FabSwingers.com forum: Snuggle / cuddle meets

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You know I think I’m at that stage of my Fab journey this is what I’m after more than anything.

Yeah I know it’s a fuck site and all that, but a bit of that, some snogs, ok maybe getting a *little* bit handsy..

Anyway, who’s with me?

Or is it penetration or bust - full on sex is where it’s at!

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By *ake_or_deathMan
over a year ago

Manchester

It isn't 'penetration or bust' - a cuddle/snuggle date sounds nice, although an oral sex date sounds even better

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

Cuddles are nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a strict no cuddle rule on meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cuddles are lovely. I prefer to meet people who like to cuddle than not.

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

I love kisses and I love touch, it would definitely work for me

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I'd find it quite weird if a guy said that's specifically what he wanted to meet for

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

"I have a strict no cuddle rule on meets. "

Seems a bit demanding this

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Cuddles / snuggles are an important element of a meet, but I'm too much of a hedonist to not want sex.

It's like having a nice appetiser but not having the main course.

They can serve as excellent dessert after, however

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

I could use a cuddle right no xx

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

I suppose it depends what your looking for if I want a cuddle then I have my husband but single people would probably think differently to us ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a strict no cuddle rule on meets.

Seems a bit demanding this

Thems the rules I'm afraid.

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

"I have a strict no cuddle rule on meets.

Seems a bit demanding this

Thems the rules I'm afraid."

What about spooning?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a strict no cuddle rule on meets.

Seems a bit demanding this

Thems the rules I'm afraid.

What about spooning?

No.

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

This sounds lush

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A cuddle is ok

A Snuggle is crossing the line as that is something you would do with a love one.

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

"I have a strict no cuddle rule on meets.

Seems a bit demanding this

Thems the rules I'm afraid.

What about spooning?

No."

What about if you're kissing and they pull you in closer?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a strict no cuddle rule on meets.

Seems a bit demanding this

Thems the rules I'm afraid.

What about spooning?

No.

What about if you're kissing and they pull you in closer?

Then it leads to sex? That's ok.

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

"I have a strict no cuddle rule on meets.

Seems a bit demanding this

Thems the rules I'm afraid.

What about spooning?

No.

What about if you're kissing and they pull you in closer?

Then it leads to sex? That's ok.

I've found the loophole boys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's sad that there seems to be this idea that encounters (I hate the term meets) need to be all about the sex.

I love the date experiences. Drinks,chatting, flirting, kissing, a bit of hand holding and then the end of the night kiss that leaves you both excited for more.

Don't get me wrong I love the sex too but sometimes things get in the way of that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think it's sad that there seems to be this idea that encounters (I hate the term meets) need to be all about the sex.

I love the date experiences. Drinks,chatting, flirting, kissing, a bit of hand holding and then the end of the night kiss that leaves you both excited for more.

Don't get me wrong I love the sex too but sometimes things get in the way of that. "

I’m quite a tactile person so the touchy feely stuff is nice and can make a perfectly satisfying “date”.

We all like the sex, but you’re right a change from the norm can still be a buzz and quite intimate!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a strict no cuddle rule on meets. "
Same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it's sad that there seems to be this idea that encounters (I hate the term meets) need to be all about the sex.

I love the date experiences. Drinks,chatting, flirting, kissing, a bit of hand holding and then the end of the night kiss that leaves you both excited for more.

Don't get me wrong I love the sex too but sometimes things get in the way of that. "

They don't "need to be all about sex"

Some people like them to be about sex and some people don't

If you don't then do your thing

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I remember reading something on here about some cuddle club where people just meet to cuddle. I couldn’t think of anything worse! I love cuddles and wouldn’t meet people who just wanted the sex only but cuddling strangers would be awful for me. I’m not very touchy feeley at all with folk I don’t know. I’m the opposite with people I’m comfortable with though.

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By *ceKweenWoman
over a year ago

Bolton

If it’s just an orgasm we require then we can that ourselves. I myself adore human touch. Be it slow and sensual or hard and rampant… feel and touch are a necessity before, during and after.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

If I've met them before? I'd happily have a kissing/dryhumping snuggle date.

If I don't know them I'm not sure how much cuddling I'd want. You can't fake that sort of intimacy and forced intimacy would be really weird.

This is coming from a woman who hasn't had sex on a first date for a long time and happily meets friends/lovers to do all sorts bar... sexual acts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it's sad that there seems to be this idea that encounters (I hate the term meets) need to be all about the sex.

I love the date experiences. Drinks,chatting, flirting, kissing, a bit of hand holding and then the end of the night kiss that leaves you both excited for more.

Don't get me wrong I love the sex too but sometimes things get in the way of that. "

I can't do that, not anymore. The cuddling helps me keep it at just sex and nothing more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes to cuddles and massages. Without that extra element I might as well just have a wank.

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
over a year ago

Merseyside

Snuggles and smooches are perfect - maybe a bit of hand wandering hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can't beat a good cuddle and snuggle

Lou

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it's sad that there seems to be this idea that encounters (I hate the term meets) need to be all about the sex.

I love the date experiences. Drinks,chatting, flirting, kissing, a bit of hand holding and then the end of the night kiss that leaves you both excited for more.

Don't get me wrong I love the sex too but sometimes things get in the way of that.

I can't do that, not anymore. The cuddling helps me keep it at just sex and nothing more.

I can totally understand that. I've been there

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

I am in. I like snuggles and cuddles

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

I adore the idea of a cuddle meet! Yes, please!

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

South East & Europe

The most erotic meet I ever had was a social which ended up involving a lot of kissing and touching. We were unable to go any further, due to being in a bar, and both of us having plans after, but for those few hours we were both so turned on it was incredible.

How did it end you ask? Well we went our separate ways and then about 3 days later she got into an exclusive arrangement with someone. I guess she's the one who got away. Where's the violin emoji??

Long story short: meets with touching and teasing are hot as fuck. I think about that one more often than a lot of my sex meets.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The most erotic meet I ever had was a social which ended up involving a lot of kissing and touching. We were unable to go any further, due to being in a bar, and both of us having plans after, but for those few hours we were both so turned on it was incredible.

How did it end you ask? Well we went our separate ways and then about 3 days later she got into an exclusive arrangement with someone. I guess she's the one who got away. Where's the violin emoji??

Long story short: meets with touching and teasing are hot as fuck. I think about that one more often than a lot of my sex meets."

I hear ya, one of my most memorable Fab meets back in the day was quite similar, a first social in a pub, we had a little booth in the corner and spent ages kissing like teenagers .. I have no idea if anyone saw us as just too in the moment. Honestly one of the hottest meets I’ve had.

(Mind you, we did meet again in a Travelodge 3 weeks later but that’s a different story

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

we like to be sensual and erotic so see no issue with cuddles and snuggles, why not? basic human touch is a turn on, but it doesn't always have to lead to full on sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I remember reading something on here about some cuddle club where people just meet to cuddle. I couldn’t think of anything worse! I love cuddles and wouldn’t meet people who just wanted the sex only but cuddling strangers would be awful for me. I’m not very touchy feeley at all with folk I don’t know. I’m the opposite with people I’m comfortable with though. "

Exactly.. This op

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I have that with an fwb.

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By *estinyIsAllCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

I'll gladly encourage snuggles with another woman. I like that emotional connection but I don't enjoy it with other men. Some will think that's odd but I can be!

D x

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

I’d bloody love a good cuddle. I had a great cuddle buddy a few years ago but he moved away. God I miss him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good lord it's a no from me. If I like someone enough to want to snuggle and cuddle them I'd be wanting sex.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

That would be great, a meet up with cuddles and spooning. And well, if the chemistry is good, it could lead to something else.

Just putting that out there

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

To be clear, an arse squeeze isn’t totally out of the question … it’s not necessarily *all* smoochy

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

If you don't hug my bum too then I'm out!!

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Perfect on a bitterly cold Sunday, make a blanket fort, hot chocolate and marshmallows, chocolate and watching old British comedy films on the tv

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

I wouldn’t be averse to a cuddle/ snuggle date. Except they never seem to stop there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a strict no cuddle rule on meets.

Seems a bit demanding this

Thems the rules I'm afraid.

What about spooning?

No."

Spooning usually leads to forking

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By *mber81Woman
over a year ago

Chorley, Eng

I bloody love cuddles, snuggles, spooning, talking. I will probably want some kissing and fucking too though. Before, during and after the snuggling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could do with company for a film....but they can sit the opposite end of the sofa and not speak.

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

"I could do with company for a film....but they can sit the opposite end of the sofa and not speak."

Whats the film?

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

"I bloody love cuddles, snuggles, spooning, talking. I will probably want some kissing and fucking too though. Before, during and after the snuggling."

Only if there is snacks too!

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By *os_GoddessofdawnWoman
over a year ago

In the clouds

Would absolutely love that tonight

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By *mber81Woman
over a year ago

Chorley, Eng

"I bloody love cuddles, snuggles, spooning, talking. I will probably want some kissing and fucking too though. Before, during and after the snuggling.

Only if there is snacks too!"

Of course there are snacks what kind of woman do you think I am!? What kind of post orgasm, mid snuggling snacks do you like?

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By *tacy.TWoman
over a year ago

luton

For me it doesn't always have to be about penetration, I love a good cuddle/snuggle!

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

"I bloody love cuddles, snuggles, spooning, talking. I will probably want some kissing and fucking too though. Before, during and after the snuggling.

Only if there is snacks too!

Of course there are snacks what kind of woman do you think I am!? What kind of post orgasm, mid snuggling snacks do you like?"

You

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By *udosMan
over a year ago

hull

Surely if you are going to be intimate with each other then you are going to be in some sort of close clinch or cuddle if only during the ultimate act.! I personally enjoy the closeness to a lady as well as the sex act. But if no cuddle rule applied would make it feel very wooden and impersonal and would certainly take away a lot of the enjoyment of making love together.

Yes I know some people just want an unfeeling fuck. But not me. It's a little bit of heaven to be enjoyed.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

That’s something I’d like to do.

Penetration does very little to me anyway so any willing participants, apply within (I mean without).

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By *541Man
over a year ago

Southampton

Yeah I really enjoy these meetings way more chill less pressure maybe

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We should start a cuddle meet thread.. I’m in

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We should start a cuddle meet thread.. I’m in

Well, obviously that’s what THIS thread is, but I mean a ‘let’s get together’ thread. Or whatever you’d call it.

gawd, I dunno

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

"We should start a cuddle meet thread.. I’m in

How about a cuddle meet WEBSITE?

I’ll join.

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By *ransgirl7TV/TS
over a year ago

South Devon

Sounds lovely. I really feel incomplete if I don’t get cuddles after sex, no matter how kinky.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We should start a cuddle meet thread.. I’m in

How about a cuddle meet WEBSITE?

I’ll join."

FabSnuggles? Done

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By *hor ThumbMan
over a year ago

bristol

"I could use a cuddle right no xx"

Have a cuddle on me, I cannot drift pass someone in need of a cuddle. I’ve had plenty this last few weeks after losing my brother unexpectedly. Life would be unbearable without them. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I could do with company for a film....but they can sit the opposite end of the sofa and not speak.

Whats the film?"

Dunno yet

probably a psychological thriller

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By *hor ThumbMan
over a year ago

bristol

"I could do with company for a film....but they can sit the opposite end of the sofa and not speak."
I have yet to meet a woman that doesn’t speak through the entire film.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

"We should start a cuddle meet thread.. I’m in

How about a cuddle meet WEBSITE?

I’ll join.

FabSnuggles? Done

How much for the site support?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just like pudding

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We should start a cuddle meet thread.. I’m in

How about a cuddle meet WEBSITE?

I’ll join.

FabSnuggles? Done

How much for the site support?

I’ve got a few Premium passes I can dish out free to VIP subscribers

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Snuggles and spooning is all fine and dandy but busting few moves just adds a twist. Body chemistry

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

"We should start a cuddle meet thread.. I’m in

How about a cuddle meet WEBSITE?

I’ll join.

FabSnuggles? Done

How much for the site support?

I’ve got a few Premium passes I can dish out free to VIP subscribers

Yes please

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We should start a cuddle meet thread.. I’m in

How about a cuddle meet WEBSITE?

I’ll join.

FabSnuggles? Done

How much for the site support?

I’ve got a few Premium passes I can dish out free to VIP subscribers

Yes please

VIP pass #1 is yours! But how do I get it to you!?

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Don't do it, it's a trap!

I caught feelings for my fwb because he cuddled me after sex and now I have to cuddle with him forever.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

"We should start a cuddle meet thread.. I’m in

How about a cuddle meet WEBSITE?

I’ll join.

FabSnuggles? Done

How much for the site support?

I’ve got a few Premium passes I can dish out free to VIP subscribers

Yes please

VIP pass #1 is yours! But how do I get it to you!?

Is there any website inauguration planned by any chance? We could do it there then

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We should start a cuddle meet thread.. I’m in

How about a cuddle meet WEBSITE?

I’ll join.

FabSnuggles? Done

How much for the site support?

I’ve got a few Premium passes I can dish out free to VIP subscribers

Yes please

VIP pass #1 is yours! But how do I get it to you!?

Is there any website inauguration planned by any chance? We could do it there then

I’ll invite the Krankies as a famous (infamous?

) celeb Swinging couple to be the guests of honour!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This should be on the interests tick things!! Or a meet option!! Snuggles five miles away, tonight-I’m there!

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

"Don't do it, it's a trap!

I caught feelings for my fwb because he cuddled me after sex and now I have to cuddle with him forever.

Don't act like you don't enjoy it

LvM

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

"We should start a cuddle meet thread.. I’m in

How about a cuddle meet WEBSITE?

I’ll join.

FabSnuggles? Done

How much for the site support?

I’ve got a few Premium passes I can dish out free to VIP subscribers

Yes please

VIP pass #1 is yours! But how do I get it to you!?

Is there any website inauguration planned by any chance? We could do it there then

I’ll invite the Krankies as a famous (infamous?

) celeb Swinging couple to be the guests of honour!

Perfect!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't do it, it's a trap!

I caught feelings for my fwb because he cuddled me after sex and now I have to cuddle with him forever.

Don't act like you don't enjoy it

LvM"

You too are just too cute some day. Makes me sick hahahah xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly these are my favourite kind of meets as they are just relaxing and make me happy. Meets involving sexual stuff just leave me feeling stressed and anxious.

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By *ature male OldhamMan
over a year ago

Royton nr Oldham

"I think it's sad that there seems to be this idea that encounters (I hate the term meets) need to be all about the sex.

I love the date experiences. Drinks,chatting, flirting, kissing, a bit of hand holding and then the end of the night kiss that leaves you both excited for more.

Don't get me wrong I love the sex too but sometimes things get in the way of that. "

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By *sleWightCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Ryde

We have one regular we've dubbed "Hugs-a-lot", as he really likes cuddling during sex, which is fine by me. I tend to only do that kind of stuff with people with whom a rapport established, as it's quite a personal thing.

Big a rather big ol' bird, I'm built for nestling into, and a couple of married/partnered guys have said that their wives are waifs or boney, and they like the feeling of snuggling into me.

If I wasn't uncomfortable with the whole Adult Baby scene, I could make bloody fortune as a "Nanny".

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By *ostindreamsMan
over a year ago

London

I would love a cuddle meet.

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over a year ago

South Wales

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