bisexual men who take it up the arse? Wht about their cocks?

It's not a claim it's happened I have seen a person say and secondly I did not say a woman's vagina hasn't been penetrated by penises

Why you getting a megaphone out for Bi men your not one

Let them speak for themselves "

"Just like some men don't like the idea of putting their tongue on a vagina where penises have been." Yes you did.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"Freedom of choice and personal preference. Does anyone remember those.

If a bi/bi-curious male is rejected

So you didn't say that your preference is against bisexual men? And that you don't reject them for being bisexual?"

People can choose not to fuck people they're not interested in for whatever reasons they have.

It's not 'woke' to just fuck everything regardless of attraction.

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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago

London | Belfast


"I wouldn't want sex with a bi man

It's not a phobia

Lol. It's the literal definition...

'Biphobia is aversion toward bisexuality or people who are identified or perceived as being bisexual.'

You have every right to choose who to have sex with, but by literally ruling out *every* bi man, based on their bisexuality, is biphobic.

So if someone doesnt want to have sex with gay men, are they homophobic then?

If a straight man won't fuck a gay man he's homophobic.

Biphobia isn't a real thing. What's wrong with using term homophobia?

It is a real thing and like yourself I never heard of this time before until now

Homophobia is basically hate towards gay, trans, bi, lesbian,queer hence the abbreviation LGBTQ and the movement that has a yearly celebration parade in London

Biphobia is as valid a term as homophobia or transphobia.

Homophobia does NOT (technically) involve trans or bisexual. Homo means "same"

It is 2 different terms as you earlier said what was being implied.

Homo means offensive and it's a latin word for man/human

Yes and no. Homo does mean "man", but as a prefix it means "same". Like bi means two

Homo does not mean same it means offensive we don't get to put our own definition on terms that's explained what the definition means

Please google "homo prefix meaning in english" or something like that. Homo means man "homo-" means "same-". It's how the language works. Bi- means two of something, too. Bisexual = two sexualities (homo and hetero = 2). Bipolar means two poles (as in moods as bipolar people have only very hot or very cold personalities).

Biplane = Plane with two wings (planes)

And homo- means "same".

As in homosexual (same sex), or homophone (two words with the same pronunciation but different meaning)

That's it's prefix but the word homo is referred to as a derogatory term.

Homophobia and homosexual has two different meanings not one.

Same sex and then being discriminated against and if a person doesn't want to have sex with a gay or bi they are not discriminating it's what they are not naturally attracted to.

The problem would be if they could not engage with that person outside of a sexual encounter "

So homophone is derogotary? And yes, homophobe and homosexual mean different things, but very similar things - both are referencing to the same sex orientation, hence "homo".

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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago

London | Belfast


"Freedom of choice and personal preference. Does anyone remember those.

If a bi/bi-curious male is rejected

So you didn't say that your preference is against bisexual men? And that you don't reject them for being bisexual?

People can choose not to fuck people they're not interested in for whatever reasons they have.

It's not 'woke' to just fuck everything regardless of attraction."

You have the freedom to be sexist, but you have to live with that label.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"Freedom of choice and personal preference. Does anyone remember those.

If a bi/bi-curious male is rejected

So you didn't say that your preference is against bisexual men? And that you don't reject them for being bisexual?

People can choose not to fuck people they're not interested in for whatever reasons they have.

It's not 'woke' to just fuck everything regardless of attraction.

You have the freedom to be sexist, but you have to live with that label."

If I'm sexist for only fucking the people I'm actually attracted to, so be it

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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago

London | Belfast


"Freedom of choice and personal preference. Does anyone remember those.

If a bi/bi-curious male is rejected

So you didn't say that your preference is against bisexual men? And that you don't reject them for being bisexual?

People can choose not to fuck people they're not interested in for whatever reasons they have.

It's not 'woke' to just fuck everything regardless of attraction.

You have the freedom to be sexist, but you have to live with that label.

If I'm sexist for only fucking the people I'm actually attracted to, so be it "

Oh for fucks sake, always this powertrip of "I can do whatever I want. All the power to me" bs.

You're a bigot for your views. That's like a nazi saying "Hey, if I only white people, then so be it. "

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt


"Yes, I think some women are biphobic. I can't see how it's a preference if regardless of anything else you won't go near a bisexual man. It's been discussed many times here.

For some women they don't like the idea of a penis that goes up an anal holes going into their vaginal hole

Just like some men don't like the idea of putting their tongue on a vagina where penises have been.

It's a frame of mind which should be a person's choice if they want to accept that or not as long as they make things fair for others they have sexual encounters with I honestly don't see the issue

That is a ridiculous claim. No woman, unless virgin, has pussies that never were penetrated by other peoples dicks.

And many guys fuck women anal, too. But you don't hear them complain about that then. Besides, what about bisexual men who take it up the arse? Wht about their cocks?

It's not a claim it's happened I have seen a person say and secondly I did not say a woman's vagina hasn't been penetrated by penises

Why you getting a megaphone out for Bi men your not one

Let them speak for themselves

"Just like some men don't like the idea of putting their tongue on a vagina where penises have been." Yes you did."

Your comprehensive skills are slacking

Oral sex is not what every man will do and that is not saying a woman has to be a virgin.

There's men that probably won't want a virgin and if they do and still ain't the type to participate in oral sex, a virgin isn't gonna change that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a blatant hypocrisy that so many couples "hunt the unicorn" aka a bi female yet when a bi male presents out come the slurs.

Preference has been used as a shield by bigots for decades, I prefer that women don't vote, I prefer that black people ride at the back of the bus, I prefer, I prefer, I prefer.

But thi.s thread will do what all the others have done, expose a handful of misandrist bigots, and in a week a new and improved version will appear.

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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago

London | Belfast


"Yes, I think some women are biphobic. I can't see how it's a preference if regardless of anything else you won't go near a bisexual man. It's been discussed many times here.

For some women they don't like the idea of a penis that goes up an anal holes going into their vaginal hole

Just like some men don't like the idea of putting their tongue on a vagina where penises have been.

It's a frame of mind which should be a person's choice if they want to accept that or not as long as they make things fair for others they have sexual encounters with I honestly don't see the issue

That is a ridiculous claim. No woman, unless virgin, has pussies that never were penetrated by other peoples dicks.

And many guys fuck women anal, too. But you don't hear them complain about that then. Besides, what about bisexual men who take it up the arse? Wht about their cocks?

It's not a claim it's happened I have seen a person say and secondly I did not say a woman's vagina hasn't been penetrated by penises

Why you getting a megaphone out for Bi men your not one

Let them speak for themselves

"Just like some men don't like the idea of putting their tongue on a vagina where penises have been." Yes you did.

Your comprehensive skills are slacking

Oral sex is not what every man will do and that is not saying a woman has to be a virgin.

There's men that probably won't want a virgin and if they do and still ain't the type to participate in oral sex, a virgin isn't gonna change that."

Yeah, well, my comprehension skills are on point. You are the one who forgets what she wrote..... Also men not licking pussy hs nothing to do with other penises. And no, virgin is not going ot change that. But I wasn't making a claim, I was just showing you that you are talking bull.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"Oh for fucks sake, always this powertrip of "I can do whatever I want. All the power to me" bs.

You're a bigot for your views. That's like a nazi saying "Hey, if I only white people, then so be it. ""

... Bit of a difference between "I only fuck white people" and "I only tolerate white people to exist"

But whatever you say love.

Having views is bigoted. Apparently.

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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago

London | Belfast


"There is a blatant hypocrisy that so many couples "hunt the unicorn" aka a bi female yet when a bi male presents out come the slurs.

Preference has been used as a shield by bigots for decades, I prefer that women don't vote, I prefer that black people ride at the back of the bus, I prefer, I prefer, I prefer.

But thi.s thread will do what all the others have done, expose a handful of misandrist bigots, and in a week a new and improved version will appear."

Absolutely agree with you here.

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt


"Freedom of choice and personal preference. Does anyone remember those.

If a bi/bi-curious male is rejected

So you didn't say that your preference is against bisexual men? And that you don't reject them for being bisexual?

People can choose not to fuck people they're not interested in for whatever reasons they have.

It's not 'woke' to just fuck everything regardless of attraction.

You have the freedom to be sexist, but you have to live with that label.

If I'm sexist for only fucking the people I'm actually attracted to, so be it "

It doesn't make you sexist babe, some people struggle to comprehend what a person says because it's not presented how they communicate vocabulary but rather then drop their pride and ask for clarity they find it easier to get on a high horse, jump to assumptions then form their own conclusions sometimes it's like a toxic merry go round here xxx

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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago

London | Belfast


"Oh for fucks sake, always this powertrip of "I can do whatever I want. All the power to me" bs.

You're a bigot for your views. That's like a nazi saying "Hey, if I only white people, then so be it. "

... Bit of a difference between "I only fuck white people" and "I only tolerate white people to exist"

But whatever you say love.

Having views is bigoted. Apparently."

Some views are bigoted, you got that partially right.

You are not innocent here, you discriminate against bisexual men. The man doesn't change at all for you whether he is bisexul or straight. When he's with you, he's with you and does all the things he would with you either way.

The person doesn't change because of their sexual orientation, yet you discriminate against them. No one can force you to change your bigoted ways, but that doesn't mean you're not bigoted.

If you are discriminating against bisexual men, at least admit the bigotry of it. (but obviously you are being a narcissist about it, you do nothing wrong and every single value and opinion of yours is perfect, eh?).

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt


"Yes, I think some women are biphobic. I can't see how it's a preference if regardless of anything else you won't go near a bisexual man. It's been discussed many times here.

For some women they don't like the idea of a penis that goes up an anal holes going into their vaginal hole

Just like some men don't like the idea of putting their tongue on a vagina where penises have been.

It's a frame of mind which should be a person's choice if they want to accept that or not as long as they make things fair for others they have sexual encounters with I honestly don't see the issue

That is a ridiculous claim. No woman, unless virgin, has pussies that never were penetrated by other peoples dicks.

And many guys fuck women anal, too. But you don't hear them complain about that then. Besides, what about bisexual men who take it up the arse? Wht about their cocks?

It's not a claim it's happened I have seen a person say and secondly I did not say a woman's vagina hasn't been penetrated by penises

Why you getting a megaphone out for Bi men your not one

Let them speak for themselves

"Just like some men don't like the idea of putting their tongue on a vagina where penises have been." Yes you did.

Your comprehensive skills are slacking

Oral sex is not what every man will do and that is not saying a woman has to be a virgin.

There's men that probably won't want a virgin and if they do and still ain't the type to participate in oral sex, a virgin isn't gonna change that.

Yeah, well, my comprehension skills are on point. You are the one who forgets what she wrote..... Also men not licking pussy hs nothing to do with other penises. And no, virgin is not going ot change that. But I wasn't making a claim, I was just showing you that you are talking bull."

You don't need me to tell you keep believing what you're telling yourself

There's no bull from what I have heard others say

If you have never heard it said that's fine but you can't say no person would say that.

Speak for yourself not others

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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago

London | Belfast


"Freedom of choice and personal preference. Does anyone remember those.

If a bi/bi-curious male is rejected

So you didn't say that your preference is against bisexual men? And that you don't reject them for being bisexual?

People can choose not to fuck people they're not interested in for whatever reasons they have.

It's not 'woke' to just fuck everything regardless of attraction.

You have the freedom to be sexist, but you have to live with that label.

If I'm sexist for only fucking the people I'm actually attracted to, so be it

It doesn't make you sexist babe, some people struggle to comprehend what a person says because it's not presented how they communicate vocabulary but rather then drop their pride and ask for clarity they find it easier to get on a high horse, jump to assumptions then form their own conclusions sometimes it's like a toxic merry go round here xxx"

Sorry for understanding latin better than you.

But yes, if you discriminate people for their sexual orientation, then that is absolutely bigoted. It boils down to that and it's very straight forward.

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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago

London | Belfast


"Yes, I think some women are biphobic. I can't see how it's a preference if regardless of anything else you won't go near a bisexual man. It's been discussed many times here.

For some women they don't like the idea of a penis that goes up an anal holes going into their vaginal hole

Just like some men don't like the idea of putting their tongue on a vagina where penises have been.

It's a frame of mind which should be a person's choice if they want to accept that or not as long as they make things fair for others they have sexual encounters with I honestly don't see the issue

That is a ridiculous claim. No woman, unless virgin, has pussies that never were penetrated by other peoples dicks.

And many guys fuck women anal, too. But you don't hear them complain about that then. Besides, what about bisexual men who take it up the arse? Wht about their cocks?

It's not a claim it's happened I have seen a person say and secondly I did not say a woman's vagina hasn't been penetrated by penises

Why you getting a megaphone out for Bi men your not one

Let them speak for themselves

"Just like some men don't like the idea of putting their tongue on a vagina where penises have been." Yes you did.

Your comprehensive skills are slacking

Oral sex is not what every man will do and that is not saying a woman has to be a virgin.

There's men that probably won't want a virgin and if they do and still ain't the type to participate in oral sex, a virgin isn't gonna change that.

Yeah, well, my comprehension skills are on point. You are the one who forgets what she wrote..... Also men not licking pussy hs nothing to do with other penises. And no, virgin is not going ot change that. But I wasn't making a claim, I was just showing you that you are talking bull.

You don't need me to tell you keep believing what you're telling yourself

There's no bull from what I have heard others say

If you have never heard it said that's fine but you can't say no person would say that.

Speak for yourself not others "

Some of the bullshit you said:

Men don't lick pussy because they don't like that other penises have penetrated it before.

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall


"Phobias and preferences are distinct concepts. It's acceptable for individuals to choose their sexual partners as long as they don't discriminate based on sexual orientation. Interestingly, I've rarely encountered men refusing to engage with bisexual women, but I've seen many women expressing reluctance toward bisexual men. Perhaps, if men had as many choices as women do, similar trends might emerge, though I'm not entirely certain. I'm not an expert on psychology, but it seems that sexuality has been predominantly shaped by the preferences of heterosexual men.These perceptions and ideas often operate unconsciously, influenced by societal messages that can affect us without our awareness. Consequently, straight women might perceive bisexual men as primarily gay and prone to leave them for another man, while straight men might view bisexual women as primarily straight but with an added allure for their fantasies.Hopefully, we will progress toward a society where men and women are seen as equals, and one's sexual orientation is no longer a source of concern or a threat to masculinity. In such a society, biases like these may eventually diminish.But for now we are far from there. "

Err no.

I think you’ll find what’s acceptable is that people can choose who they fuck for whatever reason they see fit.

Calling them phobics is coercive behaviour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Some of the bullshit you said:

Men don't lick pussy because they don't like that other penises have penetrated it before. "

Well I for one can confirm that is misandrist bullshit. I also know one male who quite enjoys licking pussy during and in the aftermath of someone else fucking their partner.

Getting real Neo Puritans when people say stupid shit like that.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"Some views are bigoted, you got that partially right.

You are not innocent here, you discriminate against bisexual men. The man doesn't change at all for you whether he is bisexul or straight. When he's with you, he's with you and does all the things he would with you either way.

The person doesn't change because of their sexual orientation, yet you discriminate against them. No one can force you to change your bigoted ways, but that doesn't mean you're not bigoted.

If you are discriminating against bisexual men, at least admit the bigotry of it. (but obviously you are being a narcissist about it, you do nothing wrong and every single value and opinion of yours is perfect, eh?)."

... One of my partners is a bisexual man buddy. Try again. I don't give a single solitary turd about someone's sexuality as long as we're compatible.

My point was just that not fucking someone you're not attracted to is okay. Actively encouraged, in fact, as far as I'm concerned. If I disagree strongly with someone's morals, I won't want to fuck them. Hence the me saying I have every right to not fuck bigots.

It's the weird shouty rants and abuse that aren't okay. A simple polite rejection is fine.

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt


"Yes, I think some women are biphobic. I can't see how it's a preference if regardless of anything else you won't go near a bisexual man. It's been discussed many times here.

For some women they don't like the idea of a penis that goes up an anal holes going into their vaginal hole

Just like some men don't like the idea of putting their tongue on a vagina where penises have been.

It's a frame of mind which should be a person's choice if they want to accept that or not as long as they make things fair for others they have sexual encounters with I honestly don't see the issue

That is a ridiculous claim. No woman, unless virgin, has pussies that never were penetrated by other peoples dicks.

And many guys fuck women anal, too. But you don't hear them complain about that then. Besides, what about bisexual men who take it up the arse? Wht about their cocks?

It's not a claim it's happened I have seen a person say and secondly I did not say a woman's vagina hasn't been penetrated by penises

Why you getting a megaphone out for Bi men your not one

Let them speak for themselves

"Just like some men don't like the idea of putting their tongue on a vagina where penises have been." Yes you did.

Your comprehensive skills are slacking

Oral sex is not what every man will do and that is not saying a woman has to be a virgin.

There's men that probably won't want a virgin and if they do and still ain't the type to participate in oral sex, a virgin isn't gonna change that.

Yeah, well, my comprehension skills are on point. You are the one who forgets what she wrote..... Also men not licking pussy hs nothing to do with other penises. And no, virgin is not going ot change that. But I wasn't making a claim, I was just showing you that you are talking bull.

You don't need me to tell you keep believing what you're telling yourself

There's no bull from what I have heard others say

If you have never heard it said that's fine but you can't say no person would say that.

Speak for yourself not others

Some of the bullshit you said:

Men don't lick pussy because they don't like that other penises have penetrated it before. "

I said SOME not all

Don't throw the irritation towards me I didn't say it, I have simply re iterated what has been said before

Difference

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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago

London | Belfast


"Some views are bigoted, you got that partially right.

You are not innocent here, you discriminate against bisexual men. The man doesn't change at all for you whether he is bisexul or straight. When he's with you, he's with you and does all the things he would with you either way.

The person doesn't change because of their sexual orientation, yet you discriminate against them. No one can force you to change your bigoted ways, but that doesn't mean you're not bigoted.

If you are discriminating against bisexual men, at least admit the bigotry of it. (but obviously you are being a narcissist about it, you do nothing wrong and every single value and opinion of yours is perfect, eh?).

... One of my partners is a bisexual man buddy. Try again. I don't give a single solitary turd about someone's sexuality as long as we're compatible.

My point was just that not fucking someone you're not attracted to is okay. Actively encouraged, in fact, as far as I'm concerned. If I disagree strongly with someone's morals, I won't want to fuck them. Hence the me saying I have every right to not fuck bigots.

It's the weird shouty rants and abuse that aren't okay. A simple polite rejection is fine."

Sorry then, but you absolutely sounded different before, as if you said "I am not attracted to bisexual men, so it's okay to not fuck them based solely on that."

So glad you are not saying that.

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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago

London | Belfast


"Yes, I think some women are biphobic. I can't see how it's a preference if regardless of anything else you won't go near a bisexual man. It's been discussed many times here.

For some women they don't like the idea of a penis that goes up an anal holes going into their vaginal hole

Just like some men don't like the idea of putting their tongue on a vagina where penises have been.

It's a frame of mind which should be a person's choice if they want to accept that or not as long as they make things fair for others they have sexual encounters with I honestly don't see the issue

That is a ridiculous claim. No woman, unless virgin, has pussies that never were penetrated by other peoples dicks.

And many guys fuck women anal, too. But you don't hear them complain about that then. Besides, what about bisexual men who take it up the arse? Wht about their cocks?

It's not a claim it's happened I have seen a person say and secondly I did not say a woman's vagina hasn't been penetrated by penises

Why you getting a megaphone out for Bi men your not one

Let them speak for themselves

"Just like some men don't like the idea of putting their tongue on a vagina where penises have been." Yes you did.

Your comprehensive skills are slacking

Oral sex is not what every man will do and that is not saying a woman has to be a virgin.

There's men that probably won't want a virgin and if they do and still ain't the type to participate in oral sex, a virgin isn't gonna change that.

Yeah, well, my comprehension skills are on point. You are the one who forgets what she wrote..... Also men not licking pussy hs nothing to do with other penises. And no, virgin is not going ot change that. But I wasn't making a claim, I was just showing you that you are talking bull.

You don't need me to tell you keep believing what you're telling yourself

There's no bull from what I have heard others say

If you have never heard it said that's fine but you can't say no person would say that.

Speak for yourself not others

Some of the bullshit you said:

Men don't lick pussy because they don't like that other penises have penetrated it before.

I said SOME not all

Don't throw the irritation towards me I didn't say it, I have simply re iterated what has been said before

Difference "

I didn't say all either. Learn to read?

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt


"

Some of the bullshit you said:

Men don't lick pussy because they don't like that other penises have penetrated it before.

Well I for one can confirm that is misandrist bullshit. I also know one male who quite enjoys licking pussy during and in the aftermath of someone else fucking their partner.

Getting real Neo Puritans when people say stupid shit like that."

Again I repeat I said some not all

Selective reading doesn't work here

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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago

London | Belfast


"

Some of the bullshit you said:

Men don't lick pussy because they don't like that other penises have penetrated it before.

Well I for one can confirm that is misandrist bullshit. I also know one male who quite enjoys licking pussy during and in the aftermath of someone else fucking their partner.

Getting real Neo Puritans when people say stupid shit like that.

Again I repeat I said some not all

Selective reading doesn't work here "

You're the one with the selective reading here (and the inability to understand even simple latin translations.....)

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt


"Yes, I think some women are biphobic. I can't see how it's a preference if regardless of anything else you won't go near a bisexual man. It's been discussed many times here.

For some women they don't like the idea of a penis that goes up an anal holes going into their vaginal hole

Just like some men don't like the idea of putting their tongue on a vagina where penises have been.

It's a frame of mind which should be a person's choice if they want to accept that or not as long as they make things fair for others they have sexual encounters with I honestly don't see the issue

That is a ridiculous claim. No woman, unless virgin, has pussies that never were penetrated by other peoples dicks.

And many guys fuck women anal, too. But you don't hear them complain about that then. Besides, what about bisexual men who take it up the arse? Wht about their cocks?

It's not a claim it's happened I have seen a person say and secondly I did not say a woman's vagina hasn't been penetrated by penises

Why you getting a megaphone out for Bi men your not one

Let them speak for themselves

"Just like some men don't like the idea of putting their tongue on a vagina where penises have been." Yes you did.

Your comprehensive skills are slacking

Oral sex is not what every man will do and that is not saying a woman has to be a virgin.

There's men that probably won't want a virgin and if they do and still ain't the type to participate in oral sex, a virgin isn't gonna change that.

Yeah, well, my comprehension skills are on point. You are the one who forgets what she wrote..... Also men not licking pussy hs nothing to do with other penises. And no, virgin is not going ot change that. But I wasn't making a claim, I was just showing you that you are talking bull.

You don't need me to tell you keep believing what you're telling yourself

There's no bull from what I have heard others say

If you have never heard it said that's fine but you can't say no person would say that.

Speak for yourself not others

Some of the bullshit you said:

Men don't lick pussy because they don't like that other penises have penetrated it before.

I said SOME not all

Don't throw the irritation towards me I didn't say it, I have simply re iterated what has been said before

Difference

I didn't say all either. Learn to read?"

You may as well say all with how your replying to me.

Same advice your here trying to dish out to others is the same advice you need to follow yourself.

Act your age, we get older in life not younger

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"Sorry then, but you absolutely sounded different before, as if you said "I am not attracted to bisexual men, so it's okay to not fuck them based solely on that."

So glad you are not saying that."

If I strongly disagree with someone's morality, I don't have to fuck them.

Some people have some very unfortunate views about bisexual men, but as long as they're up front and polite about it, they can choose not to have sex with someone they're not attracted to for whatever reason.

Personally I would choose not to have sex with people who held those views, but those who do are likely incompatible with me on a great many levels already.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is a blatant hypocrisy that so many couples "hunt the unicorn" aka a bi female yet when a bi male presents out come the slurs.

Preference has been used as a shield by bigots for decades, I prefer that women don't vote, I prefer that black people ride at the back of the bus, I prefer, I prefer, I prefer.

But thi.s thread will do what all the others have done, expose a handful of misandrist bigots, and in a week a new and improved version will appear."

What a load of tripe . You are part of the problem that has created the disease of political correctness. Preferences are exactly that. Everybody has them for whatever reasons. It's called freedom to choose. It's up to you if you don't want those freedoms but most of us rightly do.

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt


"

Some of the bullshit you said:

Men don't lick pussy because they don't like that other penises have penetrated it before.

Well I for one can confirm that is misandrist bullshit. I also know one male who quite enjoys licking pussy during and in the aftermath of someone else fucking their partner.

Getting real Neo Puritans when people say stupid shit like that.

Again I repeat I said some not all

Selective reading doesn't work here

You're the one with the selective reading here (and the inability to understand even simple latin translations.....)"

I was not sending that comment to you so stop playing mascot for others.

People can speak for themselves

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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago

London | Belfast


"Yes, I think some women are biphobic. I can't see how it's a preference if regardless of anything else you won't go near a bisexual man. It's been discussed many times here.

For some women they don't like the idea of a penis that goes up an anal holes going into their vaginal hole

Just like some men don't like the idea of putting their tongue on a vagina where penises have been.

It's a frame of mind which should be a person's choice if they want to accept that or not as long as they make things fair for others they have sexual encounters with I honestly don't see the issue

That is a ridiculous claim. No woman, unless virgin, has pussies that never were penetrated by other peoples dicks.

And many guys fuck women anal, too. But you don't hear them complain about that then. Besides, what about bisexual men who take it up the arse? Wht about their cocks?

It's not a claim it's happened I have seen a person say and secondly I did not say a woman's vagina hasn't been penetrated by penises

Why you getting a megaphone out for Bi men your not one

Let them speak for themselves

"Just like some men don't like the idea of putting their tongue on a vagina where penises have been." Yes you did.

Your comprehensive skills are slacking

Oral sex is not what every man will do and that is not saying a woman has to be a virgin.

There's men that probably won't want a virgin and if they do and still ain't the type to participate in oral sex, a virgin isn't gonna change that.

Yeah, well, my comprehension skills are on point. You are the one who forgets what she wrote..... Also men not licking pussy hs nothing to do with other penises. And no, virgin is not going ot change that. But I wasn't making a claim, I was just showing you that you are talking bull.

You don't need me to tell you keep believing what you're telling yourself

There's no bull from what I have heard others say

If you have never heard it said that's fine but you can't say no person would say that.

Speak for yourself not others

Some of the bullshit you said:

Men don't lick pussy because they don't like that other penises have penetrated it before.

I said SOME not all

Don't throw the irritation towards me I didn't say it, I have simply re iterated what has been said before

Difference

I didn't say all either. Learn to read?

You may as well say all with how your replying to me.

Same advice your here trying to dish out to others is the same advice you need to follow yourself.

Act your age, we get older in life not younger "

"you might as well say all" aha. Now was this you admitting that you didn't read that right?

Because I didn't. So stop putting words into my mouth and read slower, maybe that helps you understand better.

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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago

London | Belfast


"Sorry then, but you absolutely sounded different before, as if you said "I am not attracted to bisexual men, so it's okay to not fuck them based solely on that."

So glad you are not saying that.

If I strongly disagree with someone's morality, I don't have to fuck them.

Some people have some very unfortunate views about bisexual men, but as long as they're up front and polite about it, they can choose not to have sex with someone they're not attracted to for whatever reason.

Personally I would choose not to have sex with people who held those views, but those who do are likely incompatible with me on a great many levels already."

I just don't understand what this has to do with bisexual men? No one wants to fuck bigots, so that is sort of given. Hence the misunderstanding earlier.

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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago

London | Belfast


"There is a blatant hypocrisy that so many couples "hunt the unicorn" aka a bi female yet when a bi male presents out come the slurs.

Preference has been used as a shield by bigots for decades, I prefer that women don't vote, I prefer that black people ride at the back of the bus, I prefer, I prefer, I prefer.

But thi.s thread will do what all the others have done, expose a handful of misandrist bigots, and in a week a new and improved version will appear.

What a load of tripe . You are part of the problem that has created the disease of political correctness. Preferences are exactly that. Everybody has them for whatever reasons. It's called freedom to choose. It's up to you if you don't want those freedoms but most of us rightly do."

They are not mutually exclusive. You can have the right to choose to not date bisexual men, that is your given right, but that choice makes you a bigot. Both things are true at the same time then.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"Sorry then, but you absolutely sounded different before, as if you said "I am not attracted to bisexual men, so it's okay to not fuck them based solely on that."

So glad you are not saying that.

If I strongly disagree with someone's morality, I don't have to fuck them.

Some people have some very unfortunate views about bisexual men, but as long as they're up front and polite about it, they can choose not to have sex with someone they're not attracted to for whatever reason.

Personally I would choose not to have sex with people who held those views, but those who do are likely incompatible with me on a great many levels already.

I just don't understand what this has to do with bisexual men? No one wants to fuck bigots, so that is sort of given. Hence the misunderstanding earlier. "

But why don't you want to fuck bigots?

Is that not then bigotist?

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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago

London | Belfast


"Sorry then, but you absolutely sounded different before, as if you said "I am not attracted to bisexual men, so it's okay to not fuck them based solely on that."

So glad you are not saying that.

If I strongly disagree with someone's morality, I don't have to fuck them.

Some people have some very unfortunate views about bisexual men, but as long as they're up front and polite about it, they can choose not to have sex with someone they're not attracted to for whatever reason.

Personally I would choose not to have sex with people who held those views, but those who do are likely incompatible with me on a great many levels already.

I just don't understand what this has to do with bisexual men? No one wants to fuck bigots, so that is sort of given. Hence the misunderstanding earlier.

But why don't you want to fuck bigots?

Is that not then bigotist?"

Don't be ridiculous now.

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By *odramajustenjoyJamieMan
over a year ago

London

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"Sorry then, but you absolutely sounded different before, as if you said "I am not attracted to bisexual men, so it's okay to not fuck them based solely on that."

So glad you are not saying that.

If I strongly disagree with someone's morality, I don't have to fuck them.

Some people have some very unfortunate views about bisexual men, but as long as they're up front and polite about it, they can choose not to have sex with someone they're not attracted to for whatever reason.

Personally I would choose not to have sex with people who held those views, but those who do are likely incompatible with me on a great many levels already.

I just don't understand what this has to do with bisexual men? No one wants to fuck bigots, so that is sort of given. Hence the misunderstanding earlier.

But why don't you want to fuck bigots?

Is that not then bigotist?

Don't be ridiculous now. "

You're making a choice about who you want to fuck based on your perception of the morality involved in their choices.

Is that not what the bigots are doing too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is a blatant hypocrisy that so many couples "hunt the unicorn" aka a bi female yet when a bi male presents out come the slurs.

Preference has been used as a shield by bigots for decades, I prefer that women don't vote, I prefer that black people ride at the back of the bus, I prefer, I prefer, I prefer.

But thi.s thread will do what all the others have done, expose a handful of misandrist bigots, and in a week a new and improved version will appear.

What a load of tripe . You are part of the problem that has created the disease of political correctness. Preferences are exactly that. Everybody has them for whatever reasons. It's called freedom to choose. It's up to you if you don't want those freedoms but most of us rightly do."

Ah the old "I'm alright Jack" defense.

Have your opinions and preferences, just understand that for some people they identify you as a bigot if they are based on nothing more than predjudice.

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt


"Yes, I think some women are biphobic. I can't see how it's a preference if regardless of anything else you won't go near a bisexual man. It's been discussed many times here.

For some women they don't like the idea of a penis that goes up an anal holes going into their vaginal hole

Just like some men don't like the idea of putting their tongue on a vagina where penises have been.

It's a frame of mind which should be a person's choice if they want to accept that or not as long as they make things fair for others they have sexual encounters with I honestly don't see the issue

That is a ridiculous claim. No woman, unless virgin, has pussies that never were penetrated by other peoples dicks.

And many guys fuck women anal, too. But you don't hear them complain about that then. Besides, what about bisexual men who take it up the arse? Wht about their cocks?

It's not a claim it's happened I have seen a person say and secondly I did not say a woman's vagina hasn't been penetrated by penises

Why you getting a megaphone out for Bi men your not one

Let them speak for themselves

"Just like some men don't like the idea of putting their tongue on a vagina where penises have been." Yes you did.

Your comprehensive skills are slacking

Oral sex is not what every man will do and that is not saying a woman has to be a virgin.

There's men that probably won't want a virgin and if they do and still ain't the type to participate in oral sex, a virgin isn't gonna change that.

Yeah, well, my comprehension skills are on point. You are the one who forgets what she wrote..... Also men not licking pussy hs nothing to do with other penises. And no, virgin is not going ot change that. But I wasn't making a claim, I was just showing you that you are talking bull.

You don't need me to tell you keep believing what you're telling yourself

There's no bull from what I have heard others say

If you have never heard it said that's fine but you can't say no person would say that.

Speak for yourself not others

Some of the bullshit you said:

Men don't lick pussy because they don't like that other penises have penetrated it before.

I said SOME not all

Don't throw the irritation towards me I didn't say it, I have simply re iterated what has been said before

Difference

I didn't say all either. Learn to read?

You may as well say all with how your replying to me.

Same advice your here trying to dish out to others is the same advice you need to follow yourself.

Act your age, we get older in life not younger

"you might as well say all" aha. Now was this you admitting that you didn't read that right?

Because I didn't. So stop putting words into my mouth and read slower, maybe that helps you understand better."

I said what I said, you may have just as well said all

Can't blame a person for telling you how you are making yourself look.

Looks like you're here to argue with every woman you can for whatever reason why.

You're even answering other men's replies from women it's not your place to do that.

Never seen anyone reply for another person like someone isn't capable to speak for themselves.

There's no cheerleader practice here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What does morality have to do with sexualities?

Are you saying bisexual men are morally inferior to bisexual women?

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt


"What does morality have to do with sexualities?

Are you saying bisexual men are morally inferior to bisexual women?"

If you press reply+quote it helps us all know who you are speaking to

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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago

London | Belfast


"Sorry then, but you absolutely sounded different before, as if you said "I am not attracted to bisexual men, so it's okay to not fuck them based solely on that."

So glad you are not saying that.

If I strongly disagree with someone's morality, I don't have to fuck them.

Some people have some very unfortunate views about bisexual men, but as long as they're up front and polite about it, they can choose not to have sex with someone they're not attracted to for whatever reason.

Personally I would choose not to have sex with people who held those views, but those who do are likely incompatible with me on a great many levels already.

I just don't understand what this has to do with bisexual men? No one wants to fuck bigots, so that is sort of given. Hence the misunderstanding earlier.

But why don't you want to fuck bigots?

Is that not then bigotist?

Don't be ridiculous now.

You're making a choice about who you want to fuck based on your perception of the morality involved in their choices.

Is that not what the bigots are doing too?"

Don't play devil's advocate now just to try and prove a point

Having a preference based on someone's opinion or world view is different than based on their sexuality.

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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago

London | Belfast


"Yes, I think some women are biphobic. I can't see how it's a preference if regardless of anything else you won't go near a bisexual man. It's been discussed many times here.

For some women they don't like the idea of a penis that goes up an anal holes going into their vaginal hole

Just like some men don't like the idea of putting their tongue on a vagina where penises have been.

It's a frame of mind which should be a person's choice if they want to accept that or not as long as they make things fair for others they have sexual encounters with I honestly don't see the issue

That is a ridiculous claim. No woman, unless virgin, has pussies that never were penetrated by other peoples dicks.

And many guys fuck women anal, too. But you don't hear them complain about that then. Besides, what about bisexual men who take it up the arse? Wht about their cocks?

It's not a claim it's happened I have seen a person say and secondly I did not say a woman's vagina hasn't been penetrated by penises

Why you getting a megaphone out for Bi men your not one

Let them speak for themselves

"Just like some men don't like the idea of putting their tongue on a vagina where penises have been." Yes you did.

Your comprehensive skills are slacking

Oral sex is not what every man will do and that is not saying a woman has to be a virgin.

There's men that probably won't want a virgin and if they do and still ain't the type to participate in oral sex, a virgin isn't gonna change that.

Yeah, well, my comprehension skills are on point. You are the one who forgets what she wrote..... Also men not licking pussy hs nothing to do with other penises. And no, virgin is not going ot change that. But I wasn't making a claim, I was just showing you that you are talking bull.

You don't need me to tell you keep believing what you're telling yourself

There's no bull from what I have heard others say

If you have never heard it said that's fine but you can't say no person would say that.

Speak for yourself not others

Some of the bullshit you said:

Men don't lick pussy because they don't like that other penises have penetrated it before.

I said SOME not all

Don't throw the irritation towards me I didn't say it, I have simply re iterated what has been said before

Difference

I didn't say all either. Learn to read?

You may as well say all with how your replying to me.

Same advice your here trying to dish out to others is the same advice you need to follow yourself.

Act your age, we get older in life not younger

"you might as well say all" aha. Now was this you admitting that you didn't read that right?

Because I didn't. So stop putting words into my mouth and read slower, maybe that helps you understand better.

I said what I said, you may have just as well said all

Can't blame a person for telling you how you are making yourself look.

Looks like you're here to argue with every woman you can for whatever reason why.

You're even answering other men's replies from women it's not your place to do that.

Never seen anyone reply for another person like someone isn't capable to speak for themselves.

There's no cheerleader practice here "

"you may have just as well said all"

But I didn't. So stop putting words in my mouth.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"Don't play devil's advocate now just to try and prove a point

Having a preference based on someone's opinion or world view is different than based on their sexuality. "

Are you saying someone's sexuality has absolutely no bearing on their opinion or world view?

In which case who someone chooses to fuck or nor has no bearing, surely?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What does morality have to do with sexualities?

Are you saying bisexual men are morally inferior to bisexual women?

If you press reply+quote it helps us all know who you are speaking to "

It's 1am, the fact I can even find the phone is a miracle ??

Thank you for the reminder though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't play devil's advocate now just to try and prove a point

Having a preference based on someone's opinion or world view is different than based on their sexuality.

Are you saying someone's sexuality has absolutely no bearing on their opinion or world view?

In which case who someone chooses to fuck or nor has no bearing, surely?"

Are you saying that there are no gay Tories or other such nonsense? Sexuality has no bearing on morality and equally the reverse. This is another misandrist dog whistle.

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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago

London | Belfast


"Don't play devil's advocate now just to try and prove a point

Having a preference based on someone's opinion or world view is different than based on their sexuality.

Are you saying someone's sexuality has absolutely no bearing on their opinion or world view?

In which case who someone chooses to fuck or nor has no bearing, surely?"

Da hell. Are you really trying to justify biphobes?

Do you really not understand the difference?

Not all preferences are okay to have. Like some men have preferences for big tits, others like bushy pussy and those are totally okay to have. Other men have a preference for children, and that is a preference that is not okay. Do you see where I am going with this? Not every preference is okay to have.

A preference against bigots is okay, a preference against bisexual men is not.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"Not all preferences are okay to have. Like some men have preferences for big tits, others like bushy pussy and those are totally okay to have. Other men have a preference for children, and that is a preference that is not okay. Do you see where I am going with this? Not every preference is okay to have.

A preference against bigots is okay, a preference against bisexual men is not."

Acting on a preference for something like that is obviously wrong. Acting on a preference against something is perfectly okay. Minor attracted people or whatever they call themselves these days can choose not to fuck adults as they're outside their preferences, and that part is okay.

Do I think people who don't want to fuck bisexual men are good people? No. But if they don't want to fuck someone for whatever reason, that's their right and they're allowed to not have sex with them.

Kicking off about it gains nothing.

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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago

London | Belfast


"Not all preferences are okay to have. Like some men have preferences for big tits, others like bushy pussy and those are totally okay to have. Other men have a preference for children, and that is a preference that is not okay. Do you see where I am going with this? Not every preference is okay to have.

A preference against bigots is okay, a preference against bisexual men is not.

Acting on a preference for something like that is obviously wrong. Acting on a preference against something is perfectly okay. Minor attracted people or whatever they call themselves these days can choose not to fuck adults as they're outside their preferences, and that part is okay.

Do I think people who don't want to fuck bisexual men are good people? No. But if they don't want to fuck someone for whatever reason, that's their right and they're allowed to not have sex with them.

Kicking off about it gains nothing."

You are literally okay with paedophiles?!??!!!

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"Not all preferences are okay to have. Like some men have preferences for big tits, others like bushy pussy and those are totally okay to have. Other men have a preference for children, and that is a preference that is not okay. Do you see where I am going with this? Not every preference is okay to have.

A preference against bigots is okay, a preference against bisexual men is not.

Acting on a preference for something like that is obviously wrong. Acting on a preference against something is perfectly okay. Minor attracted people or whatever they call themselves these days can choose not to fuck adults as they're outside their preferences, and that part is okay.

Do I think people who don't want to fuck bisexual men are good people? No. But if they don't want to fuck someone for whatever reason, that's their right and they're allowed to not have sex with them.

Kicking off about it gains nothing.

You are literally okay with paedophiles?!??!!!"

Christ. It's like talking to a brick wall.

I want to do this illegal thing - Not okay.

I don't want to do this legal thing - Okay.

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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago

London | Belfast


"Not all preferences are okay to have. Like some men have preferences for big tits, others like bushy pussy and those are totally okay to have. Other men have a preference for children, and that is a preference that is not okay. Do you see where I am going with this? Not every preference is okay to have.

A preference against bigots is okay, a preference against bisexual men is not.

Acting on a preference for something like that is obviously wrong. Acting on a preference against something is perfectly okay. Minor attracted people or whatever they call themselves these days can choose not to fuck adults as they're outside their preferences, and that part is okay.

Do I think people who don't want to fuck bisexual men are good people? No. But if they don't want to fuck someone for whatever reason, that's their right and they're allowed to not have sex with them.

Kicking off about it gains nothing.

You are literally okay with paedophiles?!??!!!

Christ. It's like talking to a brick wall.

I want to do this illegal thing - Not okay.

I don't want to do this legal thing - Okay."

You are really outrageous. You argued that it's totally okay if they're attracted to little kids.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"You are really outrageous. You argued that it's totally okay if they're attracted to little kids."

I said that if they choose not to fuck adults that's okay. I did not at any point say that acting on the other was acceptable. Just that not fucking someone they're not attracted to is fine.

This isn't about who people fuck. This is about who people don't fuck.

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt


"What does morality have to do with sexualities?

Are you saying bisexual men are morally inferior to bisexual women?

If you press reply+quote it helps us all know who you are speaking to

It's 1am, the fact I can even find the phone is a miracle ??

Thank you for the reminder though."

No problem, you're welcome

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt


"Yes, I think some women are biphobic. I can't see how it's a preference if regardless of anything else you won't go near a bisexual man. It's been discussed many times here.

For some women they don't like the idea of a penis that goes up an anal holes going into their vaginal hole

Just like some men don't like the idea of putting their tongue on a vagina where penises have been.

It's a frame of mind which should be a person's choice if they want to accept that or not as long as they make things fair for others they have sexual encounters with I honestly don't see the issue

That is a ridiculous claim. No woman, unless virgin, has pussies that never were penetrated by other peoples dicks.

And many guys fuck women anal, too. But you don't hear them complain about that then. Besides, what about bisexual men who take it up the arse? Wht about their cocks?

It's not a claim it's happened I have seen a person say and secondly I did not say a woman's vagina hasn't been penetrated by penises

Why you getting a megaphone out for Bi men your not one

Let them speak for themselves

"Just like some men don't like the idea of putting their tongue on a vagina where penises have been." Yes you did.

Your comprehensive skills are slacking

Oral sex is not what every man will do and that is not saying a woman has to be a virgin.

There's men that probably won't want a virgin and if they do and still ain't the type to participate in oral sex, a virgin isn't gonna change that.

Yeah, well, my comprehension skills are on point. You are the one who forgets what she wrote..... Also men not licking pussy hs nothing to do with other penises. And no, virgin is not going ot change that. But I wasn't making a claim, I was just showing you that you are talking bull.

You don't need me to tell you keep believing what you're telling yourself

There's no bull from what I have heard others say

If you have never heard it said that's fine but you can't say no person would say that.

Speak for yourself not others

Some of the bullshit you said:

Men don't lick pussy because they don't like that other penises have penetrated it before.

I said SOME not all

Don't throw the irritation towards me I didn't say it, I have simply re iterated what has been said before

Difference

I didn't say all either. Learn to read?

You may as well say all with how your replying to me.

Same advice your here trying to dish out to others is the same advice you need to follow yourself.

Act your age, we get older in life not younger

"you might as well say all" aha. Now was this you admitting that you didn't read that right?

Because I didn't. So stop putting words into my mouth and read slower, maybe that helps you understand better.

I said what I said, you may have just as well said all

Can't blame a person for telling you how you are making yourself look.

Looks like you're here to argue with every woman you can for whatever reason why.

You're even answering other men's replies from women it's not your place to do that.

Never seen anyone reply for another person like someone isn't capable to speak for themselves.

There's no cheerleader practice here

"you may have just as well said all"

But I didn't. So stop putting words in my mouth."

Speak exactly as you mean then cos your dialogue has been clearly showing you mean all

Don't treat a person like they have no sense because yours lacks

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By *ames250122Man
over a year ago

Worcester


"About 7/10 'straight' guys who message us end up confessing that they're "actually bi, but having bi on your profile limits how many women will talk to you."

Question being, is biphobia really that rampant amongst women? Especially when you consider that about 70% of the women on here seem to be bi themselves.

Or are these guys just chancers, Trying it on to get a foot in the door?

If they're actually being honest and it really is that prevalent, why would you want to be with someone who dislikes a part of who you are? That's sad. "

Tbh I couldn’t say if it’s rampant or not but I have seen it’s still pretty niche with a fair few couples or woman that won’t meet bi guys regardless of whether F is bi or not. It’s does seem to be something that goes against you and I think still a bit misunderstood so being open and honest about being bi as a M isn’t an easy step to take. However I think you hit the nail on the head, why try to impress or get to know someone that wouldn’t like the real you xx

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Not sure if 70% of women on fab are bi, or to what degree biphobia is a thing here (it's a definitely a thing though).

What I will say is that sexuality can be a fluid thing for a lot of people.

Bisexuality as a term is used a lot, but I don't think it's one that will last the ages as it's just too polar. Many people prefer Pan for example. Science seems to be broadening the spectrum and moving away from it to me.

People can be bi for phase in their lives, bi by choice at any one time, be bi circumstantially, be bi implicitly - as in heterosexual or homosexual (I quite like the example of Meghan M sometimes calling herself white as well as the more-accepted black as her mixed race prerogative!) rather than heterosexual AND homosexual. Why do you have to be both together?

Bisexuality itself can come and completely go. Some people get it in phases. Some experiment, some are in two minds. It all happens with this most awkward of labels I'm afraid.

I like to say that being bi doesn't make you more likely to cheat - I think people have plenty of choice if they are actually the cheating type. But do you know what? Some bisexual people will find it a reason to be 'true to themselves' and cheat. Go over to Fabguys and watch married men almost initiate each other with sympathy over it. And though I myself can easily lose my own bisexuality in a relationship (as I can any lust for others), some people can find it a real challenge to deny the pure sexual rush of male sex especially.

The truth is, to varying degrees it all goes.

Why be biphobic?

If nothing connects to the above, I guess bisexuality has been seen as culturally 'weak' in the past.

There was a terrible time around the 70's where bisexual people could be cast out of gay circles for not being 'honest' gays, and straight life for being too gay. Many felt they had nowhere to go and the suicide rates for homosexuality were high enough as it was. Despite becoming such a favoured term in print, various groups of people have always been uncomfortable with it for one reason or another it seems to me. As I say, I don't personally think the term will last forever.

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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago

London | Belfast


"Yes, I think some women are biphobic. I can't see how it's a preference if regardless of anything else you won't go near a bisexual man. It's been discussed many times here.

For some women they don't like the idea of a penis that goes up an anal holes going into their vaginal hole

Just like some men don't like the idea of putting their tongue on a vagina where penises have been.

It's a frame of mind which should be a person's choice if they want to accept that or not as long as they make things fair for others they have sexual encounters with I honestly don't see the issue

That is a ridiculous claim. No woman, unless virgin, has pussies that never were penetrated by other peoples dicks.

And many guys fuck women anal, too. But you don't hear them complain about that then. Besides, what about bisexual men who take it up the arse? Wht about their cocks?

It's not a claim it's happened I have seen a person say and secondly I did not say a woman's vagina hasn't been penetrated by penises

Why you getting a megaphone out for Bi men your not one

Let them speak for themselves

"Just like some men don't like the idea of putting their tongue on a vagina where penises have been." Yes you did.

Your comprehensive skills are slacking

Oral sex is not what every man will do and that is not saying a woman has to be a virgin.

There's men that probably won't want a virgin and if they do and still ain't the type to participate in oral sex, a virgin isn't gonna change that.

Yeah, well, my comprehension skills are on point. You are the one who forgets what she wrote..... Also men not licking pussy hs nothing to do with other penises. And no, virgin is not going ot change that. But I wasn't making a claim, I was just showing you that you are talking bull.

You don't need me to tell you keep believing what you're telling yourself

There's no bull from what I have heard others say

If you have never heard it said that's fine but you can't say no person would say that.

Speak for yourself not others

Some of the bullshit you said:

Men don't lick pussy because they don't like that other penises have penetrated it before.

I said SOME not all

Don't throw the irritation towards me I didn't say it, I have simply re iterated what has been said before

Difference

I didn't say all either. Learn to read?

You may as well say all with how your replying to me.

Same advice your here trying to dish out to others is the same advice you need to follow yourself.

Act your age, we get older in life not younger

"you might as well say all" aha. Now was this you admitting that you didn't read that right?

Because I didn't. So stop putting words into my mouth and read slower, maybe that helps you understand better.

I said what I said, you may have just as well said all

Can't blame a person for telling you how you are making yourself look.

Looks like you're here to argue with every woman you can for whatever reason why.

You're even answering other men's replies from women it's not your place to do that.

Never seen anyone reply for another person like someone isn't capable to speak for themselves.

There's no cheerleader practice here

"you may have just as well said all"

But I didn't. So stop putting words in my mouth.

Speak exactly as you mean then cos your dialogue has been clearly showing you mean all

Don't treat a person like they have no sense because yours lacks "

I still didn't say all.

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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago

London | Belfast


"You are really outrageous. You argued that it's totally okay if they're attracted to little kids.

I said that if they choose not to fuck adults that's okay. I did not at any point say that acting on the other was acceptable. Just that not fucking someone they're not attracted to is fine.

This isn't about who people fuck. This is about who people don't fuck."

Can't take you seriously any more.

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
over a year ago

South West London

I question why some of you people bring up.irrelavant or unnecessary topics, who cares if you like or dislike men who are bi or gay. I don't like men in a sexual way why I don't have sex with them but I Let people live their lives the way they want to as it's not affecting me personally and as long as they're happy

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt


"Yes, I think some women are biphobic. I can't see how it's a preference if regardless of anything else you won't go near a bisexual man. It's been discussed many times here.

For some women they don't like the idea of a penis that goes up an anal holes going into their vaginal hole

Just like some men don't like the idea of putting their tongue on a vagina where penises have been.

It's a frame of mind which should be a person's choice if they want to accept that or not as long as they make things fair for others they have sexual encounters with I honestly don't see the issue

That is a ridiculous claim. No woman, unless virgin, has pussies that never were penetrated by other peoples dicks.

And many guys fuck women anal, too. But you don't hear them complain about that then. Besides, what about bisexual men who take it up the arse? Wht about their cocks?

It's not a claim it's happened I have seen a person say and secondly I did not say a woman's vagina hasn't been penetrated by penises

Why you getting a megaphone out for Bi men your not one

Let them speak for themselves

"Just like some men don't like the idea of putting their tongue on a vagina where penises have been." Yes you did.

Your comprehensive skills are slacking

Oral sex is not what every man will do and that is not saying a woman has to be a virgin.

There's men that probably won't want a virgin and if they do and still ain't the type to participate in oral sex, a virgin isn't gonna change that.

Yeah, well, my comprehension skills are on point. You are the one who forgets what she wrote..... Also men not licking pussy hs nothing to do with other penises. And no, virgin is not going ot change that. But I wasn't making a claim, I was just showing you that you are talking bull.

You don't need me to tell you keep believing what you're telling yourself

There's no bull from what I have heard others say

If you have never heard it said that's fine but you can't say no person would say that.

Speak for yourself not others

Some of the bullshit you said:

Men don't lick pussy because they don't like that other penises have penetrated it before.

I said SOME not all

Don't throw the irritation towards me I didn't say it, I have simply re iterated what has been said before

Difference

I didn't say all either. Learn to read?

You may as well say all with how your replying to me.

Same advice your here trying to dish out to others is the same advice you need to follow yourself.

Act your age, we get older in life not younger

"you might as well say all" aha. Now was this you admitting that you didn't read that right?

Because I didn't. So stop putting words into my mouth and read slower, maybe that helps you understand better.

I said what I said, you may have just as well said all

Can't blame a person for telling you how you are making yourself look.

Looks like you're here to argue with every woman you can for whatever reason why.

You're even answering other men's replies from women it's not your place to do that.

Never seen anyone reply for another person like someone isn't capable to speak for themselves.

There's no cheerleader practice here

"you may have just as well said all"

But I didn't. So stop putting words in my mouth.

Speak exactly as you mean then cos your dialogue has been clearly showing you mean all

Don't treat a person like they have no sense because yours lacks

I still didn't say all."

Now you wanna pipe down, you had a lot of vim earlier.

Your conduct cames across to give a different impression to what you're saying

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt


"I question why some of you people bring up.irrelavant or unnecessary topics, who cares if you like or dislike men who are bi or gay. I don't like men in a sexual way why I don't have sex with them but I Let people live their lives the way they want to as it's not affecting me personally and as long as they're happy"

I think some just fine it therapeutic to try tap on their keyboard LOOOOL

The assumptions and conclusions on here earlier was a lot.

I'm really surprised none of the moderators closed this thread. In my opinion it got out of hand

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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago

London | Belfast


"Yes, I think some women are biphobic. I can't see how it's a preference if regardless of anything else you won't go near a bisexual man. It's been discussed many times here.

For some women they don't like the idea of a penis that goes up an anal holes going into their vaginal hole

Just like some men don't like the idea of putting their tongue on a vagina where penises have been.

It's a frame of mind which should be a person's choice if they want to accept that or not as long as they make things fair for others they have sexual encounters with I honestly don't see the issue

That is a ridiculous claim. No woman, unless virgin, has pussies that never were penetrated by other peoples dicks.

And many guys fuck women anal, too. But you don't hear them complain about that then. Besides, what about bisexual men who take it up the arse? Wht about their cocks?

It's not a claim it's happened I have seen a person say and secondly I did not say a woman's vagina hasn't been penetrated by penises

Why you getting a megaphone out for Bi men your not one

Let them speak for themselves

"Just like some men don't like the idea of putting their tongue on a vagina where penises have been." Yes you did.

Your comprehensive skills are slacking

Oral sex is not what every man will do and that is not saying a woman has to be a virgin.

There's men that probably won't want a virgin and if they do and still ain't the type to participate in oral sex, a virgin isn't gonna change that.

Yeah, well, my comprehension skills are on point. You are the one who forgets what she wrote..... Also men not licking pussy hs nothing to do with other penises. And no, virgin is not going ot change that. But I wasn't making a claim, I was just showing you that you are talking bull.

You don't need me to tell you keep believing what you're telling yourself

There's no bull from what I have heard others say

If you have never heard it said that's fine but you can't say no person would say that.

Speak for yourself not others

Some of the bullshit you said:

Men don't lick pussy because they don't like that other penises have penetrated it before.

I said SOME not all

Don't throw the irritation towards me I didn't say it, I have simply re iterated what has been said before

Difference

I didn't say all either. Learn to read?

You may as well say all with how your replying to me.

Same advice your here trying to dish out to others is the same advice you need to follow yourself.

Act your age, we get older in life not younger

"you might as well say all" aha. Now was this you admitting that you didn't read that right?

Because I didn't. So stop putting words into my mouth and read slower, maybe that helps you understand better.

I said what I said, you may have just as well said all

Can't blame a person for telling you how you are making yourself look.

Looks like you're here to argue with every woman you can for whatever reason why.

You're even answering other men's replies from women it's not your place to do that.

Never seen anyone reply for another person like someone isn't capable to speak for themselves.

There's no cheerleader practice here

"you may have just as well said all"

But I didn't. So stop putting words in my mouth.

Speak exactly as you mean then cos your dialogue has been clearly showing you mean all

Don't treat a person like they have no sense because yours lacks

I still didn't say all.

Now you wanna pipe down, you had a lot of vim earlier.

Your conduct cames across to give a different impression to what you're saying "

I have no clue what a vim is, but I still didn't say all. Just admit you're wrong.

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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago

London | Belfast


"I question why some of you people bring up.irrelavant or unnecessary topics, who cares if you like or dislike men who are bi or gay. I don't like men in a sexual way why I don't have sex with them but I Let people live their lives the way they want to as it's not affecting me personally and as long as they're happy

I think some just fine it therapeutic to try tap on their keyboard LOOOOL

The assumptions and conclusions on here earlier was a lot.

I'm really surprised none of the moderators closed this thread. In my opinion it got out of hand"

Then stop making ridiculous bullshit statements. EZ

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt


"Yes, I think some women are biphobic. I can't see how it's a preference if regardless of anything else you won't go near a bisexual man. It's been discussed many times here.

For some women they don't like the idea of a penis that goes up an anal holes going into their vaginal hole

Just like some men don't like the idea of putting their tongue on a vagina where penises have been.

It's a frame of mind which should be a person's choice if they want to accept that or not as long as they make things fair for others they have sexual encounters with I honestly don't see the issue

That is a ridiculous claim. No woman, unless virgin, has pussies that never were penetrated by other peoples dicks.

And many guys fuck women anal, too. But you don't hear them complain about that then. Besides, what about bisexual men who take it up the arse? Wht about their cocks?

It's not a claim it's happened I have seen a person say and secondly I did not say a woman's vagina hasn't been penetrated by penises

Why you getting a megaphone out for Bi men your not one

Let them speak for themselves

"Just like some men don't like the idea of putting their tongue on a vagina where penises have been." Yes you did.

Your comprehensive skills are slacking

Oral sex is not what every man will do and that is not saying a woman has to be a virgin.

There's men that probably won't want a virgin and if they do and still ain't the type to participate in oral sex, a virgin isn't gonna change that.

Yeah, well, my comprehension skills are on point. You are the one who forgets what she wrote..... Also men not licking pussy hs nothing to do with other penises. And no, virgin is not going ot change that. But I wasn't making a claim, I was just showing you that you are talking bull.

You don't need me to tell you keep believing what you're telling yourself

There's no bull from what I have heard others say

If you have never heard it said that's fine but you can't say no person would say that.

Speak for yourself not others

Some of the bullshit you said:

Men don't lick pussy because they don't like that other penises have penetrated it before.

I said SOME not all

Don't throw the irritation towards me I didn't say it, I have simply re iterated what has been said before

Difference

I didn't say all either. Learn to read?

You may as well say all with how your replying to me.

Same advice your here trying to dish out to others is the same advice you need to follow yourself.

Act your age, we get older in life not younger

"you might as well say all" aha. Now was this you admitting that you didn't read that right?

Because I didn't. So stop putting words into my mouth and read slower, maybe that helps you understand better.

I said what I said, you may have just as well said all

Can't blame a person for telling you how you are making yourself look.

Looks like you're here to argue with every woman you can for whatever reason why.

You're even answering other men's replies from women it's not your place to do that.

Never seen anyone reply for another person like someone isn't capable to speak for themselves.

There's no cheerleader practice here

"you may have just as well said all"

But I didn't. So stop putting words in my mouth.

Speak exactly as you mean then cos your dialogue has been clearly showing you mean all

Don't treat a person like they have no sense because yours lacks

I still didn't say all.

Now you wanna pipe down, you had a lot of vim earlier.

Your conduct cames across to give a different impression to what you're saying

I have no clue what a vim is, but I still didn't say all. Just admit you're wrong."

I said you may as well have said all

That's not saying you did

Do you not know the difference

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt


"I question why some of you people bring up.irrelavant or unnecessary topics, who cares if you like or dislike men who are bi or gay. I don't like men in a sexual way why I don't have sex with them but I Let people live their lives the way they want to as it's not affecting me personally and as long as they're happy

I think some just fine it therapeutic to try tap on their keyboard LOOOOL

The assumptions and conclusions on here earlier was a lot.

I'm really surprised none of the moderators closed this thread. In my opinion it got out of hand

Then stop making ridiculous bullshit statements. EZ "

Again replying to comments not directed at you

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By *londebiguyMan
over a year ago

Southport


"I wouldn't want sex with a bi man

It's not a phobia

Out of interest, why not? Assuming you found the man attractive and had chemistry, what would put you off?"

Exactly.

Plus, if it was not on the profile then you would not know if you had sex with a bi man or not really.

As it appears from the OP, lots ae secretive about it!

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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago

London | Belfast


"I question why some of you people bring up.irrelavant or unnecessary topics, who cares if you like or dislike men who are bi or gay. I don't like men in a sexual way why I don't have sex with them but I Let people live their lives the way they want to as it's not affecting me personally and as long as they're happy

I think some just fine it therapeutic to try tap on their keyboard LOOOOL

The assumptions and conclusions on here earlier was a lot.

I'm really surprised none of the moderators closed this thread. In my opinion it got out of hand

Then stop making ridiculous bullshit statements. EZ

Again replying to comments not directed at you "

You did the same thing, you hypocrite

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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago

London | Belfast


"Yes, I think some women are biphobic. I can't see how it's a preference if regardless of anything else you won't go near a bisexual man. It's been discussed many times here.

For some women they don't like the idea of a penis that goes up an anal holes going into their vaginal hole

Just like some men don't like the idea of putting their tongue on a vagina where penises have been.

It's a frame of mind which should be a person's choice if they want to accept that or not as long as they make things fair for others they have sexual encounters with I honestly don't see the issue

That is a ridiculous claim. No woman, unless virgin, has pussies that never were penetrated by other peoples dicks.

And many guys fuck women anal, too. But you don't hear them complain about that then. Besides, what about bisexual men who take it up the arse? Wht about their cocks?

It's not a claim it's happened I have seen a person say and secondly I did not say a woman's vagina hasn't been penetrated by penises

Why you getting a megaphone out for Bi men your not one

Let them speak for themselves

"Just like some men don't like the idea of putting their tongue on a vagina where penises have been." Yes you did.

Your comprehensive skills are slacking

Oral sex is not what every man will do and that is not saying a woman has to be a virgin.

There's men that probably won't want a virgin and if they do and still ain't the type to participate in oral sex, a virgin isn't gonna change that.

Yeah, well, my comprehension skills are on point. You are the one who forgets what she wrote..... Also men not licking pussy hs nothing to do with other penises. And no, virgin is not going ot change that. But I wasn't making a claim, I was just showing you that you are talking bull.

You don't need me to tell you keep believing what you're telling yourself

There's no bull from what I have heard others say

If you have never heard it said that's fine but you can't say no person would say that.

Speak for yourself not others

Some of the bullshit you said:

Men don't lick pussy because they don't like that other penises have penetrated it before.

I said SOME not all

Don't throw the irritation towards me I didn't say it, I have simply re iterated what has been said before

Difference

I didn't say all either. Learn to read?

You may as well say all with how your replying to me.

Same advice your here trying to dish out to others is the same advice you need to follow yourself.

Act your age, we get older in life not younger

"you might as well say all" aha. Now was this you admitting that you didn't read that right?

Because I didn't. So stop putting words into my mouth and read slower, maybe that helps you understand better.

I said what I said, you may have just as well said all

Can't blame a person for telling you how you are making yourself look.

Looks like you're here to argue with every woman you can for whatever reason why.

You're even answering other men's replies from women it's not your place to do that.

Never seen anyone reply for another person like someone isn't capable to speak for themselves.

There's no cheerleader practice here

"you may have just as well said all"

But I didn't. So stop putting words in my mouth.

Speak exactly as you mean then cos your dialogue has been clearly showing you mean all

Don't treat a person like they have no sense because yours lacks

I still didn't say all.

Now you wanna pipe down, you had a lot of vim earlier.

Your conduct cames across to give a different impression to what you're saying

I have no clue what a vim is, but I still didn't say all. Just admit you're wrong.

I said you may as well have said all

That's not saying you did

Do you not know the difference "

I know the difference. Do you know the difference between "Actually saying something" and "May as well have said it"? Let me explain it very simple to you:

May as well have said it is complete bullshit and irrelevant.

I never said it, so stop pretending like I did. And just admit that you're wrong, while you're at it.

You just brought up bogus reasons to justify biphobia and both your arguments were complete bull, one more than the other.

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt


"I question why some of you people bring up.irrelavant or unnecessary topics, who cares if you like or dislike men who are bi or gay. I don't like men in a sexual way why I don't have sex with them but I Let people live their lives the way they want to as it's not affecting me personally and as long as they're happy

I think some just fine it therapeutic to try tap on their keyboard LOOOOL

The assumptions and conclusions on here earlier was a lot.

I'm really surprised none of the moderators closed this thread. In my opinion it got out of hand

Then stop making ridiculous bullshit statements. EZ

Again replying to comments not directed at you

You did the same thing, you hypocrite "

Hypocrite?

I ain't been defending others like they can't speak for themselves like some cheerleader.

It's after 3 in the morning and all you do is try argue on the internet

How productive

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
over a year ago

Tamworth

I'd say it's a preference that some bi males choose to represent themselves as straight tbh. Not all bi men are comfortable with ousting themselves, some may never do so. It's not on anyone else to decide when they should do.

Is it really anyone else's business? I don't know.

For the women though, it may seem like 70% are bi women. It's bet it being lower, far too many bi "for the lads" women which is a shame

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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago

London | Belfast


"I question why some of you people bring up.irrelavant or unnecessary topics, who cares if you like or dislike men who are bi or gay. I don't like men in a sexual way why I don't have sex with them but I Let people live their lives the way they want to as it's not affecting me personally and as long as they're happy

I think some just fine it therapeutic to try tap on their keyboard LOOOOL

The assumptions and conclusions on here earlier was a lot.

I'm really surprised none of the moderators closed this thread. In my opinion it got out of hand

Then stop making ridiculous bullshit statements. EZ

Again replying to comments not directed at you

You did the same thing, you hypocrite

Hypocrite?

I ain't been defending others like they can't speak for themselves like some cheerleader.

It's after 3 in the morning and all you do is try argue on the internet

How productive "

I am literally working on the side, what are you doin?

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt


"Yes, I think some women are biphobic. I can't see how it's a preference if regardless of anything else you won't go near a bisexual man. It's been discussed many times here.

For some women they don't like the idea of a penis that goes up an anal holes going into their vaginal hole

Just like some men don't like the idea of putting their tongue on a vagina where penises have been.

It's a frame of mind which should be a person's choice if they want to accept that or not as long as they make things fair for others they have sexual encounters with I honestly don't see the issue

That is a ridiculous claim. No woman, unless virgin, has pussies that never were penetrated by other peoples dicks.

And many guys fuck women anal, too. But you don't hear them complain about that then. Besides, what about bisexual men who take it up the arse? Wht about their cocks?

It's not a claim it's happened I have seen a person say and secondly I did not say a woman's vagina hasn't been penetrated by penises

Why you getting a megaphone out for Bi men your not one

Let them speak for themselves

"Just like some men don't like the idea of putting their tongue on a vagina where penises have been." Yes you did.

Your comprehensive skills are slacking

Oral sex is not what every man will do and that is not saying a woman has to be a virgin.

There's men that probably won't want a virgin and if they do and still ain't the type to participate in oral sex, a virgin isn't gonna change that.

Yeah, well, my comprehension skills are on point. You are the one who forgets what she wrote..... Also men not licking pussy hs nothing to do with other penises. And no, virgin is not going ot change that. But I wasn't making a claim, I was just showing you that you are talking bull.

You don't need me to tell you keep believing what you're telling yourself

There's no bull from what I have heard others say

If you have never heard it said that's fine but you can't say no person would say that.

Speak for yourself not others

Some of the bullshit you said:

Men don't lick pussy because they don't like that other penises have penetrated it before.

I said SOME not all

Don't throw the irritation towards me I didn't say it, I have simply re iterated what has been said before

Difference

I didn't say all either. Learn to read?

You may as well say all with how your replying to me.

Same advice your here trying to dish out to others is the same advice you need to follow yourself.

Act your age, we get older in life not younger

"you might as well say all" aha. Now was this you admitting that you didn't read that right?

Because I didn't. So stop putting words into my mouth and read slower, maybe that helps you understand better.

I said what I said, you may have just as well said all

Can't blame a person for telling you how you are making yourself look.

Looks like you're here to argue with every woman you can for whatever reason why.

You're even answering other men's replies from women it's not your place to do that.

Never seen anyone reply for another person like someone isn't capable to speak for themselves.

There's no cheerleader practice here

"you may have just as well said all"

But I didn't. So stop putting words in my mouth.

Speak exactly as you mean then cos your dialogue has been clearly showing you mean all

Don't treat a person like they have no sense because yours lacks

I still didn't say all.

Now you wanna pipe down, you had a lot of vim earlier.

Your conduct cames across to give a different impression to what you're saying

I have no clue what a vim is, but I still didn't say all. Just admit you're wrong.

I said you may as well have said all

That's not saying you did

Do you not know the difference

I know the difference. Do you know the difference between "Actually saying something" and "May as well have said it"? Let me explain it very simple to you:

May as well have said it is complete bullshit and irrelevant.

I never said it, so stop pretending like I did. And just admit that you're wrong, while you're at it.

You just brought up bogus reasons to justify biphobia and both your arguments were complete bull, one more than the other."

Your language is used very loosely towards others

I really couldn't care less for your tired explanations. Don't expect a person to give you any of their time when you give no respect

You'll be better off with a board and white chalk write down it for yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't mind bi men and my other half can be orally bi ,with the right couple.

I've seen a fair few profiles say no bi men ,so yes it does happen .

Bi women are encouraged and it's expected that women on fab are bi,but that's because two women playing is many man's fantasy.

So yes men hide being bi,so they don't lose meets."

Wait, men get meets from this web site?

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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago

London | Belfast


"I don't mind bi men and my other half can be orally bi ,with the right couple.

I've seen a fair few profiles say no bi men ,so yes it does happen .

Bi women are encouraged and it's expected that women on fab are bi,but that's because two women playing is many man's fantasy.

So yes men hide being bi,so they don't lose meets.

Wait, men get meets from this web site?"

Unconfirmed rumours

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

A Phobia is a FEAR not a hate.

Women who don't want sex with a p'bi' male neither hate nor fear them. It will be different for each person that doesn't want sex with a 'bi' male but I am sure that the reason is very much tied into their own sexual thoughts, desires and behaviours.

It is far more psychological than it is physical. e.g if a man didn't reveal he was bi then the woman that fancied him would know no better and have sex with him.

I do not knowingly have sex with bi males but in the event of it happening it doesn't freak me out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, I think some women are biphobic. I can't see how it's a preference if regardless of anything else you won't go near a bisexual man. It's been discussed many times here.

For some women they don't like the idea of a penis that goes up an anal holes going into their vaginal hole

Just like some men don't like the idea of putting their tongue on a vagina where penises have been.

It's a frame of mind which should be a person's choice if they want to accept that or not as long as they make things fair for others they have sexual encounters with I honestly don't see the issue

That is a ridiculous claim. No woman, unless virgin, has pussies that never were penetrated by other peoples dicks.

And many guys fuck women anal, too. But you don't hear them complain about that then. Besides, what about bisexual men who take it up the arse? Wht about their cocks?

It's not a claim it's happened I have seen a person say and secondly I did not say a woman's vagina hasn't been penetrated by penises

Why you getting a megaphone out for Bi men your not one

Let them speak for themselves

"Just like some men don't like the idea of putting their tongue on a vagina where penises have been." Yes you did.

Your comprehensive skills are slacking

Oral sex is not what every man will do and that is not saying a woman has to be a virgin.

There's men that probably won't want a virgin and if they do and still ain't the type to participate in oral sex, a virgin isn't gonna change that.

Yeah, well, my comprehension skills are on point. You are the one who forgets what she wrote..... Also men not licking pussy hs nothing to do with other penises. And no, virgin is not going ot change that. But I wasn't making a claim, I was just showing you that you are talking bull.

You don't need me to tell you keep believing what you're telling yourself

There's no bull from what I have heard others say

If you have never heard it said that's fine but you can't say no person would say that.

Speak for yourself not others

Some of the bullshit you said:

Men don't lick pussy because they don't like that other penises have penetrated it before.

I said SOME not all

Don't throw the irritation towards me I didn't say it, I have simply re iterated what has been said before

Difference

I didn't say all either. Learn to read?

You may as well say all with how your replying to me.

Same advice your here trying to dish out to others is the same advice you need to follow yourself.

Act your age, we get older in life not younger

"you might as well say all" aha. Now was this you admitting that you didn't read that right?

Because I didn't. So stop putting words into my mouth and read slower, maybe that helps you understand better.

I said what I said, you may have just as well said all

Can't blame a person for telling you how you are making yourself look.

Looks like you're here to argue with every woman you can for whatever reason why.

You're even answering other men's replies from women it's not your place to do that.

Never seen anyone reply for another person like someone isn't capable to speak for themselves.

There's no cheerleader practice here

"you may have just as well said all"

But I didn't. So stop putting words in my mouth.

Speak exactly as you mean then cos your dialogue has been clearly showing you mean all

Don't treat a person like they have no sense because yours lacks

I still didn't say all.

Now you wanna pipe down, you had a lot of vim earlier.

Your conduct cames across to give a different impression to what you're saying

I have no clue what a vim is, but I still didn't say all. Just admit you're wrong.

I said you may as well have said all

That's not saying you did

Do you not know the difference

I know the difference. Do you know the difference between "Actually saying something" and "May as well have said it"? Let me explain it very simple to you:

May as well have said it is complete bullshit and irrelevant.

I never said it, so stop pretending like I did. And just admit that you're wrong, while you're at it.

You just brought up bogus reasons to justify biphobia and both your arguments were complete bull, one more than the other.

Your language is used very loosely towards others

I really couldn't care less for your tired explanations. Don't expect a person to give you any of their time when you give no respect

You'll be better off with a board and white chalk write down it for yourself

You're the one who made a stupid claim. I just keep telling you, and you keep ignoring that, you are wrong.

Men's reason to not lick pussy have nothing to do with other penisses before. And women not liking bisexual men has nothing to do with where their penises were before, because if it were about anal sex before, they would say THAT, because you can have anal sex with women, too. But they don't, because it's something about men with other men, and not about anal sex.

I also mentioned that not all bisexual men are the ones who stick their penis in, some bisexual men are the one who take it up the arse, so what is the argument then? Because you said it's about women not liking bisexual men because they don't want to get penetrated by penis that penetrated butts before. Those bottom men GOT fucked in the arse, their penis never was inside a man's arse.

Your logic is not only bullshit, but also heavily flawed. Maybe you need the chalkboard to finally figure that out. Jfc. You are thicker than oatmeal."

See the way you’re acting is like a little boy who isn’t getting his own way. You are very rude and across across as aggressive. Respect other people’s views or shouldn’t come on the forums if you’re not adult enough to discuss things with more maturity

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By *immyinreadingMan
over a year ago

henley on thames

A phobia is a fear.

If someone doesn’t want to meet bi men, surely that is a personal preference rather than a fear?

If someone said they want to meet tall men, does that mean they are afraid of small men?

The “phobia” term is massively overused

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I'm pan sexual.

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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago

London | Belfast


"Yes, I think some women are biphobic. I can't see how it's a preference if regardless of anything else you won't go near a bisexual man. It's been discussed many times here.

For some women they don't like the idea of a penis that goes up an anal holes going into their vaginal hole

Just like some men don't like the idea of putting their tongue on a vagina where penises have been.

It's a frame of mind which should be a person's choice if they want to accept that or not as long as they make things fair for others they have sexual encounters with I honestly don't see the issue

That is a ridiculous claim. No woman, unless virgin, has pussies that never were penetrated by other peoples dicks.

And many guys fuck women anal, too. But you don't hear them complain about that then. Besides, what about bisexual men who take it up the arse? Wht about their cocks?

It's not a claim it's happened I have seen a person say and secondly I did not say a woman's vagina hasn't been penetrated by penises

Why you getting a megaphone out for Bi men your not one

Let them speak for themselves

"Just like some men don't like the idea of putting their tongue on a vagina where penises have been." Yes you did.

Your comprehensive skills are slacking

Oral sex is not what every man will do and that is not saying a woman has to be a virgin.

There's men that probably won't want a virgin and if they do and still ain't the type to participate in oral sex, a virgin isn't gonna change that.

Yeah, well, my comprehension skills are on point. You are the one who forgets what she wrote..... Also men not licking pussy hs nothing to do with other penises. And no, virgin is not going ot change that. But I wasn't making a claim, I was just showing you that you are talking bull.

You don't need me to tell you keep believing what you're telling yourself

There's no bull from what I have heard others say

If you have never heard it said that's fine but you can't say no person would say that.

Speak for yourself not others

Some of the bullshit you said:

Men don't lick pussy because they don't like that other penises have penetrated it before.

I said SOME not all

Don't throw the irritation towards me I didn't say it, I have simply re iterated what has been said before

Difference

I didn't say all either. Learn to read?

You may as well say all with how your replying to me.

Same advice your here trying to dish out to others is the same advice you need to follow yourself.

Act your age, we get older in life not younger

"you might as well say all" aha. Now was this you admitting that you didn't read that right?

Because I didn't. So stop putting words into my mouth and read slower, maybe that helps you understand better.

I said what I said, you may have just as well said all

Can't blame a person for telling you how you are making yourself look.

Looks like you're here to argue with every woman you can for whatever reason why.

You're even answering other men's replies from women it's not your place to do that.

Never seen anyone reply for another person like someone isn't capable to speak for themselves.

There's no cheerleader practice here

"you may have just as well said all"

But I didn't. So stop putting words in my mouth.

Speak exactly as you mean then cos your dialogue has been clearly showing you mean all

Don't treat a person like they have no sense because yours lacks

I still didn't say all.

Now you wanna pipe down, you had a lot of vim earlier.

Your conduct cames across to give a different impression to what you're saying

I have no clue what a vim is, but I still didn't say all. Just admit you're wrong.

I said you may as well have said all

That's not saying you did

Do you not know the difference

I know the difference. Do you know the difference between "Actually saying something" and "May as well have said it"? Let me explain it very simple to you:

May as well have said it is complete bullshit and irrelevant.

I never said it, so stop pretending like I did. And just admit that you're wrong, while you're at it.

You just brought up bogus reasons to justify biphobia and both your arguments were complete bull, one more than the other.

Your language is used very loosely towards others

I really couldn't care less for your tired explanations. Don't expect a person to give you any of their time when you give no respect

You'll be better off with a board and white chalk write down it for yourself

You're the one who made a stupid claim. I just keep telling you, and you keep ignoring that, you are wrong.

Men's reason to not lick pussy have nothing to do with other penisses before. And women not liking bisexual men has nothing to do with where their penises were before, because if it were about anal sex before, they would say THAT, because you can have anal sex with women, too. But they don't, because it's something about men with other men, and not about anal sex.

I also mentioned that not all bisexual men are the ones who stick their penis in, some bisexual men are the one who take it up the arse, so what is the argument then? Because you said it's about women not liking bisexual men because they don't want to get penetrated by penis that penetrated butts before. Those bottom men GOT fucked in the arse, their penis never was inside a man's arse.

Your logic is not only bullshit, but also heavily flawed. Maybe you need the chalkboard to finally figure that out. Jfc. You are thicker than oatmeal.

See the way you’re acting is like a little boy who isn’t getting his own way. You are very rude and across across as aggressive. Respect other people’s views or shouldn’t come on the forums if you’re not adult enough to discuss things with more maturity "

I am rude? That woman has 0 understanding of anything she or I said. She mde completely wild claims and doesn't even seem to understand what I say back to her. She didn't even understand basic latin like bi or homo.

Just because I swear, doesn't mean I am rude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"About 7/10 'straight' guys who message us end up confessing that they're "actually bi, but having bi on your profile limits how many women will talk to you."

Question being, is biphobia really that rampant amongst women? Especially when you consider that about 70% of the women on here seem to be bi themselves.

Or are these guys just chancers, Trying it on to get a foot in the door?

If they're actually being honest and it really is that prevalent, why would you want to be with someone who dislikes a part of who you are? That's sad. "

It’s not a ‘phobia’ to just not like the idea of something. I doubt very much that women are actually sh17 scared of someone because the like a wee bit boabie play. Really wish folk would stop adding phobia to everything that disagrees with a view.

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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago

London | Belfast


"About 7/10 'straight' guys who message us end up confessing that they're "actually bi, but having bi on your profile limits how many women will talk to you."

Question being, is biphobia really that rampant amongst women? Especially when you consider that about 70% of the women on here seem to be bi themselves.

Or are these guys just chancers, Trying it on to get a foot in the door?

If they're actually being honest and it really is that prevalent, why would you want to be with someone who dislikes a part of who you are? That's sad.

It’s not a ‘phobia’ to just not like the idea of something. I doubt very much that women are actually sh17 scared of someone because the like a wee bit boabie play. Really wish folk would stop adding phobia to everything that disagrees with a view. "

Okay, but bisexuality is not a "view"?

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By *immyinreadingMan
over a year ago

henley on thames


"About 7/10 'straight' guys who message us end up confessing that they're "actually bi, but having bi on your profile limits how many women will talk to you."

Question being, is biphobia really that rampant amongst women? Especially when you consider that about 70% of the women on here seem to be bi themselves.

Or are these guys just chancers, Trying it on to get a foot in the door?

If they're actually being honest and it really is that prevalent, why would you want to be with someone who dislikes a part of who you are? That's sad.

It’s not a ‘phobia’ to just not like the idea of something. I doubt very much that women are actually sh17 scared of someone because the like a wee bit boabie play. Really wish folk would stop adding phobia to everything that disagrees with a view. "

Completely agree re the use of the term “phobia”. It seems to have lost its real meaning.

Def: “ an extreme or irrational fear of or aversion to something”.

Someone saying they prefer tall men doesn’t mean they have an extreme irrational fear of or aversion to short men.

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By *unchalMan
over a year ago

Dartford


"A former boss of mine pulled me into the centre of a sales floor. In front of over 70 colleagues he told me that as “a gay” I “should be gassed”.

A friend arranged a meet which turned out to be a gay bashing gang ambush, he escaped with injuries to his body and face.

I was spat on in the street for being a “fucking queer”. I needed a tetanus shot.

That’s homophobia.

A straight man not wanting to fuck me is not homophobia. "

I'm not sure anyone suggested that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A Phobia is a FEAR not a hate.

Women who don't want sex with a p'bi' male neither hate nor fear them. It will be different for each person that doesn't want sex with a 'bi' male but I am sure that the reason is very much tied into their own sexual thoughts, desires and behaviours.

It is far more psychological than it is physical. e.g if a man didn't reveal he was bi then the woman that fancied him would know no better and have sex with him.

I do not knowingly have sex with bi males but in the event of it happening it doesn't freak me out.

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By *oopy Lou 666Woman
over a year ago

Heaven.....………. I came down from Heaven


"About 7/10 'straight' guys who message us end up confessing that they're "actually bi, but having bi on your profile limits how many women will talk to you."

Question being, is biphobia really that rampant amongst women? Especially when you consider that about 70% of the women on here seem to be bi themselves.

Or are these guys just chancers, Trying it on to get a foot in the door?

If they're actually being honest and it really is that prevalent, why would you want to be with someone who dislikes a part of who you are? That's sad. "

To me it seems that a man (bi) doesn’t care as to what sort of hole he wants to put it in …. As long as it has one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"About 7/10 'straight' guys who message us end up confessing that they're "actually bi, but having bi on your profile limits how many women will talk to you."

Question being, is biphobia really that rampant amongst women? Especially when you consider that about 70% of the women on here seem to be bi themselves.

Or are these guys just chancers, Trying it on to get a foot in the door?

If they're actually being honest and it really is that prevalent, why would you want to be with someone who dislikes a part of who you are? That's sad.

It’s not a ‘phobia’ to just not like the idea of something. I doubt very much that women are actually sh17 scared of someone because the like a wee bit boabie play. Really wish folk would stop adding phobia to everything that disagrees with a view. "

Shit scared, Wee bit boabie play, classic

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By *unchalMan
over a year ago

Dartford


"Yeah can we stop with the phobic stuff

At this rate a straight person is gonna be homophobic, biphobic and transphobic just for existing

It’s just a preference "

It's not a preference, it's something else because being bi has no outward signs, the woman is not being asked to do anything that is about that man's bi-ness. I would reserve the term phobia for the most obvious and terrible things that come from fear. It really makes no difference to me but the blanket no bi-men rule doesn't sit well with the professed superior tik tok attitudes of some of the women who police this forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As someone said previously why would you care about someone who has no interest in that part of you. To me it would be a waste of time and energy.

Let people make their own choices. My body my choice who I sleep with. No one is ever going to change that or make me feel wrong for my preferences. Instead of all this rubbish that’s being thrown out as to why a women or couple won’t sleep with a bi man find the plenty on here that will.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry then, but you absolutely sounded different before, as if you said "I am not attracted to bisexual men, so it's okay to not fuck them based solely on that."

So glad you are not saying that.

If I strongly disagree with someone's morality, I don't have to fuck them.

Some people have some very unfortunate views about bisexual men, but as long as they're up front and polite about it, they can choose not to have sex with someone they're not attracted to for whatever reason.

Personally I would choose not to have sex with people who held those views, but those who do are likely incompatible with me on a great many levels already.

I just don't understand what this has to do with bisexual men? No one wants to fuck bigots, so that is sort of given. Hence the misunderstanding earlier.

But why don't you want to fuck bigots?

Is that not then bigotist?"

Bigotphobic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah can we stop with the phobic stuff

At this rate a straight person is gonna be homophobic, biphobic and transphobic just for existing

It’s just a preference

It's not a preference, it's something else because being bi has no outward signs, the woman is not being asked to do anything that is about that man's bi-ness. I would reserve the term phobia for the most obvious and terrible things that come from fear. It really makes no difference to me but the blanket no bi-men rule doesn't sit well with the professed superior tik tok attitudes of some of the women who police this forum. "

This made me laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As someone said previously why would you care about someone who has no interest in that part of you. To me it would be a waste of time and energy.

Let people make their own choices. My body my choice who I sleep with. No one is ever going to change that or make me feel wrong for my preferences. Instead of all this rubbish that’s being thrown out as to why a women or couple won’t sleep with a bi man find the plenty on here that will.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let’s be honest though ladies

You don’t like sleeping with bi guys? Sure, your choice

But you have, you just don’t know it because the lads are crafty

Plenty of “straight” guys, boyfriends and husbands out there, I know all about them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Let’s be honest though ladies

You don’t like sleeping with bi guys? Sure, your choice

But you have, you just don’t know it because the lads are crafty

Plenty of “straight” guys, boyfriends and husbands out there, I know all about them "

These type of comments make me laugh.

So bisexual men are untrustworthy individuals who will lie about who they fuck and even cheat on their female partners with other men.

That's so attractive!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Let’s be honest though ladies

You don’t like sleeping with bi guys? Sure, your choice

But you have, you just don’t know it because the lads are crafty

Plenty of “straight” guys, boyfriends and husbands out there, I know all about them

These type of comments make me laugh.

So bisexual men are untrustworthy individuals who will lie about who they fuck and even cheat on their female partners with other men.

That's so attractive!! "

Men are. People lie. We all lie

It’s a hard lie to catch being my point

I don’t think a woman that likes tall guys has ever accidentally slept with a short guy and not realised

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Let’s be honest though ladies

You don’t like sleeping with bi guys? Sure, your choice

But you have, you just don’t know it because the lads are crafty

Plenty of “straight” guys, boyfriends and husbands out there, I know all about them "

We know how crafty guys are trust me, we know I actually used to swing with a bi guy on here back in the day - liked him, certainly didn’t like his duplicitous ways which seemed to be inherent in his type hence my current preference

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

So just to get this clear:

Some men lie about being straight so they don't put anyone off.

Some men lie about being bi to get access to the women in couples.

It's a fucking minefield

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By *oopy Lou 666Woman
over a year ago

Heaven.....………. I came down from Heaven

To me it seems that a man (bi) doesn’t care as to what sort of hole he wants to put it in …. As long as it has one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To me it seems that a man (bi) doesn’t care as to what sort of hole he wants to put it in …. As long as it has one"

Yes but don't let that put you off fucking them, because then you are a phobic discriminatory bigot.

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By *unchalMan
over a year ago

Dartford


"To me it seems that a man (bi) doesn’t care as to what sort of hole he wants to put it in …. As long as it has one"

Wow!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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To me it seems that a man (bi) doesn’t care as to what sort of hole he wants to put it in …. As long as it has one"

Wow! So we’re just here to screw anything? What about women who are bi or is it only men who you see that lack morals?

Here’s a a shocker for you. There are many of either sex that I wouldn’t sleep with, because I don’t fancy them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To me it seems that a man (bi) doesn’t care as to what sort of hole he wants to put it in …. As long as it has one"

You’re so proud of that comment, you put it twice?

Yeah, as a bi man, your holes would be of zero interest to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To me it seems that a man (bi) doesn’t care as to what sort of hole he wants to put it in …. As long as it has one

Yes but don't let that put you off fucking them, because then you are a phobic discriminatory bigot. "

And you support that view?

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

If I don’t want to have sex with someone for whatever reason I won’t have sex with them. People can call me whatever the hell they like.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

On two occasions, bi guys who said they could play straight showed that they couldn't, my experiences with much younger guys have been disappointing and I dont enjoy kissing men with beards so I avoid these situations. Does this make me phobic if I choose to avoid these types of men...no...it means I will choose men and situations that I enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On two occasions, bi guys who said they could play straight showed that they couldn't, my experiences with much younger guys have been disappointing and I dont enjoy kissing men with beards so I avoid these situations. Does this make me phobic if I choose to avoid these types of men...no...it means I will choose men and situations that I enjoy."

Beardphobic actually and you could be committing a hate crime by not kissing bearded men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More labels and faux outrage?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m going to throw something in the mix.

I’ve met many men, who wouldn’t sleep with women who have have slept with a black man. How would you view these men?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I don’t want to have sex with someone for whatever reason I won’t have sex with them. People can call me whatever the hell they like. "

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante


"I’m going to throw something in the mix.

I’ve met many men, who wouldn’t sleep with women who have have slept with a black man. How would you view these men?"

I wouldn't view them as anything because people make their own choices for their own reasons.

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By *hief_Of_AlwaysMan
over a year ago

London or Bedford

Racist - But theirs nothing wrong with being racist.

In a free & tolerant society, we have to live with people that share opposing points of view.

SEXUALITY IS NOT A POINT OF VIEW.

Hell, theirs lots of women who wouldn’t wanna sleep with my black ass. But I don’t hold it against them.

I personally won’t take anything below an Ecup

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m going to throw something in the mix.

I’ve met many men, who wouldn’t sleep with women who have have slept with a black man. How would you view these men?"

Silly?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m going to throw something in the mix.

I’ve met many men, who wouldn’t sleep with women who have have slept with a black man. How would you view these men?"

Depends really. Could be racism, could be a valid concern for their own feelings. We wouldn’t know without knowing the person

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

I do love how these threads really show us the true nature of some, and they can't help but shoe, their trues values and beliefs.

So what if a man I'd bi, and so what if that turns a women of him, cum se cum sa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Racist - But theirs nothing wrong with being racist.

In a free & tolerant society, we have to live with people that share opposing points of view.

SEXUALITY IS NOT A POINT OF VIEW.

Hell, theirs lots of women who wouldn’t wanna sleep with my black ass. But I don’t hold it against them.

I personally won’t take anything below an Ecup "

Below as in smaller or bigger boobs? (Just so I know which phobia you have )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To me it seems that a man (bi) doesn’t care as to what sort of hole he wants to put it in …. As long as it has one"

To me that seems a VERY derogatory remark about bisexual men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m going to throw something in the mix.

I’ve met many men, who wouldn’t sleep with women who have have slept with a black man. How would you view these men?"

I'd view them as mental. What the hell?

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