FabSwingers.com forum: Guys and anal

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What is the fascination of anal with guys? The straight guys seem to be preoccupied with it? My normal answer is only if you let me do you with my strap on first? Surprisingly they seem to not be keen on that lol

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a girl who wanted to do that to me, i did`nt answer straight away lol, it surprised me

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I had a girl who wanted to do that to me, i did`nt answer straight away lol, it surprised me"

Lol we're you asking about anal by any chance?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is the fascination of anal with guys? The straight guys seem to be preoccupied with it? My normal answer is only if you let me do you with my strap on first? Surprisingly they seem to not be keen on that lol

Me personally im not that obsessed with it but I think its seen as the forbidden fruit.

I once contemplated that but I managed to talk her down to just her bullet.... Kept it in while we did anal much to her surprise

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

Me personally im not that obsessed with it but I think its seen as the forbidden fruit.

I once contemplated that but I managed to talk her down to just her bullet.... Kept it in while we did anal much to her surprise "

Forbidden fruit ? Shit flavoured banana s ?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's wring with being on the receiving end of a strapon? I quite enjoy it...

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

I think you will find it is the women who are obsessed with drilling a mans bumsie

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me personally im not that obsessed with it but I think its seen as the forbidden fruit.

I once contemplated that but I managed to talk her down to just her bullet.... Kept it in while we did anal much to her surprise

Forbidden fruit ? Shit flavoured banana s ?"

Metaphorically speaking .... Ill pass on the shitty banana thanks

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ander_XMan
over a year ago

Greater Manchester

It's probably the influence of porn and the taboo / submissive nature of it for me.

And I happily take it too

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its just a simple, animal urge to insert our penises into holes, and as we tend to be allowed access to at least two of those a woman has to offer, lots more want to go for the hat trick!

Not the most sophisticated of thinking but primal evolutionary urges generally arn't.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My answer to the anal question was similar to yours to begin with, if you want to fuck me in my arse be prepared to take my 8 inch dildo up yours...

I now just say for medical reasons and no one seems to bat an eyelid!!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ot30scoupleCouple
over a year ago

Oxford, London

Can't speak for the guys, but I love anal! Girls, give it a go; you might be pleasantly surprised! ; )

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

they say its tighter so why dont they just find a very small woman instead?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"they say its tighter so why dont they just find a very small woman instead?"

could be wrong here but think its more on how good her pelvic floor muscles etc are rather than the size of the woman herself

btw ive no probs taking or giving..

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love giving and taking it from a strapon!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

Does anal lead to leakage ?

Question

My girlfriend isn’t totally happy about anal sex. I truly enjoy it. She does not get pleasure from it. We only do it occasionally.

She has come across magazine articles which indicate that the rectal muscles can be damaged by occasional anal sex – to the extent that they will allow leakage of faeces.

She has a girlfriend who swears this can be the case. That has caused her some consternation, even though I have seen articles that contradict this assertion, indicating instead, that this sexual practice actually strengthens the muscles and sphincters involved.

Answer

David writes:

Women are generally much less keen on anal sex than men are. This isn't surprising as it can be very painful for the female.

Yes, it's true that regular rectal sex can make the anus 'gape' a bit, and that this can sometimes lead to soiling.

In STD clinics, I have often seen this slightly 'stretched' appearance in guys who have regularly been on the receiving end of anal sex.

You ask about ‘occasional’ rectal sex. Well, it depends what you mean by ‘occasional'.

There is no worthwhile research on this at present. But my guess would be that ‘once a year’ would be fairly unlikely to damage the bottom – if carried out very gently. However, once a month might be a different matter.

I know of no evidence that this kind of intercourse actually 'strengthens' the muscles. That certainly seems most unlikely.

Christine adds:

Women who are frank with their girlfriends sometimes refer to anal sex as 'his birthday treat'.

In other words, for most women, this form of sex is something they 'allow' rather than enjoy.

By expressing her concerns about possible damage to the anus, I think that your partner is merely reinforcing her message to you that she really doesn't like anal sex, so I think that to pressurise her into it would be both unwise and unfair.

I don't know if you relish big objects stuck up your bottom, but frankly it's not everyone's cup of tea.

Yours sincerely

Dr David Delvin, GP, and Christine Webber, sex and relationships expert

Last updated 12.03.2012

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't see the great fascination in it myself, I've normally just done it because the woman has wanted to.

Then again I must be one of the few blokes who thinks blowjobs are pretty shite

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *inge 1985Man
over a year ago

London

I think it is a power thing to have control and access of a woman completely, not a massively bothered either way myself. If the woman likes it then I will do it but if naturally is no loss

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not with my chalfonts!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it

I'd consider not meeting someone if they weren't up for it... Currently on the hunt for guys for DP. Is it really that much of a taboo?!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't want to be DP'd either

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Ruins the quality of your farts. Squeezing one out no longer applies to the receivers of this act

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can't speak for the guys, but I love anal! Girls, give it a go; you might be pleasantly surprised! ; ) "

I'm sure you aren't short of messages and attention, but that is guaranteed to make you very popular!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

"Ruins the quality of your farts. Squeezing one out no longer applies to the receivers of this act"

My dad used to fart involuntarily as he walked from room to room. I always thought it was cos he was mid eighties.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"Ruins the quality of your farts. Squeezing one out no longer applies to the receivers of this act

My dad used to fart involuntarily as he walked from room to room. I always thought it was cos he was mid eighties. "

I like predicting when it will happen and make the noise just before they do

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

I'm not obsessed with it. I do enjoy some gentle finger rimming or inserting fingers if a lady enjoys it, but full anal sex isn't high on my agenda.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ruins the quality of your farts. Squeezing one out no longer applies to the receivers of this act

My dad used to fart involuntarily as he walked from room to room. I always thought it was cos he was mid eighties. "

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"I think you will find it is the women who are obsessed with drilling a mans bumsie"
Not this woman, its a HUGE turn off pour moi...*shudders*

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

EVRY1 SHOULD HAV A BIT OF ANEL!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"I think you will find it is the women who are obsessed with drilling a mans bumsieNot this woman, its a HUGE turn off pour moi...*shudders*"

Phew at last someone I don't need to feel nervous around

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok its just another hole shouldn't be a issue

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"EVRY1 SHOULD HAV A BIT OF ANEL!"

ANEL is the tops.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I think you will find it is the women who are obsessed with drilling a mans bumsie"

Nope, not at all.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"EVRY1 SHOULD HAV A BIT OF ANEL!

ANEL is the tops.

I just looked for the legendary ANEL thread but only found my spoof version of it.

How could they delete the greatest thread ever made!!!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"EVRY1 SHOULD HAV A BIT OF ANEL!

ANEL is the tops.

I just looked for the legendary ANEL thread but only found my spoof version of it.

How could they delete the greatest thread ever made!!!

NOOOOOOoooooo!! That post was so funny.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

My strap on is still a virgin.... but with a username like mine, I'm in no position to object to receiving!!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to say that I'm a bit surprised by some of the attitudes here. I thought the days of men wanting, and women giving them what they want, sometimes grudgingly, were in the past, particularly among supposedly sexually liberated people.

Anal is a sexual act, and surely sex is about mutual pleasure and fun? If one of a pair isn't happy or comfortable with something, then it doesn't happen.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *oundforfun2TV/TS
over a year ago

Halifax

"My strap on is still a virgin.... but with a username like mine, I'm in no position to object to receiving!!

I have fantasied about being taken by a women with a strap on for while now but never found anybody willing to give it a go.

My virgin arse combined with your virgin strap on... interesting combination

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not obsessed with it. I do enjoy some gentle finger rimming or inserting fingers if a lady enjoys it, but full anal sex isn't high on my agenda. "

Its a bit lower than your agenda viccyboi

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I don't mind a bit if anal now and then and have a nice strap on to bring along with me

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"EVRY1 SHOULD HAV A BIT OF ANEL!"

I love anal - either M or F, & every now & again I even enjoy my ass being played with. I'm most a gay Top but with the right person (who knows how to handle anal) would consider being Versatile.

Gay guys have enjoyed anal since time immemorial, women receiving are few & far between & women giving with strap ons probably even less so, bit I'd urge everyone to at least try the joys of anal ' the fantastic orgasms it can lead to - M or F. Start with rimming & work up to full penetrative anal but with an experienced person.

Hope some of the Bi gals find this helpful.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think you will find it is the women who are obsessed with drilling a mans bumsie"

Not moi

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ngieandMrManCouple
over a year ago

hereford

Anal... we both love it... just as well really

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ethany10Couple
over a year ago

falkirk

Nah anal is something we give women lol

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every man should try orgasming with a vibrator in their ass sending ripples and vibratiins through the base of their cock as they cum

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had anal and it felt good but would rely like to find a lady to fuck my arse with a strap on that would be one to remember I think mmmmm

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

Post new Message to Thread