FabSwingers.com forum: Have you lost your mojo?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I seem to have. I think I know why. I think some would assume they know why I've lost mine but they would probably be wrong.

Im sure it'll come back eventually.

Have you lost yours and do you know why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need some one to give me some of there mojo

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Nope not lost it i know where it is

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By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

I don’t think I have, but unfortunately the current life circumstances are just not mojo friendly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fine here, just waiting for someone else's motorbike to come online

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Work is a complete mojo killer at the moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I lost the want to actually like someone a long time ago.

Now I just go through the motions and stick to meaningless sex. It's easier.

Plus I've lost my wand so I kinda want sex more than ever.

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

It comes and go really but mainly due to not enough time in the day to juggle everything at once so by the time I find to have some free time, I'm shattered lol

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I'm too tired to have a mojo right now, but life's beating mine out of me at the moment.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some days it vanishes. Other days it's there on some sort of turbo charge.

There is no happy medium at the moment.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Mine went for a good while earlier this year and it really wound me up. Couldn't figure out why or what I could do to get it back. And now, all on it's own, it seems to be making it's way back. I think it just comes and goes as it pleases. If you know why yours has gone though, maybe you can help bring it back

LvM

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

Old age and ill health have finally killed my Mojo off

It has given me good service over the years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lost mine a while ago and still looking for it

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By *rMemberMan
over a year ago

Wimbledon

"I don’t think I have, but unfortunately the current life circumstances are just not mojo friendly. "

This sums it up nicely!

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I'm offering myself for mojo testing to see if mine working .because I certainly no how get a ladies mojo infull swing .

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

My mojo is hiding behind a bushel just waiting to be released...

Mojo's they come n they go, it's a game of swings n roundabouts.

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By *inky ChefMan
over a year ago

Norwich

I still have my mojo, but I still got the blues too.

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By *hief_Of_AlwaysMan
over a year ago

London or Bedford

I lost my mojo 13years ago.

I don’t know why

Was like a light was switched off

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
over a year ago

Essex

I haven’t lost my mojo. But I have gained an edge to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish I did lose it. I could've been the next Einstein if I focused more on that, than that.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

No. Disinterest in new partners is mine, I guess like a known sofa I'm comfortable with what I have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I left it in the forum somewhere blimey place is like a maze hope you enjoy the humour If someone finds it a fry up and a brew is the reward have a great Sunday peeps

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

"No. Disinterest in new partners is mine, I guess like a known sofa I'm comfortable with what I have"

Did they cum from DFS

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Mine went for a good while earlier this year and it really wound me up. Couldn't figure out why or what I could do to get it back. And now, all on it's own, it seems to be making it's way back. I think it just comes and goes as it pleases. If you know why yours has gone though, maybe you can help bring it back

LvM"

Mines a feeling of being defeated, that what I aim for will not happen. What I go for will end up being the opposite.

For weeks I have tried to tackle the same thing to no avail. I feel like I've used lots of headspace on it and actively tried to clear the way for it. But I'm still at square one.

And then there's the feeling that despite what I was giving, what I wasn't giving meant losing all what was there in more than one case. For reasons I think were not justified in some cases and me sticking to boundaries.

The only way to change it is to get a good result somewhere but I'm fucked if I can find where the easiest or most likely one is to be achieved.

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

My mojo is very much where it should be at the moment but yes I do lose it at times. Usually more to do with other things in life getting on top of me but sometimes it can be when no one is really sparking my interest. It isn’t usually lost for long thankfully.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

"No. Disinterest in new partners is mine, I guess like a known sofa I'm comfortable with what I have

Did they cum from DFS "

No but I often find a quid down the back

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

"No. Disinterest in new partners is mine, I guess like a known sofa I'm comfortable with what I have

Did they cum from DFS

No but I often find a quid down the back"

Is your disinterest next to the quid, have a feel whilst your down there

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By *ex LutherMan
over a year ago

Closer than you think

My mojo is lying dormant but primed and ready once the right lady comes along in the meantime I will just have to find other ways to release

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think the stressor of life causes massive mojo reduction x

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

South East & Europe

Mine comes and goes, it varies day to day and week to week. Right this moment I'm not interested in sex, and I'm ok with that. It'll come back when it comes back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah it comes and go’s….. sometimes I can’t be arsed making the effort

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

LvM

Mines a feeling of being defeated, that what I aim for will not happen. What I go for will end up being the opposite.

For weeks I have tried to tackle the same thing to no avail. I feel like I've used lots of headspace on it and actively tried to clear the way for it. But I'm still at square one.

The only way to change it is to get a good result somewhere but I'm fucked if I can find where the easiest or most likely one is to be achieved."

That does sound horrible, I'm sorry to hear you're feeling all this. Hopefully a bit of time will help with what's been troubling you, and maybe doing some things just for yourself in the meantime

LvM

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By *wistedsoul35Man
over a year ago

cumbria

I think I've lost mine. It's been so long without any form of sexual/intimate contact or connection. Seems it's made me a feel a bit strange and has left me just not being bothered really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have, would rather watch tv than have sex, been a good few months and i dont miss it one bit, i chat to guys hoping maybe it will make me feel like wanting sex but nope nothing, think it's just my age

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

LvM

Mines a feeling of being defeated, that what I aim for will not happen. What I go for will end up being the opposite.

For weeks I have tried to tackle the same thing to no avail. I feel like I've used lots of headspace on it and actively tried to clear the way for it. But I'm still at square one.

The only way to change it is to get a good result somewhere but I'm fucked if I can find where the easiest or most likely one is to be achieved.

That does sound horrible, I'm sorry to hear you're feeling all this. Hopefully a bit of time will help with what's been troubling you, and maybe doing some things just for yourself in the meantime

LvM"

I'm fine. Just a bit meh at everything

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Mine has took a bit of a bashing these last few weeks but that’s down to how I’ve been treated.

I have lots to look forward too so it’s starting to simmer away nicely once again

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By *uietlycheekyMan
over a year ago

aberdeen

It’s around somewhere…. No sure where though

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
over a year ago

North West

Yeah, it went missing a bit ago, and I'm really peeved.

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By *oadsafun1960Man
over a year ago

Somerset & Hertfordshire

LvM

Mines a feeling of being defeated, that what I aim for will not happen. What I go for will end up being the opposite.

For weeks I have tried to tackle the same thing to no avail. I feel like I've used lots of headspace on it and actively tried to clear the way for it. But I'm still at square one.

The only way to change it is to get a good result somewhere but I'm fucked if I can find where the easiest or most likely one is to be achieved."

I know that feeling as my mojo was effectively taken! nothing I did could get it back and believe me I tried, but blocked at every attempt.

Now I've got to get a new one, the trick is start small and work up.... Little successes that you build up to bigger ones, that way your mojo starts to grow. Then slowly the thief will lose your mojo and you'll have a new one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely lost mine ATM. If only I could have lost my horn at the same time. I am wanting the sex but feel very lack lustre in my approach to getting any. I'm on a promise today so hopefully that will kick start the mo and the Jo will follow ;-p

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

"And then there's the feeling that despite what I was giving, what I wasn't giving meant losing all what was there in more than one case. For reasons I think were not justified in some cases and me sticking to boundaries.

I did wonder whether to DM but as you posted in the forum I'll reply here.

The bit that you weren't giving. I think it very much depends on whether you weren't giving it because you didn't feel it. Or because you were determined to stick to your boundaries out of stubbornness. Only you know which, but in the first case you could be feeling guilty that you weren't able to reciprocate. And the second is even messier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I haven’t lost my mojo. But I have gained an edge to me."

Oh, I like your 7th Oct 'toilet challenge photo. I think the Forum should run one. I may add to my photos later today for the shere fun of it - all in the best possible taste.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I did lose it. Thought I was very unfuckable and not the sort of woman a person would choose to spend time with, in any capacity. Unattractive. A lot of the un words. I know why it happened, I won't be going in to it. I know, such an enigma.

I've been rediscovering it lately. And myself. My confidence. The joy of not overthinking. The happier I am, the more my libido seems to roar into life. I'm very happy it's back. Very happy indeed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s there I’m just ignoring it at the minute.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did. But I’m getting back into it. I’m starting to feel attractive again and I think my confidence is helping

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have, would rather watch tv than have sex, been a good few months and i dont miss it one bit, i chat to guys hoping maybe it will make me feel like wanting sex but nope nothing, think it's just my age "

You're only 46 ffs. That's no age at all. I think that is roughly the age I started playing! However, I can sympathise with you re the tele, I have been known to ignore a partner naked in front of me when there is an England footie game on the TV (er, that did not go well!)

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By *ome a little bit closerMan
over a year ago

Out 'n' About

Mines a feeling of being defeated, that what I aim for will not happen. What I go for will end up being the opposite.

100% this

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By *ingpot!Man
over a year ago

West Cork

LvM"

"I think it just comes and goes as it pleases."

So much this! It can be infuriating and cyclically self-defeating in my experience - worrying about it certainly makes it worse

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Oh I've had that done to me, no that's not a good move.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mine has took a bit of a bashing these last few weeks but that’s down to how I’ve been treated.

I have lots to look forward too so it’s starting to simmer away nicely once again "

Surely that's just the anti climax of returning from your Croatian hols (still jealous here), and you have your next one coming up.

I will meet you in Peru if you like, can show you the sights of Machu Pichu and explore the Nazca Lines

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

In the past, it's gone on holiday usually as a consequence of life's stresses. Fortunately it bounces back quickly, just like its owner

Very much tied to our emotional headspace.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mojo is fine, endlessly patient…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I've had that done to me, no that's not a good move.

Yep. It was when I was in my 20s and I've not done it again (though I don't think the opportunity has arisen again - besides England' male team [both in footie and rugby] never live up to expectation and always disappoint).

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By *aissez-faireMan
over a year ago

Right behind you…. Boo

I lost mine for a couple of years so made some small changes to my lifestyle. I improved my diet, cut back on the alcohol, changed how I exercised, removed a lot of the stresses in my work life and made sure I get plenty of sleep. It has made a big difference. Hence why I’m back here.

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

"I seem to have. I think I know why. I think some would assume they know why I've lost mine but they would probably be wrong.

Im sure it'll come back eventually.

Have you lost yours and do you know why?"

It's not seeing my pictures isn't it?! I knew it!

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By *ake_or_deathMan
over a year ago

Manchester

My majo disappeared completely for a while due to some health issues. Since then it's been very up and down. I have met a couple of women (not from here) and things have gotten sexual but I've had to feel very comfortable with the person even for casual. I've also met a couple of ladies (including from Fab) when my mojo wasn't great and I wasn't at my best so things didn't go further. It's frustrating not knowing if it's going to desert me.

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

"I lost the want to actually like someone a long time ago.

Now I just go through the motions and stick to meaningless sex. It's easier.

Plus I've lost my wand so I kinda want sex more than ever."

No one offer to buy her another wand!

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By *mber81Woman
over a year ago

Lives in Preston, Eng

"I seem to have. I think I know why. I think some would assume they know why I've lost mine but they would probably be wrong.

Im sure it'll come back eventually.

Have you lost yours and do you know why?"

My mojo is very much around. But my and my mojo's priorities and goals are changing. Not currently in alignment with each other but it is fun though occasionally frustrating trying to line them up.

I hope you are doing ok OP. We all need a break sometimes maybe even our mojo's need to take time off to recharge. X

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan
over a year ago

Norwich

"I lost mine for a couple of years so made some small changes to my lifestyle. I improved my diet, cut back on the alcohol, changed how I exercised, removed a lot of the stresses in my work life and made sure I get plenty of sleep. It has made a big difference. Hence why I’m back here. "

Sounds like solid advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I seem to have. I think I know why. I think some would assume they know why I've lost mine but they would probably be wrong.

Im sure it'll come back eventually.

Have you lost yours and do you know why?"

SAD always affected mine.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I have, and yes I know why.

Not particularly bothered either. It has sort of happened at the right time (if that makes sense?).

I’m sure it will come back eventually.

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By *asty tatsyMan
over a year ago

london

Yes it’s completely gone at the moment

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By *boroM2Man
over a year ago

Peterborough

With most people as they age a little their testosterone levels lower so this is your mojo on the decrease, have it measured by blood tests, if it is low enough you can have 3 monthly injections, that what I am doing, it helps, slightly.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

keep it on the thread please.

FFS I'm going to have to put a sentence about this on any thread I make.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I never had it, but I'm more than willing to look for my mojo between your legs

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

My mojo is temporarily under construction

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"keep it on the thread please.

FFS I'm going to have to put a sentence about this on any thread I make.

Make sure it's in block capital letters

Op, you'll have to accept that these thought provoking threads as considered by many as an "angle" to DM. It's not proper etiquette, true, but when has that ever stopped people here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did lose mine for quite a considerable length of time, which was due to a number of reasons, but it has now returned so happy days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"With most people as they age a little their testosterone levels lower so this is your mojo on the decrease, have it measured by blood tests, if it is low enough you can have 3 monthly injections, that what I am doing, it helps, slightly.

Do you do any kind of strength training?

That can have beneficial effects on T levels

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By *boroM2Man
over a year ago

Peterborough

Do you do any kind of strength training?

That can have beneficial effects on T levels "

Im too old and knackered for that , although work as online driver for supermarket which is v strenuous

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"keep it on the thread please.

FFS I'm going to have to put a sentence about this on any thread I make.

Make sure it's in block capital letters

Op, you'll have to accept that these thought provoking threads as considered by many as an "angle" to DM. It's not proper etiquette, true, but when has that ever stopped people here?"

It's always lurkers. Always people that aren't even on the thread.

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

No, mine is not high at the moment, as I dont have one to do it with. I can go years without feeling the need for it

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

I seem to have mine and everyone else’s. My libido is insane right now!

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"I seem to have mine and everyone else’s. My libido is insane right now!

Don't spontaneously combust!

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

"I seem to have mine and everyone else’s. My libido is insane right now!

Don't spontaneously combust!

Awww I appreciate you looking out for me, C.

Now, let me get my hands on you.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

It's crazy isn't it how one's mojo flitters and absconds? My mojo tends to wax and wane like the crescent moon. I need to feel desired otherwise it just simmers in the background waiting to be reignited by someone who carries a spark of intent.

Sometimes I go looking for that "spark" hoping to reclaim my lost mojo...and it's something I've started doing over the weekend...

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania

I have no mojo. I lost it ages ago and I just go through the motions. I know why, I just can't do anything about it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's crazy isn't it how one's mojo flitters and absconds? My mojo tends to wax and wane like the crescent moon. I need to feel desired otherwise it just simmers in the background waiting to be reignited by someone who carries a spark of intent.

Sometimes I go looking for that "spark" hoping to reclaim my lost mojo...and it's something I've started doing over the weekend..."

I can have lots of mojo in the summer without anyone desiring me, or just because life is good and I'm positive. But the energy in me from my mojo also helps with the positivity in life and achieving so it's like a full moon.

I wonder if someone desiring me would be enough to put it back. I could try that but it would feel like I'm forcing myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yea Mojo lost for a few months now ,not going through the motions though just finding other stuff to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on if you mean mojo: energy for life or mojo for fucking.

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I lost mine around Christmas time. I was so ill for weeks. Then real life stuff has made me sad and tired. I'm slowly getting some energy back, but the mojo is stubbornly hiding. It's frustrating, but I can but hope it will return soon. I know my husband is looking forward to it's return.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

Sometimes I go looking for that "spark" hoping to reclaim my lost mojo...and it's something I've started doing over the weekend...

I wonder if someone desiring me would be enough to put it back. I could try that but it would feel like I'm forcing myself."

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I think being desired does play a part to an extent. Sometimes that "extent" is enough to rekindle the embers of a dormant mojo. I wouldn't think of it as "forcing" yourself; more like a gentle nudge and persuasion to coax that mojo back into action. Granted, it can feel contrived though, but that view is open to interpretation.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

"I lost mine around Christmas time. I was so ill for weeks. Then real life stuff has made me sad and tired. I'm slowly getting some energy back, but the mojo is stubbornly hiding. It's frustrating, but I can but hope it will return soon. I know my husband is looking forward to it's return."

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Are you feeling better now, Dee?

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Fulwood

Real life has definitely gotten in the way…. Time, work, more important things …. Could definitely do with some downtime….

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

Still there, relaxing by the fire.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine walked off at the end of a recent relationship.

I’m pushing positivity and can feel myself improving everyday.

Still a little way to go but I’m smiling again.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Yes totally. Mostly down to the pain of my injury and the joy of menopause. It’s been dead for a few years but I have had bigger fish to fry so quite grateful really.

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By *ome a little bit closerMan
over a year ago

Out 'n' About

Sometimes I go looking for that "spark" hoping to reclaim my lost mojo...and it's something I've started doing over the weekend...

I wonder if someone desiring me would be enough to put it back. I could try that but it would feel like I'm forcing myself."

You have lots of people desiring you PW, don't think you haven't, some of us are just a smidge too young to contact you

I hope you find it again, my life's far too busy to even think about mojo, when it happens, it happens and I'm cool with that

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By *uke_silverMan
over a year ago

London

Perhaps, I don't know. I do know that it seems like it depends too much on the 'feeling desired' bit at the moment - which is not good! I need to get better at not internalising the 'un words' as Meli put it. Not only for myself, but for others too - I feel like I'm a better person when I don't feel like I'm placing a burden on others. When I can focus on them and make them smile instead of being an uncheerful sod.

I do have a proper long holiday coming up though, so I'll be taking a break from these thoughts and hopefully that's enough to recharge my batteries. It's going to be a 'New Year, New Me'!

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By *oopy Lou 666Woman
over a year ago

Heaven.....………. I came down from Heaven

Wow reading this post you would never believe so many peoples mojos have gone

Being new to site to me it seems like everybody and everyone is at it all the time……. how wrong was I …… I now see the desperation in messages I get to get a shag of some kind

There’s a Mo for everyJo out there let’s hope they meet and put our mojos back together

Mine considering my age is brill at the moment xx

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By *ixed MisterMan
over a year ago

London

I had lost it, but I think I'm slowly finding it again now. So am looking forward to unleashing said mojo soon.

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By *he Rocks666Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

Life is very ummmm, life ish. Lots going on but this will pass. Will get my grrrrrr back eventually.

Mr Rocks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is completely gone, and has been for months

no idea how to get it back either

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over

Everybody does from time to time as life is unpredictable. Usually yiu get it back and hopefully the case for you too

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

Yep, pretty much. It pops back occasionally, but I've sort of got used to life without it. Not sure if I miss it or not, tbh.

(I assume we're just talking sexy mojo on this here sex site. Because life is good otherwise, which is maybe why I'm not that bothered by its disappearance!?!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't but I think I'd rather lose it so that at least I don't want sex when it's not available.

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By *oopy Lou 666Woman
over a year ago

Heaven.....………. I came down from Heaven

"I seem to have. I think I know why. I think some would assume they know why I've lost mine but they would probably be wrong.

Im sure it'll come back eventually.

Have you lost yours and do you know why?"

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By *ecretSilverlinkMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Lost mine completely. I’m normally the one thinking positive but just haven’t been feeling great recently. I know this cloud will pass but I hope it’s soon ha x

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By *akedTruthPT2Couple
over a year ago

Wellington

Our Mojo stutters, sometimes it's ice cold, others it's red hot.. wine helps...

Generally, life stuff is a mojo killer, but we really should try harder...

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By *icksthenameMan
over a year ago

South Shields

I lost my “mojo” when my other half started paying alone with me and it hasn’t come back since and I don’t know if it ever will.

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By *am101aMan
over a year ago

swad

Not really sure i every had a mojo!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's on its way out. Several months of rejection and a couple of shitty "lose some weight" replies will do that to a fella though

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By *lueDressWoman
over a year ago

Bath

I only seem to lose My Mojo when I'm with somebody I don't find attractive.

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

"I seem to have. I think I know why. I think some would assume they know why I've lost mine but they would probably be wrong.

Im sure it'll come back eventually.

Have you lost yours and do you know why?"

I have. And quite recently. I know why and I've learned to be gentle with myself. My mojo can be quite the distraction sometimes so I've used that time to explore myself in other ways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dr evil stole it

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Mine is very much live and kicking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure if I've lost it, or I've just changed, or my requirements have changed.

A conundrum for sure.

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By *archelCouple
over a year ago

A field somewhere

My mojo has disappeared. Not completely, I'm fine at home with Mrs _archel, but in a club I'm useless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mines flown away too, it’s work, too much of it, too many almost obtainable key performance indicators therefore narrowly missing out on quarterly bonuses, twats the lot of them

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By *ikestowatchherMan
over a year ago

Southgate

Maybe I had Mojo once but kids, work, chores and responsibilities that I never asked for have me on the ropes. The worst part is feeling that stuff we could be doing that would bring the mojo back with a vengeance are just out of reach and we’ll regret not making the most of it when we still could.

sorry! Maybe I should just go to bed!

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"I seem to have. I think I know why. I think some would assume they know why I've lost mine but they would probably be wrong.

Im sure it'll come back eventually.

Have you lost yours and do you know why?"

Yes mine has done a runner.. I know exactly why..and I know that it will come back ...

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By *ouglas DigglerMan
over a year ago

Stockport

Lady, hear me tonight - that is all x

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By *heArrowsCouple
over a year ago

I lost mine recently.

A combination of work stress and getting into my own head.

The more mojo I lost, the more I got into my head, the more mojo I lost.

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By *iker59Man
over a year ago

wrexhamm

Mines disappeared for a while now and I would like it to return soon as I do miss it at times.

Can't put a finger on it why it initially waned ?

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

I had, between exhaustion and a looming surgery that had me scared and worried.

But now I am back to normal, still tired from work, but gradually getting my mojo back.

Knowing that I am restored back to full health has been an enormous boost and it has helpex with the old mojo.

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

Long ago once you tasted unlimited cosmic power everything else is simply paul daniels stuff

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

We had but in the last month or so we have definitely found it again.

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By *orny-DJMan
over a year ago

Leigh-on-Sea

A little bit, but I'm sure it's only temporary

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By *ashMan
over a year ago

Westhoughton

Yes I have. Probably bcoz i don't fit in to what most people want to have..

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