FabSwingers.com forum: Men, what do you think women want?

By *andadbod OP Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

Having a conversation with the mrs last night about past experiences during our swinging days and she said some of the guys she had met seemed to think that what men saw in porn movies is what women enjoyed.

For example, one guy inserted a couple of fingers in her and was going at it like a jackhammer, she said he was doing it for about 3 or 4 minutes, and it was doing nothing apart from cause a lot of discomfort, later after chatting with him afterwards she brought it up and he said “isn’t that what all women enjoy”?

Clearly not all women, so guys, what do you think women enjoy when it comes to sex, being able to lick for hours? Fucking continuously for hours?

Women, what’s happened with you that’s not exactly rocked your world but the guy thought he was hitting it dead on?

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I'm with you with the porn shite, although I personally find it's the younger guys generally some men learn as they age a little that we don't like that shit.

For me the A,B,C's with their tounge now I've had this several times it's never fun it's totally off-putting whoever made the rumour that women like the alphabet needs poking in the eye.

Lack of foreplay is another trying to stick it in dry is just uncomfortable - always preheat the oven.

The jack hammer if that's all you got leave women kind alone. Yes I love a good fucking but just repeatedly hammering away with nothing else for me is a no.

I hate the unrealistic porn expectations, I do like though there's new sites coming out promoting "real sex" and some into details on women's orgasms and so on which I hope get more popular over the coming years.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rumour has it we like different things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why the hell didn't she tell him to stop?

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"Why the hell didn't she tell him to stop?

I was just about to ask this

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By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

I think over enthusiastic attempt at finger blasting in order to make someone “squirt” is a popular one and many can relate, myself included.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

"I think over enthusiastic attempt at finger blasting in order to make someone “squirt” is a popular one and many can relate, myself included.

Yes, hate this.

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By *weet and SpiceCouple
over a year ago

Around the Midlands

For me it's about learning what she wants (obviously can be difficult in this as it's a short amount of time to really get to know her) and doing your best to read the signs. It's not easy though as there is no 'one size fits all' here, so we have to be guided by her which means vocalising whether she's enjoying something or not.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

All women are different, where one individual can have tastes and preferences different from the next. I've appreciated this variety, as discovery is fun

. It's actually not hard if you either listen or are a good observer and can spontaneously adapt.

Are men more predictable or one dimensional in their expectations? Seems likely.

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By *ostindreamsMan
over a year ago

London

I am pretty sure all women like to be tickled

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Beds (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

"I'm with you with the porn shite, although I personally find it's the younger guys generally some men learn as they age a little that we don't like that shit.

Mrs"

Porn directed by females is coming through more and more... so perhaps there is hope.

But as most say it's only if a man wants to learn about what works for an individual...

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By *dventurous biMan
over a year ago

tesside

"I am pretty sure all women like to be tickled "

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

If the time before sex is good then everything is made easier. A mental connection is important.

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

Bookmarking this for educational purposes later. If only there was a rulebook for what women like. Where would the fun be in finding out

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By *andadbod OP Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Why the hell didn't she tell him to stop?

i asked her that and she said she didn’t think he was gunna go on for as long as he did doing that

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