FabSwingers.com forum: Treat the mean....

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So genuinely would love some opinions on this.

The whole Treat them mean, keep them keen thing.

I swear the more mean I am to some guys the more they want me, but if there is a guy and I am nice to them they run a fucking mile!

What's this all about??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Takes all sorts OP

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

"So genuinely would love some opinions on this.

The whole Treat them mean, keep them keen thing.

I swear the more mean I am to some guys the more they want me, but if there is a guy and I am nice to them they run a fucking mile!

What's this all about?? "

People react differently to things. Some see things as a challenge to try and achieve, others just think fuck off you rude cow.

Likewise if you're nice, that's boring, need to have more fight about you.

It's all very playground flirting

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Clearly you're attracting all the subby bitch boys with your strong independent woman energy that the others can't handle

LvM

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By *ovetolick78Man
over a year ago

The Shire

I'm on the fence about this. It depends how mean as that could just have me walking away, I like someone being nice to me as long as its not like a love sick puppy.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

The thrill of the chase.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So genuinely would love some opinions on this.

The whole Treat them mean, keep them keen thing.

I swear the more mean I am to some guys the more they want me, but if there is a guy and I am nice to them they run a fucking mile!

What's this all about??

People react differently to things. Some see things as a challenge to try and achieve, others just think fuck off you rude cow.

Likewise if you're nice, that's boring, need to have more fight about you.

It's all very playground flirting "

Omg Playground flirting does kinda sum it up pretty well.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm on the fence about this. It depends how mean as that could just have me walking away, I like someone being nice to me as long as its not like a love sick puppy. "

Oh I am not a dick, it's more like if I am brutally honest with them, tell them how it is, tell them they aren't all that.... that's usually when they go full chasing me.

I don't do love, so I'd never act like that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Clearly you're attracting all the subby bitch boys with your strong independent woman energy that the others can't handle

LvM"

You're right, it is subby bitch boys! But ones that try to pretend that they are all alpha male.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Fuck knows.

They think persistence is key? Or that we're just playing hard to get because we're obviously into them, that's the only reason we'd say no, obviously.

For me, no means no. Persistence means blocking

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

"Clearly you're attracting all the subby bitch boys with your strong independent woman energy that the others can't handle

LvM

You're right, it is subby bitch boys! But ones that try to pretend that they are all alpha male."

Oh, you mean twenty-one year old "Doms"?

LvM

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I don’t get it to be honest. If someone treats me like crap then they can just f**k off as far as I am concerned.

I find people who keep coming back after you say no are very needy and needy is not enticing in any way.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"Clearly you're attracting all the subby bitch boys with your strong independent woman energy that the others can't handle

LvM"

Yep. Either can't or are unwilling to handle.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Even if it did keep somebody keen, I have no desire to intentionally treat anybody mean so I just wouldn't do it. The idea repels me.

If anybody wants to treat me mean they can get stuffed. There's a reason why my ex wife is my ex and my partner now is my forever person, and it's a lot to do with how they treat me. Luke

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

I’ve never understood this mentality. If someone’s mean to me I’m off. I’m too literal for that nonsense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah, bollocks to that. I don't need games or being shit on. Just be fucking upfront with me if you do like me and fucking treat me like I'm actually worth your time.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I’ve never understood this mentality. If someone’s mean to me I’m off. I’m too literal for that nonsense "

Yep same. No time for that crap

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By *ovetolick78Man
over a year ago

The Shire

"I'm on the fence about this. It depends how mean as that could just have me walking away, I like someone being nice to me as long as its not like a love sick puppy.

Oh I am not a dick, it's more like if I am brutally honest with them, tell them how it is, tell them they aren't all that.... that's usually when they go full chasing me.

I don't do love, so I'd never act like that. "

Nothing wrong with calling a spade a spade. Life's to short for bullsh*t. A bit of fun and games is always fun tho

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

It's bollocks. I'd find all that chasing business tiring, unnecessary and frankly annoying

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

I'm too lazy for the treat them mean game.

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

It's a gimmick.

Games get nowhere with me.

Authenticity gets everywhere.

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