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By *.L.0460. OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

I see lots of male profiles, often with no pics or just body pics describing themselves as handsome or good-looking. I think it's great that they have such a positive image of themselves. Conversely, I rarely see women describe themselves with the equivalent positive adjectives. Do women generally have a lower self-image, or are men on Fab just better at selling themselves?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm fucking lush... modest too

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

Perhaps because there are more men here and therefore the pool of competition runs deep in order to garner as much interest from the opposite sex.

Women however are — I presume — less incentivised to embellish their profiles with hyperbole.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

However if they were handsome and thought it, surely they’d have pics?? …..

Oh my bad they are professional and don’t show because of the job they do….

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I know I'm attractive to me. I don't need to tell people when they can see enough to make that judgement by their own preferences all by themselves

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

How can anyone find themselves attractive it's double sworded as it needs to come from someone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am Ugly through and through

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt


"I see lots of male profiles, often with no pics or just body pics describing themselves as handsome or good-looking. I think it's great that they have such a positive image of themselves. Conversely, I rarely see women describe themselves with the equivalent positive adjectives. Do women generally have a lower self-image, or are men on Fab just better at selling themselves? "

From my observations of what I have come across on here men just have bigger egos

Ego is something that is not good to carry, it can make guys say and sometimes do things just to have their ego fed it's horrid.

Humbleness is everything in life it's very rare to come across but it's lovely when you do

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By *.L.0460. OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis


"How can anyone find themselves attractive it's double sworded as it needs to come from someone else "

I dunno- there's nothing wrong with looking in the mirror & liking what you see (not that I'd know about that!!).

As long as it doesn't make someone arrogant & big-headed it can be a healthy way to be!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look in the mirror and think…..yep…….id ride him like a nicked motorbike.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I’ve never described myself as handsome, good looks are just far too subjective.

I think that people often describe themselves in terms of things that they hold the most value in, as that’s what comes to mind when writing. If looks are important, then that’s what they describe

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

I don't know if it is a good sales approach. I think it's up to them to decide if I am handsome. Or if the right approach is to sell at all.

I am quite mad though, I wouldn't listen to me. I rarely do.

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By *929Man
over a year ago

bedlington

I always tell everyone I look like utter shit from the neck up then on the off chance if they actually like owt it’s a bonus as expectations were set low

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere

Im a complete fanny magnet - women would rather shag me than eat xske and Im not even lying!!

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere


"Im a complete fanny magnet - women would rather shag me than eat xske and Im not even lying!! "

Cake ffs - sorry was getting shagged while typing… women eh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My aunt tells me I’m handsome! And I believe her…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"However if they were handsome and thought it, surely they’d have pics?? …..

Oh my bad they are professional and don’t show because of the job they do…."

To be fair, I remove my face pics when I’m working in the office

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By *ottom charlieMan
over a year ago

washington


"I see lots of male profiles, often with no pics or just body pics describing themselves as handsome or good-looking. I think it's great that they have such a positive image of themselves. Conversely, I rarely see women describe themselves with the equivalent positive adjectives. Do women generally have a lower self-image, or are men on Fab just better at selling themselves? "
you have already sold yourself in your pictures,, you look lovely,,,

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By *.L.0460. OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis


"I see lots of male profiles, often with no pics or just body pics describing themselves as handsome or good-looking. I think it's great that they have such a positive image of themselves. Conversely, I rarely see women describe themselves with the equivalent positive adjectives. Do women generally have a lower self-image, or are men on Fab just better at selling themselves? you have already sold yourself in your pictures,, you look lovely,,, "

Thank you, that's very kind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't look at men's profiles but I imagine they do it as way to stand out. Personally, I'd never do it on the account of it being so subjective and also not true in the slightest

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"How can anyone find themselves attractive it's double sworded as it needs to come from someone else

I dunno- there's nothing wrong with looking in the mirror & liking what you see (not that I'd know about that!!).

As long as it doesn't make someone arrogant & big-headed it can be a healthy way to be!"

Depending upon how many mirrors scattered around the home can be a little too much appreciate how someone feels and are comfortable within does mean fine

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

Women let the pics do the talking

Men hope it will help them

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By *.L.0460. OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis


"Women let the pics do the talking

Men hope it will help them "

I think you summed it up in one sentence!!

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

Personally I’ve never felt “pretty” or “desirable” to another person. It’s not that I feel negative about myself, I just feel that “I’m just me” and that image isn’t necessarily the important bit, if someone likes me, then they like me, if they don’t, then they don’t.

I think we over complicate things like this a lot more than we should.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I’ve never felt “pretty” or “desirable” to another person. It’s not that I feel negative about myself, I just feel that “I’m just me” and that image isn’t necessarily the important bit, if someone likes me, then they like me, if they don’t, then they don’t.

I think we over complicate things like this a lot more than we should. "

I can say unequivocally that you look pretty with a cock in your mouth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do women on here really need to sell themselves?

It's all subjective though so essentially meaningless.

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
over a year ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders

If their Mums say they are handsome then that means they must be

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By *oofer1Man
over a year ago

consett

Some men just think there gods gift I’d love to see more lady’s big them selves up xx

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By *oofer1Man
over a year ago

consett


"If their Mums say they are handsome then that means they must be "

My mam told me I was so handsome all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If their Mums say they are handsome then that means they must be "

My mum forgot my birthday. I clearly hit every branch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If their Mums say they are handsome then that means they must be "

A little off topic, but my mum told me a few times. I miss her now that she’s an

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they're trying to give themselves confidence

Any time I've met a man who describes themselves as handsome on the profile are usually insecure in person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women don't need to sell their image.

(Some) Men believe they need hyperbole to sell theirs when there's so much competition.

I find it distasteful for anyone to describe themselves as attractive. It's an instant turn off from me. It simply lacks class.

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By *ndyfritz2015Man
over a year ago

Folkestone


"I see lots of male profiles, often with no pics or just body pics describing themselves as handsome or good-looking. I think it's great that they have such a positive image of themselves. Conversely, I rarely see women describe themselves with the equivalent positive adjectives. Do women generally have a lower self-image, or are men on Fab just better at selling themselves? "
wish I could see myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women don't need to sell their image.

(Some) Men believe they need hyperbole to sell theirs when there's so much competition.

I find it distasteful for anyone to describe themselves as attractive. It's an instant turn off from me. It simply lacks class.

"

4 out of 5 of your photos are cock pictures. Now that's classy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women don't need to sell their image.

(Some) Men believe they need hyperbole to sell theirs when there's so much competition.

I find it distasteful for anyone to describe themselves as attractive. It's an instant turn off from me. It simply lacks class.

"

Clear example of what is distasteful to some maybe be acceptable to others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of men without photos also say “you won’t be disapppointed” - and they almost always disappoint.

I’d base your judgement on what you believe rather than how someone sells themselves (myself included).

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I often find that the weaker the proportion from the profile, the more they'll throw in the handsome type stuff. It's a bit like money off stickers on stuff in down-market shops trying too hard to get you to be attracted to the wrong things that couldn't sell on their own strengths.

Show me what's attractive to others or it's hot air. If I don't find anything that attracts me, it's worthless

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

I guess the self-confidence point is true, in general (in the same way that it seems more women admit to suffering with 'imposter syndrome' at work etc), but I'm not sure it's that deep on a Fab profile - just a way of describing themselves.

I say good for them. Better that than a "woe is me" profile, or one that only talks about their cock.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Attraction is subjective and personal. Self definitions are pretty pointless really.

I mean, ffs....look how many women Bojo has gone through.

Looks can't be everything.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

They might be going by their FB likes

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By *.L.0460. OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis


"Attraction is subjective and personal. Self definitions are pretty pointless really.

I mean, ffs....look how many women Bojo has gone through.

Looks can't be everything.

"

Haha!! So true! Bojo's appeal is a complete mystery to me, but he must have something going for him!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see lots of male profiles, often with no pics or just body pics describing themselves as handsome or good-looking. I think it's great that they have such a positive image of themselves. Conversely, I rarely see women describe themselves with the equivalent positive adjectives. Do women generally have a lower self-image, or are men on Fab just better at selling themselves? "

Men listen to their mothers too much..

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By *an de LyonMan
over a year ago

welling


"I see lots of male profiles, often with no pics or just body pics describing themselves as handsome or good-looking. I think it's great that they have such a positive image of themselves. Conversely, I rarely see women describe themselves with the equivalent positive adjectives. Do women generally have a lower self-image, or are men on Fab just better at selling themselves?

Men listen to their mothers too much.. "

Not all men!!

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By *an de LyonMan
over a year ago

welling


"Attraction is subjective and personal. Self definitions are pretty pointless really.

I mean, ffs....look how many women Bojo has gone through.

Looks can't be everything.

Haha!! So true! Bojo's appeal is a complete mystery to me, but he must have something going for him!!! "

There’s an American dude (don’t know his name, something Donaldson maybe?) who is so ‘plain’ but he had an A-list ex list and they all say he’s so funny and nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry, just saw the tagline, "Handsome Men" and I thought,well,of me actually

Sure i saw a "humble," thread when I was browsing earlier I better go check what people are saying about me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see lots of male profiles, often with no pics or just body pics describing themselves as handsome or good-looking. I think it's great that they have such a positive image of themselves. Conversely, I rarely see women describe themselves with the equivalent positive adjectives. Do women generally have a lower self-image, or are men on Fab just better at selling themselves?

Men listen to their mothers too much..

Not all men!!"

Just the ones that think their handsome

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By *an de LyonMan
over a year ago

welling


"I see lots of male profiles, often with no pics or just body pics describing themselves as handsome or good-looking. I think it's great that they have such a positive image of themselves. Conversely, I rarely see women describe themselves with the equivalent positive adjectives. Do women generally have a lower self-image, or are men on Fab just better at selling themselves?

Men listen to their mothers too much..

Not all men!!

Just the ones that think their handsome "

Well yeah you might be right there!!

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By *host1100Man
over a year ago

Near Falkirk

Well why no pics ?? Just a thought if you’re genuinely Lush !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly, women don't need to sell theirselves on here as they will get sex whatever they look like. Men do need to sell theirselves more to stand out from the massive penis crowd, despite little effort coming from the woman's side. It's backwards but that's the truth.

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By *erebraljaguarMan
over a year ago

North West…


"Honestly, women don't need to sell theirselves on here as they will get sex whatever they look like. Men do need to sell theirselves more to stand out from the massive penis crowd, despite little effort coming from the woman's side. It's backwards but that's the truth."

Interesting point this. I just enjoy the idea of being myself, I wouldn’t let a crazy ratio of men affect my standards and would find that trait as attractive in a woman.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Women will get called beautiful and have no pictures on their profile. While men are encountering profiles looking for "exceptional" left and right. Most people don't want to show their faces here so they add a description, and who's going to write "meet me, I'm pig-ugly"?

LvM

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

I like what I see when I look in mirror! But as they say beauty is in the eye of the beholder x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see lots of male profiles, often with no pics or just body pics describing themselves as handsome or good-looking. I think it's great that they have such a positive image of themselves. Conversely, I rarely see women describe themselves with the equivalent positive adjectives. Do women generally have a lower self-image, or are men on Fab just better at selling themselves? "

I dunno where your looking

Every woman these days rates themselves a 10/10 because they listen to too much delusional TikTok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why wouldn't someone try to sell themselves on their profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see lots of male profiles, often with no pics or just body pics describing themselves as handsome or good-looking. I think it's great that they have such a positive image of themselves. Conversely, I rarely see women describe themselves with the equivalent positive adjectives. Do women generally have a lower self-image, or are men on Fab just better at selling themselves?

I dunno where your looking

Every woman these days rates themselves a 10/10 because they listen to too much delusional TikTok "

I do love a sweeping generalisation

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Attractiveness is subjective regardless of whether I think I'm attractive it doesn't mean I am or I'm not to others so there's zero point writing about it.

Mrs

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I have my face up so people can make up their own minds. But as well as what Nero said there is a societal pressure on women to be modest.

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
over a year ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders


"If their Mums say they are handsome then that means they must be

My mum forgot my birthday. I clearly hit every branch."

That's most unfortunate, ugly isn't an excuse for missing Birthdays! I'd be having words

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
over a year ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders


"If their Mums say they are handsome then that means they must be

A little off topic, but my mum told me a few times. I miss her now that she’s an "

Ahhh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We see many profiles with the 'we're an attractive couple' wrote on it so it's not just men.. and yes it's very subjective.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I do think men are more likely to put physical positive markers on their profile because they need to. They need to stand out, appeal. Or they have that confidence in themselves.

Single women don't have that pressure. They can be wearing a bin bag with last night's dinner slopped over them and someone will call them a goddess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m hardly likely to describe myself as a hoofing great fuck ugly lump of lard am I?

How to commit Fabicide in one sentence..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do think men are more likely to put physical positive markers on their profile because they need to. They need to stand out, appeal. Or they have that confidence in themselves.

Single women don't have that pressure. They can be wearing a bin bag with last night's dinner slopped over them and someone will call them a goddess."

You mean I'm not really a goddess?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see lots of male profiles, often with no pics or just body pics describing themselves as handsome or good-looking. I think it's great that they have such a positive image of themselves. Conversely, I rarely see women describe themselves with the equivalent positive adjectives. Do women generally have a lower self-image, or are men on Fab just better at selling themselves? "

Men lie. The end

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I believe that it's less a case of being better at selling themselves than women and more a case of societal expectations...

Women think they are 'modern' or 'liberated' but they are only liberated in law. In their heads they remain , modest, humble and desperate to be 'picked' and sell themselves through a series of misleading photographs, acting like sirens on a rock and agreeing to sex acts they don't really want to be involved in but agree to because they don't want to rock boats.

Men mention they are good looking because in a sea that has an abundance of males they remain bewildered as to why they can't get sex on a site where the women act like sirens and say they will perform certain sex acts and so publish the thoughts that swim round in their heads and one of those thoughts is ..... I'm good looking why don't they want me ? they want sex ? I want sex? Maybe they can't make a decision about how handsome I am. I'd better tell them and then we can have sex. Men don't tend to write about how many crystals they've collected or how much they love skipping through the forest. They are simple beings and to them ( and you have to love them for it ) Sex site = sex. They are not really hear to smell the flowers and find a best buddy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I might have been guilty of this at sometime however I feel it should be for the person viewing the profile to judge attractiveness or if someone is handsome etc.

If I was writing it I would rather see "I have been so l told I'm attractive because of my dark eyes and well shape eyebrows"

As for ladies women not putting it..I think that's too prevent rude people saying you're ugly because they get rejected.

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By *rownhotnessMan
over a year ago

Cheshire/Midlands

I get described as handsome. I'll let you be the judge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never describe myself as attractive. Cute, but not attractive/handsome/sexy/whatever. I don't have a lot of body confidence but I uploaded pics anyway and talked a little about my looks on my profile for clarity

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I do think men are more likely to put physical positive markers on their profile because they need to. They need to stand out, appeal. Or they have that confidence in themselves.

Single women don't have that pressure. They can be wearing a bin bag with last night's dinner slopped over them and someone will call them a goddess.

You mean I'm not really a goddess? "

You can be a goddess if you want to be, wearing food is a way of making you look tastier.

I do agree with GC, for the most part. Women are expected to/feel they should be humble and modest and yet sell sex. It's a weird dichotomy.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder in other words you may think you're handsome or beautiful but that may not be the case in his or her eyes

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I've seen a lot of women with the words hot or milf as part of their profile name.

Hot is subjective just like handsome and milf isn't the right acronym to use when describing yourself as it doesn't make sense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you are being a bit hadd on yourself……. you look stunning xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am 100% positively average. A solid 5/10. Middle of the road..forgettable. I'm so average, even family and friends have mistaken me for other decidedly average looking blokes.

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

If someone creates a profile saying female, without pictures or a bio, they will probably get a hundred messages a day.

Women are under supplied, in relation to demand on this site.

If the numbers of single women and single men were equal, they might have to increase their efforts.

Of course, this is just looking at quantity, not quality.

Plus 'handsome' 'good looking' etc is subjective, and has no correlation with sexiness, which is also subjective. For me, attitude is more important than physical attributes.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

I’m just genuinely not attractive and it’s not about low self esteem, it’s about the fact that it is indeed the truth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a fun guy. Like Kawhi Leonard.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"I’m a fun guy. Like Kawhi Leonard. "

Fungi? Like the Mushroom from Super Mario?!

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By *rMonkeyMan
over a year ago

Somewhere

Face like a robbers dog here

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
over a year ago

A den in the Glen

One woman's Brad Pitt is another's Lee Evans.

Some women would take Lee Evans over Brad Pitt.

There is someone for everyone too. Like 400 men for every woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m a fun guy. Like Kawhi Leonard.

Fungi? Like the Mushroom from Super Mario?! "

Another one to add to my list.

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

In this game it doesn't matter how I view myself.

What's Important is how others view me, some will see me as handsome, others will wanna hit me with a kipper, thems the breaks

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By *oonshadowWoman
over a year ago

COVENTRY

Some men are far too 'professional' lol

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"I do think men are more likely to put physical positive markers on their profile because they need to. They need to stand out, appeal. Or they have that confidence in themselves.

Single women don't have that pressure. They can be wearing a bin bag with last night's dinner slopped over them and someone will call them a goddess."

I'd agree, though the latter paragraph was exaggerated with your typical flair to drive home the point

You can have as many adjectives as you'd like, but ultimately the pictures you post determine if someone considers you physically attractive. Even if you overcome the initial hurdle of physical attractiveness, one might crash and burn if they don't fancy your face. This is a deal breaker for many, regardless of how physically fit you might be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well why no pics ?? Just a thought if you’re genuinely Lush !"

So they don't get some Beatlemania outside their front door

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By *.L.0460. OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis


"I believe that it's less a case of being better at selling themselves than women and more a case of societal expectations...

Women think they are 'modern' or 'liberated' but they are only liberated in law. In their heads they remain , modest, humble and desperate to be 'picked' and sell themselves through a series of misleading photographs, acting like sirens on a rock and agreeing to sex acts they don't really want to be involved in but agree to because they don't want to rock boats.

Men mention they are good looking because in a sea that has an abundance of males they remain bewildered as to why they can't get sex on a site where the women act like sirens and say they will perform certain sex acts and so publish the thoughts that swim round in their heads and one of those thoughts is ..... I'm good looking why don't they want me ? they want sex ? I want sex? Maybe they can't make a decision about how handsome I am. I'd better tell them and then we can have sex. Men don't tend to write about how many crystals they've collected or how much they love skipping through the forest. They are simple beings and to them ( and you have to love them for it ) Sex site = sex. They are not really hear to smell the flowers and find a best buddy.

"

Love this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men often will describe themselves as good looking, handsome etc on dating sites and the like too.

Fair play to them and their confidence.

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over a year ago

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

People tell my I'm handsome so I wrote that in my profile. That people say it. Not that I think it.

Irish people generally don't post face pics so I find useful descriptor by way of being a reference.

I'm certainly not bewildered or phased in the slightest by the number of men on the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are all drop dead... Gorgeous.

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West


"I believe that it's less a case of being better at selling themselves than women and more a case of societal expectations...

Women think they are 'modern' or 'liberated' but they are only liberated in law. In their heads they remain , modest, humble and desperate to be 'picked' and sell themselves through a series of misleading photographs, acting like sirens on a rock and agreeing to sex acts they don't really want to be involved in but agree to because they don't want to rock boats.

Men mention they are good looking because in a sea that has an abundance of males they remain bewildered as to why they can't get sex on a site where the women act like sirens and say they will perform certain sex acts and so publish the thoughts that swim round in their heads and one of those thoughts is ..... I'm good looking why don't they want me ? they want sex ? I want sex? Maybe they can't make a decision about how handsome I am. I'd better tell them and then we can have sex. Men don't tend to write about how many crystals they've collected or how much they love skipping through the forest. They are simple beings and to them ( and you have to love them for it ) Sex site = sex. They are not really hear to smell the flowers and find a best buddy.

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The unbridled sexism and sweeping generalisations in this reply are pretty bewildering.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some men are far too 'professional' lol"

Ooh I did not know men did sex professionaly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First rule of thumb.. To love others you need to love yourself.

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"Some men are far too 'professional' lol

Ooh I did not know men did sex professionaly "

Watch tge film Deuce Bigaloo Male gigolo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see lots of male profiles, often with no pics or just body pics describing themselves as handsome or good-looking. I think it's great that they have such a positive image of themselves. Conversely, I rarely see women describe themselves with the equivalent positive adjectives. Do women generally have a lower self-image, or are men on Fab just better at selling themselves? "

Love your profile..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some men are far too 'professional' lol

Ooh I did not know men did sex professionaly

Watch tge film Deuce Bigaloo Male gigolo "

That a porn movie you in

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"Some men are far too 'professional' lol

Ooh I did not know men did sex professionaly

Watch tge film Deuce Bigaloo Male gigolo

That a porn movie you in "

No it stars my dad, mines the sequel

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"I believe that it's less a case of being better at selling themselves than women and more a case of societal expectations...

Women think they are 'modern' or 'liberated' but they are only liberated in law. In their heads they remain , modest, humble and desperate to be 'picked' and sell themselves through a series of misleading photographs, acting like sirens on a rock and agreeing to sex acts they don't really want to be involved in but agree to because they don't want to rock boats.

Men mention they are good looking because in a sea that has an abundance of males they remain bewildered as to why they can't get sex on a site where the women act like sirens and say they will perform certain sex acts and so publish the thoughts that swim round in their heads and one of those thoughts is ..... I'm good looking why don't they want me ? they want sex ? I want sex? Maybe they can't make a decision about how handsome I am. I'd better tell them and then we can have sex. Men don't tend to write about how many crystals they've collected or how much they love skipping through the forest. They are simple beings and to them ( and you have to love them for it ) Sex site = sex. They are not really hear to smell the flowers and find a best buddy.

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What a load of bollocks

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By *.L.0460. OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis


"I see lots of male profiles, often with no pics or just body pics describing themselves as handsome or good-looking. I think it's great that they have such a positive image of themselves. Conversely, I rarely see women describe themselves with the equivalent positive adjectives. Do women generally have a lower self-image, or are men on Fab just better at selling themselves?

Love your profile..

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I appreciate that, thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see lots of male profiles, often with no pics or just body pics describing themselves as handsome or good-looking. I think it's great that they have such a positive image of themselves. Conversely, I rarely see women describe themselves with the equivalent positive adjectives. Do women generally have a lower self-image, or are men on Fab just better at selling themselves? "

My dog is handsome and everyone who says so , usually the ladies when I’m out walking him , I give the line … ‘Well they say dogs take after their owners’

Maybe I don’t haha

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By *unchalMan
over a year ago

Dartford


"However if they were handsome and thought it, surely they’d have pics?? …..

Oh my bad they are professional and don’t show because of the job they do…."

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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If a blank profile of a Woman puts a meet up and doesn't care what the Man looks like she will have 100s of messages within the hour, If a Man done something similar he would have 0 messages,

Men have to sell themselves a hell of a lot more then Women do, Have a good personality, have a decent looking face/body at least 6-8 inch cock and still that won't mean you will get anything,

Maybe with profiles with no pictures they hope with describing themselves as handsome, gym body or huge cock someone will take the bait and message them for more details

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West


"If a blank profile of a Woman puts a meet up and doesn't care what the Man looks like she will have 100s of messages within the hour, If a Man done something similar he would have 0 messages,

Men have to sell themselves a hell of a lot more then Women do, Have a good personality, have a decent looking face/body at least 6-8 inch cock and still that won't mean you will get anything,

Maybe with profiles with no pictures they hope with describing themselves as handsome, gym body or huge cock someone will take the bait and message them for more details "

I love the whole big cock thing. No one sees my cock until the meet me. Or my face for that matter.

It's just a word. If someone writes handsome in a bio it's probably because people have said it to them. totally legit to write it in a bio. There's no compelling reason not to.

The misandry on display in this thread is really quite something.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Vanity is ugly

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By *.L.0460. OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis


"If a blank profile of a Woman puts a meet up and doesn't care what the Man looks like she will have 100s of messages within the hour, If a Man done something similar he would have 0 messages,

Men have to sell themselves a hell of a lot more then Women do, Have a good personality, have a decent looking face/body at least 6-8 inch cock and still that won't mean you will get anything,

Maybe with profiles with no pictures they hope with describing themselves as handsome, gym body or huge cock someone will take the bait and message them for more details

I love the whole big cock thing. No one sees my cock until the meet me. Or my face for that matter.

It's just a word. If someone writes handsome in a bio it's probably because people have said it to them. totally legit to write it in a bio. There's no compelling reason not to.

The misandry on display in this thread is really quite something."

So, you won't provide a face pic & meet women without seeing one either??

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West


"If a blank profile of a Woman puts a meet up and doesn't care what the Man looks like she will have 100s of messages within the hour, If a Man done something similar he would have 0 messages,

Men have to sell themselves a hell of a lot more then Women do, Have a good personality, have a decent looking face/body at least 6-8 inch cock and still that won't mean you will get anything,

Maybe with profiles with no pictures they hope with describing themselves as handsome, gym body or huge cock someone will take the bait and message them for more details

I love the whole big cock thing. No one sees my cock until the meet me. Or my face for that matter.

It's just a word. If someone writes handsome in a bio it's probably because people have said it to them. totally legit to write it in a bio. There's no compelling reason not to.

The misandry on display in this thread is really quite something.

So, you won't provide a face pic & meet women without seeing one either??"

You'd be surprised how common that is in Ireland. Plenty of people will share face pics but plenty don't. The culture is different around it.

The best date I ever had in my life was with a woman who had a hidden profile. She unhid it for ten minutes so I could read her verifications and had no photos.

It's not something I really think about to be honest. Everyone does fab their own way. This works for me.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

I look like Brian Glover. I'm a catch

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

I should say that when I started out I was happy to share face pics but the way I engage with has evolved over time.

Most of the people I meet are through social events. On the occasion that I meet someone through the forum or they message me (I don't send opening messages) It's not uncommon that face pics dont come up in the conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't got the ego to call myself handsome. If someone else thinks so, great.

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