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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Give him another chance.

Should I?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not unless you’re desperate babe

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Give him another chance.

Should I?"

Just say No.

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
over a year ago

wonderland.

Depends on why or what

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

No.

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Fuck no.

Actually, it depends. People can change and grow. Do you think that's happened? If they've been toxic or abusive? Fuck no.

If it's a delivery driver? Yes.

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By *cnugatugMan
over a year ago

Chatham

Depends on what went down how bad he fucked up in the first place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone deserves a second chance.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

Yes because the other answers are boring

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

"Everyone deserves a second chance."

Not everyone.

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everyone deserves a second chance.

Not everyone.

LvM"

Not all men

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

"Give him another chance.

Should I?"

Yes give Jesus a chance....

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

"Everyone deserves a second chance.

Not everyone.

LvM

No tall men "

Especially them.

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmm

Do you want to?

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By *vilgasamWoman
over a year ago

The dot in the i

It depends what they did, now I want to be nosy

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

Is it me? Than yes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you don't know, then I've no idea. There isn't a blanket magic answer to this. Perhaps flick a coin. The result will be the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Give him another chance.

Should I?"

No he doesn't deserve it, give me a chance instead

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"Give him another chance.

Should I?"

Yes, he’ll probably last longer the 2nd time

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By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

If it’s Brucey, then yes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Give him another chance.

Should I?

Yes, he’ll probably last longer the 2nd time"

Best answer yet!

You beat _elis delivery driver, that make me giggle.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If it’s Brucey, then yes."

Oh fuck no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it’s Brucey, then yes."

I think you'll find if it's Brucey the answer is a definite 'no' and the vodoo doll and pins may come out

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Carlisle

Hey Pw would you mind dropping me a quick mail ? Id like to send you a PM if poss x

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By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

"If it’s Brucey, then yes.

Oh fuck no. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If it’s Brucey, then yes.

I think you'll find if it's Brucey the answer is a definite 'no' and the vodoo doll and pins may come out

That's tame.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is he hot?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hey Pw would you mind dropping me a quick mail ? Id like to send you a PM if poss x"

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By *herry delightWoman
over a year ago

Ilfracombe

Did he put the jam on the scone before the cream?

If so the hell no he doesn't deserve another chance. X

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Carlisle

"Hey Pw would you mind dropping me a quick mail ? Id like to send you a PM if poss x

Pmsl

its just that your monthly copy of cowboy hunks in latex has been delivered to my address ….

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

I think you should trust yourself and your instincts. Only the two of you know what's gone on previously. Nobody else's opinion matters.

Mrs TMN x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hey Pw would you mind dropping me a quick mail ? Id like to send you a PM if poss x

Pmsl

its just that your monthly copy of cowboy hunks in latex has been delivered to my address ….

It's the dvd on the front I want, not the magazine.

And it better not be sticky this time!!!

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Carlisle

"Hey Pw would you mind dropping me a quick mail ? Id like to send you a PM if poss x

Pmsl

its just that your monthly copy of cowboy hunks in latex has been delivered to my address ….

It's the dvd on the front I want, not the magazine.

And it better not be sticky this time!!!"

Thats was the lube … it leaked….

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

"If it’s Brucey, then yes.

I think you'll find if it's Brucey the answer is a definite 'no' and the vodoo doll and pins may come out

That's tame."

Kinky I like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only if he confirms his OTP.

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By *oadsafun1960Man
over a year ago

Somerset & Hertfordshire

I think it depends on the connection you had and the reasons you parted. Have you had any contact since, are you both still friendly with each other. Do you miss him and want him back.

My ex left and completely blocked me, it left me devastated, I tried everything to get her to talk but to no avail, she'd already found someone else, so don't leave it too late if you really want him, second chances are rare but can work out if you're both in it together.

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

I don't know the circumstances so it is unfair to comment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We live in such a throw away society. Fuck the stigma attached to giving people a second chance. If you you love someone then they deserve an opportunity to rectify the error of their way. We're only human and we all make mistakes. Obviously if you've done that routine time and time again, then you need make the hard decision.

But don't worry about the stigma attached to giving someone you care about, a chance. It's you life, not your best friends etc. Fuck everyone else.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Depends.

Context is very important.

For some people it's irrelevant. Once the chapter is closed, it's permanent.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Flip a coin and let fate decide

(actually, don’t - that’s bloody awful advice)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Without understanding the op.. Only op knows what to do.

No advice given..

Ask your doctor they know more correct advice than forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Without understanding the op.. Only op knows what to do.

No advice given..

Ask your doctor they know more correct advice than forums "

Oh that's harsh!

We are a very well informed group and Nero is very erudite and no doubt vastly educated. Plus there are all the Sydney Uni researchers, so I am sure PW will get excellent advice from Forum users.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Context is everything

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Without understanding the op.. Only op knows what to do.

No advice given..

Ask your doctor they know more correct advice than forums "

My doctor?

Erm why my doctor?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Context is everything "

Isn't it just!

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

If you’re even thinking about then possibly. I think when you’re done done you know for sure and it’s easiest thing in the world to say no / never again

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By *onnoisseur100Man
over a year ago

Woking-ish

Give peas a chance.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

It depends what he's done & if you think he's worth it.

Mrs

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

Needs context.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Give peas a chance.

.."

You know it took me till two days ago to find out it isn't there anymore and what the story was behind it!

And I'm not actually a million miles from it either.

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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago

Welling

"Give him another chance.

Should I?"

The question you need to ask whether you want it. Do you want to give him another chance or you moved on?

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"Give him another chance.

Should I?"

Depends on what he wants another chance on.

Do you want to give him another chance.

Only you can answer the question.

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By *issC_UseMeWoman
over a year ago

London & South Coast

Has whatever got things to this point changed? If not, or if there is no commitment to change, then probably no. (And yes, I do know from experience how difficult it is to let go)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Give him another chance.

Should I?

If your playinging monopoly then yes, it is part of the game.

If he has been over the side then aim a shotgun at his testicles.. give him a chance though and ask him to swing them.

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By *inda May SimmonsTV/TS
over a year ago

hexham

I know a guy who threatened suicide and if he asked me whether he should have another go at it ( “a second chance” if you will ) I would say he’ll yes, but this time actually get it right and do it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it’s doggo, who’s done a wee wee on the floor….then of course you do.

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

This reminds me of "Who Shot Phil?" Everyone is invested in the situation but nobody knows what's going on. Without context of what he's done, it's hard to advise really.

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

Without full context I wouldn't want to say yes or no

Tinder

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