FabSwingers.com forum: How do you feel about your birthday suit?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I don’t know if that even makes sense but how do you feel about yourself naked. How do you feel being naked around other people (other than during the act of sex)?

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

It’s ok. Had a couple of holes in it though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

(Whispers I'm back Steve

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I was naked once with a man in nov 2012 and never again. I haven't been naked since

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

I actually rather like my naked self... Definitely more than if I am wearing, supposedly, sexy underwear.... Makes me feel like an overstuffed sausage or sumin... If others are ok with seeing it, I am good

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By *ig_eric_tionMan
over a year ago

IPSWICH

It's OK. I've been in worse condition.

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

I’ve grown accustomed to my mum tum and squishy bits. Lately I’ve preferred being naked than fancy lingerie

You can’t beat the feeling of skin on skin

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

South East & Europe

I recently improved my diet and started exercising more and the results have been good. I'm now a lot happier with my naked self

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By *obin444Man
over a year ago

Windsor

Just average, I guess

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

We think our Birthday suits have aged fairy well. If they get too tatty we'll put them in the wardrobe.

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By *et and WillingCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

Needs an iron

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Completely comfortable with being naked.

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree

I like being naked

And semi naked.

My fucks got up and left a good while ago x

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By *t0600Man
over a year ago

elvedon

Don’t think I would be confident enough to be walking around naked in a club setting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have worked hard enough at the gym to like what I see when I am in the all together.

I would rather se my mrs naked though

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Not that confident really although better now than I was.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went to a nudist beach for the first time this year as I wanted to try new things.

It was one of the most liberating things I’ve done.

Always had body image issues and it did wonders for that.

I can highly recommend

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

"I don’t know if that even makes sense but how do you feel about yourself naked. How do you feel being naked around other people (other than during the act of sex)? "

I'm very happy in my skin and love being naked, especially on holiday, as photos show.

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By *moothshaftMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I was a lot happier 20 years ago.

Being an OAP now, gravity has taken cruel control. I used to have quite a sexy upper body.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Strangely at the moment I prefer it to lingere, probably because nothing much fits anymore but still.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm feeling quite crap about myself naked at the moment if I'm honest.

And recent events have not helped the situation at all.

The thought of getting naked with someone else just makes me want to hide.

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By *mateur100Man
over a year ago

nr faversham

Needs a wash

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am always happy to get naked and show my birthday suit. I've a dadbod built for comfort not speed.

I know it's not to everyone's taste which, concern me a few years ago.

However,now? I just don't care anymore! I am me and no-one else's opinion will make the necessary cosmetic repairs my body would need. My birthday suit is not perfect by any means. It shows the scars, wrinkles, cuts n bruises etc of life's experiences.

So i never stress how others see me because inside I am both content and comfortable. Now tbh,it took many highs and even more lows over a very lifetime to feel this way but I made it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meh, I'm not too bothered. I don't like my body some days, but it's not killing anyone.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

The horn is that bad I sent a video of myself naked for the first time in possibly ever last night.

I don't hate it as much as I used to.

But I'd rather be adorned in fishnets and corsetry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Right now my naked self is looking ok

I've recently lost some weight so could do with toning up a bit but imho life's too short to exercise

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

I’m all good, I just got to appreciate what I have

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

I've realised I'm quite good for my age so I'm good thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im ok. But im also a naturist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Generally love being naked but the as I get in better shape the more comfortable I am being naked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t know if that even makes sense but how do you feel about yourself naked. How do you feel being naked around other people (other than during the act of sex)? "

It actually doesn't bother me.

I'm sure the sight of my body might bother others though ... nothing worse than looking at the scars of a grenade blast

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

More confident now than when I joined Fab. It’s been great for my self confidence.

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

When not having sex I prefer to be a little bit covered. But I'm at peace with me naked in a way I haven't been before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Right now my naked self is looking ok

I've recently lost some weight so could do with toning up a bit but imho life's too short to exercise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It could use on iron, and it's gone a bit baggy in places. That's what I'd say about mine

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

I dislike it intensely but would much rather be naked than have underwear digging in making lumps and bumps worse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think us never-nudes need more representation. There are dozens of us. Dozens!

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By *iz78Woman
over a year ago

wirral

having a bit of a love hate relationship with my body at the moment. i had put on a hell of a lot of weight due to not being well. i have lost nearly 7 an a half stone since march and i can feel the difference but still see the bigness.

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By *andtarehereforfunCouple
over a year ago

Welwyn

Love it . Feel much more liberated naked x

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By *ullyMan
over a year ago

Near Clacton

I am sorry now for getting tattoos, other than than quite happy but my bum's got a crack in it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look better with clothes on.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

I’ve eaten way too much ice cream whilst not being mobile. So it’s absolutely not being seen until it’s sorted. It’s not a pretty sight right now

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By *orny-DJMan
over a year ago

Leigh-on-Sea

A bit stretched. Could do with an iron

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I like being naked by the way. I don’t love my body but I know everyone has insecurities. Being naked is being me. I like being me.

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By *heelerMan
over a year ago

Northants

Im more then happy being naked .i don't mind who sees and shares it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably needs letting out, much like my actual suit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t enjoy being naked. I don’t like the way my body looks when I’m naked, I feel a lot more confident with clothes on.

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By *xploring2getherCouple
over a year ago

Desborough

Very comfortable in birthday suit

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I can't think of any other situation beyond having sex with someone that I'd be comfortable being naked

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By *mber81Woman
over a year ago

Chorley, Eng

I feel comfortable when naked, not sexy but not unattractive.

I feel sexy when wearing lingerie I have chosen.

How I feel when wearing clothes is more hit or miss

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Happy with myself bare. Always room for improvement but working on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very unhappy. I think I just look really strange. Like hairy skinny bitch. Hate it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fairly happy, could do with losing a few pounds though

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By *929Man
over a year ago

bedlington

Ok with most of it but the tiddler in its flacid state could be bigger like shit having a grower not a shower

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I’ve eaten way too much ice cream whilst not being mobile. So it’s absolutely not being seen until it’s sorted. It’s not a pretty sight right now "

You always say that and you always look great

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Needs a jolly good iron x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve eaten way too much ice cream whilst not being mobile. So it’s absolutely not being seen until it’s sorted. It’s not a pretty sight right now "

Yes, but the ice cream...

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By *enelope2UWoman
over a year ago

Fife

I don't care about being naked I'm generally naked as soon as I'm in my house apart from I wear lingerie pretty much everyday.

I wish I didn't have a Buddah belly but I cook and like food with flavor so....buddah stays around

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By *hill44Man
over a year ago

hinckley

love being naked whenever i get the chance ,love seeing others naked to

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By *hortishblondeWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Only in the summer when hot then naked sunbathing and naked between the sheets when I go to bed

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

I'm pretty neutral. Bits I don't like, but no major hang ups, but definitely look better dressed though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Better than I did 5 months ago. Super strict diet has worked wonders.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m waiting for mine to come back into fashion……..or go into a museum.

It’s a bit touch and go as to which happens first…

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

I really enjoy being naked at a naturist club etc.

I honestly like my body better than ever these days, despite lumps, folds, wrinkles and scars. It’s a well lived-in body!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes maybe good, sometimes maybe shit *Italian hand sign*

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
over a year ago

Manchester(ish).

This a great question.

I've done a lot of body positivity and work on my self confidence.

I greatly dislike hoe society and the media chooses to criticise our bodies and make us feel they're lacking in some way. Usually to encourage us to buy products we don't need.

I'm doing OK, with how I look naked thanks.

What about you OP?

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By *hortishblondeWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"I really enjoy being naked at a naturist club etc.

I honestly like my body better than ever these days, despite lumps, folds, wrinkles and scars. It’s a well lived-in body!

Good for you I'm just getting used to having an older body with the lumps and bumps and the few extra lbs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably a bit too comfortable when on holiday and surrounded by strangers

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

It's me, all me, it's not the best. But in a club, I'm naked pretty fast

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I feel comfortable when naked, not sexy but not unattractive.

I feel sexy when wearing lingerie I have chosen.

How I feel when wearing clothes is more hit or miss

You’re hot naked, in clothes and in lingerie.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

I love being naked. I feel super comfortable and free

What about you, OP?

Mrs TMN x

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By *ixenforfunWoman
over a year ago

banes mask

I would be extremely self conscious

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

I don't like my birthday suit but if I'm in a sexy situation, or in a club or something, I'm fine with it. I just get out what I'm not keen on, and put on a good face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do enjoy being naked but I'm not that comfortable around other people and feel more confident in pretty underwear. I don't think it's a pretty sight and would change a few things if I could.

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

I’m much better than I was and quite like it around people I am comfortable with.

I enjoy how being naked feels more than how it looks.

Love sunbathing naked and skinny dipping.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Going to clubs have really helped be comfortable

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By *oopy Lou 666Woman
over a year ago

Heaven.....………. I came down from Heaven

Hate it..............have no confidence at all

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By *tanley FunseekerMan
over a year ago

stanley

It’s a bit old a worn. Not got a huge amount of body confidence but in reality it’s probably ok for a fella my age

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

I dislike it

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By *educing_EmCouple
over a year ago

Tipperary

I'm fine with it.

I have way more confidence now than I used to,even though I'm heavier and have far more imperfections.

It's funny how the mind works .

Em x

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By *ickylouCouple
over a year ago

b71

Mine needs an iron.

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By *oss25Man
over a year ago

Flitwick and Fakenham

I love my birthday suit and wear it every chance I get, although getting a bit chilly now!

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By *otguy555Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Absolutely love being naked

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

We've naturist and it's just fairly normal for us to be naked around people. We spend a lot of summer at naturist resorts and many of our family and freinds are used to us being naked at home. So naturally as you can guess we are very comfortable in our own bare skin. That doesn't mean we always love everything about our bodies. But we are comfortable with them and accept them. Becoming comfortable in your bare skin is a real freedom.

We love socialising with other naturist. It's just feels a truer, more human and egalitarian interaction, especially with new people you've never meet. It's the great leveller and breaks down barriers. Without clothes we come to each others as equals, just as imperfect and vulnerable as the next person. It strips away many of the masks we use clothes for and removes the first assumptions, judgments and stereotypes people make when they first see a clothed person. It's such a beautiful way to interact with each other.

Naturism has been great for our self image and mental health. It's just a pure, natural, free and healthier way to live life. It may seem very strange and daunting to people but once people try it it's hard to get them to put their clothes back on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like all suits, I don’t like it.

I’m trying my arse off to change it so that I may like it a little.

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By *moothshaftMan
over a year ago

Coventry

"Ok with most of it but the tiddler in its flacid state could be bigger like shit having a grower not a shower "

I'm exactly the same. I've not got much to see, until it grows!

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

I look great. I'll do pig, I'll do

(Wait I won't do pigs to clarify)

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By *tes2010Man
over a year ago

Near you

"It’s ok. Had a couple of holes in it though "

HAHAHAHAHA!!!!

Well played!!

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I love being naked. I always have. I feel it is my natural state.

There's a lot I'd like to improve about it so I'm not a lot of people's cup of tea, but anybody who wants to see it is welcome to and anybody who doesn't mind seeing it is likely to end up with me naked around them. Luke

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I like being naked by the way. I don’t love my body but I know everyone has insecurities. Being naked is being me. I like being me. "

My feelings on this For those have asked?

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By *ayleePhoenixTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Being on the transgender spectrum and having gender dysphoria, I dislike being naked. And, currently, would never be nude when with another person. Would always wear something, even in a shared shower.

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By *izzymonkeyMan
over a year ago

Hiding In A Bush

"I don’t know if that even makes sense but how do you feel about yourself naked. How do you feel being naked around other people (other than during the act of sex)? "

Always been totally fine in my own skin actually.....it's not the greatest and not the worst either by a long shot....but it's all pretty damn decent I reckon

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By *onderWomanWlvWoman
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"I don’t know if that even makes sense but how do you feel about yourself naked. How do you feel being naked around other people (other than during the act of sex)? "

I generally feel pretty comfortable and more 'me'. I always go naked when I go to Chameleons, lots of people are keen to tell me I'm "brave" which I think is probably code for "if I had a body like yours I wouldn't be naked, yikes", but meh, I think that says more about their own hangups! I'm quite happy to exist being me and enjoying myself just being there, they can look away if they don't like it

I've also spent a little time in a naturist venue (clover spa) which is obviously a completely non sexual setting, and that was lovely, very freeing and relaxing, and obviously everyone else is naked too which is nice.

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

I got mine second hand at the charity shop.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not overly confident about it generally but as I get older I find myself genera caring less and less about what other people think of me generally… obviously it’s nice to be appreciated but if not, well life’s too short to worry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m not overly confident about it generally but as I get older I find myself genera caring less and less about what other people think of me generally… obviously it’s nice to be appreciated but if not, well life’s too short to worry "

Plus if someone is going to judge me based purely on how I look in the buff they’re not worth the time of day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't say I'm fully comfortable and probably won't ever will be.

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By *hapLeedsMan
over a year ago

Leeds

I’m ok with the way I look naked

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By *etsGo11Man
over a year ago

burton

"Wouldn't say I'm fully comfortable and probably won't ever will be. "

You look great

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By *ilvelicker60Man
over a year ago

kettering

I prefer being naked. Happy with who I am and happy being naked around others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So long since I was naked with anyone I’d be very nervous.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

More comfortable now when I’m old and I don’t have fucks left to give.

I’ve learned to accept the body I have but it took me a lifetime to get there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We just accept what we have and get naked, life's too short for clothes.

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By *teveRM77Man
over a year ago

Earlston

The nudest beaches in Portugal was an outstanding experience. No one was seedy , the atmosphere was horny. Fucking in front of everyone was mega and the invites to parties were endless. It doesn’t matter what shape or size you are, you will always be appreciated. The only possible complaint I have if you can call it that as I am struggling to find one was my dick went jet black over a fortnight and it did honestly look like I had a penis transplant. It’s not a complaint really as it was distinctive haha

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By *ake_or_deathMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Not great. Trying to be more accepting of it as I've met a few people down the years who have liked it.

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By *an hjCouple
over a year ago

Stowmarket

Mine needs an iron.

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