FabSwingers.com forum: Those people you know the ones

By *ris Gray OP Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Who are successful at sex and swinging what makes them so successful..... Well what?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confidence

Openness

Big tits / Big dick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A certain je ne sais quoi… ?

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

I retired so they now have a chance your welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big tits / Big dick"

Or maybe this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I retired so they now have a chance your welcome"

Hah!!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Successful as in quantity or quality or both?

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

"Confidence

Openness

Big tits / Big dick"

This ..doesn't have to be big tits though lol

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan
over a year ago

Norwich

Stamina

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

They are probably decent humans that don't just pop a cock in the inbox and expect a fuck.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Confidence

Openness

Big tits / Big dick"

Absolutely this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They are probably decent humans that don't just pop a cock in the inbox and expect a fuck.

Mrs "

This 100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Boobs

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By *ris Gray OP Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"A certain je ne sais quoi… ?

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ooooo German

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By *ris Gray OP Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Successful as in quantity or quality or both?"
well exactly and what is quality sex?

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

They turn up

LvM

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
over a year ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders

Confidence over arrogance, they know what they want

Respect, respecting yourself and everyone else in the scene

Being social, turn up, be nice and keep turning up.

Self awareness

Open

Honest

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By *ris Gray OP Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Come on guys insights men need help

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By *ris Gray OP Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Confidence over arrogance, they know what they want

Respect, respecting yourself and everyone else in the scene

Being social, turn up, be nice and keep turning up.

Self awareness

Open

Honest"
keep turning up lol ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Come on guys insights men need help

I think most men do perfectly fine.

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By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

They have all the time in the world.

And money.

Looks.

Confidence.

Horn.

No past traumas.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

The ones I’ve met, I’ve just been normal people like everybody else, a bit insecure. They just get on with it because they enjoy it.

Off of here is very different. Swingers are extremely sorted in real life and it feels a very small gap.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Successful as in quantity or quality or both?well exactly and what is quality sex?

Good sex. The sort of sex where you're both satisfied, happy. Regardless of what you've got up to.

Those who I'd see as successful on here (and I'm using my own markers) are generally confident to some extent.

Happy in who they are.

Have charisma.

A direct and honest way of communicating with people so there's no hurt/confusion after, heck even before.

Respectful to others - they don't spend their time bitching/gossiping about others because they're happily focused on those they're with and don't waste headspace on negativity.

Are stable for the most part, whether emotionally or in terms of what they're looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A big cock and low standards works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Full head of hair

Six pack

Over 6ft tall

Massive cock

Loads of verifications

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

They know how to talk to people.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Visiting Blackpool

"Full head of hair

Six pack

Over 6ft tall

Massive cock

Loads of verifications "

And they've been here before, so they know how it works.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Full head of hair

Six pack

Over 6ft tall

Massive cock

Loads of verifications

And they've been here before, so they know how it works."

And they go to clubs and socials.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A certain je ne sais quoi… ?

ooooo German

Das ist gut mon ami

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

Don't be needy and creepy in the messages and come across desperate .. of course having a big cock helps but that doesn't mean only blokes with big cocks get meets it's about how you approach people and talk .. a good body helps yeah can't deny the truth ..

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Visiting Blackpool

"A certain je ne sais quoi… ?

ooooo German

Das ist gut mon ami

Mangetout

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

They just go quietly about their business

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not being a dick

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Attitude

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By *exyspecs and supermanCouple
over a year ago

A house, a very big house in the country

They bring cake to meets

Specs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Free time.

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

Look like a ken doll

Have the standards where you'd fuck a sewer rat

Less words the better just let them wink emoji you

Grunt 2 word replies

Sexytown

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By *ris Gray OP Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"A certain je ne sais quoi… ?

ooooo German

Das ist gut mon ami

Mangetout

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mangy tootsie?

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

They don’t talk about it

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over

They get vetted by the 'clique'

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

Having whatever it is that the person he is fucking finds attractive/sexual turned on enough to fuck

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Trying over and over and not giving up

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By *ovetolick78Man
over a year ago

The Shire

Being in a big city or popular area will always help, fishing in a little pond can be a waste of time.

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

The world ain’t all sunshine and rainbows. It is a very mean and nasty place and it will beat you to your knees and keep you there permanently if you let it. You, me, or nobody is gonna hit as hard as life. But it ain’t how hard you hit; it’s about how hard you can get hit, and keep moving forward. How much you can take, and keep moving forward

It's from Rocky

I sent that to a friend who was down 5 years ago. It was really tongue-in-cheek. But she said you are right I'm going to do it. Flew to Oz is still there now, built a whole life for herself there. She's so happy. I love it.

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By *ris Gray OP Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"They don’t talk about it

"
iiiit?

or it?

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

Also, alot of people are dickheads. Ironically I get tarnished with that for some reason, but that's the point. There's a lot of dickheads.

Smart (or successful) people know to hide any truths of theirs that ain't so pretty. The women then get hurt later on down the line.

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

"Also, alot of people are dickheads. Ironically I get tarnished with that for some reason, but that's the point. There's a lot of dickheads.

Smart (or successful) people know to hide any truths of theirs that ain't so pretty. The women then get hurt later on down the line.

Insightful and accurate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably the right combination of confidence, looks and personality but how would I know?

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By *inky ChefMan
over a year ago

Norwich

"Trying over and over and not giving up"

Stalkers???

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By *ris Gray OP Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Also, alot of people are dickheads. Ironically I get tarnished with that for some reason, but that's the point. There's a lot of dickheads.

Smart (or successful) people know to hide any truths of theirs that ain't so pretty. The women then get hurt later on down the line.

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how does a woman get hurt if its all casual?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They are probably decent humans that don't just pop a cock in the inbox and expect a fuck.

Mrs "
This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Confidence over arrogance, they know what they want

Respect, respecting yourself and everyone else in the scene

Being social, turn up, be nice and keep turning up.

Self awareness

Open

Honest"

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

"They are probably decent humans that don't just pop a cock in the inbox and expect a fuck.

Mrs This"

Happily say I've never done that

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Looks, charm and character

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They are probably decent humans that don't just pop a cock in the inbox and expect a fuck.

Mrs This

Happily say I've never done that "

If you send a message then yes you do.

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I think people are “successful” because they don’t try to be something they are not.

They just bring their normal, balanced self to the site. They are happy in their skin and comfortable with what they want and don’t want. They will treat you like a normal human being.

Personally I think it needs a bit of maturity to reach that stage and so I don’t think swinging is really a young persons game.

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

"They are probably decent humans that don't just pop a cock in the inbox and expect a fuck.

Mrs This

Happily say I've never done that

If you send a message then yes you do."

What ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who are successful at sex and swinging what makes them so successful..... Well what?

Communication, understanding, maturity, respect, time, and effort.

I think swinging works when you have those things. And if you have them, but the others do not you won't appear successful at swinging till you find those that have them too.

Some of it is down to luck in finding the right people, being in the right place at the right time etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sidenote....the title of this thread bugs the fuck out of me.

Those and the ones in the same sentence do not go together well.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Making an effort. Going to socials and clubs. Talking to people, other than just sex. Humour and grace

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By *ris Gray OP Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Sidenote....the title of this thread bugs the fuck out of me.

Those and the ones in the same sentence do not go together well. "
really?

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

[Removed by poster at 08/10/23 10:33:42]

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

I would say going to clubs and socials

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