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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Public Service Announcement:

- If you are on here without your other half knowing, and meeting without her blessing, it’s not swinging it’s just cheating

- If you tell a woman you are single, or pretend to be single, when you are not, it’s not flirting it’s lying

- If you purposely mishold information or lie to someone about something they wouldn’t consent to or have been clear they are not interested in just to have sex (like being married, sexual orientation, age) it’s not being cheeky it’s lying.

- If you plan to meet and repeatedly cancel at the last minute, it’s not ‘having a life away from Fab’ it’s messing people around and wasting time

- If you send photos that are years and years old with your messages, then look totally different on your WhatsApp profile pic, it’s not ‘sharing flattering pics’, it’s catfishing

- If you persistently refuse to stop messaging when someone says they are not interested, or get abusive, it’s not ‘being determined’ it’s harassment.

For me, swinging is all about respect and consent. If I can’t trust you to be honest with me when we chat I sure as hell am not going to trust having you in my house, my bed and my vagina!!

Sorry for the rant, but THIS is why ladies on here who actually wants to meet guys don’t. Because we have to put up with this bullshit day in and day out.

Thank you for listening to my Ted talk ladies and gents

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Remember, kids. Don't lie, always try.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tl;dr

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Are you ranting on behalf of all ladies?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None of intended target audience for this, will be reading it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting that you’ve gendered the first two bullet points .. it’s almost as if the site isn’t full of attached women cheating on their husbands or partners.

*NEWSFLASH* it jolly well is y’know, trust me!

Other than that, good effort.

6/10

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are you ranting on behalf of all ladies?"

Honest to god, all the men posting on here complaining about not getting meets. Because they don’t treat the ladies on here like real people with lives and feelings.

I like to think i’m a nice and genuine person. My profile clearly says what I like and not, I share up to date pics, I’m chatty, I’m polite. After not meeting for a while I’ve tried to find someone I click with and arrange a meet the last week and all I’ve had in return is bullshit.

Not a happy bunny this morning!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"None of intended target audience for this, will be reading it. "

Yeah I know. Sorry. Had to get it off my chest!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Interesting that you’ve gendered the first two bullet points .. it’s almost as if the site isn’t full of attached women cheating on their husbands or partners.

*NEWSFLASH* it jolly well is y’know, trust me!

Other than that, good effort.

6/10 "

Sorry yes - I should be an equal opportunity venter! Only that I’ve been chatting to 99% men so my rent is aimed at that.

However, mainly chatting to me because the ‘women’ profiles on here are often men pretending to be women so I gave up on that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unless you're hot, in that case, hey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chussssssssssssssssss

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I thought this was gonna be about power space and access…..

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By *ister1Man
over a year ago

north west

Always tell the truth,but It’s not just men in here who at it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I might get lynched for this but if you're not finding what you want and you're having your time wasted, maybe you have to look at how you're picking people, what you're doing when you start chatting in order to establish if they are compatible

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By *weet and SpiceCouple
over a year ago

Around the Midlands


"I thought this was gonna be about power space and access….. "

or Personal Space Accessible

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"Interesting that you’ve gendered the first two bullet points .. it’s almost as if the site isn’t full of attached women cheating on their husbands or partners.

*NEWSFLASH* it jolly well is y’know, trust me!

Other than that, good effort.

6/10 "

Indeed it is, but they are so easy to spot, why can’t women spot guys that cheat? I’ve no idea, just give them random calls at tea time asking them what they having for tea (dinner)

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By *heelerMan
over a year ago

Northants


"None of intended target audience for this, will be reading it.

Yeah I know. Sorry. Had to get it off my chest!"

And a lovely chest too

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

That's the problem with thinking you can join a site, looking for sex, and think it will be easy, because you're a woman.

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands


"Are you ranting on behalf of all ladies?"

Only the ones who aren't cheating. The others are as bad as all men on here

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

I thought this was the PSL - Pumpkin Spice latte Alternative thread (PSA).

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan
over a year ago

Norwich

I thought this was going to be a thread about prostate glands.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

It can be really frustrating op ,I get why you wanted a rant .

People (men ,women and couples) will lie for sex.Tricking others to get sex isn't on,you've taken away their choice.

Whether it be saying you're single ,changing your age or saying you don't smoke etc .

If you've lied or omitted something you know would change their decision to meet,you've been deceptive.

In an ideal world people would be upfront and give any potential meets chance to make an informed choice .

If I catch anyone in a lie ,I cut them straight off nowadays.

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Public Service Announcement:

- If you are on here without your other half knowing, and meeting without her blessing, it’s not swinging it’s just cheating

- If you tell a woman you are single, or pretend to be single, when you are not, it’s not flirting it’s lying

- If you purposely mishold information or lie to someone about something they wouldn’t consent to or have been clear they are not interested in just to have sex (like being married, sexual orientation, age) it’s not being cheeky it’s lying.

- If you plan to meet and repeatedly cancel at the last minute, it’s not ‘having a life away from Fab’ it’s messing people around and wasting time

- If you send photos that are years and years old with your messages, then look totally different on your WhatsApp profile pic, it’s not ‘sharing flattering pics’, it’s catfishing

- If you persistently refuse to stop messaging when someone says they are not interested, or get abusive, it’s not ‘being determined’ it’s harassment.

For me, swinging is all about respect and consent. If I can’t trust you to be honest with me when we chat I sure as hell am not going to trust having you in my house, my bed and my vagina!!

Sorry for the rant, but THIS is why ladies on here who actually wants to meet guys don’t. Because we have to put up with this bullshit day in and day out.

Thank you for listening to my Ted talk ladies and gents "
Thank you it needed to be said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you fancy wonko you need to seak madical treatment imediately

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

That told em

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Public Service Announcement:

- If you are on here without your other half knowing, and meeting without her blessing, it’s not swinging it’s just cheating

- If you tell a woman you are single, or pretend to be single, when you are not, it’s not flirting it’s lying

- If you purposely mishold information or lie to someone about something they wouldn’t consent to or have been clear they are not interested in just to have sex (like being married, sexual orientation, age) it’s not being cheeky it’s lying.

- If you plan to meet and repeatedly cancel at the last minute, it’s not ‘having a life away from Fab’ it’s messing people around and wasting time

- If you send photos that are years and years old with your messages, then look totally different on your WhatsApp profile pic, it’s not ‘sharing flattering pics’, it’s catfishing

- If you persistently refuse to stop messaging when someone says they are not interested, or get abusive, it’s not ‘being determined’ it’s harassment.

For me, swinging is all about respect and consent. If I can’t trust you to be honest with me when we chat I sure as hell am not going to trust having you in my house, my bed and my vagina!!

Sorry for the rant, but THIS is why ladies on here who actually wants to meet guys don’t. Because we have to put up with this bullshit day in and day out.

Thank you for listening to my Ted talk ladies and gents "

Perfectly said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought this was gonna be about power space and access…..

or Personal Space Accessible "

or Professional Squash Association

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By *usie pTV/TS
over a year ago

taunton

PSA I thought the OP was doing some sort of test on her mans protrate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ain’t no way people don’t know what PSA means

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