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"I live on that feedback loop. The way I do things varies depending on their reactions. Not everyone likes the things I particularly enjoy. I've met people who prefer that sterile non drooly kind of blowjob and adhered at the time but not bothered seeing them again as it's a big incompatibility for me. If someone tells me I'm doing something wrong, I'd be annoyed. If someone guides me to what they like or makes a suggestion of doing something differently, I'm happy to give it a try " That feedback loop is sexy. I chase reactions. I get nervous when they go quiet. I'd rather that they said I wasn't hitting the spot rather than nothing | |||
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"Some of my best encounters have been on the back of unbridled communication in the bedroom; gentle coaxing and the orchestration between us on what we want, need and desire. If either of us are uncomfortable or less amenable to something - either through a vocal or tactile reaction - then we simply tell each other, maintaining reciprocal feedback. It's almost sounds clinical when trying to describe this but in situ it's all natural and instinctive. I sometimes wonder if there really is such a thing as "bad sex". I think it's more to do with the flawed execution of sex itself. This probably makes no sense whatsoever! " This makes no sense whatsoever | |||
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"Some of my best encounters have been on the back of unbridled communication in the bedroom; gentle coaxing and the orchestration between us on what we want, need and desire. If either of us are uncomfortable or less amenable to something - either through a vocal or tactile reaction - then we simply tell each other, maintaining reciprocal feedback. It's almost sounds clinical when trying to describe this but in situ it's all natural and instinctive. I sometimes wonder if there really is such a thing as "bad sex". I think it's more to do with the flawed execution of sex itself. This probably makes no sense whatsoever! · This makes no sense whatsoever " • KC² - whenever you give me the roly êyê I get the heebie-jeebies! | |||
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"I want someone who is on a similar journey along the same road and isn't afraid to hitch a ride with me and wouldn't hesitate to suggest detours along the way." Where you taking me then | |||
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"I like when people, regardless of gender, are able to voice what they want. Even if it takes them a bit of time. I don't assume I know what any person wants until they tell me. Show me. Boring possibly but a heck of a lot easier. " | |||
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"They want to feel seen and accepted for who they truly are by someone that cares. Isn’t that what most of us want? Apart from the narcissists of course." Very true | |||
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"They want cheese on tap. Guiness. Their slippers by the fire. A hot bath and a warm wanton woman." I think you have your cheese and Guinness mixed up but I'll let that slide if you're the wanton woman | |||
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"I totally wing it and hope for the best but the silence here is telling. Men tell us.. " Hair stroke & a back rub/tickle and you have a VERY happy JizzyMonkey | |||
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"I live on that feedback loop. The way I do things varies depending on their reactions. Not everyone likes the things I particularly enjoy. I've met people who prefer that sterile non drooly kind of blowjob and adhered at the time but not bothered seeing them again as it's a big incompatibility for me. If someone tells me I'm doing something wrong, I'd be annoyed. If someone guides me to what they like or makes a suggestion of doing something differently, I'm happy to give it a try That feedback loop is sexy. I chase reactions. I get nervous when they go quiet. I'd rather that they said I wasn't hitting the spot rather than nothing " Hell yes!! There's nothing like that involuntary moan of pleasure when you hit the right spot | |||
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"Someone that will get their tits out, open their legs, flirt with them and do what they want in the bedroom. It is what is commonly known amongst the men folk of the forums as a "connection" " How very dare you pigeon hole my brethren with this slander.....albeit very much close to reality.... As I said earlier " Hair stroke & a back rub/tickle and you have a VERY happy JizzyMonkey" So not all of us are that narrow minded | |||
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"Blowjobs! My cock is not sensitive, bite that fucker " | |||
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"In my experience feeding. But I do the fab shiz a little wrong anyway " Did Saff say food.......yes please I do love a good meal to go with my hair strokes and back rubs | |||
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"I just want sex 2 or 3 times a year is all Well hey " I forgot to mention skateboarding | |||
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"Men.. Are the most indecisive creature. Do they know what they really really want " The Spice Girls told me that I should.....really, really, really wanna zigazig ah | |||
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"Is this just about sex, or about what men want more generally? I mean, sex is probably the easier question. Probably. What I really want is for our hundredth time together to be as lust-filled and joyful as our first. (And sometimes for you to bring a friend along. Threesomes are hot.)" What if the friend is male | |||
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"I just want sex 2 or 3 times a year is all Well hey I forgot to mention skateboarding " I'll bring my knee pads. | |||
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"What if the friend is male" I deliberately didn’t specify gender. . "A maid A chef A whore" I’ll have you know I do my own cooking and cleaning. | |||
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"I just want sex 2 or 3 times a year is all Well hey I forgot to mention skateboarding I'll bring my knee pads." You wont need the knee pads | |||
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"Most of the time we just want to feel appreciated for who we are." If men behave like civilised human beings and read profiles. Be respectful. Not expect a fuck because its a sex site. Im sure you will be appreciated | |||
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"Most of the time we just want to feel appreciated for who we are. If men behave like civilised human beings and read profiles. Be respectful. Not expect a fuck because its a sex site. Im sure you will be appreciated " There's the odd one of us that do | |||
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"Most of the time we just want to feel appreciated for who we are. If men behave like civilised human beings and read profiles. Be respectful. Not expect a fuck because its a sex site. Im sure you will be appreciated There's the odd one of us that do " Well im very pleased to hear that | |||
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" Give him everything he wants and he'll want more, something else, another level, it's endless. Like all hits, the chase for the next one is the thrill and the dopamine hit will ignite a need for more, something else. " Poignant post I do believe most relationships follow this path bar the soulmate ones. We believe in soulmates right?! **deafening silence ** | |||
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"We believe in soulmates right?! **deafening silence ** " I believe in soulmates. Lots of them. | |||
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"We believe in soulmates right?! **deafening silence ** I believe in soulmates. Lots of them." The soul has an infinite capacity for love, so entirely possible | |||
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"I just want fit birds to sit on my D." They probably would if they had a fit body to sit on lol | |||
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"I live on that feedback loop. The way I do things varies depending on their reactions. Not everyone likes the things I particularly enjoy. I've met people who prefer that sterile non drooly kind of blowjob and adhered at the time but not bothered seeing them again as it's a big incompatibility for me. If someone tells me I'm doing something wrong, I'd be annoyed. If someone guides me to what they like or makes a suggestion of doing something differently, I'm happy to give it a try " I'll be a guinea pig for you. | |||
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"I just want fit birds to sit on my D. They probably would if they had a fit body to sit on lol" Yours looks well fit. | |||
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"A lady who knows where she want's to eat :3 " Anywhere is fine. What do you fancy? | |||
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"Are we getting it wrong? Inspired by the other thread I got to thinking about what men want. Is it easy for a man to tell us when something could be better or would you see it as rejection? Are some people almost conditioned to assume that a man should just be glad he's getting sex, even if it's bad sex? Men, how has it gone when you're with a new partner and you suggest she does something a different way etc? " communication is key I like a bit of a chat understanding before getting down to it so understanding mind helps better understand the body | |||
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"A lady who knows where she want's to eat :3 Anywhere is fine. What do you fancy?" Touche! haha I'm thinking Italian more garlic the better | |||
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"A lady who knows where she want's to eat :3 Anywhere is fine. What do you fancy? Touche! haha I'm thinking Italian more garlic the better " Oh no I don’t fancy Italian tonight | |||
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"A lady who knows where she want's to eat :3 Anywhere is fine. What do you fancy? Touche! haha I'm thinking Italian more garlic the better Oh no I don’t fancy Italian tonight " haha 20 nuggets n a park bench it is then..gotta keep it romantic | |||
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"Not a fucking clue Fucks given. None " Me either. Apparently the woman who wrote this books knows. | |||
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"For a woman to come over when we have the horn. Get naked have sex. Afterwards tidy the house and then phone yourself a taxi " Don’t forget leave lunch/dinner prepared and served! | |||
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"For a woman to come over when we have the horn. Get naked have sex. Afterwards tidy the house and then phone yourself a taxi Don’t forget leave lunch/dinner prepared and served! " Ahh I like your thinking, you could be a keeper | |||
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"I just want fit birds to sit on my D. They probably would if they had a fit body to sit on lol Yours looks well fit." Yes it is but I m not offering | |||
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"Not a fucking clue Fucks given. None Me either. Apparently the woman who wrote this books knows. " Of course she does… | |||
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"A firmer grip please ladies I second this " You need to read the forum thread on Anal... | |||
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"Getting fed up of slurping my nob and caressing my balls but want the satisfaction of my heavy load running down your chin… just stick a wet finger up my ass already " Brace yourself | |||
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"Getting fed up of slurping my nob and caressing my balls but want the satisfaction of my heavy load running down your chin… just stick a wet finger up my ass already " Nice and classy. Good luck | |||
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"I just want fit birds to sit on my D. They probably would if they had a fit body to sit on lol" Pretty unnecessary comment don’t you think? | |||
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"I just want fit birds to sit on my D. They probably would if they had a fit body to sit on lol Pretty unnecessary comment don’t you think? " Which one?. Its ok for him to say he only wants fit body's but not ok for me to comment. Rather sexist dnt you think and an unnecessary comment | |||
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"I just want fit birds to sit on my D. They probably would if they had a fit body to sit on lol Pretty unnecessary comment don’t you think? Which one?. Its ok for him to say he only wants fit body's but not ok for me to comment. Rather sexist dnt you think and an unnecessary comment " Meant you said | |||
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"I just want fit birds to sit on my D. They probably would if they had a fit body to sit on lol Pretty unnecessary comment don’t you think? Which one?. It’s ok for him to say he only wants fit body's but not ok for me to comment. Rather sexist dnt you think and an unnecessary comment " You don’t know me, or my general stupid behaviour in the forums. Pretty much everything i post on here needs to be taken with a massive bucket full of salt. | |||
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"Are we getting it wrong? Inspired by the other thread I got to thinking about what men want. Is it easy for a man to tell us when something could be better or would you see it as rejection? Are some people almost conditioned to assume that a man should just be glad he's getting sex, even if it's bad sex? Men, how has it gone when you're with a new partner and you suggest she does something a different way etc? " For me I want someone that I can cuddle up with on the sofa watching TV or a good movie yes sex but mostly company and I prefer if the woman tells me what she wants as I hate being a mind reader | |||
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"I just want fit birds to sit on my D. They probably would if they had a fit body to sit on lol Pretty unnecessary comment don’t you think? Which one?. It’s ok for him to say he only wants fit body's but not ok for me to comment. Rather sexist dnt you think and an unnecessary comment You don’t know me, or my general stupid behaviour in the forums. Pretty much everything i post on here needs to be taken with a massive bucket full of salt. " No I dnt like I dnt know thousands on this site so what's your point. I'm sorry I dnt know your banter your sense of humour but neither do I know anyones else's. I never said you so maybe if the cap fits you know what they say. I said something in general there was no name . No reference to you. So not sure why you getting shirty lol | |||
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"I totally wing it and hope for the best but the silence here is telling. Men tell us.. " I think I wing it too. Usually there’s a bit of fun in trial and error and exploring with a new person, I guess my own thoughts are that I’m usually grateful for the opportunity and I try to do my best. I guess I’m not so good at hearing praise so sometimes I’ll get feedback and think that was kind, but sort of not of believe it. maybe comes from being a sort of serial monogamist rather than a ‘shagger’ back in my 20s. | |||
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"I know exactly what they want: A chef in the kitchen, A lady in the dining room, A slut in the bedroom……. And not too long in the bathroom." And to leave the car parked in Neutral | |||
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"I know exactly what they want: A chef in the kitchen, A lady in the dining room, A slut in the bedroom……. And not too long in the bathroom. And to leave the car parked in Neutral " And not kerb the alloys | |||
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