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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Going on holiday with someone you've met on fab?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When they’re paying for it.

I’m easy.

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
over a year ago

wonderland.

If I got on with someone but could have my own room or bed.. I'd happily go after a few months x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As soon as I get a reply haha.

In all seriousness though. If there is a friendship formed and a mutual respect like any "non fab" friendship, then I'd consider it. So, where are we going OP?

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By *vilgasamWoman
over a year ago

The dot in the i

Once I know I can trust them, can take a long while to get to that point though

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

When you've gotten to the "friends" point, and it's not just sex. Unless you just fancy a long weekend of getting railed in the sun, then three meets maybe?

LvM

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London


"Going on holiday with someone you've met on fab?"

I'm down for it PW. Think of the rom com like hijinks we will get up to!

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

I've done weekends away with fab friends before so yes I probably would

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Going on holiday with someone you've met on fab?

I'm down for it PW. Think of the rom com like hijinks we will get up to!"

You mean horror movie or something similar se7en with your head a box. And that's not a euphemism!!

Actually yeah I'm down for that, now where did I put my spade?

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

When we've built an unbeatable connection/chemistry surrounded by trust as well....

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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When their actions match their words.

There are a few people I'd happily go on holiday with; it'll be chaotic and we might miss our flight back but so worth it. I wouldn't do it before there's that consistency. And level of friendship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not something I’d ever consider doing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As soon as they mention holiday

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

Define go on holiday with.

Catch a flight and then not see them at all other than the flight home? Maybe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you know, you know. Get off the relationship escalator (inc friendships)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Define go on holiday with.

Catch a flight and then not see them at all other than the flight home? Maybe. "

Gosh you're a hard man to please.

But what if she wanted you to bang her daily?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will meet them on holiday if I am in their area (and do), but not go on holiday with them

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"Going on holiday with someone you've met on fab?"

Butlins, PW their spoling you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Holidays are make or break and quite stressful tbh.

If it's a 2 day thing, then ok - I'll go only after my senses tell me this individual seems to have their facilities and head screwed on straight.

Any longer than 2 days and I'll question my sanity. In fact, I'll probably decide to go on something longer after 2x 2 dayers.

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

Absolutely, 100% without a doubt in my mind fuck that shite!

Most are bad enough on a night out!

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

I’ve considered it, yes, but they can never get away from the ball and chain…

I did manage a quick weekend in NYC with someone off here a few years ago. It was amazing.

I am going to Rio in a few weeks if there are any takers lol

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London


"Going on holiday with someone you've met on fab?

I'm down for it PW. Think of the rom com like hijinks we will get up to!

You mean horror movie or something similar se7en with your head a box. And that's not a euphemism!!

Actually yeah I'm down for that, now where did I put my spade? "

At what point do you think it will get to that stage? Do I get a hot minute in the sun first?

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By *aissez-faireMan
over a year ago

Right behind you…. Boo

Do they have to go willingly? Asking for a friend who has an unhealthy amount of duct tape and cable ties.

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By *oadsafun1960Man
over a year ago

Somerset & Hertfordshire

I did it within 6 months and went on many more holidays together after that. If it feels right just do it, there's no better way to get to know someone than spend time away with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Define go on holiday with.

Catch a flight and then not see them at all other than the flight home? Maybe. "

Now this I’d consider!

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

If I knew I had my own room there are fabbers I’d go away with

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By *abrielle43Woman
over a year ago

Kildare

I've been away with a fab fwb after 4 months of meeting regularly.

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By *oofy321Man
over a year ago

moon base zero

If I knew them...but I did go to Amsterdam with a man I didn't know...not like that ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I struggle to get a reply half the time and people are planning Fab holidays haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pw.. Only you know

Ask doctor for advice forum advice no way.

Without understanding you op.

If a stranger asked first off no not safe.

Even after months no way not safe.

Safety for me would be a big fat NO

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oooh is there a time when this is a thing? I've been chatting to/ meeting a couple for years. I need to let them know a holiday is overdue!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I struggle to get a reply half the time and people are planning Fab holidays haha"

I can sympathise with that. I like my safety.

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By *aidbacklover2021Man
over a year ago

perth

If I ever found myself a solo passenger on a cruise I would look for a partner to share a cabin.

My treat off course.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling


"Define go on holiday with.

Catch a flight and then not see them at all other than the flight home? Maybe.

Gosh you're a hard man to please.

But what if she wanted you to bang her daily?"

You know me!

If sex is to be considered by me there would be a "friend" element involved anyway, I have no problem going and spending time on holiday with a friend.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling


"Define go on holiday with.

Catch a flight and then not see them at all other than the flight home? Maybe.

Now this I’d consider! "

Me or the situation... Or both!?

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

Moot point as I've never been asked. I'll let you know my decision if and when that particular fantasy comes to fruition

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"Define go on holiday with.

Catch a flight and then not see them at all other than the flight home? Maybe. "

It’s flight there *or* flight home. No way am I sitting next to you twice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve considered it, yes, but they can never get away from the ball and chain…

I did manage a quick weekend in NYC with someone off here a few years ago. It was amazing.

I am going to Rio in a few weeks if there are any takers lol "

I went to Norwich for a weekend to meet a Fab friend once - not quite Rio!

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling


"Define go on holiday with.

Catch a flight and then not see them at all other than the flight home? Maybe.

It’s flight there *or* flight home. No way am I sitting next to you twice "

I'll have you know I'm great company in short bursts.

Otherwise you can change your seat because I'm not moving!

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By *rancois Du BoisMan
over a year ago

Down the back of the sofa.


"Going on holiday with someone you've met on fab?"

I’ve stayed in airbandb’s with people I’ve met here. It really depends on the vibe I get from them on previous meets.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Where you're both very comfortable with each other in a non sexual setting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Going on holiday with someone you've met on fab?"
That would be fun.

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"Define go on holiday with.

Catch a flight and then not see them at all other than the flight home? Maybe.

It’s flight there *or* flight home. No way am I sitting next to you twice

I'll have you know I'm great company in short bursts.

Otherwise you can change your seat because I'm not moving! "

I bet you take the window seat as well!!!

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

When I'm just going on holiday with a friend, and the situation where I first met them has become of little or no relevance.

There are at least three from here where that applies. No, I haven't shagged with any of them.

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham


"Going on holiday with someone you've met on fab?"

When I am sure that person is genuinely interested in ke and not using me as an ATM machine to paybfoe the lifestyle they want to become accustomed to.

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

I’ve had many non fab related activity weekend with very good friends from here celebrating birthdays etc

I’ve also been abroad 3 times with fab friends but where we’ve all known each other very well. We’ve hired villas so all had our own space and just enjoyed time together like any other friends would that go on holiday

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By *ongtallsillyMan
over a year ago

Telford

It's either got to be someone you have met often and can trust and get along with or someone where the vibe is instant and the lust so overwhelming that you just take that chance. Could be the start of a lifetime together or a lifetime in jail lol.

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By *ovetolick78Man
over a year ago

The Shire

I think it would be a great laugh do go with a few

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden


"Going on holiday with someone you've met on fab?

I'm down for it PW. Think of the rom com like hijinks we will get up to!"

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It would be like Steptoe & Son with you two.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I’ve done it with someone here I know really well. Holidays can be stressful anyway so choose wisely or you might not stay friends afterwards.

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